May 30, 2014 Obara Meji 60Comment

 

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There was a time when I had a conversation with my daughter where I told her that it was exhausting to sit and write every day on my blog. I said so because I hate to type, I am not good at it, I make many errors and have to read over and over again to see my mistakes, and even after I  publish the post, I still read and find errors which embarrasses me because I am thinking that you all have already read it and seen my mistakes and have had to try and figure out what the hell I was trying to say!..ok deep breath Obara, deep breath…Also, I have to come up with new and interesting things to write about and as you can see most of my post are about my life experiences. I am not a planner, I never have been, so I write the post everyday, not the night before as I should, to make it easier on myself. I am an Aries, and Aries astrologically are very spontaneous people and I am true in characteristic traits to that fact. What I have realized is that topics on Spirituality or which have  Spiritual messages, (the whole point of this blog is to receive messages or learn from the stories posted here) are in our everyday conversation. We learn from each other, that I know for sure, but we all pass on messages whenever we speak if only we take the time to really listen to each other. Yesterday I was having a conversation with my Babalawo friend who lives in the States, just a regular conversation about life, when the conversation of how our vibratory levels are all different thus making it difficult for some people to have certain friends or to connect came up. According to him, someone complained about not having any close friends or not being able to keep a friend like normal people, and he explained to her that it was because the friends or would be friends that she may have had in the past or people who she may want to be her friends do not share her same vibratory level. They may be compatible in many things such age, education, culture, their likes and dislikes but on a Spiritual level they cannot connect because their vibrations are not the same. Therefore this creates disharmony between them and so a palatable friendship cannot be formed. This was my story, read God’sPlan. I complained about this for years and cried about it, I could not have a friend. The only friendship I could have was if we only saw each other once in a while, and it is the same for all my children. Fortunately they have me to explain the reasons why to them, as I had no one. We are all from different places within time and space, different realms. Although we all may belong to the human race, we are all different people in our Spiritual Evolution, Our Spiritual Value and Our Spiritual age. Our Spirits, however developed (we all have been here, to this real numerous of times) are not all equally developed. Many soul bodies have to incarnate to the Earth realm and other realms many different times in order to grow and learn, and the higher you ascend within the spiritual hierarchy of life, the more your vibratory levels rise.

Your vibratory level is consistent with your soul consciousness,your soul consciousness is attributed to your mental Universe and how it is aligned to the Earths magnetic field energy. We encounter daily, forces unseen to the physical eyes, we may not see them but they are there. These forces and there are many, are from different realms and operates also on different frequencies which affects the humans and how we live, think, love, hate and communicate to name a few. Some of these forces helps to lift up our vibrations through using other physical beings or they do it themselves. This is done through attraction. When a group or an individual is ready to be aligned to their Spiritual Universe which opens up for them through their minds they are vetted thoroughly by these forces and are sequestered Spiritually, rending them inaccessible to the normal corruption of humanity. They may not know what is happening to them, but this is what is being done and so their physical lives seems at odd with everyone else. They do not act the same as everyone, if they are young children they act or seem older than their age, if they are teenagers  they may not have a social life like normal children, kept away from promiscuity or any hedonistic way of life among other things. While these things are being done they seem to not get along with family, have no friends, boyfriends or girlfriends are hard to get and life in itself seems so miserable, but it is for their greater good, unbeknownst to them and others around them who sees them as strange, they do not fit in.

This is not about changing your perception of life and your outlook, this is about YOU, and who you are, how you were born and what your destiny is. This is about recognizing that you are set apart from most and accepting it. When you are apart of anything Spiritual, whether Church or Tradition or you are drawn to the World of Occult or of Realms and of Spirits, Dimensions and of the Universe, even if it is the Desire or the need to become apart of, or Study, Peep, Read Spiritual Documents and Books, and this is done with passion which is apart of your core being, then you are separated from what is viewed as the norm. Keep in harmony with yourself, play music your spirit enjoys, become friends with water, surround yourself with it. Flowers messages are strong, potent and divine, invest in them if you cannot walk outside in your garden and pick them. Be kind to animals, they understand you more than humans since their vibration is also very high and aligned. Do you notice that most children love or are fascinated with animals? This is because,  children are born, coming into the world off the wings of angels, innocent to the wiles of the world. They are born so pure and with such high vibrations that they can feel that of the animals around and vice versa, it wanes away as they grow and the world begins to have its influence.

When you have time, or rather, find the time to meditate and pray. Indulge not yourselves with the frivolities of the world. When idle read a book or hum a song. Have conversations with people who can enhance or contribute to your spiritual wealth and knowledge. Know that you have been set apart for a reason.

Ọmọ tí ò bá sọ pẹ́nu àgbà ńrùn, yóò jẹun àgbà kalẹ́ / 
A youth who won’t despise the words of elders would remain favoured with their wisdom….Yoruba Proverb!

