About Us

For the evolution of mankind...

Embracing Spirituality is a blog of a wide variety of spiritual topics and discussions, led by spiritualist, metaphysician, and traditionalist Obara Meji and her personal experiences. Born out of a desire to assist others in embracing their spirituality, and to lend our contribution to the ultimate goal of the evolution of mankind.
Twitter Feed
Subscribe
Follow
Subscription Form

Get notified of every new blog post!

When a Loved One Passes Away, Is it Good to See Them in Your Dreams?

Some weeks ago, I did a divination with a young lady, and she was satisfied. As usual, I always ask my clients if they have any questions. She said yes, she did, after which she asked me, “Where’s my mother? How come my mother did not show up in the reading?” She was anxious to hear from her mother who had transitioned some time ago.

I felt a wave of sadness come over me. I sighed and asked her, why?

She was puzzled. “Well… I have not dreamt her since she passed away. I think that’s odd. She’s my mom. I thought she might have a message for me in the reading.”

I asked her. “Why do you want to hear from your mother? Are you okay with your mother leaving wherever she is in the world of spirit to come and speak here in your divination?”

She answered, “Yes.”

For a split second, I really wished the residuals of her mother would have chimed in to give her some comfort, but that’s not really how it works at all times.

My mind flashed for a moment on all of the Hollywood psychics that have been promoted over the years, and certain misinformation that are taught to the general public when it comes to the so-called “dead”.

I began to explain certain things to her, and to her credit, at the end, she understood.

I told her, “My dear, for your mother to contact you from where ever she is within the Cosmological world is like a person from a third-world country trying to get a visa to America.”

What I meant by this was, when a person transitions, the spirit that inhabited the body for all the years that it lived in this Earth’s reality leaves immediately and has no emotional attachment to whatever it has left behind, including its own body. If the consciousness of the person who is now in the Higher World wishes to send a message, or visit, through divination, dreams, or any other medium to a loved one in this Earth reality, there is what I can best describe as a “spiritual passport” that that spirit’s Higher Self must apply for before it is ever able to do so.

This is because there is a Universal Body, a Federation, that keeps watch over all of mankind, both within Earth’s Reality and the Cosmological world. Now, there are times when a diviner can pick up a message from a loved one, but bear in mind that that “loved one” where ever he or she is in their current reality, is not aware that its Higher Self is communicating with a diviner in another reality.

The Higher Self of these many “selves” living their own realities, is the Master of all of them, and it communicates to the Diviner if the Diviner can rise to tap into that frequency where the two, in spirit, can meet and form a communication. Whether or not the diviner can interpret the communication clearly, depends on the inner development of that diviner.

One should not wish to see or hear from a passed loved one regularly. If you do happen to dream of them, or hear from them regularly, it means that the Higher Self of this loved one is too close to the lower reality that it has just departed. That Consciousness is supposed to be supporting the spirit that is now living another reality.

So for it to be in the lower reality of where its charge has departed tells us that its charge, in its new life, is not functioning 100% because half of its being is still attached to its old and lesser life. And by “functioning” I mean it can have health problems, disability, depression, anxiety, stagnation in its new life, etc. Because remember it lives another life, but the life that it lives is not whole because a layer of itself lags behind and is attached to its old reality. So the Light of this being is dim as it can not evolve while a part of its self is left behind.

Those are the Earth-Bounds, and waywards, and the ones that are most often commissioned by obeah men.

And unfortunately, those celebrities who humans idolize even after death, and call upon, fall into this category as well. What did we think they meant by “Rest in Peace“? But humans take Rest in Peace to mean RIP, shred the spirit apart and hold them by the foot to stay on the Earth.

I once wrote a post where Bob Marley came to me and told me that he was tired because the world chanted his name too much.

For all of my years in Africa, as a strong spiritualist, I have hardly ever accounted ghosts. I have had run-ins with Shigidi (which is when an image is carved and incantatory word is pronounced over it so that is can be used to terrorize a victim”), Oro (which… I cannot even to begin to explain this terrible one), and maybe only once or twice a ghost had come into my presence.

