Good morning to each and everyone. I pray that all are well. Today I have decided to go out on a limb and post a blog concerning questions any of you may have for me concerning tradition, spirituality, metaphysics or any of the posts written here. I am going out on a limb here,because where I am the internet service if awful and also the few bloggers who are here do not all gather at the same time for us to all have a meaningful conversation. Yet I try, Until my head tell me one day to stop, I will continue to try!
Blogger Yazzy’s questions on another post prompted me this morning to make a post such as this. Questions are important for us to learn, I ask them everyday, if I am curious of something, we should just always pray for the correct answers. So I will begin with Yazzy’s questions today which I have posted here.
Question 1
Obara what (if there is anything we can do) can we do to “strengthen” our heads/ori if it is not considered a “strong head” or are some people just born predisposed to a strong head or a weak head??
Yazzy , the concept of what the Yoruba’s call Ori (your head) has to do with many things. The first is predestination. According to the Yoruba’s we choose our lives/our heads before we come to earth. Some are said to choose a strong or a good head while some unfortunately chose a bad or a weak one. The head you choose (predestination) is responsible for your success of failure in your earthly life. Your predestination, your destiny, your fate is associated with your head, your inner consciousness, it is a great, perhaps the greatest part of your spiritual make up.
The human being have many factors to it other than its physicality. We have a mind, which gives us thoughts which will give us ideas of which we will follow. In our thoughts we will even while awake see images as well as soul search. It is our Ori/inner consciousness which makes this all possible. Mind, Spirit and soul all intangible, yet real, Your Ori/head is all apart of this great make up. It is what takes care of you and guide you, fight for you. It is what leads us into our dream while we sleep and often times show us our future and also our mistakes. We must honor it. It is our conscious God, that resides within us.
It is said within the Ifa tradition that one should be careful of how they treat another,because you should remember that they too have their own heads. Even if the person in not before you and you mal-treat or abuse them, they may not know but their head will know. Repercussion comes a person who has wronged you when Ori is fighting in your behalf. Oris is attatched to your soul group, it is your greatest teacher and warrior.
Recently there was the trial and conviction of a certain entertainer Vybz Kartel, he and his companions viciously murdered Clive “lizard” Williams and according to the media this was not the first murder he committed, yet it was this murder which got him convicted. Clive “Lizard” Williams may have died, but his head returned and fought for him.
The same with Trayvon Martin and George Zimmerman, since the acquittal, if you read the news George Zimmerman, has been pplagued with problems, in and out of jail, his wife who stood with him during the trial has left him and has even accused him of many things and brought him to court among many other things, we will continue to watch, because although he is no more, Trayvon Martins head will continue to fight for him and we will see how this plays out. He had a strong head.
Michael Ferguson and other I pray that you Oris’s also fight for you.
The Yoruba says
A kunle, a yan eda
A daye tan
Oju nkan ni
We knelt down (in heaven) and choose our destinies
But when we arrive on earth
We become impatient
We cannot hurry our lives, and we must be obedient to our first thoughts. Trayvon Martin took a short cut home, he did not make it. I am almost sure, his Ori warned him (the voice is subtle and quiet, when it comes as a thought, often times we shrug it way) not to go that way.
Lizard fell into bad company, maybe because of fame and being around one of Jamaica’s biggest entertainer. I am sure the man dissed them often and his head told him to stay away, he did not listen, yet his head still fought for him after his demise.
2. Is there such a thing a weak head?? And isn’t that an insult to your Ori to refer to your head as weak??
No Yazzy, Ori is a God, a deity as a matter of fact Ori is mans greatest divinity. No orisha can bless us if our Ori does not accept it nor can someone curse us if our Ori does not accept it.
The Yoruba says, he who is wise is made wise by his Ori
He who is foolish is made by his Ori
We are all fragments of God and therefore we all have fragments of our creator within us, Ori may be this such thing, Ori is our personal God.
In Yoruba tradition we appease and propitiate our Ori all the time, so that it will be clear and guide us to make the best decisions in life. I Obara Meji in my Odu especially must always appease my Ori as I am impulsive and spontaneous, making it possible for me to make unwise choices in life, feeding my ori often will help me to make good choices in life.
Whether Strong or weak, the job is done before you get a body to come to earth. It is you who have chosen your Ori. There is a very great pataki which explains the choosing of Ori. It is too long for me to write, but very soon I will upload a video with my husband telling the story.
