Good day everyone. There is so much that I have to share with you all, but recent concerns have forced me to put the excitement aside and deal with two very important issues.
I implore everyone who has ever had, thought of or plan to visit a spiritualist of any kind for ANY reason to read this post.
More often than not people trivialize the work of the spiritualist. When one is not condemning them, one opts to use them. It is no secret that everyone is curious about his/her life, no matter who he/she is, and regardless of their belief, religious or otherwise, people want to know what is going on around them, within them, and how to fix it. In Africa, the “non-believers” (the “mi nuh believe inna dem tings deh” people) will come to the compound of a traditionalist at night (including pastors and church goers), but the difference with this lot in Africa, although they will castigate the traditionalist/herbalist to anyone who will listen, whatever that spiritualist will prescribe to them, along with the price attached, they will always comply.
Now, this post is not about complying. It is about the disrespect of the spiritualist in matters concerning the seeker when it comes to divination and cost or work and cost. I have had several very disturbing encounters with some people who sought my assistance with spiritual matters. I must admit there have not been many but the few I have encountered have disturbed me greatly. There are times when I feel as if I want to shut the the door on this part of my life and not deal with human beings anymore. Not because of dislike, but because they are so far behind in their understanding of spirituality.
Let me give you an example…
Several years ago when I was spiritually young, an elder who later became an enemy decided to use my spiritual talent to assist her in removing a set of demons from a house in Connecticut. This was a work she was paid for. Innocently, I went with her as she told me that “she could not see spirits as I could,” and all she wanted me to do was point to the malevolent entities in the house and she will remove them. We went to the house which was filled with negative entities, and I assisted her properly (I received no payment, I just assisted as asked). In doing this work, I was the oracle that she used to help her. That night when I returned home, I did not feel well. I felt as if I carried a burden, and that night I had a fitful sleep. When I awoke the next day, I felt “detached” from myself as if I was not inside my own body, and I could not understand anything anyone said to me.
I then started to see huge roaches crawling everywhere. The bed. The floor. The walls. The furniture. I asked if anyone saw those roaches? Everyone told me no and looked at me oddly. When I realized that I was the only one who saw them, my spirit guided me not to call the woman but to call my dear friend Mr. Mitchel. I told him what was happening to me and after explaining that I had gone with the woman the night before, he sighed heavily. He told me that because I was used as the oracle, whatever problem those people had in that house, I had left with it, like a sponge soaking up water. I have never forgotten that day.
He immediately gave me the solution, something that was simple and right in my kitchen, and as I did it everything came back to normal. No more roaches, no more confusion.
I give this example to show you all that when a spiritualist takes on a client’s work, from divination to doing spiritual work to fix a problem, that spiritualist takes on that persons problem. If he/she does not know how to remove that problem, which will maginify 100x or more, then the spiritualist, if not strong, can die, lose their mind, fall sick, or their own homelife can be destroyed. When a spiritualist agrees to work for you, that spiritualist has agreed to take on YOUR problem.
When a person visits a doctor, especially a family doctor, most likely the doctors name will be “Dr. Something” with the word “practice” behind it. The word practice is indicative of the doctor’s use of his belief of what is perhaps the problem. This affords them repetition or training (the more patients they see) into becoming more proficient in their work, regardless of schooling. Yet still, what he or she charges is never questioned and the patient pays with full trust that the doctor will heal them.
A divination is an assessment of a problem by a competent diviner who will find a solution to whatever problem comes out.
At the moment, the cost of my divination is (the cost is given above in the navigation) USD and it has been this price for many years and has never changed. For divination using the Ifa oracle, the price is different. Whatever I or any competent spiritualist chooses to charge whether for divination or solution, is not something that anyone should question or dictate because as a spiritualist or knowledgeable elder, I have the right to charge whatever I feel appropriate, just as the doctor has the right to charge what he believes is appropriate for the care he will provide. The doctor deals with the physical and material world. I deal with the spiritual world. The body dies, but the spirit lives forever. Neither of the two should ever be trivialized, especially the work of the spiritualist.
