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TORMENTORS!!!

This is another re-post that I felt it necessary to bring back. My son recently got a little job at a popular fast food joint, the  manager woman has been tormenting the kid with this $7.50 cent per hour job, first she called in to come for his first day of work, he went in, then she told him that she did not tell him to come in. Then she called him again another day, happy, he went. When he got there she told him she didn’t need him dismissively. Two weeks passed, she called him in today and told him to bring a void check again as she had lost the first one he gave her, (without this he will not be able to get paid, as it was to be direct deposit), he happily went in nicely dressed, he gave her the voided check, again she screamed at him in front of everybody and said why did you not bring it yesterday, he told her that she was the one who told him to bring it in today, (she said nothing),then she told him to go home and shave off his almost non-existent goatee. He called me very upset I told him “come home son, yuh nah suffa”,. He took off the uniform and came home. I will help him to find a new job, but nobody is going to mis-treat none of  my kids…not on my watch!!

Tormentors comes in all shapes, size and form and they are usually some yellow-bellied ass hole with a complex, never the less they have their reasons why they are here, God in his wisdom has created these living demons to live among us for a reason, they could even be as close as your parents. Read and learn.

We have all encountered here on earth those who have come in the form of tormentors like the Land lord, the boss the co-worker the neighbor the bill collector our family members, our husbands or wives or even our children, to name a few.  What most of us do not realize is that these that we see as our enemies or tormentors are playing out their role that they came here  on earth to do.  Our mistake is to allow their actions toward us hold us back in life. Because while we are lamenting about their character they are elevating in the spiritual realm, Huh? you ask well let me tell you.  You read correctly, every human being has his own destiny and never has two persons come from the womb the same time. Even twins, one comes before the other. Our destinies are all different and as such we all will operate differently from one another. Ironically though what we know as bad behaviour in a person does not mean that the person is not operating in compliance with his reason for being here.  There are many who, when left by themselves wonder why do they act the way they do, and sometimes even vow to change but find it a struggle to. Holding some one who has done you wrong,  with malice in your heart will only hold you back from your spiritual growth which might not seem important to you now because all you have ever heard about is heaven and hell, but it is important to your evolution in the spiritual realm that of which you will learn of  here, on this blog site.

While I do not believe in the Devil I must say I have met a couple of people who the description fits very well, but the Devil is always the fall guy for questionable things.  Growing up as a child in Jamaica I remember a woman who lived in the same tenement that we lived, we called her Miss Will, she will be the star of many of my topics She was quite a character, but I must acknowledge that her personality has assisted me in using her as example of wickedness, that was her reason for being .  I remember her and my mother always cussing and fighting, well my mother fighting and Miss Will running. This woman was tormented or perhaps crazy because we had one side of the house which was a two bedroom apartment and she shared the other side of the house with some roomers. We had our own kitchen and bathroom while they all shared on the other side. On numerous occasions we would catch Miss Will running from our kitchen with meat that she had stolen from my mothers pot or watch from our window as she picked up dirt and looked around to see if any one was looking and throw it on the white clothes we had on a piece of zinc soaking up the sun. I could spend hours telling you about Miss Will and her mischievous ways but let me move on to others.

 I have a sister who is my mother’s child, while growing up I adored and looked up to her because she was older than me and to tell the truth she was not half bad. Our relationship changed years after when life took a good turn for me and I had a business and money befriended me for a while. When ever she would come around me she would make comments about my shop closing down or what if I should ever lose my home, she even started telling our mother lies that I spoke badly about her, which ruined my parents and I relationship. Needless to say these were lies. Her onslaught of me continued,and has even affected the way her children treated me because there is no relation between none of us. These two are just a few examples of some of my tormentors. My child’s father was one, not to mention his mother, she was an example of the mother in law from hell, what she did not expect though was my strength and because of that I was able to have victory over them  These type of people that we all encounter while on our journey have their reason for being, and believe it or not it is often times good that we meet them because they send us into prayer more often, seeking out an answer from God to remove them as obstacle, or to evoke in us emotions that would motivate us on to bigger or better things if for nothing else but to prove them wrong or show them what you can achieve. The land lord as tormentor will motivate you to try harder to get your own, the mother or father who torments will only let you try harder to supersede their expectations of you, the child will make you work harder at disciplining and so on. I urge you all to look ahead and allow no one what so ever with their negativity to hold you back. At the end of life’s journey and you have passed the halls of judgement and are ready to be placed in your new home in the astral realms, let it not be that because of earthly tormentors that you allowed to distract you, you have ended up where you started only to begin the same journey again.

