During these times when the world is in an uproar and fear is having a jolly good time taunting the minds of the world citizens amid the Ebola scare, Compassion needs a place to fit in. I looked at the link of Ebola victims and survivors which blogger Ty has posted in the Let us Pray post and I feel for them.
Mr. Eric Thomas Duncan died of Ebola recently and more people are talking of his irresponsibility of bringing it to America more than feeling sorry for him losing his life and being ill treated (sent home without being checked) by the hospital. To be honest all of those who are saying this have a right to their opinions, and he, if he knew of him being exposed and possibly infected was irresponsible for taking a plane and putting so many people at risk.
In Jamaica there is a saying, “When trouble tek yuh pickney shut fit yuh” when there comes a problem, human beings will try to find any solution. I am not making any excuse for him, and I tend to agree that he may have suspected if not known outright that he may be infected because of being exposed, but perhaps he thought if he came to America he would get help, people in other countries look up to America, and believe that all is possible there. It does not make it right, no it does not, but again, “When trouble tek yuh pickney shut fit yuh”, he may have thought he would be alright in his decision to fly out.
It touches my heart to see suffering of any kind, my kind ah soft heart nuh normal. When my parents were hell bent on me becoming a doctor, I knew I could not. I cried if I saw a movie with anybody ill, and I hated to see even my own blood. Kudos to all doctors and health workers, I pray for them all.
Often times I wonder if the feeling of compassion is suffering itself. I have such soft feeling for people, that I allowed people to use me and often, because I felt sorry for them and their plight. There was the man, who I wrote of here in some of my post, someone I lived with for many years, Mr. High Grade (he was a heavy ganja smoker), he needed to be gotten rid of the moment I got with him. He showed himself, and although I believed him, I worried about where would he go, how would he survive, how would he manage, (he had family, but I felt a deep responsibility for this big knock knee man, knee dem live loving like). I allowed feeling sorry for him to hold me back and make me unhappy for a very long time. While he enjoyed a good life, he never worked, he smoked, cuss and gambled and packed a toops more than a teeley.
It still pains me to talk about that time of my life, so I will stop here. It hurts, not because I loved him, I do not even think I did (sorry fah I am sure, or perhaps him did obeah mi), I told you already that he had shown himself the minute I took him to America, so my feelings had left then, but because I allowed myself to feel compassion, empathy, for an unfeeling, worthless son of a bitch!..ok, ok, I am getting away in this post, I am sorry. Let us continue on the discussion of Compassion. Is it a good thing?, can a soft heart and compassionate feeling for another make you naive or easily taken advantage of?, like me, as in the example I just showed? How far do we take these feelings?
Compassion is good, this I do believe, it is a good thing to have a heart, to feel and care, to assist another with kind and open feeling. With compassion there is love, and love heals.
Ọbẹ̀ tó dùn owó ló paá. /
A tasty soup costs money….Yoruba Proverbs!
[No free lunch…]
All religions are valid as long as it teaches peace and love…..Obara Meji!
There are no disappointments in life, only lessons learned…..Obara Meji
Goodnight my loves! Unuh all de pan a piece a vacation yuh frig! Unuh ladies mussi knocked up ya now… and unuh men mussi need one a MTH porridge pat battam a mawnin!
Mi miss unuh all mi loves! Unuh rest up and have an exciting night… see yall tomorrow!
Yazzy! grung inna de early morning yah! dwln. Yes, the vacation nice, we should be rested and back in action in the hours, lol
peace love an light to you, yuh pretty wife an de look good pickney demmmmmm!
Wonder if Yw/Ty want to have compassion on a childless woman and give whey one…me love pretty kids before age 12, lol If dem at 12 dats alright! hahaha
Cami de two ah dem cuteeeee, and de baby talk like a singer, him voice sweet! Dem mAke nice kids
As long as dem have daddy humor/perspectives, mummy brains/compassion the front door inna trouble wid girls! lololllllllol
Cami sem bright like bulb! But look who ma and pa be
ah oonuh sey busy!
Heeeyyyyy Obara Meji!!!! Cook some food yes. We’ll be there at 6:30 wid di wine and some bisque (yes, Cami, I said BISQUE, hee hee). I soon out again but just checking in. Peace, love, and light and to all a good night. Sleep well and wake up bright for another day that is outta sight!!!
If is lobset bisque with light creme…I’m game, lol. Me don’t drink white so tell Ty to carry 2 of her reds. lol
Me ago do the de people dem work and come back. Obara don’t eat too fast ooo.
