August 1, 2014 Obara Meji 329Comment

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Good morning everyone, here I am today again very busy, so this is a re-post which I believe that some of you may be able to relate to, The Wicked Ways of People. I have certainly met some characters, and unfortunately most of them were family. Wicked bad minded family members, and close family also. There was a time when I foolishly felt that this should not be, I felt that family were supposed to love and protect and treat each other right. I have since grown up to realize that they are just human just like every body else, and “the arms of flesh shall fail you, you dare not trust your own”, so flesh is flesh and never perfect. This is no excuse I know but evil has its place here and it is only prayers and sacrifices which will help us overcome them.

I wrote this story a while back and things have not changed, these family members are the same if not worse. One of their dislike for me is because they cannot rule me and they do not like the fact that I am loved and respected by all, people love me, this is true, anywhere I go in the world, most people embrace me and show mi nuff love and respect, but what they the wicked family do not realize is that I love and embrace people without judgement and with nuff love which radiates from me genuinely, and humans beings are not fools, they realize the benevolence of a person without that person opening up their mouth, we all have intuition, it is real. So real knows real and deal with it accordingly.

I may write about them and even my experiences with them, but I “get” them. I stay far away from them, who the hell knows and accept that a dog is vicious but still try to play with it?, only a fool, and I do not believe that I am one. Please forgive me for not having the time to write about some more she devils which I have encountered with in my life, including family members, but if I remember I will make next week be she devil week, and you will share your she devil experiences with me also, whether she be the bitch boss, or the civil servant who had not been “hooded” in years so she is surly and just down right mean, or that evil twin sister, or regular sister (s), or the dirty step mother, or the evil Real mother, or the church sister who is a thorn in the side of God’s children, or the female dog who is the real bitch (lol). Yeah, yeah, I know about female empowerment and all that, but as I said we have to highlight some of these characters and their bad and wicked ways, we all learn something from another persons experience, always remember that experience teaches wisdom. Have a wonderful day!

 

Every day I thank God that I have accepted and embraced my spirituality!. It makes me understand life a whole lot better. It also makes me be able to tolerate some people who are of certain degenerate character. In my life I have met a lot, and what makes it so bad is that some of them are family members. I have written on this blog site about poisonous family members and also about tormentors, and this most of us have to contend with daily. It is so sad that these evil personalities have to mix with GOOD people but this is the way that God has set it, and so unfortunately we just have to deal. Friends will betray (some), or some will secretly gloat when misfortune has taken you, some will plot to rob and kill you and some will always and forever have your back. Who the hell knows what characters we will have to fortune or mis-fortune to encounter, the thing that is important is how we deal with it

It is important to ask, yourself the question of everyone that IS apart of your life, why are they here?, what is the purpose of this friendship, why were these people chosen as your parents, what are the benefits of having these people as your siblings, or why is he/she my lover, husband/ wife?, what have I to learn from each and every one of them?. Of course these questions that you are asking are through meditation and prayers, because through these mediums (dreams/visions and also reality) you will see that they reveal themselves. Some revelation might not be pleasant, and some will be an eye opener, but you must be able to deal with the answers when they come., and come they will, I can assure you!.

I have a sister  who suffers from severe SCHADENFRUEDE. You all should know the word and it’s meaning, I have written a post dedicated to it all by it’s lonesome, if not click the word in this post and it will link you to the meaning. Schadenfreude, is something that WE have all experienced at one point in our lives, it is not easy to admit it, because it is basically gloating or feeling glee over someone elses misfortune. I have had my own moments, and it felt good at the time. My sister’s own however, borderlines (borderlines?? I’m being very kind) EVIL, she gets aroused, (because it must be that), at people’s pain and downfall!!. Ok, Ok, I’m not sure if it is EVERYBODY, but there has certainly been a few people who I have personally witnessed her happy over their pain. I am one of them that she rejoices over, if ever I am hurt,  She is the destroyer of happiness and you DARE not confide in her AT ALL!!!, OR YOU AND YOUR BUSINESS WILL BE ON THE LOCAL NEWS!!..  Several years ago I broke up with someone and he went to her crying and complaining, that I had left him, and the girl smiled in his face, laughed at his hurt, then she went on to say things to him that would have destroyed a lesser persons self-esteem.