3. When are we confident that we are being led by our ori and not our own ego??
The ego, like the spirit of lies, clangs and bangs when it speaks to you or anyone else, in other words they are loud and boisterous, while your Ori approach you with a calm thought, a soft voice albeit firm in your head which tells you to do this or that.
Ego is something unreal which feeds nonsense to its believer, often leaving the ones who it traps embarrassed. Your Ori is your spiritual and physical support, for the betterment of each individual.
It is said that whatever a man’s Ori has refused to approve cannot be granted by any other God.
4. The concoction given to be taken went on to heal you and your mom and colleague, how can we discern when it is safe to have a concoction such as yours in our dreams/ visions?? I know we are always warned of never eating in our dreams but I don’t recall if drinking was cautioned??
Eating or drinking in your dreams is never good and it calls for sacrifice right away to remove bad, but in my dream I told you all, that I was the one who prepared the concoction I ate, therefore there was no problem.
5. Can evil entities take on the form of Osun or her name and identity and try to trick us within our dreams??
No, bad spirits can take most form, but Osun and head will never allow this Osun wears white cloth and often times this is how she will come to you in your dreams, if you see white cloth in your dreams, there is nothing bad there, I assure you!
Yazzy says;
Obara I love how you always break down “sacrifices” for us. Especially the sacrifice of animals. I have to keep it real… We needed your thorough explanation caz only you can explain ANYTHING and mek ALLLLL Shorty dramatize ass get it! Lolol! (Sorry I had to 😀 ) but to just say sacrifices are required for such and such and not break down the WHYs and the HOWs would be a further disservice to the Tradition.
We sacrifice everyday and it is for our benefit. If we sacrifice the life of a cow to save someones life, are we wrong? Do not come to me with Jesus sacrificed his blood! And even if it is so, it is said that Jesus was Hebrew, a Jew and they believed in sacrifices as told in the old testament. Jesus was not christian, this religion came about after he died! Ok even if we are to believe the story, then look at it as him (if he existed, he did not!) showing the way. That sacrifice is very important for balance and for mankind to move forward, it is important in moving obstacles and problems. Pleading the blood cannot do anything, unless you have the kind of faith that can move mountains, then it would be that your faith which has made you whole.
If you have any questions please go ahead and ask, if I do not respond right away it is because I may be having problems logging on. However I have never neglected you, so keep checking to see if I answer. Thank you.
Yazzy, thank you also for these questions. It shows that you read the blog and you are in search of knowledge. I try to break things down in the simplest form as possible. I have no need to show off with needless hard explanations riddled with big words, hoping to show off education while boring you to death. This is how I like to read and I hope it resonates well with you all. Thank you and I pray to have some interactions with you today. .
À fi ẹni tí yóò bá pẹ̀gàn Àjànàkú lá lóun rí nǹkan fìrí; báa bá rérin ká wí.
Only those who would deride the elephant would claim they saw it in a jiffy; it’s presence is unmistakable…..Yoruba Proverb!
[Give credit where credit is due]
All religion are valid as long as it teaches peace and love…. Obara Meji!
There are no disappointments in life, only lessons learned!….Obara Meji
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I finally got to read through all of the q & a’s. This post was very informative and even thought i didn’t get to ask a few of my questions i got a lot from the questions asked by others. Love and light to you all. My eyes are burning from playing catch up lol…Can’t wait til the school opens! I’m curious and excited to know how it will be formatted.
Great Questions Caroline, I have Olokun also and I refer to him as male, I aked my husband this same question, and he told me that Olokun is a mystery, no one know for sure if its masculine or feminine energy, however he does not like to be called female. This is not to say that he is, but according to my husband it very well may be so except the deity does not like the reference and also Olokun is a complete mystery! Yes there is, they of the same world, but within the realm of water there are… Read more »
Alaafia Obara and the EST family, I find mental health issues fascinating. In Scotland, one of the women’s health’s centers is struggling to cope with the influx of Muslim women who come in saying they are possessed by Djinns. They try and treat them as mental health patients but that’s wrong. Also I find it fascinating how schizophrenics tend to talk about God, the Devil, heaven etc during their episodes. All this points to a spiritual nature methinks. Before this thread closes, I wanted to ask three last questions please. 1. Why do some practitioners say that Olokun is a… Read more »
Also schizophrenia is more spiritual than people know, these are walk ins trying to come through, but are resisted by the original spirit body. Often times the person whom this attacks have been through some psychological trauma, and so the soul groups give permission for walk in to take the persons stead, but the traumatized mind refuses to let go and so there creates a fight, a struggle if you will…please do not ask me anything more about this, the explanation is too deep…hence the need for the school!