NuNu, still watching the cow pasture from yu window?! Yazzy, Kia, Toy! Courtney you still in hurricane mode?
L.O.B.S.T.E.R….goosh ! lol
Me jus see that you gone fi de night, Yw. Alright, enjoy the rest of your saturday/weekend. Big up to Ty and the boys.
Hey Yw, and Cami and Ty, mi soo come oooo, mi ah guh cook ooooo, hungry oooooo!!
Compassion….perspective….power…Thank you Obara for this post. When you have a kid that won’t leave home is it compassionate for you to let them stay? Is it compassionate to kick them out?….Curious…If you kick them out because you believe that that will make them more able to cope and survive in the world, then isn’t that compassionate? It is a little long term – short term perspective here; also a bit of intent…and I guess empathy, introspection and ….ok that is it. Will you all help me out with this thought, please? Will be in and out for most of the… Read more »
Morning everyone…me drop asleep and winked @ 3am, lol.
Yw, apologies. You and your excellent questions…it’s compassion to leave the door open to the offspring for when survival in the great, mean world is shaky. More compassionate when you know that one of the bird just can’t survive outside of the nest.
Good answer Cami, same suh
Morning Obara Meji o.
My mum compassionate cause her door is open to all her “birds”. It’s up to the birds to fly on their own and in turn create a “nest” for parents and siblings to come to when in need of a place to rest and begin again or to retire (parents).
Although the compassion can be open to associates for a temporary stay…lol see I already set a limit on that offer of compassion. lol
Cami, mi sister, you never have to apologize to me.. Yes, love the open door policy. It creates security and a cushion to the hard, rough world we live in. I think intent on both sides play a role in this issue, though. Can the child do better but just wants to exist and does the parent want the child out or truly want the best for the child….You see here the introspection and reflection is important because you need that to assess your intent behind the action.
Bossie I had to apologize because me drop out and go sleep, lol.
Two folds with the open door policy: One it gives comfort to the “baby bird” therefore they can go out into the world with sure because of that sense of security.
Second fold is aiding and abetting a worthless “baby bird” or a scared one that doesn’t want to face the world. Parents compassion will be tested in these instances.
Going to get ready for work, be back at 9″ish”.
I love lobster bisque!!!
Sorry guys.. mi run guh watch 2 more LOL! yuh know when I’m into something I become almost obsessed!
Good questions Nunu! Good answers Obara!
It facinating nuh true Yazz! I wish I could understand what was going on
Ikr Nunu! Mi sorta get it without getting it! All mi know fi sure was mi feel it… so I think if yuh can feel it.. yuh half way get it!
I was a leaders enuh, like the guy in the middle I would drill the bands, looking very cute doing so
Lol, mi can just imagine yuh inna yuh all white and stush up headwrap deh lead drill, lol please nuh tell mi seh yuh all wear high heels tuh!
When spirit tek mi heel fly gone
Lolol when the spirit tek yuh the stushness gawn!!! Yazzy! Obara seh di heels fly offa har foot! Lol
Mi know dem visual deh brah brah! 😀 a who seh gyal nufdi cute while doing it.. I’d cawz they aint never did it or seen it done! Learn dem Obara! Learn dem! 😀
Grung yw, when I wake up I will try to answer, will be pondering on it whole I sleep though
A weh ya seh Obara!!! Yuh still can dweet?? Lead us nuh?? Lawd mi always did tink mi too cute fi di wrap up and sintibg but mi like di feeling of the revival.. and I actually like being “possessed by good spirits that take me some where and back! Obara what is the purpose of this?
Yes Nunu, the sounds determine which realm is coming in,be it India, China, Africa, celestial or the dead
These sound drills are taught eg like when wi learn songs from the hymnal at church or they just make up the cadence as they go along?
Oohhh ok… that’s why you had made me to on Obara that once you and your junior sis went to the revival church that you were the overseer of and when she ketch hinna spirit is the Idian spirit she pick up! And you pick up chiney ting?
Mi sorta a get it!