Everything is a problem to her, and for some reason she imparts her personality on all her boyfriends. These guys will come into the relationship with her normal, and very soon they start acting like as*hole*, she holds the whip and uses it often, on them. Her behaviour is horrible and unfortunately these are the type people who  likes to ask favors of others, when their character deserves nothing from anyone. They are like vampires that suck from people to feed their own selfish needs. Their need to stay wrapped up into their evil nest of bad thoughts, treachery, wickedness.

You all must understand however, that her type of personality IS needed in this world. Her malevolent character is needed as a balance to  human beings. She is the she devil that has to do her wicked deeds so that the earth evolves. How so?, well there is no night without day, no sun without the moon, no negative without the positive, no man without the woman, malevolent forces are needed as much as the benevolent forces, Ogebe (light) Oyeku (darkness)…..all these are balance and there would be no human existence without it.

 

Tí àdúrà bá gbà tán, apá aládúrà ò ní ka. /
When a prayer is answered, the person who prayed will be overwhelmed……Yoruba Proverb!

[Prayer works and results may be so complete as to be amazing]

All religion are valid as long as it teaches peace and love……Obara MEji!

There are no disappointments in life, only lessons learned….Obara Meji

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Toy
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Morning everyone. Mth, what’s up?

MTH
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A such unno did a gwan.

NuNu
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Goodnight Yazzy and Toy, mi gone fi real dis time

NuNu
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Good night Teach! Thanks fi di sweet sweet tory dem and mi set pon pringe fi hear how dem end up
(Mi deh keenly watch di Rose she caws shi tink shi slick)

Toy
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Night, see you all in the morrows! Sweet dreams

Yazzy
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Good night Toy, mi sweetie! Sleep well. Yuh bad like wah 😀 😀

NuNu
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Lolol Yazzy seh har motto is tek ‘paint or die trying’ no wonda yuh love Jud suh! It look like one painter did hem yuh up pon wall like how Jud hem up Penny, a dat!

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Good night Nunu boo!!! I laugh in ya tideh till a weak ya now. Mi width mine order di formula weh ragashanti always a promote pan di radio station called “woman of steel” …sintin like dat. A weak bad. You sweeties nuh have nuh behavior and I absolutely love it!!!! 😀 😀

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My, all music fi go wid de stories..lol

Off to bed I go…me we tell onu if me meet onu trevors/judds in lala land. lolol

Yazzy
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Good night Cami!! You gals were on yall worst behaviors tonight but I totally loved every sec!

NuNu
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Night Cami, extra sweet dreams!

Obara meji
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Night night Csmi, thank you Yazzy for the compliment

Obara meji
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Lol

Yazzy
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Yazzy

You’re welcome Obara! You’re certainly multi talented man! Yuh a really Osun pickney fi tru. Love u bad! We were on our worst behavior tideh …and I absolutely loved it 😀 😀

Sleep well sweetie….

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Yazzy

Shout out to all our Judds and Trevors (past, present or future!!) UNUH KNOW ‘BOUT!!!!!

Shout out to O pan two wicked piece a ‘tory line that flew off the shelves today!!! ABSOLUTELY IMPRESSIVE!!!

http://youtu.be/lznQt_T3gow

Toy
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Night Ty,

Yazzy
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I guess all my gals went to take their cold showers!!! Hahahahahaha! I’ve already taken mine. It definitely didn’t work…

So I’m sitting here … reminiscing on my master painter… we were great together (when we were together) he sure loved this canvas!!!!! and I, his paintbrusheS!!! He was SO dominant!! So different! Back mi up ANYWEH and PAINT! Lawd gawd! Bad man eenuh! Had the exact specs as Judd… (yea, do womb turna specs! It sed one***covers face***)

I had a few mottos at the time… *covers face*

1. yuh wah hood… yuh ***** affi bun!
2. Tek paint or die tryin…

Bwouy our “artistic encounters” use to be dangerouly wild and spontaneous but EXTREMELY painfulllllll! Any normal smaddy wid hambition wudda run but not me…I shamelessly decide seh mi aguh tun David and defeat Goliath!!!!!! Wid mi one “stone” lmfaoooooooo!!!!

