There was a time when I had a conversation with my daughter where I told her that it was exhausting to sit and write every day on my blog. I said so because I hate to type, I am not good at it, I make many errors and have to read over and over again to see my mistakes, and even after I publish the post, I still read and find errors which embarrasses me because I am thinking that you all have already read it and seen my mistakes and have had to try and figure out what the hell I was trying to say!
Anyway… I have to come up with new and interesting things to write about and as you can see most of my post are about my life experiences. I am not a planner, I never have been, so I write the post everyday, not the night before as I should, to make it easier on myself. I am an Aries, and Aries astrologically are very spontaneous people and I am true in characteristic traits to that fact. What I have realized is that topics on Spirituality or which have Spiritual messages, (the whole point of this blog is to receive messages or learn from the stories posted here) are in our everyday conversation. We learn from each other, that I know for sure, but we all pass on messages whenever we speak if only we take the time to really listen to each other. Yesterday I was having a conversation with my Babalawo friend who lives in the States, just a regular conversation about life, when the conversation of how our vibratory levels are all different thus making it difficult for some people to have certain friends or to connect came up.
According to him, someone complained about not having any close friends or not being able to keep a friend like normal people, and he explained to her that it was because the friends or would be friends that she may have had in the past or people who she may want to be her friends do not share her same vibratory level. They may be compatible in many things such age, education, culture, their likes and dislikes but on a Spiritual level they cannot connect because their vibrations are not the same.
Therefore this creates disharmony between them and so a palatable friendship cannot be formed. This was my story, read God’sPlan. I complained about this for years and cried about it, I could not have a friend. The only friendship I could have was if we only saw each other once in a while, and it is the same for all my children. Fortunately they have me to explain the reasons why to them, as I had no one. We are all from different places within time and space, different realms. Although we all may belong to the human race, we are all different people in our Spiritual Evolution, Our Spiritual Value and Our Spiritual age. Our Spirits, however developed (we all have been here, to this real numerous of times) are not all equally developed. Many soul bodies have to incarnate to the Earth realm and other realms many different times in order to grow and learn, and the higher you ascend within the spiritual hierarchy of life, the more your vibratory levels rise.
Your vibratory level is consistent with your soul consciousness,your soul consciousness is attributed to your mental Universe and how it is aligned to the Earths magnetic field energy. We encounter daily, forces unseen to the physical eyes, we may not see them but they are there. These forces and there are many, are from different realms and operates also on different frequencies which affects the humans and how we live, think, love, hate and communicate to name a few. Some of these forces helps to lift up our vibrations through using other physical beings or they do it themselves. This is done through attraction. When a group or an individual is ready to be aligned to their Spiritual Universe which opens up for them through their minds they are vetted thoroughly by these forces and are sequestered Spiritually, rending them inaccessible to the normal corruption of humanity.
They may not know what is happening to them, but this is what is being done and so their physical lives seems at odd with everyone else. They do not act the same as everyone, if they are young children they act or seem older than their age, if they are teenagers they may not have a social life like normal children, kept away from promiscuity or any hedonistic way of life among other things. While these things are being done they seem to not get along with family, have no friends, boyfriends or girlfriends are hard to get and life in itself seems so miserable, but it is for their greater good, unbeknownst to them and others around them who sees them as strange, they do not fit in.
This is not about changing your perception of life and your outlook, this is about YOU, and who you are, how you were born and what your destiny is. This is about recognizing that you are set apart from most and accepting it. When you are apart of anything Spiritual, whether Church or Tradition or you are drawn to the World of Occult or of Realms and of Spirits, Dimensions and of the Universe, even if it is the Desire or the need to become apart of, or Study, Peep, Read Spiritual Documents and Books, and this is done with passion which is apart of your core being, then you are separated from what is viewed as the norm. Keep in harmony with yourself, play music your spirit enjoys, become friends with water, surround yourself with it. Flowers messages are strong, potent and divine, invest in them if you cannot walk outside in your garden and pick them. Be kind to animals, they understand you more than humans since their vibration is also very high and aligned. Do you notice that most children love or are fascinated with animals? This is because, children are born, coming into the world off the wings of angels, innocent to the wiles of the world. They are born so pure and with such high vibrations that they can feel that of the animals around and vice versa, it wanes away as they grow and the world begins to have its influence.
When you have time, or rather, find the time to meditate and pray. Indulge not yourselves with the frivolities of the world. When idle read a book or hum a song. Have conversations with people who can enhance or contribute to your spiritual wealth and knowledge. Know that you have been set apart for a reason.
Ọmọ tí ò bá sọ pẹ́nu àgbà ńrùn, yóò jẹun àgbà kalẹ́ /
A youth who won’t despise the words of elders would remain favoured with their wisdom….Yoruba Proverb!
[Humility to learn…]
Obara Meji is a spiritualist, Ifa-Orisa practitioner, and teacher of metaphysics. Since 2011 she has used her online platform to share her personal experiences to those seeking answers about spirituality. Her teachings will expand into short stories, novels, and public speaking to continue her mission of bringing enlightenment to the world.