July 30, 2014 Obara Meji 66Comment

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I thought about writing a new post today, and as I sat at my computer, I saw a comment from another blogger who asked about the wicked baby father’s equally wicked woman, and the role she played in my life as tormentor, one of many for me. I must say she was a bad one, a  very evil by admission woman who was a major hell in my life, in our lives as a family, what she did not do to us has not been invented. She had the look of a Jezebel, they say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but if she had even any quality which I could even grudgingly say was beautiful, I would say it, there was none, even her speaking voice was gruff and manly. I wondered how the hell he even achieved an erection to impregnate this Pig, but alas, the Pig is a dirty animal but its meat is sweet, so says many. She was a wicked force of a beast, but I thank her nevertheless, but for her, I may not have found myself, who I really am, my destiny, I would not have become Obara Meji.

When I met the children’s father, I resisted getting involved with him, I was a teenager with a child and on my own, I had no one.Of course I had my family, but of their support I did not have. I will not go into the details of our meeting and how he got me (it was hard work on his part, and determination) as I am sure I have written it here on Embracing Spirituality already. When we settled down in our lives as a family I believed it would be forever. I wanted it to be forever, I had grown up with both my Parents and I wanted that strength of family also, for a moment I thought I would have it and then that thought flew through the window when the discovery came that he had gotten this woman pregnant.

She once told me that she had two children prior to getting pregnant for my children’s father, she said every time she got pregnant for a man, the man would leave her, so when she discovered this pregnancy (she had explained to me before that she knew he meant her as a one night stand) she knew that he would not stand with her from experience, and she had a conversation with an old woman who told her to be wise, she told me that she made up her mind to tie him, put him in bondage, (not the one with the mask and chains and whips, but of the bad Juju kind). My children’s father into spiritual bondage? while with me?, abomination!!, lol, foolish man , for a roll in the hay, his life and ours changed, he had slept with the devil!, She said she tied him and so she did, she said to me over the telephone,“Let me tell you something, I have tied him onto me, and he can never leave me, so you might as well give up the fight”. I can laugh now as I look back, but she was relentless, she was relentless, yes I typed it twice!

That woman gave me the most experience in Obeah, possibly the first experience I had gotten on my own. You will read about the infamous Miss Will below and throughout embracing spirituality (lol). There was a time she sent spirits to remove him the wicked man from out the house, so he stopped sleeping on the bed, then another time when he wondered why he could not sleep on the bed. If he “wanted’ me, which he always did, he would have me, and then go sleep on the living room floor, it was ridiculous, and I laugh as I type, but back then it was extremely painful.

One night he decided to come on the bed and sleep, I was pregnant with the quiet son, and the baby was in his crib, (I bred like gremlins when water touched them), my first  daughter was in her room, around 2am, he got up to go to the bathroom, on his way back from the bathroom, he stopped at the bedroom door, I could see him clearly, the street lights was shinning through brightly in our house. I watched him place both hands on top his head (like when Jamaicans bawling out fi murder), and said my name in a very gruff voice which did not sound like his voice.

I sat up scared, and asked him worriedly if he was ok, and he replied, that there was something in the house, I saw him stagger and grunted as if trying to speak, I shouted his name, he could not answer, I screamed for my friend who was in the other room with my daughter and he, in his real voice shouted at me to stop my shouting, I then jumped off the bed and grabbed my  baby from the crib still shouting as I ran pass him and opened the front door and ran down the street, in my night gown, bare footed,  about 7 months pregnant carrying and infant, in the fall, this was October and it was cold, screaming help at 2am in the morning, a scene out of a scary movie. I am laughing as I type this, looking back at the whole thing now, this she devil was the ultimate villain. She went in, and for what, for who?, she still did not end up with him, all her children has met a horrible time in life, homeless and on drugs and the one she had for him became a “battery bait” all around girl for lack of a better word. After he and I separated he got another woman pregnant, and she still could not get be rid of him, what she gave to me became her sore, the new girl lived in his newly built mansion, the one she fought for me not to step foot in, and neither did she, but she went after the new baby mother with a vengeance, the girl died, yes it was from the obeah this wicked one who even tried me like that but failed.