Toy
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Yazzy you what!!!!!!! You a gangsta! What you sayin’ I ain’t neva scurred! Girl you good! No no I

NuNu
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Nobadi nah response fi Rose Cami

Cami
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Toy and yaz onu a do up Rose..lol

NuNu
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Nose jealousy might mek him try offa Trev but a lie him a tell

NuNu
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Toy mi deh tell yuh! Ty why yuh think Nose guh surprise wi?

Cami
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Me think de nose ago do a deed to.

Ty
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Night all…di wine and Mth sorrel kick in… Unno trek time wid Trevor and Judd…

Yazzy
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Night Ty! You’re the lucky one 😀 😀

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Night Ty Ty! Lol yuh turn een!

NuNu
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Woii Toy seh Rose want di filet mignon!!! Shi tiad a di ole beef lolol.
Obara seh Rose fi guh a church lolololol

Toy
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Nunu love, you don’t like Rose? lol lol lol.

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Bout di one Rose a smack har liver lip dem offa Trevor, mi nuh business if har mout spring wata like cho cho, leff it alone deal wid Sharon an done, cho mi bex yah nung, Rose!!move an gweh!

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Nunu, weh yuh seh, black lip rose fi gweeehh wid Har plate wearing punanay (she tek di term walk wid Har kitty pan har forid LITERAL!!)

Toy
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Lmao. Yaz you don’t like Rose? Lol

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Domgoa

Interesting article and i learned a new word lol.

Cami
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overall, i see Sharon has a man magnate. Toy you reach, and Ty yu return..lol

Toy
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Yes Cami I have been hear. I replied to some of your comments

Toy
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Here*

MTH
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No man yazzy yu caan waan di 2 man Dem Inna di one post. Den again Toy a ramp aid Judd.

NuNu
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No Ty!! Afta Nose couldn’t bright deh look pon Sharon!

Cami
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Lip and nose…lolol what a combo. There’s always a Gman around.

MTH
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Trevor a guh haad. Rose a skilarchi.

NuNu
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Mi seh Teach it bun mi fi di one Rose ie si!!!! Damn dry yeye! Although di Trevor him keep going back suh!!!!

NuNu
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Toy, Rose bright ie!!!! If shi hungry shi betta guh ‘eat’ big man Nose! Leff Trev alone!

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Sascrise Nunu!!!!! Weh big lip Rose fi guh do???? **insert mawkit laff here**

From evening mi a dead wid laff… hawny… drunk… every emotion Inna di book! It caah work!

Mi mus hole Trevor! Chuss mi

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Mi know seh kia gone a pawty but whe Ty deh????????? Ty Ty dawlin’ yuh done role play?? Come back come read bout Trevor pawt 2 and nuh show di Yw him causen next ting………lol

Toy
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Rose said she tired of eating big nose everyday… Rose feel for some filet mignon! !

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Toy, **flatline—————– unuh DONE rose mout ya now! She nuh have nu use fi Trevor and nose when unuh done string she up! Of a laff one more time a cry!

Toy
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Rose said she hungry….Lmao lol lol Trev got all the woman on lock

NuNu
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G man betta move him wara wara cause Trev done claim Sharon, him wi hash it out wit Splen lata

NuNu
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Woooii tek time wid har Trev!!!!
@Rose seh shi leff di teet a yaaaddd, lololol. No Trev Trev nuh guh back desso mi deh beg yuh lol

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lol, now we know why Rose lip black up…smoke too much ‘pipe’ dwlnnnn…

MTH
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Toy nuh bada talk outta di 2 side a yu mouth. Yu waan Judd or not. Yazzy ready fi snatch him sey yu tan deh.

NuNu
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Wooii Toy a wha yuh guh duh? A set yuh want set M pon mi. Yuh nuh si shi deh threaten mi wid a beatin’ like tall Jen

Toy
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Sorry nunu for talking about your man so graphic. Don’t judge me lol

Toy
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Obara I don’t even want to look Trevor way you me scared of Trevor. Mth… matching me with Judd even though I wouldn’t mind a piece of his fiyah tongue.

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Toy, Yazzy done claim di fiah tongue! A straight sharing fi yuh

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Nunu, datz why mi love yuh eenuh! Yuh always deh have me back!!

