As you know my intention with this blog is to share my experiences and this may at times open for discussions things that may be Taboo. A reader suggested to me yesterday that I should explain about Spiritual Sex, and he told me what he wanted to know and immediately an experience came to mind. I will not however write about that today as it will take some time for me to pull that story out of my memory before I can compose it for you, but I will tell you today about an experience that happened a long time ago that makes me still blush…at the time it was frightening but embarrassingly I must confess that I enjoyed it, enjoyed it in the dream experience that is.
OMG !! my children may read this some day and be shocked, because her mommy do not discuss these things and she would like to keep it in her mind that I am untouched, her birth was of an immaculate conception nature, and that is how we keep it. But for the purpose of this commitment that I have made to expose you the reader to all and everything spiritual with the exception of certain depths, such as casting spells, or summoning Spirits, repeating certain Incantations, and so forth. I want you to know that all kind of things happens unknowingly to us, and often times they happen while we sleep, and even though the experiences may come as a vision or a dream they are real. I will be writing a Story on the Salacious topic suggested by this reader, very soon and I must say I am looking forward to it. ;-). I am sure that everyone has had dreams of a sexual nature, and when you wake you are either, shocked at the experience, revolted, curious, afraid or looking forward to it again (in Jamaica we call those people Skitell…..lol).
Miss Will our antagonist back home in Jamaica, had a problem where she urinated on her self spontaneously, and the whole neighborhood knew this, (anything disgraceful is never kept secret in Jamaica), and when she and tall Jennifer who was married to Mr. Smalls had an argument one day, Jennifer shouted for all to hear that Miss Will needs to wear Pampers because she is sick from when “The Duppy” dem did bleep har”!!, meaning that Miss Will was attacked by the spirits of Incubus Succubus..Miss Will went into her house and never came out for the rest of the day, so the whole community said it was true because silence is consent. That was the only time I remembered feeling sad for Miss Will, because her eyes were red for days, and even my mother admonished tall Jennifer for saying that to Miss Will.
When I lived with the father of my children, I remember sleeping one night and feeling a hand slap me on the rear through my comforter. it was the middle of the night and my baby father was sound asleep but the slap felt like when a man slaps his wife on the ass and bites his lower lips and seductively says “fat”! It was a seductive suggestion! I never forgot that. I have had countless of sex dreams, where the orgasm, when achieved is nothing that has ever been felt in the physical world, and I could tell you many. For example one morning around five thirty I woke up, and by this I mean my physical body was asleep but my spirit half sat up out of my body to see someone with a muscular body and long black hair, something akin to a Native American person, their head buried between my legs, and as I looked on wondering what the hell was happening I heard a voice to the left of me, (I had slept in the living room on the floor that night) I looked over and saw a mist of some sort that had a human form and it giggled and asked” are you enjoying yourself”, that was when I Obara Meji jumped up out of my sleep and reconnected with my spirit which moved the being from betwixt my legs.
Words have power, whether spoken or written and we should all be careful what we say because we are all Spiritual Beings….let me give you an example of this…enjoy!
There was a time after my awakening that I was celibate for two years, I did not have a boyfriend nor did I desire one, my focus was on God, my Spirituality and my children. One day a friend of mine called me and we were having a good time catching up since I had not heard from her for sometime, she asked me who I was dating and I told her no one, then I went on to laughingly declare that I had not had sex in two years. Not realizing that the others were there listening to me and that I was setting myself up for “BATTERY” according to Jamaicans, or having a TRAIN run on me according to Americans, Gang bang. The conversation ended an a light note and I carried on about my business until night came and I went to bed. When I had settled into sleep and hugged my pillow that I have had since I was twelve and still do, because it took the place of my lovely thumb that I used to suck with a passion unknown to man, I saw a man come over me and started to have sex with me, it came to me like a dream and it felt good,after he was finished, another took his place, and then another, and another, it was an Orgy of men who knew what they were doing and what was the most shocking was that I was enjoying them all of them. Oh the shame I felt when I awoke and not to mention how tired I was, the last one that came in and it was almost five thirty in the morning, I know this because I woke up after he had left he said he was a King and he had on his royal garments and even his Crown which he took off , he bathe me in cool scented water and dried me gently off and then proceeded to do his bit…I will not tell you the sensation I felt, I will leave you to imagine that, but if it was possible to fall in love with a Spirit and have nobody, put you in the mad house, I would have publicly declared him as my man.