I am perturbed by some responses I have received from people who “disagree” with either the cost of readings or the cost of a solution, people who feel there shouldn’t even be a cost at all, people whose demands could not be met in the time they saw fit, or people who simply felt they know best in spirituality and the way I work should fall in line with their imaginations.
However, in my work, I have never attached a time limit on any person who have ever sought divination from me nor have I made myself unavailable for any queries or concern they may have subsequent to the actual divination; and in this I stand alone. Other spiritualists do not operate in this manner.
Below is one example of disrespect to me and my work.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE: If you can not trust, don’t bother seeking the help of a spiritualist. While you are busy searching for faults (of the spiritualist, his work, if you’re being scammed, if the work will work at all etc. etc.) how will your faith stand in what you have come to do? Faith is the most important aspect of spirituality and without it, the work will not have the effect it is supposed to. If you have no trust, you have no faith, and you can not be helped. Help starts with you.
Now let me address another major issue which has also prompted this post and highlights the importance of recognizing who Obara Meji really is.
I came into this world with a gift for helping, healing, and teaching mankind. Now for over many many years I have been an active spiritualist doing just that, and I have always been a child of light. What this means is that I do not associate or involve myself in any kind of trickery, deceit or deception, or any kind of dealing that is not transparent and to the benefit of the people I deal with. I have helped countless people with no reward in mind and no reward received, simply because they needed help and most cases could not afford it.
Many initiates who do not have money to help themselves, I have given them spiritual information to acquire the money they need so that they can receive the help they needed to fix their lives, and I had done this with no expectation in mind. Moreover, I am internationally recognized (and in all realms) as being compassionate and always working for the benefit of human beings.
I have never spoken of myself in this way before, but TODAY I have to. I believe because of how friendly, jocular, open, and accessible I am, people have been disrespecting me and taking advantage of who I am.
I have always wanted to build a school of Metaphysics where I would assist those on a spiritual path to become awake and conscious during their journey here. In my normal life there are many things that I do not have, but my passion to assist human beings was so strong that I saved enough money to buy the land in Africa to build the school. Unfortunately the man that I thought was my husband stole the land that I had purchased.
All throughout my blog I have talked about my dream of building this school, but never have I solicited any kind of contribution in any way shape or form.
Innocently, I, in the capacity of an “initiate”, thought I could trust my this supposed “Babalawo”. He turned out to be a scammer. He seemed genuine however unbeknown to me, he qwas filled with jealousy not only of my being a strong spiritualist but also my large international client base who loved me.
“People call you all the time just to talk to you, why?” He would say to me.
He even went so far as to say that where ever we went in Nigeria, people always respected me more than him. He told me, “I feel like a driver and you are Madam.”
I must confess that these comments were troubling to me yet I could not believe that he had a deadly plan against me which included stealing my properties, sullying my reputation, and turning my clients against me. For unbeknownst to me he would search my phone and remove the numbers of my clients, contact them and then malign me (but my clients did not know that he had juju/obeah in his mouth to convince them that he was speaking the truth).
So intent was he on destroying me, he went so far as to break the padlock on my suitcase and steal $5,000, which he later confessed to doing. These events were just the tip of the iceberg. So evil were his actions that he was subsequently expelled from a high level society by his peers.
Of all the things that he attempted to do to me, one action stands out above all. And I am referring to it because writing this post has brought my mind back to that time. I had alluded to what I am about to explain you all in other posts, but not in the detail that I am now going to reveal.
In his frantic bid to try and destroy me, and this was because he believed that I would go after him for the properties he stole from me, he plotted to separate me from a group that I was bringing to Africa for initiation. Knowing he had plans to get rid of me he had to secure new foreign contacts to support him when I left. Before I arrived, he put his plan in place. Now it is important for everyone to know that before initiation is done, Èṣù must be appeased. But instead of appeasing Èṣù, my “husband” gave him his taboo, and giving the deity his taboo is the reverse of goodness.