*made mention* dem phone here spell dem own ting! Lol…
No Nunu, the nes depressed the same all come from the same church, the one in the middle is a bands man, leader or driller
It depends who can pick up the message Nunu, MADDA Chubby was a Warner,so she picked messages of destruction, that was her portion
Ok thanks Obara
It is just symbolic of who they are or messages they may receive or write symbology Yazzy. Revival/Zion is spirituality mixed up in Christianity , coming from slab es and crossed with forced Christianity The jumping and hand movements, and sounds all represent invocation of spirits in this case celestial beings, which in Zion is called 60 revival, if you notice the tone and movements change intermittently p, this is according which spirit being or beings have joined the party or even the message, the guy in the circle is the leader and he is the be guiding the order,… Read more »
Obara this view is totally different from how revival was/is stigmatized. .. it’s fascinating to watch… I found myself moving with them when the order changed. So the sound and movements is also energy they’re manipulating?
It mek mi wan’ tun mi roll! So Obara when the celestials come what kinda messages do they bring? And do the sounds they make determine what realm they come from?
Nunu chica! Yuh dis disappear suh mami? Me too did a wheel and tun… di guy in the middle lead mi… it’s hard to watch and not participate. .. it’s almost involuntary. ..
The ones in the purple are leaders?
Lolol yes Yazzy cause a suh mi deh listen a suh mi deh rock no backfoot!
They are spirit driven Nunu
Good evening All. Me sleepy so I’m going to nap and come back. MTH, as yazzy stated strong points made.
Obara, yu mek sure take yu stance in the opening….good. Everyone is on point with this topic. Yw, I’ll address the bourgeoisie mind set you mentioned in part 1 of this topic. Haven’t slept since around 1 yesterday…insomnia. Be back.
Night Cami Cam. Sleep well sweets. We’ll hang later
I could not resist, Zion sweet, watch 60 revival!
Damn that was amazing… the last bit had me going… I felt something. I’ve never experienced revival before! Obara what’s up with the pencils in the wrap? Any significance? ?
Yes Yazzy the pencil represents message them receiving messages from messengers or spirits
Oohhhh ok! Thanks. I always noticed the pencil.. but never thought much of it. So who interprets the message Obara? Is that a specific persons role? Or do they all get messages? Obara what’s revival? Is it similar to tradition?
Obara n Yazzy unno not alone nor stoopid. I did have one whey cant read big wud n all tun attention ina action. Tru him lazy fi sound it out. Lol me did all resume n job search feem Yazxy. Obara is sekkle fi tru mama wi did a sekkle. Den is pity mi pity him…who gwaan help him blah blah n chixken fat. Mi sehhhh one day i said this rassolle grown man is not my child, him nuh sorry fimi n stap stress mi nerves. I must love me first n more So mi jus plan him move… Read more »
Raeeeeee!!!! Kia a beg compassion fi di hammermentz she did a get! Kia, wi ovastan mami! Jack hammermentz blind nuff a wi! MNL!
Obara, two toops numo??? Unuh hout hof horder! LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO **singing** “I got da magic stick.. you know if I toops ya once, I’ll toops ya twice!” Woiiieee!
Hey everyone! Do you sometimes that is why your parents were upset, because they wanted you to become a doctor. Of course having a soft heart people think you are weak and foolish so they come with all kind of cons to tug on your heart strings.
probably two toops Yazzy mi need half ah measuring stick!
Today’s JOKE OF THE DAY!!!!!!!!
“He packed a toops more than a teeley”
is miggle day and hi still cyah done laff every time hi memberz dat quote!!! Hunuh have compassion on hi tripe! Plzzzzz!!
A toops more dan a teeley! Mi kakerclaartz!!
Stupidddd??…well de whole ah oonuh muss ah laff afta mi, cawen sey look uugh much mi write bout miself pon here, no sah Yazzy people will learn from our stories!
Obara thanks for paving the way! You pour out yuh story dem regula… and it gives us the courage fi rinse wi file morewhile. It’s a healing process… we get it out of our system and we leave it right yasso! Bam!
Yazzy ah yah suh name vent, it look like me an yuh mek a plan fi pick up shit house man, like we have a placard ah walk round wid whey sey EEDIAT OVER HERE, PON IT!! MI NAH LIE YAZZY YUH AH CRIMINAL, MI RATE YUH LOL Henny way de wicked baby fadda did dunce like bat, him look like ah basic school and den dats it, ah tink him cudda spell bat, cat and rat, but big wud like then, there, gone and maybe wudda mek him stamma more dan him really satma Mi did like sey de… Read more »
Lawd Obara! Wi affi tek dem sinting ya and laff but it c-russ and hurtful seh goodaz lack wi mek dem man ya run wid head… or should I say our heart jus chue wi sarry fi dem! A swear I may look stupid a ring out dat de duttie laundry but in all honesty I had never been in one of those and my heart sank… I was like OMG.. I gotta do something to help this guy else someone’s gonna take advantage of him… little did I know it was he that already had planned out how to… Read more »
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO Obara… wi wuklissss dem time dem nuh chue??? Yuh seh gyal weh smart mek dunce and duncer tek step. Is life babygirl… as Kia sehh.. wi fi have compassion but wi fi have it for ourselves more…
There are no disappointments in life, only lessons learnt! ~ Obara Meji!