The next day I was useless to myself or my children because of how tired I was. I was bothered by the fact that I had such a vision and upon waking my body felt like a wreck, so I called a Great friend, he has since gone on to join his ancestors in the land of Spirits, here is where I must say peace and honor to you my friend, Mr. Pierre. He laughed when I embarrassingly told him the story and immediately asked me when was the last time I said aloud that I was celibate, I answered and told him the day before and he said that was it. He continued to explain that they heard me and organized for me to be satisfied, ( BEING SPIRITS), they did not come to harm me he said, only to please me, however watch what you say from now on he advised me, and I did. I could go on and on but we have a long walk that we will take together, you the reader and I, so we will revisit this Topic again another…but as usual I urge you to send in you Sex Dreams stories so we can expose and explore them and give understanding to those men or women who have had these disturbing encounters…. I was brave enough to tell you my story share yours…Osuns Blessing to all..!!! “
Charms do not perform miracles on the shelf; they perform for those who are brave“…Yoruba proverb
All religions are valid as long as it teaches peace and love…Obara Meji
Good day,, am experiencing wet dreams right before every disapointments I usually get, no doubt I already know it’s a spiritual set back, the help I really need is how to get rid of it because it affects my life very negatively as it keeps me pondering whenever am having big plans for myself, am always afraid of my plans gettinmilg shattered by what I don’t even know
Peace and Blessings to everyone reading this blog. I recently had a dream that I was having intercourse with this handsome dark skinned young man who in the dream seemed like he cared for me. When the act was over it was like he become disinterested almost borderline disrespectful to me and I woke up extremely bothered? What does this mean? Ive heard that sex is considered a type on contract in to hurt you in the spiritual realm. Is this true?
If you are new in the blog,I will encourage you to keep reading.There is a post on Egbe our astral mates.And others that may be dealing with spiritual connections.
If in the real world you have a stable relationship with your spouse,then the effect might be lesser.Not having sex in the real world or enjoying sex in the astral world better than reality can affect ones physical relationships.
We can not all together rule out the psychological aspect of thoughts nurtured during the waking hours.Your being upset waking up proves an attachment or a fantasy.
Came across this blog while trolling the internet trying to find answer to strange occurrences happening to me recently involving seeing a “mist”. Thought I was the only one! Here’s the gist. Background. Married with kids. Taking public transportation. Met fellow passenger who takes bus daily too. Felt immediate connection like we’ve met before. Months go by. He mentions one day that he can’t put his finger on it but there’s something about me that he’s attracted to. Panicked because I didn’t want to give wrong impression I try to shut whatever it is down. I change my transportation schedule… Read more »
What is happening is that both your spirits know each other. This is why you two had to meet regardless of how you met. Now, your spirits are visiting each other. Those are not dreams, they are realities. Don’t be afraid, simply tell yourself before sleeping “I will not lay with this person…” and say whatever you want or don’t want. Talk to your spirit. If you happen to meet, you will speak and interact but not in a sexual manner (you can say this). Speak to your spirit. These things happen all the time.
[…] you may remember I wrote a post titled “Sex Dreams“, where I recounted being sexually (touched) by spirits who, because I had spoken earlier […]
came upon this blog, because I was seeking to understand a dream I had recently. I am now 25 years old and have only had a sexual relationship with one man. Well in this dream, I was at a party. There was a young man, about 19, who I was attracted to. We spent most of the night eyeing each other from a distance. I felt a strong connection and passion with him, and I knew he felt the same. We found ourselves alone and wanted to kiss but right then, someone interrupted. Later when the party ended, I found… Read more »
@Krissy Hi Krissy, welcome. He may be a spirit husband or a visiting succubus, either way the dream is not good
Why is a spirit husband bad?
Hi Kesia, A spirit husband isn’t “bad”, but it can be thought of as an encumbrance to living a “normal” life on Earth. The reason is that the woman’s spirit belongs to another in another spiritual realm but that “other” does not have a human body. Therefore, it can disturb the woman’s life in way of keeping away suitors, destroying relationships, unhappy love life, never having a relationship at all, making the person become promiscuous, or totally lose interest in the opposite sex. The spirit husband is the opposite of “bad”, the love is simply so overwhelming that it will… Read more »
hi John, id depends on the dream, it was sent meaning if it was sent through witch craft, or just some non physical seeking to be mischievious
Hello Obara, thank you very much for taking out your time to answer me, it really meant a lot to me, I will like to know how can I differentiate the once that are sent and the once that are not?. why I am asking is, I notice most of the time I had wet dreams I usually have disappointment in any thing I am excepting at the time and it usually happens when I want to do something big or important be it business or travel. I want to know if there is any connections there and how I… Read more »
Hi, I was hoping to get a response from you
John go to the menu and click on the email Obara Meji link and send her an email
Hi my name is John, I want to know is it possible to get bad luck through dream sex
You are welcome John the explanations are many and deep, however if you have noticed these happenings after having wet dreams then it seems that this is a malevolent being who is plaguing you, to know why or if they are sent is another story, also there maybe something in your life through generations which is causing this disturbance, I do not like to guess because it may be this or that the possibilities of why are endless
Thank you so much, But how will I know and how can I stop it. You see when I first experience wet dream I was young and didn’t have a girlfriend or anything I really enjoyed it and I was like looking forward to it I use to do a lot of things with them almost all my fantasies were carried out, though I am not gay but some times anal sex will be involved is either I am give or receiving some times I will be a spectator some times it will be animals having sex in my dreams… Read more »
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Metttttt. How u do mawma?
