(‘Glory, star, and destiny’ are all the same things and will be used interchangeably throughout this post). Growing up as a child in Jamaica I remember some warnings my mother gave to us. The first warning we had even gotten a beating for was: “Never eat from anyone.”
The other one (among many) was “Do not allow anyone to touch you in your head or comb your hair unless I approve.” Most Jamaican children received these warnings from their parents. But even as a child, if I sat down with my legs stretched out and someone walked over me, something about this would make me angry. Somewhere deep within, I knew that stepping across another persons body was not a good thing to do.
As I grew and came into consciousness, I realized that even someone resting themselves on your shoulder, even in a loving way, is not good at all. It is symbolism of holding someone down and making them stagnant (however it does not mean that the person doing it has this intention).
All of this that I have stated here can be a negative towards the person that it is being done to in more ways than one. One of the ways that can harm a person for the rest of their lives is having a persons glory (or star/destiny) switched.
Now, I am not telling you that every time you eat from someone, or someone crosses over you, or someone rests their arm on your shoulder, that your destiny is being tampered with. No. What I am telling you is that people can use “style” by having loaded themselves ritualistically to steal your star, then they can do any of the above combinations as trickery. What happens as a result is that person begin to rise while the other becomes stagnant. This is a case of glory exchange, where one person steals the bright star of another and hands them their own ill luck in return.
However, there are also some people with naturally malevolent thoughts and feelings who can also affect a persons destiny even unintentionally. These dark thoughts can be projected, even unintentionally, onto another person. Such as the case where my older sister complimented my skin while curling my hair, and somehow immediately after that statement, the iron fell right on my leg, marring the skin she had just “complimented”.
Jamaican people used to say that if someone gives them clothes, the person has given them “dem wear an’ lef'” — in other words, their hand-me-downs. Both descriptions does not sound good to the ear as it all implies poverty. Giving away ones clothing is never good and accepting is also not good.
The giver should not use what he has sweat in and give to another person, no matter the family connection. And the taker should not accept the hand-me-down.
This is yet another way of removing goodness that one has brought from Heaven with them. The giver would have given away his goodness not even realizing that this is what he has done.
Doing this is a “sweat exchange” no matter if the clothes has been cleaned. The word “sweat” is put in quotations because it is not literal sweat I speak of. Here, “sweat” means energy transference.
This is how it works:
Barbara has a wedding gown. She has been married for 10 years. Nancy, her sister, is now engaged to be married and so Barbara now decides to lend Nancy her wedding gown. Barbara’s marriage is OK. It is loving but there are small problems, as usual, within their new family… or perhaps in the back of Barbara’s mind, she made a mistake getting married.
However, because of her religion or culture, she must remain married. Yet the feeling of unfulfillment persists. But now she hands her wedding gown, which represents her marriage and all that she is, to Nancy. Nancy now marries the love of her life wearing her dear sister’s wedding gown. However, a year into Nancy’s marriage, Nancy and her husband separates and are heading towards divorce. All of this came through energy transference of this one wedding gown passing along the unfulfillment of Barbara’s life, which she has kept hidden inside of her.
How? Barbara, regardless of the fact that she has not shared how she feels with anyone, the wedding gown that she wore that changed her life from a single woman to a married woman, now represents the base of her unhappiness … and now she has passed it along. Nancy, who would have had a bright future with her husband, now carries Barbara’s load. And so now, their destinies have been shared.
Now, there are many competent practical spiritualists (obeah men or women) who knows or have the knowledge of how to switch two destinies through spiritual work. This has been practiced throughout the world for ages.
There are many people sitting in high seats or high positions, but those seats do not belong to them. If you delve into their background, you might find that they had a cousin that died horribly, a sister who is crazy, or someone close to them who is stagnant in their life, while this person continues to rise higher and higher. This particular work is not only for wealth, but can also be for more life and health.
So imagine Jerry who is 30 years old but he is very ambitious and wants to accumulate as much as possible and live long to enjoy it. He now meets Anna. She is 21, young, vibrant and also ambitious. She loves him and they now form a relationship. However, Jerry now visits an Obeah man and tells him: “I want to be rich and I also want to have long life so that I can enjoy my wealth.”
The Obeah man scratches his head and tells him. “Listen, your destiny is not for wealth. However, if you are willing to do what I tell you, you can have both wealth and long life.”
The Obeah man will now tell him. “Give me 5 names of people that you are close to or people that you love.”