I was left to take care of three children which were for him plus the first one from the big bad wolf on my own, and his wicked baby mother killed his new baby mother who had two children for him and one before she knew him, so he was left with those to care for on his own, (oonuh folow mi?). The wicked obeah working baby mother, had since married and is living happily ever after, but with no relationship with any of her biological children due to her abandoning them fi run whey wid de rich man whey she got yah nung, she hate dem and dem hate she back, lololol…..

I will save some of the story for another time, but below you will find a story I wrote sometime ago about tormentors and their roles into our lives, we must seek to grasp a good understanding of the role everyone plays into our lives, and some people fi gwey

Tormentors

 

We have all encountered here on earth those who have come in the form of tormentors like the Land lord, the boss the co-worker the neighbor the bill collector our family members, our husbands or wives or even our children, to name a few.  What most of us do not realize is that these that we see as our enemies or tormentors are playing out their role that they came here  on earth to do.  Our mistake is to allow their actions toward us to hold us back in life. Because while we are lamenting about their character, they are elevating in the spiritual realm, Huh? you ask well let me tell you.  You read correctly, every human being has his own destiny and never has two persons come from the womb the same time. Even twins, one comes before the other. Our destinies are all different and as such we all will operate differently from one another. Ironically though what we know as bad behaviour in a person does not mean that the person is not operating in compliance with his reason for being here.  There are many who, when left by themselves wonder why do they act the way they do, and sometimes even vow to change but find it a struggle to. Holding someone who has done you wrong,  with malice in your heart will only hold you back from your spiritual growth which might not seem important to you now because all you have ever heard about is heaven and hell, but it is important to your evolution in the spiritual realm that of which you will learn of  here, on this blog site.

“The Wind Always Exhaust The Patience Of Trees”.   Yoruba Proverb. 

While I do not believe in the Devil I must say I have met a couple of people who the description fits very well, but the Devil is always the fall guy for wicked peoples deeds..  Growing up as a child in Jamaica I remember a woman who lived in the same tenement that we lived, we called her Miss Will, she will be the star of many of my topics She was quite a character, but I must acknowledge that her personality has assisted me in using her as example of wickedness, that was her reason for being .  I remember her and my mother always cussing and fighting, well, my mother fighting and Miss Will running. This woman was tormented or perhaps crazy because we had one side of the house which was a two bedroom apartment and she shared the other side of the house with some roomers. We had our own kitchen and bathroom while they all shared on the other side. On numerous occasions we would catch Miss Will running from our kitchen with meat that she had stolen from my mothers pot or watch from our window as she picked up dirt and looked around to see if any one was looking and throw it on the white clothes we had on a piece of zinc soaking up the sun. I could spend hours telling you about Miss Will and her mischievous ways but let me move on to others.

I have a sister who is my mother’s child, while growing up I adored and looked up to her because she was older than me and to tell the truth she was not half bad, then. Our relationship changed years after when life took a good turn for me and I had a business and money befriended me for a while. When ever she would come around me she would make comments about my shop closing down or what if I should ever lose my home, she even started telling our mother lies that I spoke badly about her, which ruined my parents and I relationship. Needless to say these were lies. Her onslaught of me continued, and has even affected the way her children treated me because there is no relation between none of us. These two are just a few examples of some of my tormentors. My child’s father was one, not to mention his mother, she was an example of the mother in law from hell, what she did not expect though was my strength and because of that I was able to have victory over them  These type of people that we all encounter while on our journey have their reason, and believe it or not it is often times good that we meet them because they send us into prayer more often, seeking out an answers from God to remove them as obstacles, or to evoke in us emotions that would motivate us on to bigger or better things if for nothing else but to prove them wrong or show them what you can achieve. The land lord as tormentor will motivate you to try harder to get your own, the mother or father who torments will only let you try harder to supersede their expectations of you, the child will make you work harder at disciplining and so on, and de wicked evil gal whey tie yuh man will send you to seek God and find Physician, lol. I urge you all to look ahead and allow no one what so ever with their negativity to hold you back. At the end of life’s journey and you have passed the halls of judgement and are ready to be placed in your new home in the astral realms, let it not be that because of earthly tormentors that you allowed to distract you, you have ended up where you started only to begin the same journey again.

