Obara Meji

Randy I have been working on the school. I will do a zoom meeting on all the things that have been happening in the world

Thanks for sharing your story Randy. God Bless you for being you!

My mom has treated me bad, but she treated my older sister wicked. I have learned to not be a mother that your kids don’t feel you are their safe space. My mother gossips with her friends about all of her children, and if you do something she doesn’t like, she will play the victim. I have learned to apologize to my kids when I know I’m wrong and I’ve hurt their feelings. My mother is very manipulative person and her being the matriarch of the family she has broken the relationship between my siblings and I all because she wants everyone to live in chaos. I love her still,because she has taught to be a better mother to my children.

Thank you Mrs. Obara! This article was very insightful and I learned a few things today. A lot of questions I’ve had about my mother’s horrible treatment towards me has been answered. It’s lead me to having deeper questions. But I know those will be answered in due to time.

This is truth Omo, this life is to be studied

I think the post is very important

Stay blessed as well my dear, I am happy you now understand! She is you greatest supporter within the realm of spirit even though she live here on earth!

Hey!!!
I love this post- When we would visit as children, she would cry tears, that her children has come, and then the next day cuss that she can’t wait for us to leave- I think that goes for so many people!

What sis your mother was a ‘BAD GYAL’ Lawd- that’s why you nuh tek no chattings lol

Beautiful!! You are welcome and Thank you also Juliet, for sharing this with the platform

Hi Obara. Anytime me mind tell me say you post and I check there is always something to sit back and read and for that I thank you for that. I too have had my struggles with my mother but with time I have learned to see the light within and this post is perfect because it further solidifies this. I have chosen not to resent her for things that have happened even when I want to. No hugs and kisses for real or I love you but she take care of us and always praying for us. Once again this post was a great reminder to love her and cherish her regardless.

Hi Shirily, good to have you here. I love you too my dear, life is to be seen and understood from a spiritual understanding. You must do what serves your greater good and for the ones (children) you must protect.Stay Blessed.

Ase Goddess E, thank you for the prayer.

1- There may be many reasons why she the mother could be toxic to ALL her children and of course her behavior still pushes those who are strong enough to wake up and not be like her and rise higher or above her vibration. Becoming better versions of her, or themselves through her malicious behavior.

However, all of you are from the same soul group and may have all decided to come in through her and have agreed to this behavior.

1b- She may be an adversary following you all through time and space and many different incarnations where you all have switched roles.

There are two possiblities. Great questions.

2- The question, will speaks to the second answer I gave you in the first. Where the mother may be an adversary born into this world as the child or children mother to harm them and if so it is still a part of transformation for the children. For in this incarnation, they must find their strength in every way

Nuff Love mi dear!

Hi Ms. Obara, thank you for sharing this beautiful message. I really enjoyed reading about your story and how you explained the connection between mothers and children. It made me think about how sometimes hard times in our families can actually help us grow stronger and understand our purpose.

I also liked how you said that even when things are tough, there can be a spiritual reason behind it. That gives me a lot to think about. Thank you for reminding us to honor our mothers and to look for the lessons in our experiences.

My mother was never a harsh mom. I didn’t have a hard time with her, and I’m so grateful for that. She was loving, caring, and always there for me. I miss her so much since her transition two years ago, and today marks three years since the day she had her strokes.

Reading your post really touched my heart and reminded me how blessed I was to have her in my life.

With love, always.

Not you alone my dear, but know that your purpose is great!

Anno, see her as a teacher. You said even though she treated you bad, you still took care of her and did you duty as a daughter, this speaks volumes of how her bad treatment made you become and perhaps more that you did not out here.

I had to take a closer look at my mother whom I loved so much to find out why? And Through my consciousness rising, I found the reason why and although it was rough, I would not change a thing. She taught me much. May she be well wherever she may be in the unknowable world

You are welcome TCanada. Thanks for being so loyal as you always comment.

Very true Tee