Because of my work as a spiritualist I am privy to a lot of people stories, whether it be good or bad. And as their spiritualist I cannot be judgemental because I understand that as individuals we all came here to experience our chosen path. My function in people lives is to uplift and assist, my path here on earth is to give hope. I gain no pleasure from someones pain, instead when the stories are told to me I re-live the pain that the story-teller is recounting and if the story is devastating it haunts me for days on end. The old adages, “No man is an Island”, and “I am my brother’s keeper” rings true for me. We must all be compassionate, and understanding. Realizing that our lives, no matter the circumstances cannot be the same as another, and therefore if some one acts a certain way there is a reason for the actions and we should not be quick to condemn or judge!
There was this guy I knew who was a revivalist, he was handsome and of good character but slightly effeminate and it was well-known that he was gay. Everybody liked him because of his winsome personality and his friendliness. One day a friend of mine told me his life story and it still bothers me up to this day. He grew up in rural Jamaica, in their community there was a church which his family attended, a revival church. His mother was poor so at times they would get money for food from the Leader, (pastor) of the church. One day the mother sent him (he was six at the time) to the Leader to get provisions so that they could have dinner that night. He went on foot to the Leaders house only to arrive back home with the provisions in a taxi. When he came out of the taxi he collapsed on the ground bleeding profusely from his anus which was stuffed with news paper, and crying loudly in pain…(I am crying as I am writing this). Nothing was done about it, as it is said that the Leader who had raped the little boy was a known Obeah man and they were all afraid to defend the little boy. I truly believe that a lot of these so-called idiots that calls themselves pastors, bishops, Obeah men,uses scare tactics on people so that they can commit these criminal acts. Needless to say, the little boy never got any therapy and is now a very effeminate man. He confessed once to the lady who told me the story that, he could be of no use to a woman because he is damaged goods…what a pity. So you can see my point, if someone sees him and knows not the trauma he went through from a young age, they would laugh and ridicule him for acting like a female when there is tragedy behind his story. Judge not!!
Another young lady confessed to me her plight. When she was younger about age twelve or so, her family and community people thought that she was crazy. She would smoke cigarettes and curse loudly, Jamaican bad words and wrap her head with all kinds of cloths and performed many antics that deemed her crazy and then some. Her mother who did a lot of wickedness to people through voodoo, and who had also spiritually tied up the father (spiritually bounded him to her), had taken her to several places for help believing that this was Obeah. The mother nor any of the so-called mediums did not realize that this was short Bongo possessing the girl, which I immediately recognized while she told the story. Eventually the mother took her to a Bongo man (some one who works with Bongo spirits, read the post titled Short Bongo/Tall Bongo), after examining the girl who was sixteen years old at the time he told the mother that in order to cure her he would have to have sex with her. The Bad mother agreed (shocked!! as a parent, she would have had to stay like that for ever! I would never had consented). So the bongo man had his way with the girl all day every day for a week. The girl was cured, she stopped having those out bursts and stop doing the things that she did which gave the opinion that she was crazy. Even though still at times she would have the feeling as if she would want to scream out and speak in tongues. I Obara Meji with the wisdom that has been bestowed upon me by Olodumare (God) and my mother Osun, explained to her that she was born to be a spiritualist. She had guides with her to teach her and lead her onto a good path, but the wickedness that the mother had done by bringing into the house where the child lived, crossed her clean energy with the dirty ones, and that had an effect on the child’s psyche. The reason why she was cured after HE had sex with her was because he removed from her all the spirits that she came to earth with and all the bad one she picked up as a result of what the wicked mother did. Actually the ones she came to earth with he stifled. He acted like a sponge mopping up a spill. But as a spiritualist I know that there were other ways that could have been done successfully.
Embracing your spirituality is very important so that these tricks cannot be played against you physically or mentally.
“A lunatic is healed the day he knows that he is sick“….Yoruba Proverb
@Prosperity it is indeed sad, however the “witch doctors” explanation make no sense to me, who is an “knowledgeable elder” my self. Of the little boy was found in the River Thames and even if he was of west African descent, how dem end up in a witch doctors yard all the way in Africa, not knowing who the child was? Nonsense! For years missing children have been displayed on mill boxes, most of them are used for same money rituals, not in Africa but outside and by people who have no melanin. As usual de love mix up Africa… Read more »
It’s a shame that people abuse their power. With power come great responsibility one of which is to protect the innocent. Instead they took advantage of these children. Obara with their knowledge do they really believe that they will be exempt from a pay back mi nuh understand. About 10 years ago the torso of a little boy was found in the river Thames here in London. The police made a few arrest but no one was ever charged for his murder. Forensic analysis found that he was of African origin. West African possible. They visited Nigeria where they said… Read more »
Cami mi fren, wad up? Hope all is well. Shout out to all the visitors to this blog. NUff respect and manners!!!