But let me tell you the reason why ghosts are much rarer to experience in Africa (but there are plenty ghosts in Jamaica, probably looking to win election now).

This is because most of the tribes on the continent still practice ancient funerary rites in sending off the spirit and settling the body that it once inhabited (though this is not the case for everyone). A series of things has to be done and incantatory words would be said, and then there is nothing about this spirit that will haunt anyone still walking the Earth.

Why? Because the whole of that spirit has been successfully sent off to its next journey.

Once, a young man wrote me a letter telling me he wanted to get in contact with his late mother. This is understandable, because to lose a loved one is disheartening. So I share a portion of this letter with you, and at the end I’ll explain.

“Hi Obara,

I missed your last session, but I will make sure I attend today.

I have a question.

Recently, I sent a lady to communicate with my mom who is now late, to ask her if she has any message for me

She was able to see her in the other world and told her I sent her.

As she was communicating with her, my mom father who is also late appeared and told the lady not to disturb his daughters sleep, immediately he removed something like a belt and wanted beating the lady but thank God the lady’s father who is also late came to save her and told her not to go on such mission again.”

Anonymous

What do you think happened here?

The spiritualist is even lucky that she came out of this experience alive.

Now… it is a possibility that she could have contacted his mother or she might have contacted something that only posed as the mother, and not the actually spirit herself. Because what is often unknown by those who play with spiritual things is that malevolent entities are there to trick and deceive humankind, and they can take on the form of anyone, even to face another spiritualist who believes they are contacting someone specific.

Spirituality can not be taken willy nilly. You have to have understanding of the invisible world to enter it.

Since the recent spiritual wave, social media has been filled with people who proclaim themselves prophets and masters and shamans and teachers. Perhaps one or two among the droves of masqueraders may be genuine, but most often many recycle what they have read or heard elsewhere or seek validation of power and so a whole host problems begin.

The ones with true knowledge, those ones who are most high sits low. These ones most often do not advertise themselves and are selective with what they share and with whom they share it with. Because to give a whole chicken leg to a newborn is harmful. This is why in Jewish diet, it is a taboo to eat both meat and milk together, because it is the interpretation of separating the “wheat from the tares”.

There is something that is often done where at the spot of an accident where a person or a mass of persons die, there is a memorial or shrine set up for them, with flowers and candles and pictures. While it may be okay to do this for a time, it should not remain there forever. The human transitioned hot, either through gunshot, car accident or some freak accident, the spirit flies out of the body immediately, but its residuals do not follow the main spirit that immediately ascends, and so they (those layers) linger behind and are bound to that site by that shrine that has been created by the community or the family.

Ergo, an earth bound has been born! And so will it linger on Earth to create havoc among men and possibly more accidents or tragedy at the site of its death.

Overall, when it comes the time for a loved one, a friend, or someone you care about to transition, one should pray at the moment of the occurrence that the spirit finds itself across the many waters that it has to travel to its home.

It is good that we never forget them, but we should know, just as we have to continue with our lives here, trying to fulfill our purpose, so must they settle themselves in their newfound life and living.

Remember no one, ever truly “dies”.

Obara Meji

PS: Note that I wrote the word “regularly” a few paragraphs up when referring to dreaming of a passed loved one. This means that on occasions that they do make contact, it will be to someone in the family whose vibration is high enough for the transitioned loved one to communicate with. If not, they can present themselves to a neighbor, a friend, a cousin, or even the butcher, who ever is vibrating high enough for that loved one to successfully make contact.

Total
0
Shares
5 2 votes
Article Rating
Subscribe
Notify me of
guest

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

73 Comments
newest
oldest most voted
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
GeorgiaGal
1 month ago

Obara, Guess what? It’s been 81 days, 0 hours, 0 minutes, and 0 seconds (or if you prefer, 2 months and 20 days) since your last blog post. Not that I’m counting or anything… 
I need more! Can you help a fan out? 
Looking forward to your next masterpiece!

