Here is an article I would like to share with you all about sex. The writer has written on the topic of spiritual sex and I believe that it is a beautifull topic. In this article he shares with us how sex can open up our hearts to love and also channel certain energies that can lead to our spiritual evolution. I believe that sex is beautiful on all accounts if treated with care and respect, and by that I mean, it should never be forced upon anyone (rape), and the casuality of it should be cautioned. As I have said Before Osun my Guardian Angel, is the deity of Sex, Love and Beauty among other things, so I have no problem approaching this subject again and again. The word SEX, itself evokes a lot of emotion, and it is so much more powerful when coupled with the emotion called love. It can be tender, passionate, wild, raw, raunchy, erotic, salacious,sensual, seductive, heated , xxx rated, gentle , painful and powerful. It can controll, bait, enforce, weaken,drive a person crazy,charm,and overall remove ones guard, break down any barriers. The wife uses it against the husband to get her way and vice versa, it is a great bargining tool, and One of the best gifts that God has given to us. It is needed much like food, because the brain calls for it. Overall, aside from love it holds a power all on its own. Hide behind that Nuns habit all you like Sister, it still invades your thoughts, if you look closely behind the Bishops collar you may see his sex thoughts, often times more raunchy than ours. Sex told us the story of Adam and Eve, It fell the mighty Samson at the hands of the seductive Delila, and it almost over threw King David when he fornicated with Bathsheba. Sex has brought down many heads of states. The appeal of sex is why America has never forgotten Marilyn Monroe, it can single-handedly rule the world I believe, because once the word is mentioned all heads are turned and we pay full attention.
by Walter Last
Sexuality is closely related to spirituality in several ways. In its negative aspects of lust, sexual excess, degradation and rape, it appears as the antithesis of spirituality, and in this light it has been seen in the Christian tradition. However, in its positive aspects our sexuality can open our heart to love, and enable us to have experiences similar to meditative states and mystical bliss during or instead of an orgasm and its afterglow. In a less obvious way, sexual energies can be channeled upward to develop our energy centers or chakra system and higher energy bodies. According to esoteric and yoga teachings, this is all part of our spiritual evolution.
The idea of celibacy for priests, nuns and monks is to spiritualize sexual energies as in meditation, rituals and other devotional practices. While this generally involves conscious exercises as in yoga, Christian mystics commonly transformed their energies without conscious awareness through intense devotion. If religious celibates fight to suppress their sexuality, they misunderstand the deeper reason for the practice of celibacy, and block their spiritual evolution on that level. If devotional practices do not lead to the transmutation of sexual energies then it is much better to find a natural outlet. Suppression always leads to problems.
There are various yoga and meditation techniques to transform sexual energy into kundalini or spiritual energy by oneself. However, there are also methods of spiritual or sacred sex for couples. Karezza is a western practice that can be adopted for spiritual sex, while in the east tantric yoga is concerned with the transmutation of sexual energies. There has also been a tradition of temple priestesses inGreeceand eastern history who helped spiritual seekers with ceremonial sex. On a different level ceremonial sex has, of course, also been used or misused in various cults. Sexual energy is a part of our hidden kundalini energy, which in turn is a concentrated form of etheric or life-force energy. It can be used to create children, or just to have an orgasm, or to fuel achievements in sports or professional activities. However, its ultimate purpose is to facilitate spiritual growth by developing our chakra system and higher energy bodies.
Commonly esoteric teachings advise to curtail sexual activity and portray abstinence as an ideal in order to retain sexual energies for internal development. However, this can easily lead to suppression of sexual energies and emotional deprivation. The following methods show a middle path between abstinence and conventional sex. In many instances I believe them to be superior to abstinence for developing our higher energy centers. They have the added advantage of satisfying our emotional needs and providing the venue for a joint spiritual venture for couples.
Furthermore, most of those with a chronic disease, and especially cancer, are emotionally rather fragile, and benefit greatly from a close-bonding loving relationship. This is also beneficial with heart disease and mental-emotional conditions, such as depression and addictions. High levels of testosterone are a negative factor with prostate cancer, while high estrogen levels are detrimental with most breast cancers. It has now been shown that when we are in love (or create a feeling of love), hormone levels in both genders become more like each other. In males testosterone levels fall to make them less aggressive, gentler and more spiritual. Females, on the other hand, produce more testosterone, which makes them bolder, and helps to balance excessive estrogen levels.
