As you know my intention with this blog is to share my experiences and this may at times open for discussions things that may be Taboo. A reader suggested to me yesterday that I should explain about Spiritual Sex, and he told me what he wanted to know and immediately an experience came to mind. I will not however write about that today as it will take some time for me to pull that story out of my memory before I can compose it for you, but I will tell you today about an experience that happened a long time ago that makes me still blush…at the time it was frightening but embarrassingly I must confess that I enjoyed it, enjoyed it in the dream experience that is.
OMG !! my children may read this some day and be shocked, because her mommy do not discuss these things and she would like to keep it in her mind that I am untouched, her birth was of an immaculate conception nature, and that is how we keep it. But for the purpose of this commitment that I have made to expose you the reader to all and everything spiritual with the exception of certain depths, such as casting spells, or summoning Spirits, repeating certain Incantations, and so forth. I want you to know that all kind of things happens unknowingly to us, and often times they happen while we sleep, and even though the experiences may come as a vision or a dream they are real. I will be writing a Story on the Salacious topic suggested by this reader, very soon and I must say I am looking forward to it. ;-). I am sure that everyone has had dreams of a sexual nature, and when you wake you are either, shocked at the experience, revolted, curious, afraid or looking forward to it again (in Jamaica we call those people Skitell…..lol).
Miss Will our antagonist back home in Jamaica, had a problem where she urinated on her self spontaneously, and the whole neighborhood knew this, (anything disgraceful is never kept secret in Jamaica), and when she and tall Jennifer who was married to Mr. Smalls had an argument one day, Jennifer shouted for all to hear that Miss Will needs to wear Pampers because she is sick from when “The Duppy” dem did bleep har”!!, meaning that Miss Will was attacked by the spirits of Incubus Succubus..Miss Will went into her house and never came out for the rest of the day, so the whole community said it was true because silence is consent. That was the only time I remembered feeling sad for Miss Will, because her eyes were red for days, and even my mother admonished tall Jennifer for saying that to Miss Will.
When I lived with the father of my children, I remember sleeping one night and feeling a hand slap me on the rear through my comforter. it was the middle of the night and my baby father was sound asleep but the slap felt like when a man slaps his wife on the ass and bites his lower lips and seductively says “fat”! It was a seductive suggestion! I never forgot that. I have had countless of sex dreams, where the orgasm, when achieved is nothing that has ever been felt in the physical world, and I could tell you many. For example one morning around five thirty I woke up, and by this I mean my physical body was asleep but my spirit half sat up out of my body to see someone with a muscular body and long black hair, something akin to a Native American person, their head buried between my legs, and as I looked on wondering what the hell was happening I heard a voice to the left of me, (I had slept in the living room on the floor that night) I looked over and saw a mist of some sort that had a human form and it giggled and asked” are you enjoying yourself”, that was when I Obara Meji jumped up out of my sleep and reconnected with my spirit which moved the being from betwixt my legs.
Words have power, whether spoken or written and we should all be careful what we say because we are all Spiritual Beings….let me give you an example of this…enjoy!
There was a time after my awakening that I was celibate for two years, I did not have a boyfriend nor did I desire one, my focus was on God, my Spirituality and my children. One day a friend of mine called me and we were having a good time catching up since I had not heard from her for sometime, she asked me who I was dating and I told her no one, then I went on to laughingly declare that I had not had sex in two years. Not realizing that the others were there listening to me and that I was setting myself up for “BATTERY” according to Jamaicans, or having a TRAIN run on me according to Americans, Gang bang. The conversation ended an a light note and I carried on about my business until night came and I went to bed. When I had settled into sleep and hugged my pillow that I have had since I was twelve and still do, because it took the place of my lovely thumb that I used to suck with a passion unknown to man, I saw a man come over me and started to have sex with me, it came to me like a dream and it felt good,after he was finished, another took his place, and then another, and another, it was an Orgy of men who knew what they were doing and what was the most shocking was that I was enjoying them all of them. Oh the shame I felt when I awoke and not to mention how tired I was, the last one that came in and it was almost five thirty in the morning, I know this because I woke up after he had left he said he was a King and he had on his royal garments and even his Crown which he took off , he bathe me in cool scented water and dried me gently off and then proceeded to do his bit…I will not tell you the sensation I felt, I will leave you to imagine that, but if it was possible to fall in love with a Spirit and have nobody, put you in the mad house, I would have publicly declared him as my man.
The next day I was useless to myself or my children because of how tired I was. I was bothered by the fact that I had such a vision and upon waking my body felt like a wreck, so I called a Great friend, he has since gone on to join his ancestors in the land of Spirits, here is where I must say peace and honor to you my friend, Mr. Pierre. He laughed when I embarrassingly told him the story and immediately asked me when was the last time I said aloud that I was celibate, I answered and told him the day before and he said that was it. He continued to explain that they heard me and organized for me to be satisfied, ( BEING SPIRITS), they did not come to harm me he said, only to please me, however watch what you say from now on he advised me, and I did. I could go on and on but we have a long walk that we will take together, you the reader and I, so we will revisit this Topic again another…but as usual I urge you to send in you Sex Dreams stories so we can expose and explore them and give understanding to those men or women who have had these disturbing encounters…. I was brave enough to tell you my story share yours…Osuns Blessing to all..!!! “
Charms do not perform miracles on the shelf; they perform for those who are brave“…Yoruba proverb
All religions are valid as long as it teaches peace and love…Obara Meji
Obara Meji is a spiritualist, Ifa-Orisa practitioner, and teacher of metaphysics. Since 2011 she has used her online platform to share her personal experiences to those seeking answers about spirituality. Her teachings will expand into short stories, novels, and public speaking to continue her mission of bringing enlightenment to the world.