vaxt-tamam
Dami
Blogger
Dami
2 months ago

Thank you for another insightful post, when my dad passed I was kinda hoping I get to have an encounter with him in the dreamscape (experience cos I had a weird experience with his body a day after he passed) but two times I saw him in my dream it was so casual & random I didn’t even even he had passed till after I woke up. Even though I still grieve him at times I know they probably balling wherever they’ve transitioned to. Oh I’d like to ask what are the implications of honoring em on their death anniversary… Read more »

Dami
Blogger
Dami
2 months ago

Thank you for another insightful post, when my dad passed I was kinda hoping I get to have an encounter with him in the dreamscape (experience cos I had a weird experience with his body a day after he passed) but two times I saw him in my dream it was so casual & random I didn’t even even he had passed till after I woke up. Even though I still grieve him at times I know they probably balling wherever they’ve transitioned to. Oh I’d like to ask what are the implications of honoring em on their death anniversary… Read more »

TCanada
2 months ago

Happy Birthday to you, Obara Today.

Love Coming From Canada to You

GeorgiaGal
2 months ago

Obara, I’m re-reading this for comfort. I went to my mother’s burial site two days ago to bawl my eyes out, letting her know how much I miss and love her and that it’s been a year since her transition. However, it still hurts, and I miss her so much.

Lawd, mi tink mi need some therapy! Nevertheless, it felt good to bawl and talk to her. I received a message from her that I will share with you when you are available. As always, I love your posts.

GeorgiaGal
2 months ago

Obara, I’m re-reading this for comfort. I went to my mother’s burial site two days ago to bawl my eyes out, letting her know how much I miss and love her and that it’s been a year since her transition. However, it still hurts, and I miss her so much.

Lawd, mi tink mi need some therapy! . Nevertheless, it felt good to bawl and talk to her. I received a message from her that I will share with you when you are available. As always, I love your posts.

Maribel
Blogger
Maribel
3 months ago

I am so grateful for this information Thanks Omara Namaste!

TCanada
3 months ago

This post really help with anyone grieving or loss a loved one the pass on in their life. How Obara explained everything for us to understand and know. I just want to say to everyone that read this. Please take care of yourself and listen to your body.. When something don’t feel right. Seek help right away or ask questions. I recently received news last month, through a email message that old time church member, like a Big Brother has pass away. He was in his 50s. He was at home alone, and started not feeling right so he decided… Read more »

TCanada
3 months ago

Thank you for explaining this topic on a loved one passing away from this earth. I really appreciate the information you shared here. It really help deepen a true understanding of the process of the transition of death. When you explain about RIP. I was saying.That why we need to have understanding of the true meaning behind words or things we say out loud or to others. This you explained very well. I would like to know little more about it though? Should we stop saying this regarding a love one who passes away? Like you said, Obara, “Remember no… Read more »

Revebrown
Blogger
Revebrown
3 months ago

Good afternoon Obama: Pray you are well.Another wonderfully written post on spirituality. You know I lost my son a few months back and now as I write this, I am reminded that a long time ago a costly ritual was recommended for him to prevent his death. I don’t remember much about it. Nevertheless, I am certain he returned to Spirit.I am happy for him and know that he is definitely in a better place. As you know, the mysteries of spirituality has not been gifted to me except the gift of salvation and knowledge of righteousness. I stay in… Read more »

OMO
Blogger
OMO
3 months ago

This is another interesting post, thank you for sharing. Hugs

Timothy Johnson Chizorom
Blogger
Timothy Johnson Chizorom
3 months ago

Good evening Obara. Thanks for this post as I have yet again learnt something new. I have suffered a great deal from malevolent spirits in my life. I have seen my late dad like trice and each of this times he doesn’t speak but just looks at me. On one occasion he rode with me in a car on a road crowded with masquerades in full speed which makes them scamber for their lives as we drove through. What could be the meaning?

Timothy Johnson Chizorom
Blogger
Timothy Johnson Chizorom
3 months ago

And that was the last time I saw him. Once I saw my granddad. My father never meet him but in that dream I know he was the one.

Wale
3 months ago

Greetings, Obara. I went back to read your post again. Please, are you able to elaborate more about the universal body, the federation that is keeping watch over mankind?

Peace and love.