[Humility to learn…]

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NuNu
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Lololol!!! Yazzy yuh dream seh a yuh a Cherry whe Bredda Curtis fling wud pon! Anywhoos! Ms Yazzy aka Cherry have a nice, nice weekend!

Toy
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I am so glad for this re-post.

NuNu
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Hey Yazzy, Kia, Toy enjoy your weekend

Yazzy
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Nunu chica… mi dis a see yuh yailmentz! Love and light sis! Love and light to mi babygirl Obara and all my sweeties here and have a blessed weekend.

Me seh mi nuh know a weh mi do fi deserve dis ya! LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO…. mi hinna mi good up good up sleep last night and mi deh dream seh mi hinna chuch (church) and dem plzzzzz to a preach and a fling wud pan mi and a fren. (ps, inna real life when mi did a guh a chuch dem preach pan mi and di sed fren bout tree rhatid time eenuh!) Anyhoos, mi swear di dream did real cawzen seh a plzzzzz to took… yes took mi pocketbook up like Ms. Uptown and catwalk di hell outta dere like is a run way show! KMFT!! Mi seh a bex when a git up han realize seh a dream mi a dream ei si caw mi well well wah walk out pan a surmon weh parson aka tinikin mout Bredda Curtis a dash him wud pan mi hinna real life! KMFT!! Hugly hat wearing ppl can I get a Halellulerrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!

Deadin….

Toy
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Same to you Nunu. Thank you again 😉

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Good night fambly can it be that bloggers are near the same vibration, that is why we all meet here? could it be the peepers vibrations are different so they have yet to blog? hmmmm enjoy ur weekend all. Love n light

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Good night sweetie Obara and all my sweet sweet blog fam! Thank you all so much for uniting today for us to fast and lift our vibrations and our energies as one. I feel totally blessed to be in the presence of greatness and beauty of the soul.

Obara I love this reblog. Its a jewel that deserved to be revisited.

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NuNu, check out an Icon of being different:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2843346/Empress-eccentricity-3bn-fortune-Duchess-Alba-richer-royal-Queen-Botox-toyboys-didn-t-damn.html

And love her or hate her (I love her) Kim K embrace her difference as far as societal norms go. Although I say I don’t give a crap on many things…If I measure my pride against these two persons…I give a crap…lol

NuNu
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Well Kim seem to be about fame and money. She use what she has( her looks) to get them

Obara Meji
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Oye deh ooooo!

Cami
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I would too since Ray J thought it was cute to expose that tape. He miscalculated and found out “Why are we different”…some people smart, smarter, dumb and dumber, lol Kris turned the table on him and all who spoke ill of her daughter.

Last month she pulled in 43 Mil from her video game app, so nudity alone isn’t her money maker. Kim isn’t the only one ‘about fame and money’ each are the same method of validation-that you brought up a few weeks aback.

NuNu
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Cami to say that the duchess is unique is an understatement,lol, every muscle in her face is paralyzed. “I have alot of artwork but I cannot eat them” true enough

Cami
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lol…she lived and enjoyed.

Cami
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“…you are set apart from most and accepting it.”

More like….Loving it.

Good day Obara and all.

NuNu
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Cami, lol, you don’t mind being ‘set apart’

Cami
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Not one bit. That’s why we’re different! lol

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Good Morning Everyone

Love and light

One of my fav blogs. its a mix of knowledge and comfort. it contains nuggets of wisdom and really compels you to look at life from a different scope.

NuNu
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Good morning!

TY
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this is a good re-read for us all…especially on a day like this where we are fasting…

our collective vibrations in the universe must be quite a tune…

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[…] to ponder or hesitate before answering, it is fantastic because I am alive, and I know my purpose! Read here. I started this blog because my awakening was very very hard, I felt as if I could not survive it […]

Courtney
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This post explains a lot i always wondered about that. I cut people off without a second thought and lose no sleep i find even my so called friends I keep at a distance

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Yes Obara now im learning is not my fault nor theirs…our vibrations dont gree Wow. I located 3 botanica stores in my city lol going shopping this week will uodate u on my findings.

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Maniaccccc!!!

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Pace your work! Damn auto correct

Ty
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I will, that is why mi quick quick stop myself…

Maniac
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Yowwwwww… Mi deh ere mama lol

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Pace your awkf

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Pace your awkf

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Yes de water meditation deep, the fasting opened up any things for me too

Ty
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Yes, I was going fast…and you know mi fraidy fraidy, so mi stop myself…but will keep at it…

Ty
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Mi nuh wrong you maniac…

So since mi on this spiritual journey, even mi interaction wid people different…mi see strangers and mi feel disgusted…mi sense that dem not so nice…mi temper is much better…di other day a man cut mi off in traffic, nearly crash inna me during the fasting period…I wind down the window and say God bless you have a great day…di man look like him was going to have a heart attack, it was better than telling him bout him parts…so mi seh to myself, from now on, mi a go try dis more…

Also think I am making some headway wid di water meditation…mi did haffi stop myself di other day…will keep you all updated