What many individuals miss even more than sex is touching and hugging. Some try to satisfy this need with regular massage therapy. However, there may be a simple solution. If you feel deprived of touching and hugging just form a local “hug club”. Either discretely spread the word around or put a notice in a suitable place asking for interested individuals to contact you. You can then arrange a weekly meeting where you just hug for an hour or two. As a follow-up step you may also give each other massages. You may be surprised by the amount of interest in hugging ‘out there’. You may also form or join a healing group where hugging may be practiced together with massaging, reflexology and the multitude of other self-healing techniques available. Consensual hugging may also serve as a stepping stone for some forms of spiritual sex.
I believe that regularly radiating love, and feel being loved, greatly helps to prevent and overcome cancer and other diseases. When we radiate love, we become invincible, diseases cannot touch us. Karezza helps us to learn this in an easy and pleasant way, with Karezza we can be in love everyday. When we then also learn to feel and radiate love at will in our daily activities and encounters, then we have reached the top of the spiritual mountain. Karezza or sacred sex is a pleasant and effective way to get there.
In Karezza the emphasis is on the inner feeling awareness as well as on the feeling of complete union with the partner. Orgasm is avoided or at least minimized. Caresses and slow controlled movements during intercourse generate a steady stream of sexual energy that is consciously converted into feelings of sublime joy and love. Typically, this may continue for an hour or more. It is not necessary for the penis to be erect or even inside to enjoy this type of lovemaking. Part or all of the time the tip of the penis may just touch the entrance of the vagina, or the sexual organs may not touch at all.
Initially concentrate awareness on the sensations at the point of contact with the partner, especially in the genital area but also wherever the skin or a caressing hand touches. This generates pleasant sensations, which can now easily be converted into a loving feeling. Open your heart and send this love to your partner.In a more active fashion you can in your imagination lead the energy felt in the genital or pelvic area upwards to the heart. There you feel it as love and radiate it out onto your partner, and also envelop both of you in a cloud of love.
|For many sensitive individuals this is more satisfying than just mechanically experimenting with different positions or chasing an elusive orgasm. You may also lie quietly connected, just to relax and feel close, cared for and protected, without attempting to generate any specific effects. If sleeping together, it is good to develop a routine of connecting daily before going to sleep or after awakening, or both. This may be done without moving, just to feel close to each other. It is not only emotionally satisfying, but produces strong bonding and greatly strengthens the relationship. In addition to providing great spiritual, emotional and health benefits, Karezza is also an effective birth-control method. For a similar approach to a harmonious sex life see www.reuniting.info.|
The following are some extracts from The Karezza Method by J. William Lloyd (published in 1931).
“Try to feel yourself a magnetic battery. As you acquire the habit of giving your sexual electricity out in blessing to your partner from your sex-organs, hands, lips, skin, eyes and voice, you will acquire the power to satisfy yourself and her without an orgasm. “Soon you will not even think of self-control, because you will have no desire for the orgasm, nor will she.”
Lloyd also notes the ability of Karezza (controlled intercourse) to nourish lovers. He reports a sense of “sweet satisfaction, fullness of realization, peace, often a physical glow and mental glamour that lasts for days, as if some ethereal stimulant, or rather nutriment, had been received.” And, “in successful Karezza the sex-organs become quiet, satisfied, demagnetized, as perfectly as by the orgasm, while the rest of the body of each partner glows with a wonderful vigor and conscious joy…tending to irradiate the whole being with romantic love; and always with an after-feeling of health, purity and wellbeing. We are most happy and good-humored as after a full meal.”
|In regard to orgasms he observes: “It is the wine of sex that gives love its enchantment and divine dreams. This is easily proven by giving lovers unrestricted license to express their transports. No sooner have they wasted the wine of sex by reckless embraces—often a single orgasm will thus temporarily demagnetize the man—tho they love each other just the same, as they will each stoutly assert—the irresistible attraction and radiance and magnetic thrills are gone, and there is a strange drop into cool, critical intellection or indifference, or perhaps dislike…. To have frequent orgasmal embraces, as most married lovers do, is to keep the wine in the sexual beakers low by constant spilling, to thus kill all romance and delight and finally starve and tire out love itself.”|
REAL sex education is beyond vital in this time and space. Whenz ur class? the youth need it. On the money…….as always.