Our elders quote the cock as saying that “it would not be good if one becomes the only person in the world, and that is why they crow every morning to show their number……..yoruba proverb 

All religion are valid as long as it teaches peace and love….Obara Meji

There are no disappointments in life, only lessons learned…Obara Meji

 

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MTH
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Greetings and saluations in the mighty name of the Lord. Giving honour to the Firt lady, Lady Obara Meji.

Mi fambily, how yu stay?

Teach, mi desk clear and a ready fi ready the story….Nunu yu caan wait fi Tu-mar-ru he?

Lady T
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Lady T

Evening family ya’ll have been on my mind hope everything is blessed miss you all. gonna go see what spirit has called me to read tody. Blessings ase

NuNu
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NuNu

Blessings Lady T!

NuNu
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NuNu

Yep I saw this in the news, so sad

Obara meji
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Hey lady T

Ty
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NuNu
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NuNu

Please sen’ dem backa dem yaad wi nuh need dem inna wi community please and tanks

Ty
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Nuns, they are trolls, who think Obara is an ordinary woman…lol…have they not heard of Baba Ogun’s power…yea be to them…my advice to them, quit while u are ahead…

Mek a borrow Yazzy Market laugh…dem brite…

NuNu
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NuNu

Mi seh Ty a suh dem prime!

Obara meji
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Thank you Ty, ah live mi sey!

Obara meji
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Smaddy find sizzle song good ways and put up deh fi mi plz

Obara meji
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Like bulb Ty, like stadium bulb!

Obara meji
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Just ah gwan watch, dem deh bout oonuh know mi nuh fool

Ty
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Obara, dem nuh worry we…

NuNu
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NuNu

Hey Ty!

Ty
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Hey Nunu, Dream, Obara and everyone…

Ignore them Obara, they have lots to learn…when they come with an open and honest mind we will cradle them, if not….fret not you pretty head,..

NuNu
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NuNu

Which testers??? A wha deh galang?!

Obara meji
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Nunu gwan watch

NuNu
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NuNu

Arite Teach

MTH
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Woieee, yu mek mi laugh…Cami yu a bawn star….Mi wudda play Obara Junior Sister…Mi wudda love fi si who woulda play Obara Madda and sister Donette…Who would play Obara quiet, cute son?

NuNu
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NuNu

Mi woulda put C fi da role deh M, lol

NuNu
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NuNu

But Cami a soso lick a day time yuh go get eena di movie deh when Obara mumzy done wid yuh

Cami
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Cami

Dwln

NuNu
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NuNu

The comment I made about ur life as a movie Teach.
@Cami,lololol

NuNu
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NuNu

Mi like this one, it gives a new perspective

Obara meji
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Which paragraph Nunu

NuNu
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NuNu

No Obara, I was correcting tge mistakes I made in my comment

NuNu
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NuNu

Correction up top *tell* and *suh far*

Cami
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Cami

Hey Ladies and Gents. Obara greetings. I know it will take energy to write about queen evil, but i would love to read her story and that of the unfortunate, new baby mother. Just give we it and done (love you-smiling) me know it will take time but it has a life lesson.

Obara meji
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Ok Cami, so I will continue the story tomorrow , Cami and all don’t my life story would make a good film or best seller? Lol

Cami
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Cami

Shhh, you know self publication a dweet now a days. I want fi play Ms. Will, lolol.

Scene: Lift pot cover Action: Grab the meat and pass it from palm to palm, blow on palms…meat is hot! RUN! owner for the pot enters scene! DWLN

NuNu
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NuNu

Mi woulda watch it right ya now. But a woulda haffi trilogy cause all wha yuh experience aready couldn’t yell eena one show! Mi fass, mi wan’ si ebbryting duh far!

Obara meji
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Me tuh nuns

MTH
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Teach, I just felt a surge of anger rushing into me…Maybe I need to staop taking my Madea meds.