Once we arrived on his compound, all hell broke loose. I began to suspect that he was the one creating this storm, but a part of my mind refused to believe it. Even during the initiations, it seemed like he had discussions with the others (Iyaolorisas) on the compound, for when the initiates received their divination, the Iyaolorisa (the husband’s aunt) said her own interpretation which had nothing to do with what was on the divination tray. In other words, they warned my clients against me and used the oracle as the messenger.
I was in the midst of enemies.
When the initiates returned home, the real war began. Not only was I facing a theif who stole my land and wanted to kill me on African soil (using obeah to set my house on fire, to make me fall sick, sent an assassin both physical and non-physical after me etc. all because of shame and fear that I would fight him for my property) I was facing a group that he had influenced with obeah and who were programmed to destroy me and my reputation. So effective was the obeah that he employed, that a member of the group went on a very long rant against me which they posted on social media.
This happened last year. This was a group effort but one person represented the groups beliefs, and gone so far as to malign Africa and set themselves as an “authority” in tradition. So in order to build themselves up as a referral for those wanting to come to Africa or students of spirituality, they had to try to bring me down.
But I declare, although I am not Christian as I have always said there is wisdom in all doctrines, there’s is a part in the Christian bible which says “Touch not the Lord’s anointed, nor do his prophets no harm” (Psalms 105, verse 15). I know I am innocent so my defense is sure.
This post is me putting it all on the table for you all to see, being transparent as I have always been. Accept me for who you see me as or not. All is still well.
Haven’t been on the site in ages and this is the first post I opened to read in depth, not even knowing the details that would be revealed!! I am so sorry and hurt for all that you have been going through and I will lift you up in prayer for your total victory. It is always those closest to us who betray us the deepest. I remember when I emailed you first for a divination, you, in the very first email, offered me the service of your husband, as a sign of respect I assumed and clearly showing you… Read more »
that seemed like a strange backhanded compliment
*shrug* Just truth; I didn’t go into also getting sacrifice work done or being suicidal blah blah. I was linking it to the issues raised re cost, follow up communication, and faith basically.
But take what you will from my experience or perceive it how you want. There’s free will in interpreting as well.
Onareo Abure mi
It dos not mater were you live or from Odu reveal it self. You experience is a mirrow of my own. keep it up, keep inspired other lake you do, don’t lose sight and keep building the graing house in advance.
Hello beautiful soul Obara, wow as the song say only yuh fren know your secret and only he can reveal it, the people we are the closet to always hurts us the most. I was led to your blog a few years back and have never been disappointed, your blog has helped me so much from the stories the prayers I just could relate to so many things you wrote about as if you were writing about my own life. I have had readings with you and you were spot on. The last reading i had you even told me… Read more »
Thanks so much Cher, NONE OF THEM CAN GET AWAY FROM THE UNIVERSE, WHY? BECAUSE I AM INNOCENT!! I HOPE YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE WELL
Yes my sister no escape for the wicked them…… sis they attack you because you have something everyone of them want which they cannot get, many are called very few are chosen, you are one of the chosen!!! . My family and I are well. Thank you. I will send you an email to get back your number, my phone went out on me I lost a lot of my contacts. Obara with this test and trial in your life you are coming out victorious and going to rise so much higher……. you are and eagle but you have been… Read more »
Boom comment Cher, as Yellow man did DJ AN sey “Dem ah ride donkey we ah drive BM”! Set ah crow bait dem!!
Gwaan Obara! Mi still a peep ocassionally!
Much love sent your way…
hummm Obara, no wonder! first I noticed you stopped using the yoruba proverbs to end your posts and then your open show of love and empathy also dwindled. You went through so much really but I’m not surprised because that is what humans could do. But all through the time and with all of us your readers here, you had always wrote fondly about him in appreciation and adoration and the yoruba proverbs you end your posts with shows a high level of respect and identification as his. I am yoruba and i understand this things. I begged you severally… Read more »
Thank you! The Yoruba proverbs (nor the Ika and Olórí story) have nothing to do with that man. I have used the proverbs years before I met him because I love them and their meanings.
