October 11, 2011 Obara Meji 58Comment

There are times in one’s life when they have to take time to introspect!. Why are certain things happening to me?…am I the cause of my poverty? Do I make mischief in other people’s life, do I suffer from too much SCHADENFRUEDE?, Am I homeless because I am paying my karmic debts? When I placed Obeah on my neighbor because her child passed her class and mine did not, did God take note that day?, Why did I have to sleep with my sister’s boyfriend?, Am I reaping badness because of that, even though she hasn’t found out?, Why did I curse my mother?, Why did I think that I could test Obara Meji and all would be well?, These are things that some of us should contemplate, and know that every Action causes a Reaction…This is true.

I have come into contact with many different personalities through out my years, but in all my years so far I have met more bad than good, and the sad thing is that most of the bad ones have been women. Evil Delilah’s coming to me requesting to do bad deeds for them, things I cannot mention here. Of course I have NEVER  EVER done any such thing for them, because as you all know, Obara Meji advocates good work not bad!!.

Recently a popular entertainer in Jamaica was locked up, and charged with one count of murder. There are allegations (allegedly), about other charges that will be filed against him when he appears in court. I have never liked his music although I believe him to be very talented, but there was something about him, I could not stand. Now while I realize that there is such a thing as Innocent until proven guilty, I am not surprised that these things are happening to him. Old time Jamaican people has an adage that says “The Higher The Monkey Climb Ah De More Him Expose”, and I believe that this old saying fits this situation. Every human being represent a particular energy and when you start disregarding people and possibly believing yourself above people, even disregarding God, this is when God and his team will step in and cut you down. There are numerous stories of  this man beating people, taking pictures of women in some  sexually degrading positions  doing  things to him that you would only see in a porn movie and then releasing the pictures (allegedly), for all to see, laughing at their pain. Then there are the threats, and blatant disregard for anything living and breathing!, he was some type of God in his own twisted mind!.

Possibly there was a method to his madness!. Probably he subscribed to the mindset that the more controversial  you are the more publicity you get, I mean let’s be for real, this method DOES work for most!. Yet while this maybe so, what he did not realize is that he created a negative energy, not only with his art, (the words to most of his songs were pretty graphic), but with his everyday living. He attracted people around him and who became a part of his team  only heightened the negative energy he continuously fed. There were no balance. He became the example of who NOT to become when parents scolded their children. He became his own victim unbeknownst to him. These allegations may or may not be true, that is not the point of this post. We all are responsible for our lives as adults, and as such we have to be careful of the energies we create in our space and also be mindful of the energies that we invite into our lives. We have to be watchful of the people who come in and out of our lives and also examine our minds to see if we are reaching too far above our heads. We cannot ever allow our actions to negatively impact others. To do this, is to set ourselves  back on the Wheel of Existence. We have to weigh our selves, and by this I mean JUDGE our selves continuously and consistently, and walk through life creating Good Energy, so that others can feel the cleanliness of our space.

What you put out in life is certainly what you will receive, and that is a fact. This particular Dance Hall Artist lived on controversy, he loved it, and so his own life has been plagued by the same, but I am sure that there are people who genuinely love him and they are feeling the pain of what he is now going through, not remembering of the pain HE inflicted (allegedly) on others and laughed with his cronies about. Through his actions many lives have been affected. My father use to tell us when we were young and if we did anything stupid, “Yuh ah smell yuh arm”  which meant that we were getting too big for our beeches, Jamaican parents taught their children with proverbs. This entertainer was not content with the gift he was given by God,as a matter of fact he publicly denounced God. He received a great platform to send a message and he used it it convict himself and others. He has proven to be a disgrace and has left a bad taste in the mouth of others. Be careful of what you say, what you think and what you do!.The Earth is alive and pulsating, what we do here is being recorded somewhere!…Although he convinced most people of his Intelligence, The proof was not in the pudding as the saying goes….My, How the mighty have fallen!!!.

Tí orí kan bá sunwọ̀n á ran’gba. / 
If one head (a person) is blessed, hundreds others will be positively affected….Yoruba Proverb! 

[Success is contagious]

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KTB
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DWL hot gal Obara mek i buss a laff! yu naffi old up when yu young fi tru tru! I can understand the tiredness from running di blog, typing, den ur personal life. my hat is off to yu an metty. is a full time job. yu cyaa dictate it to di computer to type fi yu wid an app ? jus a ask, not sure dem av app do every rass ting des days. lol mi type about 45 wpm suh if yu eva need me yu kno mi deh fi yu

MTH
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Jump poco inna heels? If a laugh a piss! In Jamaica we tend to judge people alot. What are the Jamaicans reaction to you when they see you wearing a nose ring and have up yu false hair etc?

