When to let go of a girlfriend
BY DONNA HUSSEY-WHYTE All Woman writer
HAVING a best friend, especially a girlfriend, can be a wonderful thing. It guarantees you free counselling, a constant ear to listen to your numerous problems without criticism, someone to cry with, to share with, someone to guide you through your rough times and someone to go shoe shopping with! But while you may have cherished your best friend over the years, there comes a time when you might just need to let her go. You know the times — it’s when the trust goes, and when mending things is impossible.
Here are signs you should let go of your girlfriend.
1. The things you tell her in secret come to light, everytime — So you told her about the sexually transmitted infection you contracted via a one- night stand, only to hear someone else ask you if you got over it. This is a prime case when you need to dump her without apology.
2. She no longer returns your calls — Once she was always there for you, however, in recent times, she never returns your calls and never replies to your text messages. When you run into her at the supermarket she tells you she has been meaning to call you but didn’t get the chance. This may be your cue to find a new friend.
3. She tells you your boyfriend of five years is no good for you — She once encouraged and congratulated you on finding a really great guy. Despite the fact that he still treats you like a queen, she keeps asking when you plan on leaving him. Then you spot her in the mall, laughing and looking into his eyes. There’s no forgiving this kind of behaviour.
4. You hear stories of her being out on dates with your boyfriend — So family members and persons close to you keep telling that they spotted her with your boyfriend at the movies, at the mall, shoe shopping and at lunch, and neither of them have ‘fessed up to you about their outings. And when you do confront them, they both say they meant to tell you or that they just ran into each other. Not only is this time to let go of her, but of him too!
5. Instead of encouraging your dreams she kills them — If each time you mention a venture that you want to pursue she tells you it makes no sense and that it will never work, it’s time to let her go. The fact is that you need someone positive around you to help you achieve your goals and to encourage them along. If while she smashes your ideas she has no positive alternatives to them, then it’s time to let her go.
6. Every time you get involved with a man, she steals your thunder — If each time you try to date someone she ends up being the one going out with him, especially if you told her how much you are interested in him, then it’s time to let her go. She is obviously in competition with you for your men!
7. She does everything to get that promotion you have been working so hard for — So your best friend works in your office and while she knows how hard you have been working to get that position just made available, she decides to tell the boss about the time you left your post when you shouldn’t while handing in her application. Friends have each other’s backs, she obviously doesn’t have yours.
Tell dem Sharlenerose…..tell dem
Mi naw ahgi wid dem enuh, mi duss tek mi likkle time tek whey misself
me bun out fake friend….we go so hahaha…we laugh wid dem….u can see a man face but u caan see him heart…gal waan fi friend u fi get u gucci bag…gal waan tek u man…stinking dutty dog dem need fi gweh…
Opti mi bredda, whaaa gwaaan?
Osunbabygirl how yuh do sista? Nuff gyal ah wikid, but like yuh seh, haters shall never rise
Good afternoon! well obviously this creature is no friend, it is clear that she is a depressed lonly gal that carries much grudes of women who may look or have more than she does, but in the end haters shall never rise…
how maniac gone so early…har company come over..
Well gentle ppl, am going 2 call it a nite…..Inna di lites
Optiiiiiiiiii, yuh reach bredda?
Tell wi bout di breddren dem…
You are right virgin, we need to do better….
me no look pon dem…dem a bitch…tek whe meself quick…mek dem nyam dogshit
Nuff a dem me divorce, drap dem like dawg!!! women really can screw each other over though. We have to do better.
There was this one who use to work @ di bar dung di road whey mi u;se to go play domino ah nite time, use to hear rumors sey she an mi pikni puppa did deh (neva have pikni yet doe); di 2 ah dem deny it…. Anyway afta awhile di gyal stawt fren mi, alla offa mi free likka, cuss gyal fi mi, come call mi ah mi yawd fi goh dance dung di road etc. Den shi stawt tawk bout how shi did ahgoh come ah mi yawd inna one day an ting….Mi pikni puppa tun to mi… Read more »
bwoy maniac dah bredda deh is ah brethren!!! lo!!