I great you in Jesus name, its sad to read about the peoples stories, the things that happen in their past can still hunt them, just to break them and to have a stronghold in their live. But there is hope for the broken hearts and broken souls, Jesus Christ of Nazaret died for their sins and they can get healing by believing in Jesus. There is no other way, no one can help this people but Jesus along, those who reject him reject eternal live. He is the way the truth and the live, i reconize that you have… Read more »
That would be great.
i will do a post on this very soon
Obara a lot of ghetto youths are now into the gay lifestyle. They gays have gotten so brazen in Jamaica. They come out at carnival time. The dancehall has gay men. The recently convicted dancehall world boss, has a picture of him having sex with (a female I suppose) in the ass. He glorifies freakiness, but my stance if yu fu*k inna batty, den yu a battyman. Remember Zekes? Matthews Lane, area leader, let a man sucked him ho*d and his sperms were found in the dead man body that was the dna evidence that led to his arrest. I… Read more »
That’s the ceremony I was thinking of too Obara…..Was considering having it done to Ogun but mi ketch mi fraid
Morning all…..Welcome David
yes I have heard of this ceremony, it was actually one to my sister in Jamaica, she has asthma, it did not work for her, but others have testified that it worked for them. Thank you for commenting.
I know a JA woman that when as a girl she was taken from Kingston to the country 1959 and arrived with a respiratory ailment. Her grandmother took her to the obeah man and he did a terrifying ceremony placing the girl in front of a banana tree. It involved chopping off the tree with a cutlas close to the top of her head full swing. Has anyone heard of such a ceremony?
Hi David. Don’t know about the banana tree. I know of the young cedar tree and it’s for asthma.
Hello Obara, MTH, Manica, Kia………so much of you (smiling). Have a bless week.
Obara, that obeah man operated like a vampire.
Cho rawse man…..Obara u noe wat mi gawn mi cyaan manij dem yah fuckery yah all mi ah goh do ah cuss badwud an mi ah try stap.
Mek mi go lissen to di radio an try clear mi mine caw kiss mi bloodclaat man ah fuckery dis to di max
yea maniac, one big time lesbian ooman mi know tell me a terrible story whey mi wish she never tell mi… she sey she went dwn to Jamaica one time and was hanging out with her down town gay friends dem, tru she a farrina she put on a round of drinks, noticing that a young little boy arount fifteen was not drinking she ask him why not, he told her that he was on medication, upon inquiring further she found out that he was the boyfriend of some rich uptown man that his mother had given him too, just… Read more »
Optimistic1 u read my mind…Ah nuff ah dem kayliss mumma yah mek man fuck off dem pikni fi likes b4 dem goh look wuk an mine demself an dem pikni(s).
Obara mi been hear bout di mumma dem whe gi dem teenaged dawta to man fi money but mi neva noe seh dem gi dem bwoy pikni to. Is a fucking shame man
and it is true because I have heard it from the men themselves and from friends of mothers who knows of this horrific crime
I am as outraged as you
it deh deh long time but has gotten worse!! a lot of the inner city yute who apss dem common entrance but dem madda cyann afford to send them to school get screw off by the men who can and yes often times to the consent of the mother and the protest of the child, who had no other choice but to bend to it…shame!!
so suppa daddy batty man screw off on becoming batty man who molest off de lickle young yute tun him inna full fledge batty man!!!
@maniac yuh funny enuh gal larn nt teach! dwl!…yes but mi hear sey when him did young and spirit drop him pon one nedda Obeah man seal de one whey de wicked mumma whey mek de man sex har pickney did do de obeah dem fi har and she did deh wid him to, did screw him off pon him seal grung to…so the cycle continues
optimistica1 yuh nuh see wha mi write bout de dutty baby father who gimme bun so till mi crisp!! him scar mi from dem and i am an aries woman
Obara mi sey annuh lie u deh tell, nuff time u si ppl behave a certain way ah wha dem goh chue inna life fi mi pikni puppa larn (not teach) mi nuff lesson u si ma, fram mi meet smaddy whey sey dem ah aquarius mi look di nedda way – Nope not me.
Can u himajin scar di pikni fi life an ah wawk street free SMH no man…U noe wat, I gone
what will they tell god in the time of judgement as mi madda use to sey!
remind mi fi tell de story of a wooman who at age sixteen was molested by did 45 yr old ooman n now de ooman a straight man…the 16yr ols that is..
One a mi higgler friend dem whey sell outta arcade tell me sey dis gay yute whey dead now from A.I.D.S use to lay dung inna har lap and cry and tell har sey is dis long time bad man from dung town whey have nuff babby madda screw him off from him a twelve n threaten him fi nuh tawk or shot bark!
and these scum bags that molest children should be castrated!!! and ah waan teel oonu de dutty Obeah man whey soil de child mi see him de odda day inna new york a walk road!!
there are reasons why people are the way they are, like I would never date an aries man…. mi dutty tinkin baby fadda!!!
and statics show that alot of men who has turned out gay were molested I thinks the stats are 95%…Tyler Perry said he struggled with his sexuality after several molestations…Oprah says she became promiscuous!
mi sey str8888 gun shots
Obara mi nah lie, tears full mi eyes…U see how some people can wicked!!!! all unda di pretence dat them helping. Mi nah lie, if a fimi pikni enuh – can u imagine 6 years ole???? str8 fucking bullet to him skull
Yup!!