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Ok thanks

MTH
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hehehehe! I always thought that spiritualists were old and wore full white, red or bluse dress and wrapped their heads. Its good that you are not neglecting your appearance. I totally detest seeing some nice young girls and as they start going church dem old us dem self.

MTH
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Brazilian weave? Kaka fawt, Obara you a proppa hat gal in here? No sah!

MTH
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Bubblez talk with water in your mouth is a Jamaican sayings that mean to be resolute, be serious.

I concur with you on the thingsyou said about Obara.

KTB
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oook suh nurse hall give yu tuff luv mek yu neva go back a jubilee. DWL

thanks MTH as i am praying fi yu 🙂 wat the water in ur mouth mean?

MTH
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Nurse Hall iwas the nurse that use to run things at Jubilee. She was would really handle the teenage mothers. I later heard it said that she was terrible to the teenagers beacuse she didnt want them to come back. LOL. I knew I never wanted to see her again. Never had a second child till more than 15 years later.

MTH
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Bubblez, if you are Jamaican you must have heard about wicked Nurse Hall. I had she to deal with plus a mash up front. After all of that people still a fight mi.

Nuh give up pan yu son. Mek him know him wrong and that you forgive him. Tell if him ever try that shit again, you will deal with him and yu nuh fraid fi guh Fort Agustus (Jamaica’s female prison). Nuh badda talk wid wata inna yu mouth. (Just scare him, nuh badda duh him nutten). I am praying for you.

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Dwl@ mash up front lmaooooo who is nurse hall?

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Yes until the spirit fling it off dem Neva badda mi

KTB
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MTH yes ma mi a read. mi undaneet tear ina child birth too. dat ano good feeling i cyaa imagine experiencing dat bad treatment pon top a child birth an a high pressure.

yea man lol mi get gangster n den really calm. cah mi feel fi truly harm him suh mi glad di calm settle me.

MTH
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Again Bubblez, I was typing another piece a mi life and didnt see your comments. Bubblez, I know what you mean when you say that you have done things for your son.

Bubblez people will pretend that everything is super dopper ok with them. NUH BELIEVE!! We all at some point have had to face some burdens/struggles etc. Your son is acting up, make him know his place but at the same time, let him be assured of your love. I will never advocate for violence against your own flesh and blood, but sometimes you just have to get gangster on them especially when you know that you have done all you could. Be the mother and father, then some!

Listen to Obara cause mi ignorant when mi ready!

MTH
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Now I know of people who are super jealous of my daughter and all her accomplishments and mean her harm. Bloggers, please do get me wrong. I am not showing off about her. If anyone here knows and wishes to confirm what I am about to say please do you.

Everyone in and around the Kingston & St. Andrew area must have known about Nurse Hall (Dennis Hall’s wife) at Jubilee Hospital (the Maternity hospital). When I went to clinic Nurse Hall, spoke of the top of her voice and brought shame to me.

Through it all I was lucky though. I found favours with some nurses/doctors. I had been admitted because my blood pressure was high. Now I had no concept of what they were saying (remember I wasnt even16 yet). My pressure was so high they thought I was going to die. Finally, one day the doctor took my docket and said I must be tired of being in the hospital and wants to go home. He induced me and I heard him telling the nurses to ensure I was not sent to the labour ward as the nurse/doctor on duty would have treated me badly. The baby was not delivered by the end of his shift. The nurses changed duty and the new set treated me badly. I remembered after the baby was delivered (naturally). I was torn badly. The nurse stitched me without giving me any medication to dead the area. I asked, how many would like to live that?

Ty
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lawd GOD, what a wicked set a people…my heart bleed hearing this…

KTB
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oh MTH mi luv did honesty. it mek mi nuh feel shame a my baggage cah wi all av tings. my bwoy child mek mi cry living eye water tru him try fight mi but mi naaaaaah give up pon him. all choke mi out an ting. no neva av abusive man or no violence ina di house for him si. suh IDK wah him get dat from ooman beater mentality. It tek sum crying an praying for mi not to wish God strike him down or mi murder him yu si. still praying an talking to him. as Obara sey to me wash him off i did cah mi nuh waa nuh danger or harm reach my child. but it is hard not to be angry with him for attacking me when i av been his only parent an made sacrifices dat him nuh kno bout jus feem live. aye sah smh

MTH
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She was dyslexic too. Obara, yu miss di part wey sey shi a guh final year a UTECH (that Univeristy of Technology). The gal has gone overseas to play a particular sport for her work place. She is a wonderful daughter. The other day mi haffi box box har up cause shi fly pass har nest. Other than that one time, nuh problem.

Obara even if she was the worst mi wudda love har still. When she turned 16 and just was focused on her books, I gave the Father thanks. Mi lift mi hands an sey thank yu Jesus cause the cycle has been broken. The mere fact that she didnt become a teen-aged mother, that alone is reason for me to feel proud.