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Everytime Obara write bout frens it make me feel kinda sad. Ive never had tru frens, while ive been a tru fren most ppl havent been tru to me. I like manaic am loyal sometimes to a fault. It takes me awhile to vex with my frens so even tho i may notice sum disloyal or unfriendly charactistics i will stay loyal. Sometime i wonder if mi crazy fi put up wid foolishness or jus a pushova smh but when i cut off its for lifeeeeeee

Obara meji
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Kia release

Obara meji
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Ok my dear

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Great article Obara! As I read through the comments regarding this article I was guided to respond. In my humble opinion,which I offer respectfully and constructively, there is possibly some confusion between character flaws/idiosyncrasies and incongruent spiritual vibrations in some instances. In my experiences,when one energetically vibrates on a higher frequency the incompatibility of the frequencies will often terminate or alter the dynamics of a relationship sans any conscious thought, it kind of just happens or terminates,leaving the involved parties wondering what happened.(*not always)
Getting to the point of character and the idiosyncrasies that may go with ones character, one must look into the “mirror of self examination” and take an honest look at oneself(selfie). Under normal circumstances we look into the mirror for aesthetic reasons, to see how we look (is our hair, make-up, moustache, clothing etc. right).I am speaking of looking beyond the superficial, in the “mirror of self introspection,” take a look inside of oneself by stepping out of oneself and analyzing ones character by reflecting and correcting ones behavior. On a last not I leave you with this,”A mirror is not only for self- reflection but for self-correction.”

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Shawny, such amazing analysis …. well said.

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Who is to say those moments of “I’d what happened” didn’t occur in any of the bloggers experiences?

Ty
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Welcome Shawny…

NuNu
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This is me to a t, bwoy . My mother told me a few days ago, it’s so hard to understand you

kiabubblez
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N the same i say bout ppl thst say that to me “i cant understand yu” lol

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This!!
“if they are teenagers they may not have a social life like normal children, kept away from promiscuity or any hedonistic way of life among other things. While these things are being done they seem to not get along with family, have no friends, boyfriends or girlfriends are hard to get and life in itself seems so miserable, but it is for their greater good, unbeknownst to them and others around them who sees them as strange, they do not fit in.”

I really want to learn more about frequencies

Ty
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Me and you Safo, that is my goal to increase my vibration so that negative forces have less of an impact…

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Amen Ty

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P.s don’t worry about typing errors. I don’t notice them …until u point it out. Lol. The brain is a funny little thing. While reading, we do not process things letter to letter or even word to word. Brain focuses more on first to last letters and the follow of the sentences
..that department you do not lack in. 🙂

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Flow***

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Obara this one speaks to me A LOT!!! I have very few friends. I’m not talking about few like 10, literally 2 or 3.

I find that I cannot keep too many friends. The two close girlfriends I have, it is all by their efforts. If they didn’t understand me and my moods, we would never remain friends. I know that’s not right but it’s like “oh well.” It got so bad that my friend of 13 years was begging me to reason with her about an argument we had and I was okay to just throw away the friendship in that moment. And as long as I’ve known them these girls , at times I still don’t feel that connected to them. I could never explain this.

I find I don’t tolerate a lot of things. Where others forgive or move forward, I don’t. I release EVERYTHING. I’ll forgive but it done deh so.

It’s very easy for me to make friends, a lot of people know me but it’s also very easy for me let go of them too. Most of my friendships mash up because of disloyalty and accountability.

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@ Safo, yessss… I wonder to myself if I set the bar too high and expect too much… BUT I believe if I am giving so much of myself, why should I settle for anything less? Therefore, if I get less than what I KNOW I deserve, then it makes no sense…just cut an goh chue… Cold I know, but I find it so hard to accept anything less 🙁

Sorry guys, but I had to run out for a little while

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Safo yuh ah mi twin? Been doing a lot of introspection lately and I find that only the 3 males in my life REALLY understand me….. One of the things I find very hard to forgive is disloyalty, cause I consider myself a VERY loyal person…

Obara I actually typed the comment today and erased it… I was going to ask why is it that I am so loyal to people and they in turn let me down – case in point, I tend to keep other people’s secrets and will never utter a word, yet as soon as I say something, it gone pon light post.

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Reflection for you Maniac. If we are twins like you say we are, you’ll see some truth in this :p. Perhaps you hold people to really high standards, give them goals near impossible to reach? When they let you down that’s where things begin to crumble. Do you think that could be it? In SOME of my experiences , I can admit that happened.

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Lol @ Twin Maniac. The disloyal and lack of account accountability are deal breakers for me. What I wrote may come off as cold to some perhaps Shawny is including me in her character flaw assessment but until anyone knows our experiences, the are free to psychoanalyze.

Ty
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This post sums up my whole goal…to increase my vibrationary frequency…

Ty
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Teacher I would like to get a dragon for you…it is a software that you speak into and it types for you…

MTH
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Blessings Obara for taking the time to blog so that your readers may learn. I have learnt from this post.

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Well said

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