mettttttt!!!!! bungle and pile is not de word ooooo!!!, dem mussi did tink sey a romping shop!!! tiad!!! all when mi memba a piece a tiad come pon all a sudden!!
Mi jus done read ooo. Obara dem mussy glad se a 2 year u seh n come ina bungle n pile
yuh too brave mama, me was a big time coward!! how the roles have reversed, but yuh sey mi nuffi sey dat and ah mi one alone get de BATTERY!, at least ah did just one duppy saaka saaka yuh, dem line up fi me!! so weigh it an see if yuh nuh lucky.. tan deh deh yuh ear, tan deh deh inna mi delcita voice!!!
Doe sey dat Obara man…Dats y mi neva share it before enuh man caw mi feel shame sey mi get soh much rooks fram spirit 🙁
U noe whey mi feel sey? mi feel like chue mi did luv goh finnaral an tan up ova kaskit an look pon dem so much wen mi did younga (all stranja to fawt)
dem falla mi…. Mi nuh noe. Mi use to brave nuh rawtid, all wen 3am me one ah walk
FLINGINGS!!! INNA MI CHARLIE SHEEN VOICE!!DWL!
maiac ….mi nah lie mi likeeee dah one (de duppy bwoy mi mean) blush blush….lawd god mi nuh like oonu enu man!!! hoonu a tun a deestant madda ooman lika mi hinna one dranco!!! cho!!!
ka Ka fawt maniac it look like yuh one cudda write book bout duppy sawt out man!!! mi God, in ah de miggle ah hall a hoonu de duppy bwoy come rookumbine yuh off, so till yuh all ah mek noise, no sah dat ah wha mi call bad man duppy
GIFTTTTTTTTTT, Di ongle way mi gwine figgive har is ef ah werk shi gone enuh. Awoe
Gudda gawn sport, caw tiddeh holiday an di wedder kina good
Mi memba one time mi goh mi parents fi spen likkle time, think it was around Christmas. Anyway, di whole ah wi bungle up pon di bed upstairs (me, mi sista, mi baby an mi madda) daddy did sleep dungstairs caw none ah wi nah goh dung dey go sleep – nuhbaddy nuh sleep inna da room deh since mi did leff mi madda yawd bout 12yrs agoh, so wi fraid caw u know how the saying goes…. Anyway, inna di nite deh mi dream sey a man gimmie ah prappa sawtout deh u c ma!!! mi all cum an… Read more »
maniac, and she hv a rass hell offa story deh, mi ah wait wid mi tea and crackas
Whey Gift deh??? bring di tory come nuh man
dwl! dwl! dwl!…maniac mi sey!!! !!!!
Look like dah man deh waan duggu-duggu yuh Obara. Whey u sey? Him rob di danki ar is a tree trunk? U betta tek up u foot inna yuh han an RUN!!!! Aldoa mi juss ah picha him ah sing ‘Whey yuh run fa? U nuh shudda stan up’.
no! it is not suppose to happen!!, not so at all. After we are not “The Ghost and Mrs. Muirhead” the sitcom from long ago, it can harm you if it was hand set, (witchcraft) otherwise some times earth bound spirits will come and try fling yuh, and there are homosexual ones too, many men and women has had this happen to them but the shame it bestows especially if the person getting the flinging is straight, it’s too embarrasing to share (but change up yuh name and tell plzzzz) in my case it was the friends I left in… Read more »
Maniac mi ah ansa yuh nw mums
Lol,
No sah dem neva chubble mi atall. Tell mi dis doe Obara…when dem odda one have sex wid human beings what are the consequences? I’ve always heard my elders say that the living and the dead nuffi mix.
Do your insides rot as is often rumored?
Morning!! any duppy action last night? back shots? lizard lap? missionary? shelllll! lolol
Morning all,
giftofgoodlife….shelllllllllllll!!!!!!
@giftofgoodlife…yuh have fi yuh owna battery story??