MTH
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Thanks guys. Bubblez mi was a likkle girl and lived in the country and my grandmother lived ‘a town’. So can you imagine di country gal gane a shap a order chicken front? Di shopper laugh yu piss.

I am very honest on this blog, cause last week mi write how di teacher refered to me as a ‘needy parent’ regarding my daughter going on the trip. Obara, I have been getting some breed a fight where my girls are concerned. The big one is in final year at UTECH. The little one is an A-student.

Obara as mi sey, di big one did dunce like bat. Mi siddung wid har and teach har, wud di gal learn nutten. Mi sen har guh primary sch and shi neva learn a ting. Because shi di dunce, teacha neva pay har nuh mine, the pickney dem laugh affa har and call har ‘dunce bat coolie gal’. Mi sen har guh prep sch. Shi neva learn a ting. When she was in grade 6, the January I could not find the sch and the sch put har out. I tried everything to get the money. No money would could come. I saw they had ‘massage’ jobs in the paper,when I applied and went it was a job where you have to do massage in the nude. Cut out as that wasn’t for me.

Two weeks went by and my father learnt she was out of sch. He took her and registered her in an All-Age sch. Obara, because that memory was so painful I somehow blocked it out. I dont even remember how she got uniform etc. Now the same daughter didnt learn a thing in primary or prep sch started shining like a morning star. She then went on to high sch. She was even recruited by Kingsley Cooper to model for Pulse. She went and then that’s not for her.

KTB
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did affi laff wen yu guh shop fi chicken front doah dwl

KTB
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[email protected] that everlasting story was interesting. mi glad dem visit yu an give yu praise ma! job well done an dem mek yu know 🙂

morning Ty prayers an blessings to yu an all a wi

MTH
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Bubblez and Ty morning. Never saw your comments was typing the everlasting story above. hehehehe! Have a great day.

MTH
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Thanks dat means sey mi can talk. Everyone viewing this respect!

Obara last night while I was in the shower, I was saying to myself that I did not know my grandfathers, they both died before I was born. Both my grandmothers died when I was 12 years old. I was saying not even a picture I have seen of what my grandfathers look like.

I thought about my grandmothers. I thought about how I was angry at my mother’s mother for a long time. She was a practical joker and one day I remember her saying ‘what to cook today?’ Shortly after she called me and sent me to the shop to buy chicken front as she didnt want any chicken back or chicken foot. I went to the shop and the shopkeeper laughed and gently told me that there was no such thing as chicken foot. When I came back my grandmother and my aunts almost died laughing. What they didnt realize was that I was hurt.

My father’s mother was a serious Seventh Day woman. She lived very far from her church. She would stop by our house for lunch as it was too far for her to walk home back and then returned to church for their after lunch continuation. I would always be eager to mix the lemonade for my grandmother and fix whatever I could.

Thinking about both grandmothers made me laugh and cried. I wished they both knew how much I loved them. I woke up around 2 am as I could not sleep. My sister told me of a neighbour whose daughter (18) just upped and moved out to live with a man. This disturbed me as I know the mom has moved heaven and earth for her 2 girls.

Obara, I kid you not. I was there and like someone started talking to me. It was gender-less but I am assuming it was one of my grandparents. The ‘talk’ was to tell me that I am a good mother and they love me. My mother didnt love me from as far back as I can remember, because I look a lot like my dad. Later, I became the source of her greatest shame, I because a mom before the age of 16 (please note, she loves her daughter world without end from the baby was born).

Obara, the force told me its the village that helped me grow my (big) daughter thats why I didnt have any problems with her while she grew. The spirits helped her to do well in school as she was never a scholar. What shocked the shit outta mi, was when they told me that they kept sickness at bay because I was a good mother and I never really had nuh bag a money. Obara I was surprised when they asked me how much time yu eva cry di pickney dem guh doctor? (both children only once each. Big girl inna har 20s, baby is 8). The spirit sey not even a yeast infection yu eva get inna yu life an mi know yu use tek man.

The spirit showed me 3 times when I was about to be raped and it didnt happen. Obara, I wasnt frightened. I laughed because I know that setting the water wasnt in vain and I spoke and listened to them.

KTB
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good morning Obara MTH an peepz i r reading

Ty
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Alafia Obara, morning to all..dey yah a peep but present to class..praying for everyone…

MTH
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Teacher, I am present, come mek wi talk. Mi have sumpten pan mi mine fi discuss.

MTH
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Hey Ty, like yourself I am very jovial but lately I have become a loner. Now that I am enlightened I am cautious of everything I do and say. I, too am very grateful for this blog. It is like my oasis.