 Our elders quote the cock as saying that “it would not be good if one becomes the only person in the world, and that is why they crow every morning to show their number……..Yoruba proverb 

“The Wind Always Exhaust The Patience Of Trees”.   Yoruba Proverb

 
 
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xlov
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8 years ago

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[…] Our Ancestors, wedda dem did good or wicked, caws some people would say to me Obara my mother was a wicked woman, I do not want to entertain her, RELAX!….There are many realms in the universe, and when someone crosses over, regardless of who they were when they had a physical body, the minute they transition they see and understand things differently. Now many people often say to me, “no Obara, my aunt crossed over and when she was here she was akin to Hitler, and since she left she has been haunting the family”. Let me explain, regardless… Read more »

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Rayne888
12 years ago

Tormentors come in all shapes, sizes, ages, races, etc. I had experiences in that field with my previous job. For the life of me I couldn’t figure out what I could have done to make her talk to me in such a way and treat me so. In the end I left that job and I was rather upset at the ordeal but I came to realize I shouldn’t hold grudges and be upset at it. Must keep a positive head and a new door will open for me. And I must say I like my current job. Its tiresome… Read more »

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

maniac some valid points there but wat happen when that same boss is d HR person. cawz mine was nuh care how we had meetings wid her d ooman neba change.. d entire department even wrote to the CEO n dis ooman was d same

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Hi Gg, Teacha I found this article in today’s Gleaner and thought I would share…..Interesting indeed. My boss, the bully Published: Tuesday | June 21, 2011 0 Comments Q: I work with a bully boss. The better I work, the more he verbally abuses me. He shows his power by asking me to do one thing, and shortly after, asks me to undo it. He gives me menial tasks, which he claims are in my job description as, “any other duty that may be assigned to me from time to time”. He never has a word of encouragement, though I… Read more »

Orisapikkney
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Orisapikkney
12 years ago

Mawning ebbrey baddy!1

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

mi a good behaving pickney

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

maaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnnniiiiiiiinnnnnnnnn Teach and fellow classmates..mi early

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

a mus bloodcloth mavado…cause everywhe me turn

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

so me a talk to miself again

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

goodnite gg….whe de hell maniac deh cause she need fi come help me try dis case

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

but dis ya man if him did a gi me likkle satisfaction fi like answer when me a dip up under him…after me say u need fi apologize…him seh wha…me say you need fi apologize…him seh wha….u need fi say you sorry…him seh fi wha…me say fi fuck wid mi head and tell me pere lie…right now me feel like me hate u…him say MEK ME CALL YOU BACK…me say whe de bombocloth you a go call me back fa just say you fucking sorry…de pussy heng up…you no see seh him a torment me…cause if him say him sorry… Read more »

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

see u guys in d laters a mawnin time fi mi now… minutes to 5 suh mi ago hit d bed

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

dem tormenta…oh gosh man…dem got me fucked me up…all dat deh dutty gal deh a fuck wid my son…me woulda just spit inna har face…me a my father daughter

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

happy fathers day….happy fathers day…happy fathers day……happy fathers day….obarrararrrrrrrrrr

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

me sarry…how much time mi fi ell you…tek me apology please…i beg

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

dem dutty tormentor ya…people fi jus tek dem lightly…me no know how fi release dem ting ya…like me haffi release de pent up energy…

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

me know…boo HAPPY FATHER’S DAY…i am sorry it is so late i thought about you too….i apologize it was remiss of me….i wuv you…..

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

anyway…yes me have a tormentor…my ex man…and i feel like doing him things because i don’t like people fuck with me…however…me a tek a deep breath…because some bwoy fi know dis…yow…me call him and tell him straight up him need fi apologize to me…me naw play wid him…him need fi apologize…after me call him tell him say him need fi apologize him say fi wha…me seh fi fuck wid me head and tell me pere lie…right now me feel like me a hate you…me a go hate him more fi know seh him a fulfill fi him destiny by fucking… Read more »

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

YOU ALSO FALL IN THE CATEGORY…HOWEVER YOU ARE NOT SINGLE…SO BIG UP YOUR HUSBAND TOO

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose
12 years ago

HELLO OBARA…ME SHARLENEROSE PRESENT…I SEND THE FATHERS DAY CARD TO MANIAC BECAUSE A DE SONG BIG UP DE SINGLE MOTHERS WHE A RAISE DEM PITNY PON DEM OWN…DEM DEH A MOTHER AND FATHER INCLUDED….YOU ARE THE MATRIARCH THAT IS AN ENTIRELY DIFFERENT TITLE…YOU NOTICE ME DO IT PRIVATELY CAUSE ME NO WANR NOBODY GET OFFENDED FI ME SAY DEM A FATHER….