Wale
3 months ago

Greetings, Obara Meji. Thank you for another enlightening post. I have dreamt of relatives and in-laws who have passed away. Some have messages, some just observe, and I remember seeing my late dad wave to me, and ever since, any dream about him has stopped.
 
I usually have reoccurring dreams or visions of seeing people that have passed on, all lined up orderly and walking through some sort of light portal. What is the significance, and how does this fit in with your current post? Thanks.
 
Blessings to all.

Wale
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

I will do the needful.

Blessings.

Juliet
Blogger
Juliet
3 months ago

Obara, thank you for this post for it is such a comfort ❣️ I miss my mama always who passed on 3 years ago. Is it strange to say that I do not wish to see her not because I do not miss her physical form, but because deep down I know she did and accomplished her work here. There are moments when the wave of grief hits and I wish to hear from her yet find myself saying out loud that I don’t want her getting involved here because she was vindicated of everything involving human beings. I pray… Read more »

Juliet
Blogger
Juliet
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Thank you for your teachings and reminders, Obara. Your words are always a great source of encouragement and inspiration. May your light forever shine. Lots of love ❣️

asomaic
Blogger
asomaic
3 months ago

Greetings spiritual one, Lately l found myself drawn to spiritual topics and have found your page very enlightening. Talking about seeing dead relatives in dream, l see alot of my relatives. I see and interact with my father like he was still alive and after awhile I’ll come to realize that the man is actually dead. He died in 2006 while l abroad. My two elder brothers died one year apart 2017/2018 and once in a while l see them but l see one more than the other. My aunts, my father’s siblings, once in awhile l see them especially… Read more »

asomaic
Blogger
asomaic
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

You’ve just turned this into an interesting thriller that is a MUST hear or read
l don’t mind you continuing in a different medium if you would like to.
Cheers

Bbeey
Blogger
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Obara please say more of this, some of us are vibrating at a frequency where we need this kind of knowledge to take us one-step higher in our spiritual advancement.

Mrdeejay
3 months ago

Hello Ma….after reading everything you explained about this particular Topic…pls I will like to ask a question.i have noticed that for a while now,I do dream of seeing someone I don’t know in a coffin or sometimes it’s come like a vision as in I will see it very fast and in few days time someone I know will die…pls why is it like that or what is the cause ???? I am really curious to know

Mrdeejay
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Thank you very much for the response….is it only we can communicate with you?

Tessy
Blogger
Tessy
3 months ago

Thank you for all your timely post ma, I guess my vibration was higher then hence why I dreamt about my grandma while she never appeared to none of her own children. Please ma, could you point towards your specific post that shows what to put on our altar, I have gone through all of the ancestoral altar posts but nothing showing what exactly to put on the altar on behalf of our ancestors. However, I have an altar in my home on their behalf where I light a white candle and I have a constant red light that never… Read more »

GeorgiaGal
3 months ago
Reply to  Tessy

Hi Tessy you can visit this blog about the alter: https://www.embracingspirituality.com/2014/04/09/your-spiritual-altar/

Sola
Blogger
Sola
3 months ago

I really appreciate you for this work. I have been enlightened by your teachings. Thank you very much.

Jojo Queen
3 months ago

Greetings teacher, beautiful post and very needed as it’s something I wonder about too. After my nan passed I saw her few times then nothing much after, I have a question that has been bothering me, does the 40 days and 40 nights relate to passing over (after life) and is it more then 1 waters they’ll have to pass? are the waters portals? do they leave Essence of themselves when they pass ? is it possible to see that they will pass on before they do and not able to change it? Thank u so much teacher for this… Read more »

Jojo Queen
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

yes teacher

Maddy
Blogger
Maddy
3 months ago

Thank you for your beautiful work. You are one of my favorite teachers.

Maddy
Blogger
Maddy
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Unfortunately not. From RSA. Hugs, love and light regardless 🙂

Sim
Sim
3 months ago

Truly appreciate the consistency and effort you’ve been putting into the posts Obara! The topics are also always very timely. Thank you.

Question for you. How can we distinguish whether or not it is truly our loved one that visits us?