Ty
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For some reason people’s bad energy seem to have more of a pull or effect on others more than their good energy…I think that is why I love the title of this blog, be careful of the energy you bring into my space…it speaks volumes…

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Me tuh enuh

MTH
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You know that people bring out certain things in you:-

1. I have this friend I really like her, when I am around her I cursebare bad words
2. I have another friend when I am around her I feel like Ms. World. She isnt that pertty but how she carries herself, lilke Ms. World rubs off her.

3. My former job, the ladies in my section, they were so negative, they drained the living day lights out of me.

4. There is this friend I have, the amount of respect he has for me at work keeps me grounded. He is so always well groomed, that because we are friends and sometimes have lunch, I have to ensure that I am sharp too.

5. Most importantly, my little daughter puts out a certain aura, that makes me feel like super-woman.

MTH
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Obara I dont want to believe that. What a waste of a talent. *sigh* He reminds me of Chris Brown, very troubled.

Obara meji
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Obara meji

That is what we need to do, examine the people in our lives, yes it does speak volume

Ty
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mi narrow down to the bare minimum now…don’t get me wrong, i am a jovial person and out going, but i am very protective of my space these days..

MTH
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As it relates to the DJ that is behind bars. He was my favourite DJ. I thought him to be so intelligent/witty etc. Even during the trial I WAS defending him that the guy he is accused of killing was no angel. Blah, blah. I have been to churches and heard persons with the prophecy that he would be free. I thik he heard these too, hence the sheer level of cockines I have never seen before.

I remember how I would dance and rail up to his song. In fact, my daughter’s father (a veryolder gentleman) he would play his songs in his vehicles. We both loved the song ‘Slow Motion’. During the trial I used to read a popular blog and they would slaughter him over there. That is where Is aw Obara and liked how she reasoned.

The blog showed pictures of him with a devil tattoo and other demonic ones. He bragged about being a lodge member. Whilst everyone is free and as has the capacity to do what ever they want. My stomach turned when I heard the voices notes where he was plotting to go kill one of the men’s mother. I reflected how he had men beat up a young lady (19 at the time). She said 4 men beat her and she peed on herself when the blows started to rain down.

It was reputed that he let a picture of one of his prodigies givinghim oral sex. I remembered seeing her in a dance and I went to her personally and told her not to let it get her down. She was grateful and I saw the pain. However, I didnt gain any joy, but I had to agree that what goes around comes back around. Somehow pictures on his phone were leaked showing his baby-mother giving him oral sex and HIM having anal sex. However the most damaging were the voice notes. Those were the nail in his proverbial coffin. So the same knife wey stick sheep, stick goat in that he used his phone to destroy a life and the same phone came back to destroy his life. I still listen to his music. I just wish that he uses this time to reflect and make ammends for his wrongs.

I know he is not beyond restoration. I feel it in my bones that he will become an inspirational person working for the Lord. Remember the great men of the bible had tarnished pass (David, killed Uriah, Saul persecuted christians etc.)

Obara meji
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Obara meji

He will never change

Obara meji
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Obara meji

Wash your mouth out with soap!!!! Chris brown is nothing like him!!!

MTH
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Respect all viewers to this site, Lady O, big yu yuself.

I have come to really love this site and all the lessons I have learnt. I love this post and can tell you that I agree with what was written. I have this friend, he is a grown ass mean and all he does is complain how his mother did not do for him the things she has done for his sibblings. Let me quickly add, he would do ANYTHING for me. I would listen to him, tell him when he is wrong and just generally be rock.

I noticed when he comes by, a negative energy is up in my house. Sadly, I am thinking to tell him NUH COME BACK A MI YAAD. Rass man, evry day day groaning. His mother had him as a teen, I KNOW for a fact that she did her best. He being the first honed her skills in being a better mother. I was a VERY young teen when I had my daughter and I have everything in my power (all legal but not all above board) to let her be a responsible respectful young lady. He had the gal to say that if I could have done so much for my daughter his mother could have done the same. I told him that his momm might have not done everything YOU think she should have done, but she is human and you are pushing 50.

Long and short of it, this man drains my energy and he is not my child or significant other.

Questions2infinity
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Questions2infinity

Woww. I’m surprised and sad to hear that you’ve come across more people that r bad than good in a LIFETIME when I’m sure they know what type of person you choose to be perhaps they r testing you. About the women I’m not surprised bc I’ve always heard that women r more wicked then men n plus there r more women in the world n we r the ones that tend to act through emotions more than logic at times

dahlia
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dahlia

I wish I had been in contact with you ten years ago. Each time I read your posts a lot of them I can relate to personally. I used to feel sorry for everyone in trouble but I have learned that I have to invite people that defend me and stand up for me in times of trouble.

I no longer want to associate with fake badminded back stabbing people.

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