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illness are due to people not adhering to taboos, they may not even know wha name so it is also emotional, things kept bottled up inside creates cancer and more, sickness and diseases are not the orishas fault, not even if you do not appease them.
also sickness and diseases are attached to the earth realm
Again, great explanations- Obara. Please to have this page accessible because the Q & A can serve as a source of reference for us.
nunu i said realm not elements, water has it own world and realms, there are countless of realm, i believe you also may be water. it feeds off is my way of saying it operates within the laws of that realm and it is supported by it
Morning everyone. Thank you for response Obara. I will miss the Q&A.
Morning all
Thanks for the answer O. My family is very dynamic but we do have a touch of schizophrenia.my last question on the posts is everything while we are on earth deals with vibrations and sacrifice and consequences of one decisions. Does an illness in a bloodline come from the family not appeasing a certain orisha? I myself take steps not to get overwhelmed by the pressures of life due to the breakdowns I witness around. Does all of this tie into the lessons we learn in this realm?
Hey Obara! I’m not sure if I didn’t understand correctly but in your answer up top you said that we feed from different realms supported by the elements. You, Cami, and Ty feed from the water realm but belong to different soul groups. Does that mean that each soul group has to have members from the four elemental groups or it doesn’t matter? What exactly does it mean to “feed from the water realm?”
Hey Nunu!
Good morning one and all, just read over to make sure I didn’t miss anything. Hope unoo had a great weekend, I’m going to miss this post. This was awesome
Today is the last day this post will be up!
Everyone, Obara and ESP is on google+, please join her community…
Howdy everyone. I am usin my friend’s computer. The letter after f key is not workin so pardon my spellin. I am havin some back pains, but other than that, I am ok. Happy to see everyone. Miss Toy, what a waan yu boassy, bout si mi here. Cami mi al, wad up sis? Hope you are havin a nice weekend. How is your hunny bunny? Teach, hope you are well rested. Ty, I would not like to see the man in the vid at no carnival. Yu si how dem tun Mr. Bop inna star? Mi wudden be able… Read more »
Hey Mth…glad u on…
Hopefully Gully Bop uses this fame to further his long term future…now the work starts for him..as my grandmother always says… Dream without action is a daydream and action without dream is a nightmare,..
Ty, I enjoyed a 2 glasses of Malbec…nice and relaxing if you have to drive.
Sounds wonderful Cami…I am happy you had a blast…
Morning Ty/Yw, and to Obara and ALL ES members and peepers.
Afternoon Cami and everyone…
May this day be beautiful for you all not only outside but also within you…
NuNu puss I had fun because all in attendence were people that I and my spirits liked, 3 missing and me spirit cannot tolerate them pass 3 & 10 minutes.
Courtney and Toy nice questions, I can’t wait to here the answer to Ty’s twins.
Again, my question from an article. MTH me love laugh wid you and at you cause you make the situations funny. NuNu bath towel duppy betta don’t meet with de Ice cream one…lol
Obara what kind or being we dealing with in this article?
https://www.jamaicaobserver.com/news/Prosecutor–Mother-set-newborn-on-fire-on-New-Jersey-road
Morning everyone. Cami I am glad you enjoyed yourself. This article really hurt me. Smh
Cami, there are so many spiritual reasons for this and why it occurred, remember I told you all that there are reasons for everything. There maybe a generational curse involved here, or Juju at large, the spirit of the child may have chosen her to do this to him to highlight something to the world that needs fixing and she may have agreed, and so both child and mother are sacrifices for a greater good…I could go on, but I cannot tell you because of the circumstances I would have to divine and see why she did this.
Thanks, O. When I read news and see stories like these, and others that I’ve posted just beg for some kind of explanation. I can’t have deep conversations with “jesus people” because it sum up to Jesus blood and tears, lol
Me is a GOD girl.
I hope you can answer this question. Why can some people go to funerals and other people can’t. Will the dead follow that person?