Toy, back up. .. M, back up.. unuh back away from mi man dem… all when mi cah handle the ride… mi a stay pan do trail. A who unuh? ? 😀

Toy
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Lmao oh! that is Yazzy man. You know better fish are in the sea.

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Cami YW sey to TY let me play with you. After Try read Dem stories yah shi nuh muss MIA.

Toy
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Lmao lmao

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M, Trevor look like him woulda skeel di spliff pon one side a him lip an hol’ yuh one a ways! Talk di chute!

@Cami, Yw peep di story and gawn dust off the cowboy Stetson hat him have rouna back lol, Judd who!!!!!’ Ty preoccupy,lol,

MTH
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Nunu yu a play di innocent Madda Mary role. Yu style mi up bout mi a man Sargent. Now a yu DAT slide sey wid 2 man a nun a Dem a yu bonafide man. A waan Michael GI yu a Tall Jennifer special yu si

NuNu
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Lolol M!! Yuh cyaan duh mi suh star!!

MTH
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Nunu yu di sey mi a sey? Yu waan know bout liver lip Rose and Trevor. Yu love off Trevor bad bad. Di paw paw tree ketch yu.

MTH
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Teach everybody did vote fi part 2 a di Trevor saga…bus di Trevor story before Nunu come back.

MTH
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Dam auto correct. Nunu mi and yu caan par again. Last week a teach DAT slide sey Inna di spaceship now it look like yu a guh slide sey did Judd and Trevor. Only ting mi a remind yu bout it how Tall Jeniffer get her grass buss. Yu tink Michael back easy smaddy. NUNU yu caan say mi nain warn yu.

NuNu
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Lawd M!!!! Mi want move pon back street every now an agen like Kia! Yuh nuh haffi bawl mi out pon front street suh!!!!!

Unoo notice how Ty missen, all shi seh a WOW couple time an gawn wid har wine glass!!! A wha deh galang roun’ a Ty dem lol

Ty
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Grung wid di gumments….

Cami
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Yw kidnap Ty.

MTH
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Nunu may naah hole yu a raas. Yu tink mi Nunu si sey yu up to. Yu sineaking, yu waan di 2 a Dem . plus yu have Michael. Yu di yu face?

Toy
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Good evening everyone, I am going to read and circle back

MTH
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Teach a my Trevor yu a write bout? Down mention nutten bout do weight. Yu huh so nunu a buss sey. Try mi sey mi shame how mi drink off do sorrel? Full a bare rum, wine and a ting name magnum. The sorrel plus Trevor me mi nipples Dem huh stop salute. Long time mi huh feel Dem sensation yah.

Trevor to do werl.

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No Teach!! A straight coma Trevor woulda put yuh eena.Sharon tink shi ready but shi nuh ready!!! Shi go need more dan the nana!!!

@Cami, lolol tek time wid wi, “known and unknown” lawd amassy!!

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Yooww mi ph out fi ded n di pawty a tun up later ina di night mi rope een. Memba big man spenda Splen a fimi hmmmmmm

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Kia mi si from wha day seh yuh love roll pon di back street whe nobadi cyaan pree yuh,lol
Kia run offf wid Splenda,lol

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Ty, me going have to try the Russian red. I’m on malbec-Argentine reds. I’m going to get that Russian fi de readings of these two fictional body, mind and soul burdens, Judd and Trevor.

Ty
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Cami if u like sweet red wine, you will enjoy both…the Russian one is stronger…

NuNu
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Yazzy yuh fi hide yuh master painters from di hungry gal dem!!!!! She want fi guh lock up Judson deh now!!lololol

NuNu
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Mi a fallow Ty! Mi did ‘borrow’ some french wine fi save fi a special occasion! A tink I shall have a glass tonight yah!!!!!

Toy whe yuh deh come claim yuh man!

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M hol’ mi, Teach seh it WEIGHTY!!!!
Whey Cami deh??? Cam Cam wha happen when yuh guh eena dah veekle deh!! Come tell wi ??????????????????????????????????

Cami
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De veekle took me to places known and unknown…lmao!

