July 7, 2011 Obara Meji 28Comment

What is that feeling that we feel sometimes when something happens to an enemy?  For instance, your ‘friend’ who took away your boyfriend and disgraced and scandaled you, bragged about it; suddenly finds herself in the same situation when her ‘friend’ takes away the no good son of a bitch from her, and you hear the news for the first time that she is crying and ashamed and in pain as you were.  That feeling that you get to know that she who was so horrible, is feeling even a pinch or better of what you felt.  Jamaican people would say ‘sweet mi yuh si’ and don’t lie we’ve all felt it, even myself.  You don’t have to be an evil person with wicked thoughts or intentions to feel that sweet joy that is felt when someone who has hurt you has stumbled and fell.  The person who skips the line at the airport even while everyone is protesting and jumps in front to ask about his or her flight, only to have the representative listen to all they have said and when they have finished talking tell them ‘I cannot help you sir/miss, go to the back of the line and wait your turn’.  It is that feeling that we would be feeling now if Casey Anthony had received the correct sentencing, according to most.

There is a name for this feeling and I’ve used it quite often in some of my posts; and that name is schadenfreude.  This word literally means satisfaction or pleasure felt at someone else’s misfortune.  It can also be defined as malicious joy in the misfortunes of others.  Damage joy!!,   ‘What a fearful thing is it that language should have a word expressive of the pleasure which men feel at the calamities of others; for the existence of the word bears testimony to the existence of the thing’.  Written by Richard C. Trench on The Study of Words.  Schadenfreude is synonymous with gloating, sadism or glee and I would like to challenge the person who would say honestly that they have never had this feeling before. What say you Mother Theresa?, What say you Mahatma Ghandi?..Jesus a mussi ongle neva you, but stillll…… nah ah ongle you!! 

Years ago I had a couple of horrible nephews who lived beneath me in our family home.  These were sons to my older sister with whom I have no relationship.  These boys, who against my will, but because they needed somewhere to stay, came to live in the building with us; terrorized me with loud music at all hours of night and when I went to speak to them about it, they called me a bitch to my face.  It was a battle between them and I, and my sister, their mother seemed to find fun in it all because I was being tormented by her sons and there was nothing I could do about it according to them.  But ladies and gentlemen, never doubt the power of prayer and so, it kept on for almost a year until God saw it fit to deliver me.  The first thing happened was that all the other roommates moved out, then the pipes in the bathroom started to flood the whole apartment( OSUN is water that she is indeed), and also the whole family turned against them; then the lights were permanently turned off by the light company in the middle of summer with temperatures reaching over 100degrees every day, until they had to move quickly.  I sat outside the night of the exodus, the night that they moved, ashamed to even look at me, experiencing schadenfreude. With sweet joy at their shame and disgrace I Obara Meji can say explicitly that I was glad. I’m so happy that the Germans had a word for it!!.  There goes my story, come and tell me yours.

One Yam Cyaan tie inna bungle!!!…..ole time Jamican people proverb.

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[…] into my own hands, has called me a bitch, and their mother laughed when she heard. Read my post, SCHADENFREUDE!!.  When my mother migrated to America along with us the children, I was very young.  We came to […]

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a him come inna me dream opti…me have de power deh so…cause a mus my spirit send him thru fi come tell me dat…so me can know wha really a gwaan…me a aries…me hot like fire…walk with Sango and Ogun…him mad…him come f@#%$ with me head dem way deh…him did have to feel my wrath…me a wait pon de outcome…because whats done can and will be undone…by the power vested in the Orisa that walk with me…them have to return everything to me…plus me get de remedy…me a click pon de contact Obara Meji sinting up desso…lol

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a whe de people dem deh?….lef me fi talk to meself…me capable

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me come home a nd dream seh me and mi friend deh a party…de youth whe me did a deal wid somebody come tell me say him a dance wid gal me say…me haffi go ova deh caw me waan see…me go ova deh….me no see de youth…when me a come back…one man come up inna me face…hear him…you no know seh a me mek him do everything…if me say come him come…if me stay him stay…and rae…me just get cross…me say you caan tell me dat…u bright…like me man a bwoy me man ano bwoy…me go so pie…and box de bloodcloth duppy…and when me tink bout it…pie and box him bloodcloth again…people de man have de landlord face….de same fucking twin bredda…reality talk….

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de dutty landlord fi da place ya whe me just move in a gwaan wid all type a tings…like him wuk pon de house fi me lose evrything so him can suck my pussy fi rent…me move ya wid me good good man whe find de place…de man spend two night ya…and no come back…cold shoulder…de pussywhole landlord deh pon oh you and him not meant to be togedda him only come to deliver a message…me seh well me no get no message so him no gone no whe…naw pree de landlord…1-2 oclock inna de morning him a text if me have a drink…true me sick to me heart me glad fi de company and a entertain dis old man…and when him a come and drink all me a talk bout a me man…talk till him go back ova fi him yard…next door…anyway…me notice me inna de house…me no waan get up…me no waan clean…me just waan sleep and me naw dream…so anyway…de last night when me man sleep ya him come de next day…seh whe me dream seh…me seh me no memba…him a go mek me know seh him dead twin bredda tell him seh him did come fi talk to me but de way how my spirit did cross de night him couldnt get thru…me say yea…cause me do dream dead people but…me dream one dead man come to me one a mi ex friend…de man a talk to me..so me see me spirit lean up gainst de wall right beside me…so me turn to him and say a wha dis…so him say sharlene no worry bout him…him good…de ongle way him coulda reach ya so a true me gi him pass…dat a from 2008…nobody caan bumbocloth walk up inna my dream unless dem get authority…either is a test..a message or some lesson from my own spirit which give dem allowance…so dis man dead bredda a mek him know seh my spirit too cross fi come thru…read between de line…me move in ya…me lose me friend which was living with me…me man…me job…me say a wha dis…now after dem dutty shot ring out inna de club…when me check out de bloodcloth landlord ketch one inna him foot…schadenfreude…