Hi Toy, I am on who cannot go tho these places. There are some people who have a light within them, and spirits sees and know that they can communicate with them, so if they go to these places where plenty spirits will be, they will attract unwanted spirits who want to communicate with them, stay with them, and so this will make the human sick..is like when a crowd rush some people!
Night everyone… I have to read and catch up.
Hey guys just came off of a double yesterday and today. Reading and catching up.
I have a question on soul groups. How does one go about selecting their soul group? Is it connected to how u choose your parents and I’m assuming it’s all interlinked with soulmates/ partners etc. done in the spiritual realm and these ppl are their to help you along your path?
Courtney, soul groups are from the beginning of time, and no we do not pick our soul group, we are a part of it from creation. Each soul group feed off a particular realm, Ty, Cami and myself soul group feeds from the water realm. We may be born into different soul groups, but we are water people. So each Soul group is supported by elements of nature. This is why initiation is important, because it connects you physically to what you did not know before. So we do not choose our soul group, we were created as apart of… Read more »
Hey Ty, wad up? Yu like the vid? What a piece a hexcitement….African through and through. Him cudda guh a any Stone Love and win dancing contest.
Cami, yu can laugh haffa mi, he?
Toy what a way yu a guh an come back and have mi a siddung haff a wait pan yu.
Heveling heverybody..
Hey Mth, was doing a project with the kids…the video was fun…him can dance no baxide….di song jiggly too…
I think is only the running man him never draw fah…can you imagine him a carnival???
Mth see me here. Lol
Obara, is there a spiritual explanation for identical twins…that is one egg that split in two…?
Also Nigeria has the most recorded multiple natural births…is that Yeye Osun? The answer I have heard is the yam consumption, leads to increased fertility…
Yoruba twins are named according to their birth order, with the firstborn twin called Taiyewo (shortened to Taiwo) meaning ‘the first to taste the world’, and the second-born twin called Kehinde, ‘the last to come’. These are their ‘celestial’ Yoruba names dictated by their birth circumstances. (For more about baby names, check out ‘What’s In A Name’ in this edition). When the twins are born, Kehinde sends Taiwo to check out what life is like on earth and to tell him or her whether it will be good. Therefore, Taiwo becomes the first child to be born. He/she then communicates… Read more »
mi deh yah nung, tek oonu han from oonuh jaw!
lol Ty at least him have manners and him nuh wan frighten mi.
@Cam,Have fun Cami lynn!!
Mi deh try post mi comment fi bout one hour now, cho man. Obara you said that when a spirit settle into it’s realm that what we communicate with is it’s essence. Does that mean when we see earthbounds we’re actually seeing the essence of the person or the actual spirit that’s trapped? If the spirit is trapped does that delay other members of the soul group from incarnating or elevating if they choose to do so because the group seem to work as a unit, every spirit plays a function, if one spirit doesn’t fall in line it messes… Read more »
Nunu when a person dies, they are without a physical body anymore, but people will see them in their image as they were while alive, the reason being is that this is how they are projected when they manifest here, for the earthbound/wayward we are seeing the essence of them also, although they have not gone anywhere, the same thing. If a wayward stays on earth, it does not affect the soul group, they keep on going, it affects the elevation process of that particular spirit and if it eventually go, the group cannot reject him, but he will have… Read more »
HE, he now spanish town…lol what a way onu up and at it early…Obara…see me next question here.
Is this artificial way of conception pushing the boundaries of the spiritual real…is it a way of “snatching” life from a realm? (See link story for example)
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2914300/Tragedy-woman-36-dies-giving-birth-quadruplets-conceived-IVF-complete-fairy-tale-marriage.html
Me a do some things…a go out wid former coworkers in a bit.
“snatching” life from a realm? is not possible Cami, at least by human beings. Science does not believe in spirituality but when they come up with these things they did not come up with it by themselves, these things are taught to them by non-physical beings unbeknownst to them and their genius. The conventional way to have children is through the sex act, and now those who cannot conceive are opting for invetro, the earth has/is shifting and these things are being made possible, it matters not the process in some cases in life, it is the result. I support… Read more »
Wonderful answer, Thanks,
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, YES TY, DUPPY LOVE BAACHUUM!
love and light Toy, and we know yuh mean it, yuh ah we baby girl!
