There are times in one’s life when they have to take time to introspect!. Why are certain things happening to me?…am I the cause of my poverty? Do I make mischief in other people’s life, do I suffer from too much SCHADENFRUEDE?, Am I homeless because I am paying my karmic debts? When I placed Obeah on my neighbor because her child passed her class and mine did not, did God take note that day?, Why did I have to sleep with my sister’s boyfriend?, Am I reaping badness because of that, even though she hasn’t found out?, Why did I curse my mother?, Why did I think that I could test Obara Meji and all would be well?, These are things that some of us should contemplate, and know that every Action causes a Reaction…This is true.
I have come into contact with many different personalities through out my years, but in all my years so far I have met more bad than good, and the sad thing is that most of the bad ones have been women. Evil Delilah’s coming to me requesting to do bad deeds for them, things I cannot mention here. Of course I have NEVER EVER done any such thing for them, because as you all know, Obara Meji advocates good work not bad!!.
Recently a popular entertainer in Jamaica was locked up, and charged with one count of murder. There are allegations (allegedly), about other charges that will be filed against him when he appears in court. I have never liked his music although I believe him to be very talented, but there was something about him, I could not stand. Now while I realize that there is such a thing as Innocent until proven guilty, I am not surprised that these things are happening to him. Old time Jamaican people has an adage that says “The Higher The Monkey Climb Ah De More Him Expose”, and I believe that this old saying fits this situation. Every human being represent a particular energy and when you start disregarding people and possibly believing yourself above people, even disregarding God, this is when God and his team will step in and cut you down. There are numerous stories of this man beating people, taking pictures of women in some sexually degrading positions doing things to him that you would only see in a porn movie and then releasing the pictures (allegedly), for all to see, laughing at their pain. Then there are the threats, and blatant disregard for anything living and breathing!, he was some type of God in his own twisted mind!.
Possibly there was a method to his madness!. Probably he subscribed to the mindset that the more controversial you are the more publicity you get, I mean let’s be for real, this method DOES work for most!. Yet while this maybe so, what he did not realize is that he created a negative energy, not only with his art, (the words to most of his songs were pretty graphic), but with his everyday living. He attracted people around him and who became a part of his team only heightened the negative energy he continuously fed. There were no balance. He became the example of who NOT to become when parents scolded their children. He became his own victim unbeknownst to him. These allegations may or may not be true, that is not the point of this post. We all are responsible for our lives as adults, and as such we have to be careful of the energies we create in our space and also be mindful of the energies that we invite into our lives. We have to be watchful of the people who come in and out of our lives and also examine our minds to see if we are reaching too far above our heads. We cannot ever allow our actions to negatively impact others. To do this, is to set ourselves back on the Wheel of Existence. We have to weigh our selves, and by this I mean JUDGE our selves continuously and consistently, and walk through life creating Good Energy, so that others can feel the cleanliness of our space.
What you put out in life is certainly what you will receive, and that is a fact. This particular Dance Hall Artist lived on controversy, he loved it, and so his own life has been plagued by the same, but I am sure that there are people who genuinely love him and they are feeling the pain of what he is now going through, not remembering of the pain HE inflicted (allegedly) on others and laughed with his cronies about. Through his actions many lives have been affected. My father use to tell us when we were young and if we did anything stupid, “Yuh ah smell yuh arm” which meant that we were getting too big for our beeches, Jamaican parents taught their children with proverbs. This entertainer was not content with the gift he was given by God,as a matter of fact he publicly denounced God. He received a great platform to send a message and he used it it convict himself and others. He has proven to be a disgrace and has left a bad taste in the mouth of others. Be careful of what you say, what you think and what you do!.The Earth is alive and pulsating, what we do here is being recorded somewhere!…Although he convinced most people of his Intelligence, The proof was not in the pudding as the saying goes….My, How the mighty have fallen!!!.
Tí orí kan bá sunwọ̀n á ran’gba. /
If one head (a person) is blessed, hundreds others will be positively affected….Yoruba Proverb!
[Success is contagious]
Yuh know I Aguh need yuh fi true, thanks! Yes, mi dear I keep up myself, all blue lipstick mi wear when mi ready one time a girl come to me on the recommendation of another, when she see mi mi notice she took a double take, blond hair and make up flawless, mi ah talk white blond lol, after me read har and tell har the truth, she confess sey when she see mi she almost tek up har bag and leave, lolol
Hahahaha @tek up bag n blue lipstick. Yes jus let me know wen u ready
DWL hot gal Obara mek i buss a laff! yu naffi old up when yu young fi tru tru! I can understand the tiredness from running di blog, typing, den ur personal life. my hat is off to yu an metty. is a full time job. yu cyaa dictate it to di computer to type fi yu wid an app ? jus a ask, not sure dem av app do every rass ting des days. lol mi type about 45 wpm suh if yu eva need me yu kno mi deh fi yu
Jump poco inna heels? If a laugh a piss! In Jamaica we tend to judge people alot. What are the Jamaicans reaction to you when they see you wearing a nose ring and have up yu false hair etc?