Wait obara! I’m in the place let me read this topic n jump on it…. Soon come
Mi ah guh put up ya now peeps so mi wii c uunu inna di lights. Wawk gud
you need more balance
Obara, i get sum real crazy dreams. but me can never memba nutten by time me wakeup, is just bits an pieces wha no mek sense fi talk bout.. wha does dat mean??
yes man skep skep
Yes mi golonging…..Come Skeptic, dash di story
yuh galang maniac!!!
skeptic dash out you sex story mi sure yuh get de flingins to
yes i will post bongo story this week, remind me…lolol!!
Hear dat Obara,
Bongo time
me waan know bout de bongo….tall and short…yes maam…tell it….tell it….me can tell unno one secret
dwl..Obara da story deh funny and scary at the same time me nah lie..but me waan hear bout Bongo too…lol
DE spirit no romp fi sex like dem know just how u like it…but at de same time u feel violated….whe me ah say is me bf spirit come talk to me but him me bf in a de waking world a gi me attitude…and de odda day him did dream me say de spirit do something….obara is it too deep to tell us what we can do to remember our dreams….cause when me inna mine when me wake up me know say him did a tell me things but cant memba wha….psssst…. Me jus done put up de altar…..thanks…
Oh ok. Thanks Obara
I will do a post on who and what is Bongo and how they the function, I will not go too deep because it will confuse you and you are not practitioners therefore certain knowledge will not be useful for you….to Bind means to secure ot tie up or fasten… when you bind an energy it simply means that you have used certain incantations or rituals to stop that entity from creating havoc or causing harm
U nuh easy enuh Obara. Memba fi tell mi bout di Bongo dem deh Obara (bine dem). Explain di ‘bine’ ting fi mi to pls an tonks
@sharlenerose…see who lika wooman???
@maniac nuh top a rassss!!…@sharlenerose which question mi ansa whey yuh neva ask mi..lol
eh he (inna mi teaching voice) Sharlenerose Spirits always communicate telepathically, they will not open their mouth to speak with you, and if he came and told you that he is afraid of you, then it is his spirit that is telling you something but they did not tell you all
TEll fi u spirit stop answer me before me ask de question de before day dream a mi boyfriend come talk to me….de dream bout de seventeen yr old about fourthirty dat was awile back…sometime me see it inne him eye like him like big woman….
Hear di one Obara she. No ma mi neva hear bout dem ghetto tawk deh yet mam. Ah di fuss mi hearing bout it…Perden mi Maam.
Nineteen to rawtid!!! u tan deh. Di bongo wispa inna mi ears sey mi fi stap sleep wid him an inna mi mine ‘mi nah stap’
one a dem hall ha set me good like de ice inna freeza, han ha put pilla unda mi bottom!! lawd mi nuh like memba!! yuh waan see mi like Delilah Sampson ooman!!
A coulda wha mek spirit woulda waan tek dis young bwoy out mi head fi come sex me off….hellooooo…..and what is de reason why de spirit come talk when him naw open him mouth….cho…kmt….him betta know seh me dream him come tell me say spirit frighten him
dem deh rooksing deh sweet lika suga!! fadda God, but mi a put it out dere….
HUONNU NUH BADDA WID MI TO RAT BACK AND SUPAMARKET CLAAAT!!! OR FIRE AND BRIMSTONE HUNDA OONU RAWTID!!!
a wha age group bwoy, cae dem time deh sugges to sey sh him spirit, him probably like you undah de quiet or more dan likely him spirit a walk spot yuh and decide fi fling yuh!…..lolollllll
still ah kiss mi teeth and ah cut mi eye
DE dream was maybe like five thirty and seven in the morning….before day caw me no go sleep till like three so a way dung to time before me wake…dere was no sex him cum a reason wid me…..de ting is me no talk to him fi a lil while so dats why me a ask
lawd sharlenerose you and de one maniac cho man…ninteen the mango rotten mi still ago nyam it…..nineteen him hv him ooman she cudda deal mi nah lef him…a jamaica ghetto tawk..lawks man oonu top it!!! kmt fi long long!!
@sharlenerose first question yes it is his spirit, often times, but you must tell me the time this occured because some waywards can look into your mind and see what is bothering you and trick you into thinking they are that person, as is the case with the boy whey rooks yuh off
mek me ask u dis last night me dream me bf come talk to me…..is it always the person….is it their spirit or astral mate…guardian angel or what and how do you know the difference….help me out please..
obara whe u mean when u say ninteen dem a spirit….and whe mr splendid deh wonder if hoim a travel go rooks off sophia in a har sleep
me go a my bed one night…..after me jus dun bathe….a wait pon mi boyfriend fi come….mi drop asleep….neway inna de middle a night me see meself inna one dream wid a little bwoy from next door inna me complex….one piece a sex…me bus a nut and all de way it nice me fly up outta de dream so me a try open me eye…caw me wake now only to feel two hand pon me side a rub me dung same way….a try pull me back in a dream state….to meself hear me wait deh after me naw dream no… Read more »
lololllll….yuh know yuh damn funny!!