Morning everyone! The questions are fantastic. I will be back later and I mean it love and light
Teach, I was just getting ready to go on the road and this thought came to me. The thought of speeding up one’s life. I thought of Flippa Maffia. He was in Jamaica doing reasonable well. His documents were being processed and he went overseas on a boat, then ended up in the USA and now he is behind bars.
Buju, too allowed greed to get to him and now, he is paying dearly for it.
Oh, Teach, my mind just ran on the Piper story. Hope to hear the rest of it.
Later fam, popping out for a minute.
Nunu honestly there is no difference, I probably responded that way because I saw him living there as opposed to waking from place to place but there is no difference actually!
Thank Obara, so what is the difference between a wayward and an earthbound spirit?
Awww Teach, you saw the vid? What a piece a whine-up, whine up fi guh trow him collection. A Bredda Curtis dat man…
Teach I didn’t see your comment to know and just look what I wrote. As Nunu wudda sey, mi dey learn.
Nunu him quite decent and clean, him bade before him walk thru di house. Him might scare you if you were to see him..Wanda if him have a crush pan yu Mumzy or maybe she was very kind to him before.
Afternoon everyone…dem way wards love stay inna people bathroom…run him Nunu…light you candle and tell him to go…
Thanks Teach. When I was overseas he was there with his encouraging self. Everyday sending instant message and we skyped. We were heading somewhere. When I got back to Jamaica, one week later he just disappeared. He realised I would need help and as a friend I might ask him for help. He disappeared. I got a nice job and we started talking again. He was there, I hit a rough patch (my funds were being channeled for this trip). Something needed to get done for my daughter and he offered to do it (I did not ask him). He… Read more »
Lmaoooo, Mth ah bredda Curtis, lolol!
He showed himself to them, he does not want to scare you, he is not a wayward but some who died there on that grounds in a house before that development was built. He is earthbound, and means no harm, but realize that you all have light and so he is there. You can leave him there if you wish, just caution him not to disturb you or invite anyone else, or you can light a white seven day candle and tell him to go in peace, I will tell you the rest when we speak NUnu!
Mi seh! It look like mi an di mumzy have an extended guest deh live with us. Every body but mi it seem si dis yah “bredda.” Muly brother saw and my mother.He seem to like staying in my mumzy room(when shi not there cause him timid roun her bad) anyways the other morning I was taking a shower around 6am the mumzy was home, she said she heard the shower and then moments later a who dat shi si a buss di cawna wid towel roun waist an a dry off self, nuh di man! Lol den because him… Read more »
NuNu carry home company from her trip, Obara?
i am not seeing the link mth
Nunu-lishious, quick look on the vid before Teach takes it down. What a man can dance…MI know Teach haffi guh book passage fi nuff a wi, when mi si wey dey gwan dung a Africa.
Shanna, afternoon.
mTH, LISTEN TO YOUR HEAD, IF HE IS like this then his spirit is not conducive to yours, emotional support is good, but disappearing if you have a need? Youmay have a need and still need the emotional support from him, while trying to find your way!
Soup nuh good ah mawnin it cyaan good ah evening, is front him afta!
Teach, look at this video then delete it, I know it will slow down the page, but I just want to give you a laugh:
https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=860949173934008
Mth, a grung mi deh…no sah…him sample…a wicked mixture of gymnastics, , Michael Jackson, bongo….you name it….so proud to be of African descent…ketch di riddim…
The spirit is all in his bones. Where is bubbles Kia?
Good night everyone
I have been reading the questions and the answers.
Great topic. Very good indeed.
Gone back go finish read. Soon come
Kaka rawtid…… Tommy Tucker did sing fi feem suppah, but ah dance bredda Curtis deh dance feem own.
I cyaa badda yah man. Lol
Teach tank God wi on together. I want your opinion/advise on this sit-u-hay-shan. Talk to me as a mother, friend and spiritualist (mi tink mi known di ansa, but bare wid mi)… Teach, I have this school friend who has been interested in me from Wappy kill Fillup. Now he has shown signs to be mean (financially), but he offers solid emotional support. For my birthday he sent me emails and general good wishes. Then the baby I love yous, muaahs (kiss) and checks on me right through the day (he sends emails even when he knows I am not… Read more »
MTH! Me de a grung cause the financial part is funny as hell! lol
Money destroys relationships so the man a duck the inevitable if money comes into play.