Ok thanks
Heel, dem use to chat mi, lol, ma, mi pretty like moneyyyy
A church do that to them, not me ooo, all when mi use to jum poco, mi have in mi diamond inna mi nose ah jump inna mi heal
hehehehe! I always thought that spiritualists were old and wore full white, red or bluse dress and wrapped their heads. Its good that you are not neglecting your appearance. I totally detest seeing some nice young girls and as they start going church dem old us dem self.
Mi sey ma!!! 24’26’22 inch to creTe the layers
Brazilian weave? Kaka fawt, Obara you a proppa hat gal in here? No sah!
Awwwwww, bubblez , you are welcome! I love it over here also, but I was tired, I write all mt post myself and oonuh know I am not a good typist, so after a while I grew tired. I looked at other spiritual blogs and they have writers, or they write once per week or the copy and paste, I use to write every day still do now, and I wrote only plus I have people to read and tend to my spirits, children, husband, cook, clean, and do mi hot gal Brazilian weave, lol, Sa-Fo email was one out.… Read more »
Bubblez talk with water in your mouth is a Jamaican sayings that mean to be resolute, be serious.
I concur with you on the thingsyou said about Obara.
Memba mi caws mi wi fidget bubblez
Ok Obara i kno yu super busy. will memba yu I also want to sey thank yu mama. noticing that yu stop blogging here fi quite a while but yu neva stop teach. is like yu come ova wi odda place an still share ur knowledge an gain some ppl dat was searching fi knowledge an yu helping me an others embrace wi spirituality. Thank you Obara Meji!!!!!
Bubblez, we need fi deal with the situation wid de kid, him Nuffi a choke yuh out, no saw ah twine email yuh tomorrow
But she outta wads, de new post is up, will try to write the one on numbers today, I am so busy
oook suh nurse hall give yu tuff luv mek yu neva go back a jubilee. DWL
thanks MTH as i am praying fi yu 🙂 wat the water in ur mouth mean?
Nurse Hall iwas the nurse that use to run things at Jubilee. She was would really handle the teenage mothers. I later heard it said that she was terrible to the teenagers beacuse she didnt want them to come back. LOL. I knew I never wanted to see her again. Never had a second child till more than 15 years later.
Bubblez, if you are Jamaican you must have heard about wicked Nurse Hall. I had she to deal with plus a mash up front. After all of that people still a fight mi.
Nuh give up pan yu son. Mek him know him wrong and that you forgive him. Tell if him ever try that shit again, you will deal with him and yu nuh fraid fi guh Fort Agustus (Jamaica’s female prison). Nuh badda talk wid wata inna yu mouth. (Just scare him, nuh badda duh him nutten). I am praying for you.
Dwl@ mash up front lmaooooo who is nurse hall?
Yes until the spirit fling it off dem Neva badda mi
MTH yes ma mi a read. mi undaneet tear ina child birth too. dat ano good feeling i cyaa imagine experiencing dat bad treatment pon top a child birth an a high pressure.
yea man lol mi get gangster n den really calm. cah mi feel fi truly harm him suh mi glad di calm settle me.
Again Bubblez, I was typing another piece a mi life and didnt see your comments. Bubblez, I know what you mean when you say that you have done things for your son. Bubblez people will pretend that everything is super dopper ok with them. NUH BELIEVE!! We all at some point have had to face some burdens/struggles etc. Your son is acting up, make him know his place but at the same time, let him be assured of your love. I will never advocate for violence against your own flesh and blood, but sometimes you just have to get gangster… Read more »
Now I know of people who are super jealous of my daughter and all her accomplishments and mean her harm. Bloggers, please do get me wrong. I am not showing off about her. If anyone here knows and wishes to confirm what I am about to say please do you. Everyone in and around the Kingston & St. Andrew area must have known about Nurse Hall (Dennis Hall’s wife) at Jubilee Hospital (the Maternity hospital). When I went to clinic Nurse Hall, spoke of the top of her voice and brought shame to me. Through it all I was lucky… Read more »
lawd GOD, what a wicked set a people…my heart bleed hearing this…
oh MTH mi luv did honesty. it mek mi nuh feel shame a my baggage cah wi all av tings. my bwoy child mek mi cry living eye water tru him try fight mi but mi naaaaaah give up pon him. all choke mi out an ting. no neva av abusive man or no violence ina di house for him si. suh IDK wah him get dat from ooman beater mentality. It tek sum crying an praying for mi not to wish God strike him down or mi murder him yu si. still praying an talking to him. as Obara… Read more »
To God be the Glory @MTH
yes, to God be the Glory! every child ano star pupil eno sum a dem learn different or av artistic talents. she reach a UTECH. yu av done well MTH be proud
She was dyslexic too. Obara, yu miss di part wey sey shi a guh final year a UTECH (that Univeristy of Technology). The gal has gone overseas to play a particular sport for her work place. She is a wonderful daughter. The other day mi haffi box box har up cause shi fly pass har nest. Other than that one time, nuh problem. Obara even if she was the worst mi wudda love har still. When she turned 16 and just was focused on her books, I gave the Father thanks. Mi lift mi hands an sey thank yu Jesus… Read more »
annuh every pickney bawn fi bright, she may have a piece ah talent lay dung somewhere else, Albert Einstein was dyslexic I believe, oonu correct mi if mi wrong, nutten fi shame bout @MTH, just be her support. I love your honesty because you are real to me, I am very honest too about my life, ni nuh care
we are all talented, the hardest aprt is to find what our talent is…I am so happy she is shining and that you never gave up on her…remember this life is a long road and sometimes it takes a while to find our lane…
Thanks guys. Bubblez mi was a likkle girl and lived in the country and my grandmother lived ‘a town’. So can you imagine di country gal gane a shap a order chicken front? Di shopper laugh yu piss. I am very honest on this blog, cause last week mi write how di teacher refered to me as a ‘needy parent’ regarding my daughter going on the trip. Obara, I have been getting some breed a fight where my girls are concerned. The big one is in final year at UTECH. The little one is an A-student. Obara as mi sey,… Read more »
did affi laff wen yu guh shop fi chicken front doah dwl
wow@mth that everlasting story was interesting. mi glad dem visit yu an give yu praise ma! job well done an dem mek yu know 🙂
morning Ty prayers an blessings to yu an all a wi
I love the everlasting story, this story makes me feel good Mth, because it means what I am writing and posting is not in vain..yes you were visited
Bubblez and Ty morning. Never saw your comments was typing the everlasting story above. hehehehe! Have a great day.