Howdy cocky… how u do
Cawse mi nay’n si oonu Sharlene….yuh noe how mi mad head tek mi sometime don’t?
obara i am waiting on u…maniac…opti…gg goodly a sleep or deh pon a romantic call….helloooo
maniac whe u cuss and galang bad for
my cup runneth over with love….etc…etc
How it did go again sharlene?
Low mi enuh sharlenerose…lol!
excuse me…hi…waving…did you pick up that message for me
den a wha kinda karezza u did a practice last night
Mi deh ya all tiad from last night
me a look round…me no see nobody…me waan find karezza…and employ those tactics….helloooo…obara whe u deh
Cho man…mi wii cuss an galang bad enuh
Hi am hear mainy pon mi phone howdy!
Me is are back….Mi nuh undastan….whey everybaddie?
Mi did ah hope fi si Rayne888 comment pon di tapik yah, caw it look like him know a ting or two…..Whey Nubizniss deh? She muss know sum’n to caw she noe bout di bullet an dem ting deh…. Whey Tiffany? Virgin? GoodLife? Orisa? Curious? Skeptic? Whaapen man? ah mi one love di sex tawk?
Mi deh yah juss ah say hi an bye fi a likkle bit….mi ah run out pon di road shortly
How uunu do?
Rawtid, Battery dolly ah play pon di radio…..Obaraaaaaaaa yuh ah lissen mi luv? Woiee ef I laaf een yah tinite
Mek mi memba mi granny….everybaddie did noe who har favorite dem was….juss bring back memories…Mi memba as a likkle pikni mi bawl an tell smaddy seh shi nuh like mi caw shi nuh like mi fawda….Must have left a mark on me, caw mi nuh memba too much
By that I mean I borrowed mi sis ta computa n they needed it back. So mi deh pon mi trusty phone lolol mi a soja!
mi nuh like when mumma preffa one pikni ova di oddas….yes, as a mother you will have your ‘prize’ yes, but mek it tan dehsoh….mi noe whey it do to mi an mi nuh like it….
Obara yuh noe seh ah since week yah mi dream how mi madda ah share food an mi ask har fi some an shi nuh gimmi, shi gi mi sista an nuh gimmi…..mi get dem dream deh often….an EVERY single time mi get dem kine ah dream, mi wake up bawling inna mi sleep….mi nuh like it man
Tru de ppl dem tek back dem tings mi neva done watch it
mek mi stawt pree certain tings hawd hawd…..cyaan believe sey one mumma soh wikid….it mek mi hawt sink
Wha mek mainy
Oh….Obara mi nuh like di movie…mi like it but mi nuh like it
Mi deh yah mainy
wait whey everybaddy deh? Wha, dem gone ah dance ahreddy?
Tink mi did done. Mi jus a come lolol mi deh pon mi phone! Mi come in lika guiness stain cyann get mi out!
Alrite Opti mi wii hail him fi yuh…..
Gentle ppl ef oonu nuh si mi fi awile ah di intanet kannekshan gone…..some breed ah lighting an tunda dung yah!!! poor Ogun hitch up unda mi an nah moveeeee
dat ah chue Opti….but more power to di man whey even doe him luv it gone to bed, him nuh mek pussy rule him
Y u sey dat Opti?