I am angered that based on your post, you were on baby #3 and still very young. This man-royal woman, who had 2 children before, saw it fit to wenter a relationship and break up a family…Teach, right yah now mi nuh only mad, cross, miserable, mi rrrrrrrrr!!!!! Wuss di man neva did a guh painter or flogger…

toy7318
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M, I felt the reason why she did that to Obara, I am not saying he is good Obara not at all because he shouldn’t have stepped out, but I feel he wasn’t giving himself fully to her

MTH
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Teach anytime nuh baddy else badda yu, juss sey M and a me dat and mi 2 machine a guh run out…A joke mi a mek…..But goodness man, shi tek yu man an bring har evilness. I know I could not look the other way. Even if is not Juju slinging, something…Yu tink it easy fi watch yu family mash up.

Obara meji
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You right Toy caws ah nuff time him beat har fi mi

toy7318
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I thought the the CDC had the Ebloa virus under control. Well I don’t know seems pretty strange to me in 2014 that they don’t have a vaccine for it.

Obara meji
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That is the vaccine which will cause problems toy

toy7318
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Really! You can’t elaborate on it?

MTH
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Day, there is an article in the Jamaican Newspaper about an ‘American man who is of Liberian descent, who worked for the West African nation’s finance ministry died Friday in NIgeria after taking several flights on ASKY Airlines.’ IN a nutshell this dude travelled to various places and contracted the Ebola various…

Obara meji
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Mi mi ah bad gal, dem fraid ah mi physically she Neva Mek me and har buck

day "dream" alston
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Yes MTH, speak the truth. Let’s not forget the spreading of the Ebola virus. I had this strong feeling of sudden anxiety last night, like something bad was/is going to happen. I checked social media and one of my spiritual friends posted that she was feeling the same way at the same time. Prayer, Prayer, Prayer. Petition the Ori, Egun, Orisha and Oludumare.

Ty
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Thank you Obara…I have learned from you to not fall into the “pray for my enemies” but instead I pray for sight, wisdom, and knowledge to spot my enemies quickly and be quick to avert their intended plan…I thank you…

I have had many teachers…been thru a lot with people and pray that I get stronger each day…

My plate is full today but my ancestors, guides, and Orishas are with me and I am praying…

Love and light to all..

MTH
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I would like for everyone who visits the blog daily, to open up their eyes and see ehat is going on. Just last week (July 23, 2014) Teach had a post titled, something is brewing….Now we are seeing that the war (Gaza) in not ending. The Chikenguna (not sure of the spelling) virus is spreading and last night the happenings in Nigeria…Since the post we have seen the 2nd plane go missing/another crashed…

These posts have been timely. Teach you are preparing our hearts for everything. As Bob Marley would say, “So much trouble in the world’.

day "dream" alston
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Good Afternoon Folks! Hope you’re enjoying the day. Greetings, Obara! Great post. I have a question. In reference to this statement “What most of us do not realize is that these that we see as our enemies or tormentors are playing out their role that they came here on earth to do.” If this is the case, do these people ever receive punishment for the wicked things they do? Or do they get a pass because they are fulfilling their destinies.

AMH
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In reading I cannot help but grieve for the children she left for want of a mother. I know that the lessons you learned and challenges you have overcome because of this woman have led you to where you are and so the lessons and challenges the children have faced will do for them but it makes me very sad.

Although it has sometimes taken me a lot longer than it should and I am sure I will face harder times in the future, I have managed to learn my lessons and not let bitterness take me (fear of repetition or backtracking but not bitterness). I am developing confidence, faith and maturity and honestly thanks to so much of what I am learning here with you Teacher and this wonderful family you have embraced, I can say that it gets so much easier everyday to be fearless.

Thank you for once again shining a light into your past for us to see a brighter future. Your gifts abound in all of our lives and I for one am so grateful for the opportunity to not only learn the lessons you have to teach but to be a part of this community, this loving (sometimes dysfunctional) family, this blessed and happy world of ESP.

MTH
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Good day…They say hindsight has 20/20 vision. looking back you can forgive the baby father’s woman. If is difficult for me to understand how could she have been rewarded for the lives she has ruined. She destroyed a family and her children has received their portion of bad blessing and here is this woman, riding off into the sunset with a wealthy husband (albeit no relationship with any of her children)…

NuNu
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NuNu

But M even though shi get rich man, who’s to say that she’s truly happy memba ie nuh money solve nuff problems but nuh all.Shi not even have relationship wid har kids

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