Mel from Hell you missed out! Ah your lost! From the phone conversations where Obara has blurted out an incumbrance or the 1to1 divination she is always spot on. Coming with truth. I may not see it immediately but when I think about or re read my notes everything she spoke to me comes true. I have called back months later and said aye suh! Obara this happened like you said. She has given plenty people solutions me included and I have yet to be disatisfied. Obara Hailings sister please schedule our next reading i love them lol As to… Read more »
Real talk! Thank you! xoxo
Dear sis. Giving thanks for your post. I am sorry you have to be going through all of this. The universe not sleeping. Rest assured those people will be dealt with. Continue to be of good courage and continue your good works. Stay blessed SiStar.
All is well with your soul Obara. Thanks for bringing the piece to our attention. From the contents of the post you share on this platform, your persona shines forth. Most professions charge for their services even a call-out handyman charges irrespective of what the nature of the work entails. Anyone without your gifts cannot fathom the energy exerted during spiritual work let alone the physical exhaustion following a session when it comes to spiritual matters. I believe some so called spiritual workers have tainted the scene but your blog platform is engaging, informative, educative and transparent enough for the… Read more »
I read with horror and disgust of the attempts to harm and /or destroy Obara and her reputation. Everyone. EVERYour who has ever come into contact with Obara face to face ir otherwise has not only benefited from her knowledge, her kindness, her teaching and her amazing ability and willingness to facilitate healing but most if all from the fact that she epitomizes truth, honesty and transparency. How DARE any ignorant earthling/s even contemplate -far more state- baseless, disrespectful and blatant lies and offensive comments or rants with the clear intent of tarnishing her reputation? Dem brite, bad breed an… Read more »
If yuh si de bag ah S@it dem tuh! None ah dem nuh Mek one! Set ah DRANCO’S!!
YOOOOOOOOWWWWWW- A who trouble mi sister!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
a wha really a gwan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sis no worry just strengthen your Will and go thru – energy of Good we will always say. Let them do their evil things but you shall conquer.
Lincoln mi leave dem TO DE UNIVERSE
Many times in my journey I have encountered strange beings who I have felt were less than savory,when it comes to spiritual work I must say that Obara has been a blessing to my life. Finding someone that genuinely has a love for people is difficult to say the least. Anything that is of value in life takes sacrifice and spirituality is no different. As a skilled artisan you pay for my time and my creative mind.I admire those who walk this walk as I struggle to come to terms with my own. You cannot put a price on knowledge,… Read more »
Talk up Zatthu!
As humans we get consumed by what going on in the earthly realm, not remembering there’s a higher power. I appreciate you, love you, and I’m so glad you are my Spiritual God Mother.
Hi Obara Meji, Greetings, I just want you to know that my thoughts are always with you and hope that you are keeping up the good work. You’re a great teacher and I am learning about life more and more by reading your blogs. Your honesty, truthfulness and your sincerity make me gravitate towards you with so much trust, I yearned to meeting you someday. I am keeping myself with your updates as well. You’re such a beautiful soul and you are way up up on my pedestal that I can only see your sparkling radiating like a star in… Read more »
Thank you Dellie
Firstly, I would like to address the statement where the person said they do not want to be scammed and $110 is too much money… it is really funny how people always want to get a reading and not really pay any money for it. How rude and distasteful the person is seeking your assistance Obara then says they don’t know you so they don’t want to be scammed… bye Felicia … I bet if you were buying some fendi or gucci you would pay the price with no questions asked. I love Obara to the max there is nothing… Read more »
Just refreshed my page to read the comments and saw this little gem in the post: “IMPORTANT MESSAGE: If you can not trust, don’t bother seeking the help of a spiritualist. While you are busy searching for faults (of the spiritualist, his work, if you’re being scammed, if the work will work at all etc. etc.) how will your faith stand in what you have come to do? Faith is the most important aspect of spirituality and without it, the work will not have the effect it is supposed to. If you have no trust, you have no faith, and… Read more »
Big up dah comment yah, Kay big up yuhself
Obeah is very real and you have taught us on this blog how to look for the signs of it. With all people try to do to you, you are still here, Obara! Love, light and Blessings!