YOU WELCOME MY DEAR
Lol!
Thank you everyone!
HEY NUNU
Good morning fam!
Shana we are a loving bunch, i love them an they love me, you are welcome there is plenty love to share!…no shade, bad attitude, no hate just pure genuine love and you are welcome to be a part of us my dear! we welcome you, your children an the dog, if he can blog!
Same way so…ASE
Oh gosh!!!! Hahahaha
my smallest daughter mth, lol
Teach, mawning again. Thanks for answering my questions, I remember your story about your younger quite son who ‘hid’ inside you and had to be born. Sometimes we have some answers infront of us and do not even know. TLC has a program called I was pregnant and didn’t know it. These babies were all destined to be born.
Greetings and salutations my people.
Wow! Everyone had some good question. I just sitting over here loving everyone and the energy that you guys have. I have learned so much.
Yes Ty,again very good question…we see the world with our physical eyes, but as spiritualists who can see beyond this world we do not see it with the physical eyes, and so as we grow and grow doing our work as spiritual people all which are absorbed by the spiritual eyes, reflects into the physical ones,and it can have different effects such as eye color changes, eyes which looks glazed, or are constantly moving and so on, we are told to wear shades, an in Africa here it is not good to look directly into the eyes of an old… Read more »
Growing up, I heard some amazing stories about artifacts …physical objects that had powers intrinsic to them or was embed by others….of course, now I am older I know that these stories are real….
Some minor ones are passed down to love ones….anyone with any?
Obara, is there a spiritual connection or explanation with eye color?
Also as your vibration changes do you notice eye color change?
No Ty I have not seen the movie, Oh wow!
@Cami, death can never be cheated, however it can be averted mainly through sacrifices/prayers/you family blessings, your good deeds returned. IF death comes for a person and they escape, it was not their time, it was not cheated, but it just was not the time…Then you may ask, then why go through the experience,everything we pass through teaches us something, so a person who has had a near death experience, has something to learn and also share
Ok, thanks for that reply.
Me a ctfu with the gambling reply, poor creator not even know bout slot machines when these christians mek dem rules, lololol
I’m here alone, but I still feel onu presence…I’m a loner so me alright, plus me kinda off kilter and will be so for a while.
Toy, just noticing your here at the same time as I…me all over a read comments. Q & A them “tun up”.
Grammer malfunction MUCH…lolol a friday night me nu K’ha, lol
Do not come to me with Jesus sacrificed his blood! BIG MARKET OMAN LAUGHING…
“Jesus” scaraficed his entire being, so I can’t understand this blood argument (Obara me know you far exempt from such argument).
MTH, great to see that all is coming together for you…enjoy your journey and embrace all that it entails…good, bad and indifference 🙂
Ty…great questions on the bloodline. Although my maternal female klan aren’t like Obara we have it…I notice it while they don’t because them doze off or fas a sleep, lol
I am just trying to be the best person that I can be, respecting the universe and fellow mankind.
Ty, school is great. I am just observing and appreciating cultures more. I find that the males here, love braids and they appreciate a girl with a lot of behind. I am a hot girl here. LOL!!! I don’t know what it/was, but since coming here, I have felt a huge burden off my shoulders. I feel that anything is possible for me. I sleep a lot, I allowed stress and the uncertainty robbed me of value sleep hours in Jamaica. Now, TY, believe I do not worry about a thing. With the recent lessons, I know that I have… Read more »
So happy everything is working out for you…
Obara, this are a few questions, that I would like to ask you, please and tonks:-
1. Is using birth control wrong?
2. If you semi-care for someone (or not at all) but they are helping you out with your children, financially, emotionally or otherwise, is that a dis-service to your self?
3. Is gambling bad?
4. If you are stressed and you drink to drown out your sorrows (until it passes), otherwise you do not normally drink, is that ok.
No Mth, I do not believe that birth control is wrong, if a spirit is meant to be born nobody can stop it from coming. If by this you mean if you are using the person for gain, and deceiving him into believing that you love or even care for him, then you are only creating bad Karma, if you tell him that you do not love him or have that kind of interest n him and he still assist you, then all is well, you have declared your self and he has made his choice Gambling being bad is… Read more »
Ty, Sis a long time wi not on together…Wad up, mi Chargie? All is well?