Both of my grandmothers transitioned (within months of each other) about 7 years ago. I dream them about 1-3 times a year. What’s interesting is that they don’t always speak to me in the dreams, more often than not they are just watching. How do I know that it’s truly them?

Last edited 3 months ago by Sim
Ogo
Blogger
Ogo
3 months ago

My beloved papa passed in November. The type of relationship I had with my dear papa was so unique and loving that I was his most favorite and beloved child. In my grief, my papa has come to console me three times and these dreams were so vivid. I dont see him anymore because he knows am coping better. Nobody has seen him except me because of my gift.

Ogo
Blogger
Ogo
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Thank you

Horace
Blogger
Horace
3 months ago

Hi Obara!

Another great and timely post. Since the passing of my granny, I would always hope to see her in my dreams because I missed her and wanted some comforting words or guidance. This helped me look at life from another perspective. Thank you.

GeorgiaGal
3 months ago

Obara, I cried! Next month will be one year since my mother transitioned, and I miss her so much it hurts. I yearn to reach out to her, yet hesitate, fearing I might disturb her newfound peace. It’s a bittersweet agony, wanting nothing more than to tell her how much I love and miss her. My consciousness is so “low” that I can’t even hear a fly (lol). Your words in this blog have resonated deeply, offering a strange blend of comfort and enlightenment. You said, “One should not wish to see or hear from a passed loved one regularly.… Read more »

loudly-crying-face-emoji-1013x1024-xg3rnr6e
Last edited 3 months ago by GeorgiaGal
GeorgiaGal
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

I know Obara, I know! It’s just that I didn’t even get to tell her how much I love her.

Turepin
3 months ago

On a different note Ma, I sent you a mail a week ago with regret that I have to take my child out for an Examination during the last week in March and won’t have the privilege of attending the meet you plan to organize for march ending in Lagos, Nigeria. I live in Kano state. North West.Nigeria.
God bless you Ma

Hestea030
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Hello Obara, when do you plan to come to Lagos? I sent you my cellphone number in the last post, I’m in Lagos at the moment let me know if you need any help for space in Lagos. Once again this is my phone number both WhatsApp or call […] (Hestea)

Turepin
3 months ago

Another master piece from lya herself. Thank you very much ma. Without meaning to sound like a broken radio on continuous repeat, I must say ma , that your four last posts always come when the similar incidents are happening at that same time in my life
I could not even comment on the last post because I was too shocked and dumbfounded .
WHO ARE YOU MA(kneeling on my two knees,head bowed down and face in complete awe of you as I ask this rhetorical question)
A ma ri yin ba. Ase

Hestea030
3 months ago
Reply to  Turepin

Lol I believe it’s my ori(fate) that brought me to this blog page and everything she had been posting on here actually resonates with my personal experiences too. At first I was doubtful but as time goes on I just believe it has been written. And to be honest I really want to meet her or chat with her personally. I have thousands of questions to ask

Shakirat
3 months ago

Asé!!! This message really touches me. I want to understand having an Ancestors Altar. Will it keep them near ? Will it disturb their resting in peace ?

Lincoln
3 months ago

WOW- I have a question- my wife mother died before Covid and not one of the 5 kids have dreamt her but I have dreamt her twice- What could this be- could it be that I just miss her and dream about her – She would always say I am her fav in law and pick up for me over my wife lol. My mother always get nervous when she dreams her grandmother because it is so vivid and she is always talking to her about some warning- A few times if has been exact! I often wonder if the… Read more »

Lincoln
3 months ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Yep the first time was a couple months after and I woke up and ask her if anyone dreamy mommy and she said she hasn’t but she will ask the siblings. I said well i dream mommy and we were all eating and laughing and she was very jovial

Bbeey
Blogger
3 months ago

These are teachings am fascinated about continue to give more and all of it.
My question is how do you send light or love to a departed relative who is still lingering around the earth or in lower reality to evolve?

Previous Article

The Distinctive Power Behind Prayer and Incantation

Next Article

The Untouchables - Why Some People Are Unaffected by Spiritual Attacks

Related Posts
73
0
What Are Your Thoughts? Leave a Comment!x
()
x