Without explaining his further intentions, the Obeah man will now search the 5 names and see which of them have a bright star, or bright destiny. The Obeah man now determines that Anna is destined for greatness. Wealth abound and long life is written in Anna’s star! And so he now instructs Jerry to come back to him over a course of time to perform several rituals. Perhaps, some of them involving items belonging to Anna.
However, he also instructs Jerry to marry Anna. From there, Jerry’s business begins to grow and he becomes successful and very wealthy. Anna, however, loses all drive and determination for anything. Strangely, everything she touches turns to ashes. The only money that she can spend is what her husband gives to her. Though her husband is very wealthy, she is very unhappy. Throughout her life, she is dependent on him for everything. Eventually, by the time Anna gets to 35 she becomes very ill. She battles this illness to the age of 40 where she dies.
If Anna was supposed to live to 100, those years along with the wealth she was destined for has been given over to her husband, Jerry. Although she came to the Earth with a bright star and to make an impact on the world, her star had been switched with Jerry’s. These cases are very common.
(Also I should note: The obeah man suffers no repercussion for the work he did. It is the human who has employed him that will later on feel everything he has done.)
There are times when you see wealthy people or people who seem as if they are enjoying their life in a particular way, or even some people who have outlived everyone in their family (not all cases), someone’s star/destiny has been switched.
They say this all the time within Hollywoods all over the world and celebrities who bloom while their partners or others have either died, became addicted to drugs, or simply become worthless or fall considerably in their status. Perhaps such is the case with a particular famous family?
There are many possibilities of switching or sharing destinies. It can even be from a person who makes a careless speech at the moment a malevolent being passes by. For example, a sister could lament about her own life and wonder why her younger sister’s life is so much better. She could then wish that she had her younger sister’s life instead. The malevolent being passing through can accept this utterance as a job and act on it, switching both destinies of the sisters.
A person whose destiny has been switched will be plagued by nightmares and terrible dreams that does not make them feel good. This is because this persons Ori would have been fighting for them to get their stars back. This person will feel unfulfilled most of their life or feel as if they are searching for something that they can not find.
Often times, you will see a person have some sort of diagnosis or personality disorder. These are also signs of people not aligned with their destiny. Something has been tampered with. Be careful of the person who makes your favorite dessert and brings it to you without you requesting it. Or be careful of some of your items going missing never to be found again. Watch your dreams carefully because most often when your star has been switched, your Ori will alert you.
I advise divination as much as you can from competent people to keep a watch not only over yourself, but also those you love and care for. Mothers, be careful of the child you pamper over the other.
Children are most vulnerable to glory swaps or sharing. Children born for greatness can grow up to be derelicts, prostitutes, or anything less than who they are meant to be. This was one case that I had written about before about family I knew. A little girl saw Angels and would speak to them. Foolishly, the child’s mother told the mother of a church, not knowing this woman was wicked. The woman oohed and awed at the child’s ability and told the child’s mother to bring her to church the next day. She did as told and in the middle of the service, the mother of the church took the child from her mother’s grasp, laid the child on the ground and walked over her back and forth 3 times.
That child never spoke of Angels again. Now all grown up, she has had hundreds of boyfriends, and lives a scandalous and stagnant life that makes her mother miserable.
Exchanging glories, sharing glories, or dimming a persons star, are works that are also performed in church, not only in an obeah man’s office.
Stay prayerful and may your Heads lead you to a good place! When you pray, pray your destiny stays with you and that the light you radiate may continue to shine always.
PS: Always remember that it takes a trap to catch an animal. Not all free things are good things. Try paying your way through life.
Help may not necessarily come from one’s siblings but those divinely sent to one | Àjùmọ̀bí kò kan ti àánú, ẹni orí rán sí’ni ló ńṣe’ni lóore – Yoruba Proverb
Obara,l need your number.