Mth, long time no see…I have been packing in the hours at work…
How school? We so proud of you, you followed your dreams…how the cold? Cold weather make me sleep…lol
SS the internet was acting up last night so I didn’t see your comment re my girls. Thanks so much.
As usual ladies, the question and answers were really great. Thanks for the questions, learning has occurred. Cami said it, ‘iron sharpenth iron. SS, CarolineBritish and Shanna, you questions were great and beneficial.
A movie I would recommend seeing is Source Code with Jake Gellynhaal…very good movie and it explores the non linearity of time….choices…different outcomes with the most simple changes and the power of the human mind….
If you do not believe in time travel, do not watch…
Obara and Esp family, have you all seen it?
Ty, (Evening everyone…off the road fi de night) second time I see this movie recommended with the same warning about the plot…now me going have to watch it. I love time travel movies.
Hey Ty, Cami Wad up… is it similar to butterfly effect?
IT is much better and much more realistic…
Hey Ma’ Toy…That is another movie I need to rewatch because it was mind blowing too. A know that the movie where death didn’t stop because it felt cheated is deep…final destination I think it name…freaky and deep.
My Question as a matter of fact:
Obara, can death be cheated?
Good evening guys, late but I am checking in. Will have to go log on.
I’ve never heard of it, is it the new wheatgrass?I’m going to google it
Obara and fellow ESP family, have you heard of sacha inch, it is a superfood from Peru? and if you have, have you used it?
after spiritual awakening, we embrace GOD more and try to connect better with our higher self…then what?
Is it just interacting with the spiritual world to elevate and enhance our experience on the earth plane?
how does free will play into our pre-destined life plan? I know free will can speed up or slow down your path…but what about a full switch? for example, you came here to be a malevolent force but after coming to the earth plane, you found GOD in all that you saw, embraced a spiritual path and decided to be benevolent and give your life to worship GOD…can this happen?
I know Orishas can say no to a request or not accept a sacrifice, but can a spirit say no to a work or job that is requested?
Obara what three top spiritual gifts you have on your wish list?
Do spiriitual gifts only follow blood lines? I know you can develop the ones you have.
Do you choose these gifts?
Obara, you are an amazing medium and channeller, will all your children have your abilities?
great questions Ty,yes spiritual gifts do follow blood lines,….. here is the thing, we do not always come to this earth plane to develop our self and learn, there are other realms in time and space that the spirit can leave their soul group and go to and receive other knowledge, and so each spirit grows and grows within their travels before going back to be with its soul group. (This growth allows them to gain gifts if found worthy, for them within the realms that they visit, they will be tested however). The gifts are absorbed by all within… Read more »
Thank you soon much…as usual you are amazing…
Wow! Thanks for that tidbit because I’ve talked to my family about burial and almost all want to be cremated, myself included
Cremation is NEVER good, it confuses the spirit on his journey to his real, It is an abomination so to speak
Obara, what about the people who donate their dead bodies to science? their bodies are cremated after…I think of this as a sacrifice …by either that person or their families…
@Caroline, real power lies with our creator, our spiritual bodies, takes direction from our soul group, but while we are in a physical body, the power is with our Ori. No human being owns power, it is through wisdom and the teachings from our spiritual elders, which we are guided to by our Oris, why man is able to perform mysterious things.
If by your question you mean is our spirit stronger than the physical body, then of course the answer is yes.
no your blood ties and first marriage (contract, marriage certificate) and your long lasting marriage is from your soul group, normally if someone has a first marriage, meaning that the marriage did not work out, it usually is a karmic debt owed. Long lasting marriage like my parents these are soul group families
yes Nunu,but we are all born into the same spiritual family aka soul group
Does that mean each relationship or friendship we form no matter how fleeting it is (even if it’s say a few weeks)that person is a soul group member? We come in contact with people ever so often, does that mean our soul group could be in the thousands?
Obara, we reincarnate time and time again in different cultures, race etc. but do we change gender as well?
Oh Ty and he is not paying any karmic debt for what he did to her, the story has never been told of his side, dat chick ain’t easy, this is real Juju/obeah and witchcraft, de people dem need fi stop plead de blood and run go look afta de yute
Mi wan hear a what tuh
Hi Ty, first question, I looked into the beating and I do not agree no matter if she was wrong, he should have controlled his temper, however his problems are coming through her, maybe not from her direct hands, but her nevertheless…I cannot say any more on this,I will tell you the story when we speak Ty. You can cleanse your aura by taking spiritual baths (these are very important), using a white candle, the use of incense, certain types are best, using crystals as you are now into, using sulfur as in matches, just going to the Ocean and… Read more »
Thank you
Manners everyone…TGIF
Obara, what are easy ways an uninitiated can clean and clear their aura?