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Ty. Thank you find have Mi back. Sey Dem horny woman huh come affa Trevor name. Yazzy you down sey you down good you waan bax bread outta me and Toy mouth? Judd is toy own and Trevor is mines. Teach you couldn’t GI Sharon one M name.

Trevor story up, up up. It sweet. Bubbles respect muma yu juss own up Splen

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M!!!! plz forgive me sweetie. As Nunu seh… a gooda di hoil hinna mi back a chat!!! A Caah me! **covers face** O a deal wid wi wicked ova ya man…

Ty
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Grung…

Mth, mi nuh stop drink out you sorrel mum…

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Me fi Trev Trev!!!!!!!! Wha Trevor deh work wid!!!! Mi wan’ fasss!

NuNu
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Lawd Cami when di heep a hoil store up eena mi back wha mi guh duh wid it!!!! Whe mi deh guh let it offf!!
@kia…..cucumba!!!! Mi mumma!!! A kill kia guh kill off Splen yah now a big man dat him might nuh cyaan manij!!!!!

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Don’t you have a quiet admirer that you feel you would give a likkle to? If so, let go all a yu sexual fustration pon him (make him feel like a king) then go back a yu yard and call it that.

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Keep on dem dawkas yuh hear Ty caws it seems like wi have a looooonnnggg road fi travel when Teach done wid wi. Mi nuh done wid Jud yet and mi min’ deh pon rude bwoy Trevor, lol

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Ty, yu can go reup pon de wine to. Something tells me O is going to throw a few spins into these 2 stories.

Ty
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Cami di wine dun… Mi love kagor ( a Russian wine ) and cancao (a Brazilian wine) ….Mth sorrel mi gone pon now…

Cami
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O, please to get back to writing both stories. Nunu no feel alone here. My babes is miles away like Judd is from Penny. So like Penny, it’s the thoughts that’s doing the “driving” fi a few weeks…lolollllllllllll

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Unoo nuh get whe een yah pon mi. Mi go need mi meds caqs Teach leggo two pon wi one-time. Sharon yeye dry a from har school days shi deh pree Trevor and a wonda…….

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Practice yah Sharon practice mek perfect…banana, popsicle, cucumber practiceeeeeeee lolololol

NuNu
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Haaayyyyyy Cami memba har sharon persona back in the day!

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[email protected] practising on bananas!! Dat nah guh ready har fi di paw paw treeeeeeeeee!!!! YAAZZZY OOOOO MI NEED A SUPPORT GROUP EEN YAH!!

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I remember those moments when I encountered men like Trevor…ganga drop a grung, spliff get extra lickings, bong get a few extra pulls and my sneaky ass gone down the road go wait fi that ride fi come pick my little ass up…lololol

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Me say!! my eye dem tun out WIDE wid de “paw paw tree” comment! No man, watch yah…yu going to have to juggle Judd and Trevor. Me asking that you spare me likkle heart in the process cause it seem like Sharon antics ago kill we off…that is one BAD ‘B’. She need a visa fi go teach penny! lolol

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Lmfao Cami!!! A visa??? Unuh bad in ya eenuh! Plz don’t kill mi!

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Hmmm mi aguh claim big man Splen him sound like a spenda n a rude bwoy woooiiiee
Hail Ty

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aheem bubblez, mi nu know if big yard ago hold me, yu and splen house wife yu know! lol A me teach Sharon how fi flirt as a way fi kip har fi rat out me and har daddy business…..dwlnnnnn

Ty
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Whappen Kia? Obara mek me haffi draw fi di shades, gulp down di red wine, and call Mth fi likkle a har sorrel…

Ty
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Yes Lord…Trevor and di paw paw tree…

Gulps more wine…

A whey Mth deh?

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Obara yuh cyaan deh duh wi suh!!!!! Tek time mi seh!!! Mi an Yazzy nuh hab no man een yah suh when yuh hat up wi head wi nuh got nowhe fi run guh!!!!

Ty
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” he was 6feet 2inches tall and almost the sane in manhood ” …sass crises…Jesus lord savior pilot me…

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Ty, ask Nunu, that’s the Lad with the sane specs I, YAZZY, signed up for wha day ere! … and seeit deh now… braps! Rude bwouy just appear!

Ty
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Obara is magical…she makes dreams come true…

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Oh ok Yazzy I get ya!

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