Love and light Carpediem
Dear Obara, always know that “no weapon formed against you shall prosper.” You are so right, that a spiritualist takes on your problems/negativity when doing a divination and no one has a right to question their prices.
Hey mama Miss you so much. I’m reading this post and my eyes are filled with tears. You are one of the most transparent person I know. Your heart is so kind. It’s so funny how these same people go to them wicked pastor who ttells them to plant $1000 seed for God to bless them and their lives have remained the same because you can’t bribe God. But they have a problem with the fee you take which is not much. You have help so many people and you have been there for me so many times even when… Read more »
I love you always
Good people!!!! Well today is indeed a good day. Obeah is real. No matter if you knew it, your Spirit knows when something is right and wrong. I am speaking on many levels so hear wherever you are. When you need help and it arrives appreciate it, thank it and move on. IF you don’t want it, don’t insult the messenger of the solution. That is you insulting yourself. Obara Meji, I LOVE you. I LOVE who you are and I LOVE the work that you do for so many people, including myself. LOVE is the highest vibration on this… Read more »
Thank you so much Nyaha
Yes President Obara, sometimes yuh haffi hol’ press conference an talk yuh mine. Some people jus libatty tekking and unconscionable. Dem mussi tink seh read up an duppy fighting a easy sumtin. Dem day aguh come…an dem aguh run come an beg yuh….but we know dem not!
Nuh watch nuh face cause a nuffa a wi yuh help. Ah nuff a wi grateful fi di mountain dem weh yuh help wi move. Gwan do yuh ting an mek all wikid, dutti heart bad mine ppl Gweh!
Dem fi Gweh yes.
Mums, I feel like you and I are one in the same. This is the same thing my enemy (have to say my enemy because i really dislike dealing with people like that) go through daily in business. Unfortunately people use their short comings in understanding and funds to price your work in which you are an expert. It used to bother my enemy tremendously, leading to my enemy to question the services/ products offered but then I realize the problem isn’t my enemy, it’s them. You’ve been through a lot over the past year and don’t owe any explanation… Read more »
Queeni mi left de phone ah charge inna de living room, but nobody can separate me and yuh, yuh ah mi good up student and I love you. Call me later
Just call me “SeaQueen Chin”….di chiney man pickney (lol…sorry, i had too dwl)…i love you too mums!! Will do!
Hi Obara Meji
I am one of the people whose lives you have touched and greatly blessed and I’m sorry to hear you’ve been through such an ordeal.
May God continue to empower you and may you be successful in all your endeavours.
Your enemies will never win over you, because you have been chosen for a special purpose. You are a daughter of inheritance, highly anointed and favoured, and no weapon fashioned against you or your family shall prosper.
That’s a lovely comment. ❤️
Amen to that.
Yes Kay Amen
God bless you Oto, thank you
she’s indeed very sweet and her humility gets me teary. she’s one of a kind. God continue to keep and empower you. Amen.
Obara u damn right to day all what’s on your mind..it is time for you to open to the world who u are and what you are…you are loving, caring ,compassionate, respectful etc.. etc..let you voice be heard.
Thank you Lucinda, I have held my tongue for too long
I am so sorry to hear all this have happened but the hardest battles are given to the strongest solider. I know u will overcome this all. I may not understand this all as i am not fully spiritual awaken to know all that’s taken place and all that must be given for u to complete a job in helping others getting rid of there problems. But there is something about u that’s make me gravitates to your blog eager to learn about spiritual. If one cannot afford ur price there is no need to bash just carry on. As… Read more »
Thank you so much