Aldoa mi almoas sure him neva noe sey ah dat him ah do, it soun like ah Karezza him did ah practice fi chute….Him neva masta di art doe, caw afta bout 10 minits him cudden hole it nuh longa an did waann put it een 🙁
Yuh mad Opti?!!!!! never….Look like Obara put on back har garb an gone leff wi
‘It is not necessary for the penis to be erect or inside to enjoy this type of lovemaking….’ Looking back, I understand now that he must have felt pleasure from this….him use to beg mi fi juss mek him rub it pon di vjay, him nuh affi enta….mmmm, interesting
If it hot Opti!!! ah wonda ef me an yuh inna di same room, caw di fan deh rite pon mi, but it HATTTTTT
Lol, Obara yuh nuh eezee ahtall….chuss mi, u si wen dem hear yuh ah sing ooo la laaaa an ah chat all kine ah fawt (wen yuh done yuh shame, wuss ef him remine yuh bout it an ah tease yuh), dem feel like ah rawtid KING….nuh chue Opti?
Obara, mi juss ah reread an si u sey di book was published in 1931…..Dat mean ah long time it deh bout man….mi gone read ahgen
maniac, yuh haffi reach yuh peak all de time!!!!!!!!!!!! yuh missi mad!!!!!! if de man waan mi hate him like a dose a poison…
me waan find out more bout karezza
Nat ah kaka clawt…..dats y mi nuh like di word ‘daggering’ cause in my mind is just stab, stab, stab, stabbbb, stabbbb stabbbbb duss ah galang soh an mi nuh c di pleasure inna dat…sex fi pleasure not fi pain, tantalize di body, mesmerize di brain…while it nuh necessary fi mi reach mi peak all di time, I LOVE TO SING OOH LA LAAAAA… I love a man who takes the time out to please me, even when him buss a nut…him waan ensure sey mi reach my peak to ah me affi tell him sey ‘no baby, its ok’…and… Read more »
Being a Jamaican i can speak of my own people, and our me though blessed (most of them) with sizeable contributions to the female sexual anotomy, beign of african decent, do not know how to use their greatness, they believe that a woman should beg and bawl unda hard and stiff…to quote shabba ranks “send har in a hospital unda drip (saline)”…hell no!!!! hell nooo!!!
hw yuh mean opti mi deh yah
i knew that you would identify opti….lol!!
well Sister Obara meji haffi fing whey de habit fi ansa dah one yah, do oonu nuh tell padre…..ok I agree with the writer because all when we deh deh a do di sinting and it sweet, pressure rise and dem sintin deh, as soon as him buss mi nuh like him wuss if mi nuh bus, if mi buss under fi him sweet ministrations and ah shiver fi long long long, mi love him like cook food!!! jamaican men some a dem love bus whey gone like beigy kite lef de ooman and den gone dj bout agony!!! plzzz…….ok… Read more »
opti sey him find ah name fi it!!! ah dead!!!!1 dwlllll!!!
‘The salacious maniac’…….ef yuh neba tell a lie fram yuh bawn, dis ah di fuss one..
Mi????? Nuh use mi ah scapegoat…..Memba mi tell yuh sey mi new name is MS. MARY….yuh nuh memba?
Di resident cock is present…..How yuh do bredda Opti?
optimicti1…yuh ooooze something trying to figure what yuh ooozing soon dweet!!
OMG inna mi valley girl voice dem two yah buck up, de salacious Maniac and the oh so lewd one with a pinch of raw and raunchy magnetism Optimistic1, mek I go put on mi nun habit, you will be calling Sister Obara Meji from nw on as I have joined the convent!!!
Alrite den…..mi c di owna fi di tapik reech……mi fling mi stone, mi neba call nuh name
Mek I gwaan read
a yuh mi ah fling wud pol!!! dwl!
opti yuh mad enuh!!
NUTTEN MI NAH SEY AWOE!!!
ok maniac wha yuh waan mi fi sey…yuh waan mi fi sey mi love the act nuh rawtid, yuh waan mi fi sey, a de bes ting since slice bread, yuh waan mi fi sey agony to rass, yuh waan mi fi sey it nice yuh si…wha yuh waan mi sey maniac???, caws mi nah sey nutten!!!
No man dis seerus…fram mawning mi deh wait fi c one certen smaddy comment pon di tapik yah, an alla nung…..nuh mek mi affi do like di ooman inna Papine square an come draw yuh outta di crowd enuh……mi ah tap fi foot dem an ah wait…