Thanks dat means sey mi can talk. Everyone viewing this respect! Obara last night while I was in the shower, I was saying to myself that I did not know my grandfathers, they both died before I was born. Both my grandmothers died when I was 12 years old. I was saying not even a picture I have seen of what my grandfathers look like. I thought about my grandmothers. I thought about how I was angry at my mother’s mother for a long time. She was a practical joker and one day I remember her saying ‘what to cook… Read more »
good morning the new post soon put up, will try to write two today
good morning Obara MTH an peepz i r reading
Alafia Obara, morning to all..dey yah a peep but present to class..praying for everyone…
mi deh yah, mi busy busy ah write a post, but mi wi back and forth wid yuh, lol
Teacher, I am present, come mek wi talk. Mi have sumpten pan mi mine fi discuss.
Hey Ty, like yourself I am very jovial but lately I have become a loner. Now that I am enlightened I am cautious of everything I do and say. I, too am very grateful for this blog. It is like my oasis.
For some reason people’s bad energy seem to have more of a pull or effect on others more than their good energy…I think that is why I love the title of this blog, be careful of the energy you bring into my space…it speaks volumes…
Me tuh enuh
You know that people bring out certain things in you:- 1. I have this friend I really like her, when I am around her I cursebare bad words 2. I have another friend when I am around her I feel like Ms. World. She isnt that pertty but how she carries herself, lilke Ms. World rubs off her. 3. My former job, the ladies in my section, they were so negative, they drained the living day lights out of me. 4. There is this friend I have, the amount of respect he has for me at work keeps me grounded.… Read more »
Obara I dont want to believe that. What a waste of a talent. *sigh* He reminds me of Chris Brown, very troubled.
That is what we need to do, examine the people in our lives, yes it does speak volume
mi narrow down to the bare minimum now…don’t get me wrong, i am a jovial person and out going, but i am very protective of my space these days..
As it relates to the DJ that is behind bars. He was my favourite DJ. I thought him to be so intelligent/witty etc. Even during the trial I WAS defending him that the guy he is accused of killing was no angel. Blah, blah. I have been to churches and heard persons with the prophecy that he would be free. I thik he heard these too, hence the sheer level of cockines I have never seen before. I remember how I would dance and rail up to his song. In fact, my daughter’s father (a veryolder gentleman) he would play… Read more »
He will never change
Wash your mouth out with soap!!!! Chris brown is nothing like him!!!
Yes man energy vampire, block him from you
Respect all viewers to this site, Lady O, big yu yuself. I have come to really love this site and all the lessons I have learnt. I love this post and can tell you that I agree with what was written. I have this friend, he is a grown ass mean and all he does is complain how his mother did not do for him the things she has done for his sibblings. Let me quickly add, he would do ANYTHING for me. I would listen to him, tell him when he is wrong and just generally be rock. I… Read more »
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A blogger emailed me yesterday after reading this post and asked me to re-blog it. I pulled it up this morning and read it over again and saw what I had written and agreed that it should be placed on front page again, to remind us of things we ought to know and practice. Thank you blogger!…I have added some more to the post so it would be good for all who have read it before to do so again…Enjoy!
Woww. I’m surprised and sad to hear that you’ve come across more people that r bad than good in a LIFETIME when I’m sure they know what type of person you choose to be perhaps they r testing you. About the women I’m not surprised bc I’ve always heard that women r more wicked then men n plus there r more women in the world n we r the ones that tend to act through emotions more than logic at times
I agree with you!!..stay strong dahlia!
I wish I had been in contact with you ten years ago. Each time I read your posts a lot of them I can relate to personally. I used to feel sorry for everyone in trouble but I have learned that I have to invite people that defend me and stand up for me in times of trouble.
I no longer want to associate with fake badminded back stabbing people.