Obara mi nuh tink soh enuh, aldoa fram eva since shi dress like man an ting but mi noe seh shi tek dicky cawsen seh shi have 2 pikni an mi neva hear har name call wid ah ooman yet……BUT… you never know Mi nah lie, shi did cool still….nuh gyal, bwoy, not even fly can pitch pon mi an shi nuh kill it….all tek on mi pikni puppa an deal wid him case proppa…..during mi college years, wi use to ride bus an back wi ratchet an run dung ducta bwoy wen him violate an alla dem tings deh,… Read more »
bwoy nainy she sound like she deh pon de barda line like she bada!! lol, mi possessive to de tenth power but nuh so!!!..dats why mi nuh keep friends and if mi do dem haffi have a very mature mentality but wid a great sense of humor cuase i am fun!!
Di one dem whey fi leggo to ah di one dem who gwaan like dem too possessive….mi did have one deh (yeah, back inna mi teenage years ah she use to hide inna di bush an tell mi wen mi fawda ah come meantime mi did roun di pass wid mi bf), but awfta awhile shi did juss stawt get 2much….shi use to all come ah mi job an wait pon mi an more time wen shi si mi ah tawk to smaddy, she stawt get bex an alla cuss ‘yow, come nuh man…yuh chat tomuch man….yow ah who she’… Read more »
dis old long time big ooman, whey use to cross mi when mi ago basic school!!!
ah change de bitch name but ah wish ah could a put har pon blast. old battery bait!!!
so she de dacia sinting, did deh wid a nice quiet guy whey use to hustle, any way gal set him up fi har friends dem hide inna closet and watch him dine pon on NANA!!!…when him find out him get so mad and embarass him kill de gal …..aledgedly!!1 him deh ah prison all ah nw, but himagine de scandal sey your personal man get ketch ah nyam off him life!!! jamaican ppl mek yuh fe nay wid dem scandal deh all when dem dweet to as long as anuh dem get ketch!!!….she shame like dog she move whey… Read more »
Bwoy Obara, da gyal deh good nuh blurtneet….ah dat yuh call Judas goat. Wid frenz like she …….oonu noe di ress
mi chat to de dead dawg up to today and him stil ah look OBARA MEJI!!!..never under LIFE!!!…but oonu wait mi ago nw bata bata out wha happen to de bitch ..and de typing begins nw!!
when mi did deh wid de duttie baby fadda, and him a gi me hell wid de wicked obeah wuking bitch dat him did deh wid, mi pregnant wid mi last gal (mi easy fi breed), dis gal use to do har hair ah mi shop, de wikid gal fren mi and tru mi depressive situation mi heng on to de friendship, mi deh ah yard almost every day a bawl and ah complain bout de stinkin man!….anyway god is never far from OBARA MEJI!!!…..mi ah good gal, and god protect de innocent. One day mi and de gal deh… Read more »
Sorry Obara, mi did ah type an neva c yuh comment 🙂
Obara one time mi did have dis girl whey sey mi an har ah ‘fren’….she sey soh, nuh mi….long story short, mi cudden call har pon certain days as har man was with her (now my thing is, even ef yuh man deh deh an yuh claim me an yuh is fren, ansa an fine out ef ebbryting ok an even gimmi 5mins)…. Alrite den, one nite shi call an leff a msg pon mi fone….mi dee jhap asleep an neva access di meccij till bout 2am wen mi wake up back…..wen mi access di msg, shi tell mi sey… Read more »
listen to my story nw
Obaraaaaaaa, whey u ah sey to mi? mi deh yah
Di writer leff out nuff moe tings but mi nah too rush it caw mi noe mi kina sensitive, so maybe ah juss me…..
curioussssss!!!!! GGGGGGGGGG, maniacccccc, obara deh pon a borrows till tomorrow when mi get mine!!! hwdyyyyy!!!
Mi hardly kip fren enuh, caw ah dem ting yah mi fraid ah…..
lol gg yuh know some gyal a real crosses!
cut dem off!
D SECRET PART MI KNO IS TRUE…. LIVING TESTIMONY TO DAT DUTTY BITCH