Greetings. All the way from Zimbabwe i dont know how i landed on this blog but iv been searching for the enlightment i got here. I always told people that i feel absent from a certain age. Ive gone for almost a decade or more with this feeling im missing something but i didnt know what. Its only these past days that i met a spiritual leader who has alerted me of such, now im here. Im glad i came through here i need help fixing it though
Hi, how are you. This is an interesting piece and you’re doing a great job. This particular one kinda makes me sad though. Well, I just wanted to ask if there’s any possibility a lost star can be reclaimed plus why do I keep hearing other people’s thoughts, I can’t control it. I also pick other people emotions and energies I can literally feel a sad mans pain a horny lady’s desire a scared kids conscience I’m going nuts!………cus at the moment I think I’m in deep trouble I’d appreciate it if you could spare some of your time and… Read more »
Hi Obara. Greetings from Nigeria. I love what you do and all the advice you give. I’m 22, a student and I have been plagued with very terrible dreams. I had one a couple of months ago about a robber breaking in and stealing my jewelry (I had a necklace with ruby, sapphire and gold. The robber took the ruby, broke the sapphire in two and took it, leaving me with gold and half a sapphire). I woke up from that dream sweating profusely and feeling dread. Apart from that, I have a lot of nightmares, although they have subsided… Read more »
Hi Sushie, thanks. To be honest I have stop giving Dream advice or interpretations on the blog, too many people send their dreams in, it has become overwhelming, most people don’t even greet me in the emails, so no more. If you want to know what your dream means go get a divination there are some good ones there in Nigeria, or if you want me to do it let me know. Blessings.
Trust you’re well.
If I want you to help me do a divination, how do I go about it? Also, is there any way I can speak with you directly? There are quite a number of things bothering me, which I need your help with.
Hi Obara I need one in Florida please.
I bumped into your blog two days ago when I was desperately looking for answers to the tragedy that befell our home. I cried to God in prayer asking Him to reveal to me what it is that transpired and led to the events that started as far back as 18 years ago involving two of my brothers. Everything you wrote in this article describes my brothers but to the an even worse extent. It has been almost 18 years now since they were rendered useless to both themselves and the family. Without going into more details, I would like… Read more »
Hi Dori, sorry to hear about your plight. Every problem has a solution, however. If you have faith, you will receive justice. Is there something you want me to do for you? Is that what you are asking?
Yes please, if you may, with the queries I mentioned in my comment above.
The only way I can have an understanding of what happened is through a divination (a reading).
Ok, so should I just schedule a date on the Readings tab? Forgive me, I am new to this site and have no idea what the correct procedure is.
No problem. Yes, you can schedule a reading there.
Obara,,,u re the great reader of our time, please where re u i want to have a great discussion with u,u will be of help to the poor boy…all protocol will be duly observed
Reading this post jerk mi. I’ve always never liked when nobody touched my head unless I give permission. Nothing gets me more upset.
Thank you so much for the knowledge As per usual BLESS UP !!
Does this go for babies too. Let’s say someone gave you a crib that their child used to use ? Can babies stars be crossed ?
Thank you for sharing this stupendous information ObaraMeji and for guidance on this critical prayer point. A whole lot to meditate and act upon.
A common idea to recover one’s stolen stars is by bathing in treated water (typically consisting of herbs). Do they work?
Could these be made by anyone for their self medication as it were?
Be continually blessed for your genuine service to the seekers.
Ase Kazkazil, thank you for the prayer. I pray good things for you in return. As much as I believe in baths, as long as they are prepared by competent people, in the switching of Stars/destinies, I dont think a bath is enough to return ones glory. The act must be ceremonial and then check to see if all is now well. Not everyone knows how to do this completely, but some do. Stay Blessed!
Obara Meji, I understand.
I need your contact please
Why are STARS associated with a human being living on the earth?
The stars I speak of here are not the literal stars you see in the sky, (if that is what you are asking). Stars are the same as destiny or glory. I have a better definition of it here: https://www.embracingspirituality.com/glossary/star/
Been awhile since I’ve been active here but this is a good post Obara. While I strongly feel this has not happened to me I strongly feel this has happened to 1 family member and I suspect 2 other family members. It’s strange as it seems most of my life some of my afflictions seemed to have protected me. For instance, from as long as I can remember if I wasn’t familiar with someone I would not eat from them (often seen as scornful by others). Strange enough there are times I am hungry and given food and as I… Read more »
The person you giving the food would be right Mike, in this case. Not every case.
Geez this post give me a deep SIGH! Feel like this is what happened to me – I actually feel sad after reading this my sister
It just might be my brother, many people have been affected by this. There is a very popular singer who was bff with a particular woman who was even more talented than her. The girl was making moves about to blow big and then she died. The friend now rose so fast to the top, and is now an international star, literally. She is also talented, but I heard the friend who died was even better. She has won Grammys and Oscars alike. I watched this situation silently being who I am and having certain knowledge and sighed. It may… Read more »
What singer you talking about?
how can one regain his lost glory?