Afternoon Ty
Caroline ask all the questions you wan, I love it! No you cannot take on anothers Karma, however, some people are spiritual sponges and so if they are around people who are ill, sad, poor, or anything that is ailing the person the spiritual sponge can sap up that persons problem and help ease them of their load unknowingly. Making them go through the same thing or similar to the person who has sapped their energy. Have you ever entered a bus or anywhere with crowd feeling fine but when you leave you feel, sick, or heavy,or depressed, or you… Read more »
Obara, could Chris be also paying for his deeds…he beat that girl to a pulp…the night before she was to make a huge life changing Grammy performance….
Hey Toy, Obara.
Mi kinda slow today because I’m having bad connection problems
Morning everyone… I love this. Questions are great…. Obara Morning, Cami hi boo, Nunu and Yaz, SS and rest of family what’s up.
I am hereeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!! in mi opera voice!
Me ago road…BB
Yazzy lolol di question sehi sweet mi. Cyaan wait fi school time ie si!
Good morning lovely folks! Top of the morning to unoo.Mi deh yah ready fi larn miself
Morning mi sis Nunu Boooooo! Look like fi mi and fi yuu alarm clock set sed time man! Yuh stawt already bout yuh ready fi larn yuhself! LOL!
Morning Cami, why yuh sey dat? Iron sharpeneth iron? explain please
A great question = a great answer……..
O boy ALL the questions are great. I hope it contiues till in a de weekend.
It’s 1 am, I know you’re all in la la land, but me still have to read all if me come late.
I see you all got your questions in and tired out poor Obara, lol
I thought I would fall asleep but I didn’t… Obara I’m back on the Ori concepts… so the process is that as a soul in “heaven” or in our realm we choose our head/ORI and then we choose our parents, correct?? Ok… so my other question is this, if it is that we chose a good head/strong head/ Ori, why is it that some amazing people are never fortunate to be parents while on this plane?? specifically, why is it that some women aren’t “chosen” by Oris with strong heads to bare the fruits of the womb?? Why are they… Read more »
Very, very Excellent question, Yaz. Obara, this question would be mines as well…especially after I read the following link. I know good and evil must reign but Yazzy question always come to me when me think how me don’t have children. Catch da link yah.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2912351/College-student-murdered-newborn-stuffing-trash-gives-birth-secret-pregnancy-says-doesn-t-know-baby-is.html
Good question Yazzy first of all,when an Ori is chosen, you will not know which is good or which is bad, as I have said before it is the luck of the draw. In the story my hubby will tell you all very soon, when going to choose an Ori, it is said that instructions are given for one to secure a strong head, but most or some are impatient and do not follow the instructions, hence ending up with a weak head. The question about bareness have many answers let me give you a few for the reasons for… Read more »
Morning Alll….the questions were great, but the answer leads to “iron sharpeth Iron”.
Morning mi sweetie Obara Meji! Morning mi sweetie Cami! Morning all mi chicas and breddaz in spirit!
Obara thank you for your response. It does answer some of my questions. I can’t wait for your hubby and our Ojubona/Oluwo graces us with his presence and wisdom on this phenomenal board!
My question is : by saying affirmations daily, is this a good way to honor and nourish your ori?
that is one way of structuring your spirit Ty and becoming in tune with Ori, Affirmations are good always, but Ori needs feedings for clarity and guidance
Thank you, they are a great way to start my day…
Good night Nunu! Sweet dreams… One more question, How do you know you have paid your karmic or spiritual debt to another person you have had dealings with? In other words, how do you know if you’ve managed to release yourself or untie yourself from another person in this life and the next lives to follow. Remember in the Alton and Doreen saga (yes, I finally caught up and am anxiously awaiting the book), you talked about how they were tied together in many lives. Well, there have been one or two men in my life that I have suffered… Read more »
SS, if after your interactions with them, you know the lessons you learned from your relationship with them, then yes you may be free. If you meet another man, and you meet the same problems as you did with these ones before, then you are not free!