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me naw look pon dem…me go so hahhaaa…we laugh dem

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opti…a caan bodda wid u..when dem tink dem a fuck me…dem a fuck dem self…touch not the Lord anointed…you hear dat

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me say de odda day me go out and de youth whe me did a deal wid…him have one friend one gal but a tink she no like me…anyway me inna de club and me a me friend standup near her…me friend come tell me say de gal put out her foot and kick her like a accident…me no say nothing…me did deh a de bar a get drink…so me come stand up beside me friend…when me stand up deh me ongle hear de big dutty gal bus out one big laugh and kick out har foot and is me foot she connect with…me say to meself a wha do da gal yah…me love 2 night later when me go inna de club and me spirit send me outta door a she me see in deh…when me go outta door she bus one next big laugh wid one gal whe me chat too and is not mi friend…but dat de gal deh have attitude because de first night whe me a tell u bout she did a wine up gainst de man whe a look me…and me just go ova deh and ask him say if a ignore him a ignore me…and him say you no hear whe de song say and me gi him a little wine…and mek him know seh me is a gal whe will stake ownership…straight…so me see har face bend up from deh so…so ah she outta door wid de big gal…de big gal ask de next one if she naw come in and enter back de club…people after de shot dem done ring out in de…a one man me see a carry out de big one…cause she ketch shot inna har foot…de same foot whe kick me aries gal and me next bloodcloth aries friend ketch a bloodcloth bullet…me say yes my spirit tek de smile offa fi har face and put it pon my own…crutches she a walk wid…me say you bitch you…schadenfreude to pussycloth…yea

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thankz………….hun

Tiffany Anderson
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2years ago i was going thru so much thingz i had nowhere 2 go sooo my grandmother ask her friend if i could stay with her but the only reason why the lady said yes is cuz she wanted me babysite her kids i realize that the only reason ppl eva wanted me around is wen they need something soooo anyways after awile living with this lady i felt like a prisoner there i couldnt go nowhere she has a 12year son and a 11year old daugther soo every morning i had to follow them 2 the bus stop which was 2block away frm the house everyday its was a fight will them to get them out the house mostly her daugther so one day i got sick and i couldnt get outta bed to follow her daugther to the bus stop i had my period everytime it comes i feel like am dying i even when to hospital for it and they dnt no whatz wrong with me. so the call her mother and tell her i was faking sick and i didnt want follow her to the bus stop so her mom call me the ways she sound like she didnt want me there anymore anyway.i remember every weekend she took me 2 my cuzin house which my aunty was living at the time.so anyways my cuzin tell the lady this not a weekend resort she dont want me there and her husband leave a dutty message on my voice mail i will never forget that voice mail that he left and i didnt even do anything to them fi them treat me that way i was a person that anything you wud ask me to i wud never say nooo.i was tell my aunt what had happpend the one that was living with my cuzin at the time about it and she like honestly i am good eveything is good over am do me sum shit she said and i was sooo hard but the thing is the only reason why my cuzin let her say there is cuz he needed someone look ofter her son sooo wen the table turn and my cuzin didnt want her there anymore…….in my head i was like what go around comes around what happen 2 everythin being soo great huh stupid ass….i notest that noone like me no reason r like seen me happy and its a comstand fight that i have go thru so i just say by myself and dnt try to get in anybodys way….

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Maybe Opti, maybe

Maniac
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Maniac

GG whey yuh did deh? Mine mi an yuh ennuh!!!

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Gog3tt3r

yes mi deh yah

Maniac
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Oh mi figget fi tell oonu….alla nung mi hab di promissory note whey mi mek him sign fi di money…..still neba get it back caw dat fucka is a slippery shit an chue di Justice system ah JA tan soh, dats y mi neva get fi serve him di friggin summons

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Couple years ago, mi wid mi fool fool self (tink mi dee tell oonu bout it yessideh) against mi betta judgement, did goh borrow money fi mi pikni puppa wid di undastanding dat him wuda repay di monthly installments (him did pay dung pon cyaar an one piece ah drama wid it caw him neva live up to feem end ah di bargain an did stan fi lose every cent whey him did pay dung pon it, soh mi goh barra di ppl dem money). Anyway, afta him mek di fuss payment, him stap an poor mi, neba noe cawsen sey him tell mi him was doing it..poor naive me……Nearly lose mi wuk caw di policy of the organization was dat wi neba fi barro from any other financial institution widdout tell dem, or some foolishness like dat..Poor mi nung did affi goh barra fram Peter fi pay Paul caw chue ah fimi name it did eena….

Years later, di likkle fool chue him did waan hype pon mi, goh try open business place and use di sed cyaar as collateral…..oonu noe sey afta a while di baliff come tek dat rawse doe (den di fucka did have di nerve fi come ask mi fi goh tek loan feem ahgen…as if) It happened rite in front ah mi face, him did haffi remove di baby cyaar seat an han ova di key…..Him en up lose EBBRYTING!! Inna di back ah mi mine hear mi ‘Yuh fucka yuh’ I laaf inna mi mine soh till……Yep, Karma is a bitch

Maniac
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Ah nuh you one Obara….mek mi gi oonu one ah mi many

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