Read the comments, the answers are there but divination is always the first place to begin
*More From The Post: There are many ways that switching stars/glory that I could not mention in the post because it would have made it too long. – Capturing a persons fluids after sexual intercourse is a might way. – Handshakes – Eating behind someone out of the same plate – Laying in someones bed or quickly sitting in a seat one has just left – Capturing anything one has sweat in (clothes, bed sheet, shoes, etc.) – Wearing someone else’s shoes – Among more ways… I may give a class on this one day because there is so much… Read more »
What would happen if the individuals that switched stars lose contact?
I need divination please
I can relate to this message in many ways than one. Thank you Obara. You just summarized the story of my life in this passage extract below. “So imagine Jerry who is 30 years old but he is very ambitious and wants to accumulate as much as possible and live long to enjoy it. He now meets Anna. She is 21, young, vibrant and also ambitious. She loves him and they now form a relationship. However, Jerry now visits an Obeah man and tells him: “I want to be rich and I also want to have long life so that… Read more »
Wow…. Seeing this in story form in this blog post is one thing, but seeing that someone actually went through it is another. This is all so eye opening. Thank you so much for sharing. I am happy you were victorious in your situation.
Temilola, I get what you are saying without you saying it, Ori is extremely important along with our Egbe and all that you saluted, I am happy that you became free. May you continue to enjoy your life, health, your children and happiness forever, Ase!
Wow…this one gave me chills. Two questions:
1. In my attempts at being charitable, I have given away my clothing. Should I cease doing so or can I have a competent spiritualist “clean” the items of my energy before I donate them?
2. Does the same concept apply to me giving away my leftover food to the homeless since I have had some of it?
3. You have taught that we plan our destinies before coming from the spirit realm. When someone’s star is stolen, is it ever the case that they wrote that into their destiny?
RBH questions are answered in the order asked 1-Yes the items can be cleansed before giving them away, and if you choose to give them away, give them to charity not a person you know. Giving them to charity, having them handled by many hands before being given away or sold, nullifies your personal energy transference 2- yes it does 3-It may be so but not in every case. If it is so that the person wrote that into their destiny, then the reason must have to do with their path or with finding their path or assisting them in… Read more »
*by* was a typo, it was meant to be why
Good post Ms. Obara your the only one that give knowledge like this And I am so grateful. Ever since I was small I hate going to altar call becuz them always wah put on inna head and talk a bag a things spirit use to grieve and it was until I was an adult I was told not to let ppl lay their hand in my head and here I am with the great Obara sharing the same info. Thanks again
I don’t know why my post keep not posting.
Thank you Ms Can
Ma, we cannot thank you enough for all the amazing work you do for so many of us. You are a great teacher and we appreciate all your love and support.
Thank you for that post it explained a lot. People are jealous including family members for a life that I have, I wouldn’t wish my pains upon anyone.
You are welcome Annette
Gosh I had goosebumps reading through this post. Mostly because, being Nigerian, I have heard of switching glories/destinies but never really had it explained like this. I sometimes suspect being a victim of such because of the stagnancy I’ve experienced/still experiencing, but with the signs you have mentioned, I am even more weary. I’ve had lots of people jealous and hating me since childhood, clothes & underwears go missing mysteriously etc. Then the Nightmares! Oh the nightmares!! These all happened in my earlier years and life just went downhill from there on. That being said, I have been warned and… Read more »
Lilian my dear; long time!
This is wonderful post and educative, in a situation one has gave out used cloth, what are the signs to run for dear life before it’s too late. And what are required to restored Tampere or swapped destiny or stars.
Emmanuel LOL. A competent spiritualist will know how to divine for you in letting you know if you have been affected and also the rituals and sacrifices to do so that the dim star can become bright again.
By the way a lot of lunatics have also been affected by glory swaps.
Good evening obara good evening to all the blogger well so far I have learn so much from this post obara you always make my day whenever I come to this site I always taking something from it god bless you
Hey Joy! Nice to see you
This is so powerful, we just have to learn to be aware of those around us and no foolishly openly trust any and everybody. many of what I have read so far on your blogs are very revealing and I must say I can relate to many based on the experiences I have encountered…I have never met any one who teaches these things except you and can I truly say that I am willing to learn and take notes from all you have been relating to us. Thank you Obara…I know I was led by my guide to you.
You are quite welcome Destiny. Someone, a Nigerian man just waking up to his consciousness told me the very same thing. He says nowhere on the net you can find these jewels,I am happy to be sharing what I know.