U stay deh laaf afta mi 🙁
lolololll….Maniac yuh mad!! noooooooooo anuh nineteen duppy fling mi, mi sey nineteen dem ah spirit…..yuh mad, mi wudda dun and cyann come back…. oh the thought!!!!no sah yuh too bad……grant yuh yuh wish….dedinggggggg…lolololl
Lol. Nuh badda wid di intellectual voice yah ma….Mi nuh noe bout oddas but mi love fi kip it real. Mi like wen teecha teech an run joke wid di students, oddawise it boring nuh hell. We ALL know sey yuh ah ‘brite gyal’.
All di same doe, 19 ah dem???? U nayn fraid wen u wake up? Nungadays wen mi ah tawk to mi fren dem pon di fone mi fraid fi tell dem sey mi well waan a lik dung wid di rod cawsen sey mi fraid dem odda one hear an come grant mi wish 🙁
Battery Dolly fi true…lolololol….but maniac mi nah lie nineteen a spirit dem be, dem neva kiss dem teeth when dem done wid mi doah, lolololll!!! lickle Joke betta dan quarell ,nuh true….sweet is not de word,…….but we will be exploring this subject another time as the site grows and more people tune in, because there are lots more stories like this out there and we all would like to hear them..(In a mi Intellectual Voice) ah hem (clear mi throat)
Kaka rawtid Nubizness yuh nuh c sey Obara ah ‘Battery Dolly’ Woieee mi clitoris!!
If I laaf, I piss up misself eenyah tiddeh
DWLLLLL!!!
DWL
ma… ah de sweetest feeling, and then yuh feel shame feeling so good when yuh know sey a duppy just done rooks yuh off….lolololll, but inna my case…BATTREY!!! MY GOD (inna mi twins of twins voice)
Bwoy mi naw lie when pirit sex yuh it sweet, ah nuff time dem use to come sleep wid me so till wen mi wake up mi feel like seh me n smaddy did dweet fi real.. mi punny use to sore, but along time dem tings deh no happen still..betta fi mi. (just ah share).
Oh my Goodness Obara,
Memba mi tell oonu sey mi nah goh tell di full tory??? Di pawt whey mi DELIBERATELY leff out ah sey di man pikni mumma did call mi, an fram dat!!!!
Mi suspek enuh, but mi nuh sey nutten….an mi mine tell mi sey him noe to
Maniac… Puppa god a duttie spirit to royal george, ah short Bongo!!! ah so him tan ah smaddy whey de man deh wid set him pon de man fi fritten whey any ooman whey him sleep wid, sorry yuh neva know mi dem times deh… next week remind mi fi post one story bout him same one short Bongo and de bad man whey him did go fi kill, and tru mi tell de man sey Bongo afta him and de big gun man start bawl pon de phone lika baby, and mi tell him nuh fret mi ago help… Read more »
U cee if dem odda one eva visit mi tinite Obara memba mi tole yuh, mi gwine call u inna di howaz awoe… Mi did ah tawk to dis man (mi nah lie mi did really check fi him) me an him cuda reason like 2 good fren, wi chat bout nothing an ebryting. Him tell mi tings whey not even him bredda whey di two ah dem close like wow know…ppl mi nah goh tell di full tory but mi nah lie, di man did have mi ah way….when him lick mi dung wid di rodddd!!!! aye sah (mi… Read more »
Rooks yuh off…dwl! dwl! dwl!maniac yuh too bad….. dem odda one…lolol!!! yuh too funny..lol!! please do mi a beg yuh dash de story, yuh nuh see wha de yoruba proverb sey bout de tree…lolol
Big up Obara an har ‘man’ dem… Mi nah goh sey nutten caw nite ah come an mi nuh inna nutten wid ‘dem odda one’…..Like di one whey mi dream bout 2 nite straight whey come inna di form ah mi puppa an tell mi (hell all pinch mi) an tell mi sey mi fi stap sleep wid mi ex an sleep wid him instead……Him almoas fool mi sey him ah mi pa, but mi ah mi pa heartbeat an wi have a kannekshan, so mi did noe di diffrans. Obara, nuh badda ask mi fi share caw mi NAH… Read more »