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

sure ting Teach..good reading stuff and life learning articles

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

hush mama..Obara yuh kno mi just read d candle burning article and to tell u d truth a d other day d same thing mi eamil yuh bout mi did online a try find which is d best to use and wat prayer to say.. is a good ting me never do it

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Sas crise!!! gg yuh really seh dat bout mi???? doan sey dat mon 🙁

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

maniac u a terrorist man..bad is too much of a good word fi describe yuh

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

I sed!!! I are not bad

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Teacha beg yuh stap call mi BAD, mi madda errr mi fawda will very much disagree wid yuh

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

mi a try mi best Maniac..thanx mama..dats why i luv my cyber family enuh

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

mek sure yuh study enuh gg…wi luv yuh pon di site but wi also want u to succeed…nope not SUCK SEED….

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

mi di dose off awhile aguh a do assignment..good ting mi mother call mi n wake mi

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Mi wuda lub fi noe whey bigga dan di ress deh fram mawning

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Mi ah tawk bout mi Anti whey walk an tell ppl bout how mi ah get mad chue mi pikni puppa leff mi…..ah mi picha smaddy si ah won ah mi cuzin dem howse an ask har if ah di mad one dat woo ah goh crazy caw har babyfawda leff har (mark yuh enuh, ah mi put out di dutty dawg)….dat time ah some Obeah did deh unda mi kakafawt….an shi ah tawk har shit….mi cudden tawk to har fi munts….an shi do summen even wussara recently…..mi juss ah try hole it dung

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Mi nayvn tink shi really noe sey ah mi perse….probly juss ah sen it to evribaddi….Tonks Sharlene

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Obara nuh badda wid it atall, u noe betta dan dat…..

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Dutty shithouse dem…
Ah same way mi ave won Aunty deh enuh….har fucking mout is a damn prablem…..an mi nuh realise if ppl nuh realise di power of words

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Oh b4 mi figget…HAPPY FATHERS DAY to all ah di mothers who are also fathers to their children (wukliss dranco dem whey gone an nuh bizniz wid dem pikni) an to those fathers who are on this site….Continue nurturing and caring for our children.

Thank you Sharlene, it was you who made me realise this…..Big up yuhself and others

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Nuh rawse gyal nor bwoy….Ah di fuss inna long time mi c summen draw mi out soh….mi ah try nuffi go back to dem days deh enuh…but mi sey ANY PUSSY whey romp wid fi mi pickni….den dem shall surely c why mi name whey mi name

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

mi wudda affi guh to her enuh..outta orda

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Mi did have one supervisor enuh….mi sey ah di living tormentor dat….mi deh pon fone an man all come behine mi chair an ah tap pon it an ah rock it….ah ongle di grace ah God mek mi neva tun roun an raas him one lick….mi did turrble back den….dem use to sey how mi antisocial….lissen mi get pay fi wuk….nuh fi be yuh fren…wuk done, mi gone ah mi yaad…mi will decide woo fi socialize wid…. Wen mi cudden tek it nuh more, mi sen di meccij (wen u inna won organization yuh affi noe woo fi sen di… Read more »

Maniac
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Maniac
12 years ago

Mi nah lie, mi undastan whey yuh ah sey Obara…mi feel like mi wuda help yuh gi har won raas box cross har face an spit pon har front ah everybaddy. How dare you humiliate di boy in front ah him peers???? How fucking dare you???

Yuh nuh c sey is a mad ooman dat….Ah 3 demon shi have ah walk wid har….damn schizo

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

mi seh mi all end up walking off d job cawz of her

Gog3tt3r
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Gog3tt3r
12 years ago

reading this yow i will learn to forgive more.. i had this manager n every day, when mi say every day mi mean every single God given day this ooman tek set pon mi fi some reason..now i’ll just move on from her cawz i was really carrying something insid mi for her

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