You are welcome mum….I can remember one time in Jamaica(born an bred in the ghetto)where a lady come to me and ask me to loan her a black skirt for her to wear to church( fi har church is the kind dat bruk coconut, fling beer, beat di members and all kind a tings plus the church is located near the sea) I told her no I don’t have ,although I was a frequent attendant at a Assembly of GOD church. Ghetto people full a bad mind especially di one I grew up in…and to make matters worst i am… Read more »
Same suh Destiny, same suh! “When the normal becomes abnormal, evil is at work”. These Africans have some powerful proverbs, one reason why I love them so much.
Obara yes I like the African movies and proverbs…lol…I sent you an email since we last spoke I really hope u see it…
In the perfect world could the obeah man instruct him on how the excel and left anna destiny to anna? Is there no other way for jerry to have wealth?
KB; sadly this is very common ALL the races
It’s like you read a part of my thought. Though I was looking at it from another angle. You hear stuff like this all the time about badminding others and instead of bettering themselves they use whatever means necessary to bring down others. Were I to go to a spiritualist for betterment I sure as hell will reject the switching stars method. I’m a bit different from the average person though as I do not take that which is rightfully mine or that which is free game. So with that in mind I’m the kind of person that, if it’s… Read more »
“if it’s for power, then I would ask that I am able to find a reliable network of like-minded individuals; if it’s for long life, then that I make decisions that will lead to such a lifespan but if it is that I am not allowed that then to be guided to life of minimal negativities within my given lifespan.”
Excellent Mike, this along wid de crab inna barrel mentality.
No teacher like OM. The way u bless us can’t be over emphasized. Thank you so much. God bless you.
Great post Obara! Very enlightening and true. I see some of these very things you have written. Sad indeed…you must be watchful and viligant. And even then…..
Handshaking is also not a good practice, desist from it.
I try my darnest not to shake hand. People please stop reach to shake my hand! I’m putting it in the universe. I do not want to seem rude but no hand shaking.
This is So So true Perfect I taught my children this when they were growing up. Up to now no, one put their hand in there heads or on their shoulders Great Job….keep up the Great Work
Thank you Majorie
I paused reading for a second to say how much I love this post! Wow. Ok back to reading now lmao
Thank you avid reader
Funny thing is I never like people lie on my shoulder. Never it vex my spirit bad. I shake them off or push them away. It could be my child or my partner. I do not like it. I don’t really like people hug me and they usually cuss say me not loving. Which isn’t true! I just feel weird when people hug me.
EXCELLENT POST Obara. It reminds me of how you always say that all things in this world are spiritual whether or not we know or believe it. I see that it is symbolism. A few questions though: 1) As far as the “sweat exchange” example, would that remove the unfulfillment from Barbara’s life or is it just passing something on like a virus. 2) Would that mean someone who has things going good for them should NOT give away any articles of clothing? For example a prominent artist who has a favorite pair of pants that he always wears when… Read more »
Hey Mehk, thank you for the questions! questions answered In the order asked 1-It could work either way, and it is always the case however, sometimes nothing will happen, but why tempt fate? 2- Yes and this is why Ifá is wonderful because at initiation is when Ifa will give taboos and for who, this belongs to, they will he told never to give away anything that they have worn. 3- If it is done through a knowledgeable person then no, they would know how to sort that out. If it is done through utterance and a malevolent being passing… Read more »
Great lessons OM, keep up the good work.
Thank you Dellie
“Exchanging glories, sharing glories, or dimming a persons star, are works that are also performed in church, not only in an obeah man’s office”.
Talk truth pon di good good Sunday!
Anuh every prayer amen fi seh to, anuh every hand fi lay pon piipl head….
The timeliness of this post I tell you…I am thankful for the many times my Ori has intervened and exposed the malevolent ones.
Anuh everything can talk pon internet but trust an believe, dem teachings ya a help mi like wow.
May everii moment yuh spen ah jook type release your bliss and increase the wattage of your stars.
Ase! Thank you so much IB
Great post Obara! I think most people are subconsciously aware of this type of thing, especially the example with your sister. I am working on being more cautious with my random thoughts because I do not want them affecting other people negatively. Again great post!
Thank you Xibi
I am so happy I found you today,I just started my spiritual awakening this January. I have been in the dark for to long.I am now beginning to understand things better. I now understand I have to appease my Egbe .