I now know that there is a fine line between being compassionate and down right foolish.
Obara it seems like both you and I know how fi choose dem mi sweetie. Wi did wuklissss badda dan Ty fadda cutliss! I think it was our compassionate heart that did that… I don’t know what the hell! Mi seh one time me all find mi self hen up a date one duttie bwouy weh cyaah even spell rat or mat or cat! A swear! But he was very good so I had NO IDEA!! now, I don’t judge eenuh… and I wouldn’t a put him pan blasts hif di fuxer neva suh wicked! Mi seh… to get him… Read more »
Kia, mi sey!!….ah nay love, cawsen sey when him use to come home ah night afta having mi car whole day, mi buy him one an him lend fren mek fren crash it, so de shit bukit tek set pon fi mi, an choo mi ah house rat mi nuh sey nutten, but when him come home ah night time an mi inna mi room pred off ah wat watch Judge Judy, as him come in suh mi tep outta de room. One day him ask mi, if mi hate him, why as him come home i leave an nuh… Read more »
Notice how fren crash him car and him tek set pan urs… dats weh mi a talk bout… wicked ppl nuh have a ounce a compassion… dem a user! When we young fresh and green… wi waste weh wi life wid some a dem ole crosses ya. Smaddy pick me up and dus’ me off and tun mi round inna smaddy… mi wuda CHERISH dat…. no… some pple nuh have nuh heart. .. On the flip side… someone may THINK they are compassionate tendencies because they are outwardly showcasing their emotions but on the inside their intent is not good…… Read more »
mad head Yazzy yaz wad up 😀 😀 yu always mek mi buss outa laff Nunu affi guh triple detention Yazzy, Obara, YW, and Cami . Compassion is a good thing Obara but ina yu story it seems yu had more compassion for mr high grade than ur self and that is never a good thing. Especially when yu unhappy. Mr. high grade wid di toops more dan teeley grung 😀 😀 !!! Wah kind measurements dat?! Been there done that so I can speak from experience…one day I just get up and say Gyal who you love more yourself… Read more »
Yazzy, whey yuh ah pint mi out fah, who ah do up Jezzas??…ah de ugly hat mi deh pon!…low mi an mine yuh mek brimstone and fire ketch mi, lmaoooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO! C-russly… we need a ESP fashion night out wid some wicked piece a hugly hat. ..
Fron dem name Gully queen dat mean Shit nuh badda dem. From dem inveigle in dem activities dem not ah scawnful bunch, nopes dem is not!
Dear God, ‘Help de whole ah we ova yah, fi survive Yazzy and har madness, lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, Yazzy nuh ritid ei nuh, grung!
Woiiiieeeeeeee!!!! Obara mi tripe!
Yazzy, you can tell smaddy fi behave??….when you nuh got no behavia, memba sey mi was ah good church hat wearing girl enuh, until you bruk mi out, and pint out to mi sey de hat dem ugly, lmaoooooooooooooooooo
Sassscrise Obara… dem soon dash oley wata ova ya pan wi cah wi a do up Jeeezas bad in ya man… a brimstone and fyah and lightning strike!
ole time Jamaican people sey
COWARD MAN KEEP SOUND BONE!!!
NIGERIA BIG UP!
Yazzy ah suh mi know sey ah yuh and Ty and Cami read mi post dem, nuff time mi put in some joke whey ooda cramp oonuh bell, andnot a line, letter nor fifty cent stamp from none ah oonuh, whey love laugh suh, so it proven sey mi dis ah write in vain! Henny way, mi husband guh to de bank today inna Lago here, and as him fi step in so, braps ah security dat ah put one white sinting sidden him earz temple, him ask ah wha, de security tell him, “Nutten oga (oga mean boss), but… Read more »
Obara yuh hubby mus frighten! But I love it! I love it… I love it! I am very proud with Nigeria ‘ response to the ebola crisis!
There was also more great news coming out of Nigeria. .. they have reached an agreement with the duttie terrorist dem that kidnapped the girls! They are being released!!!!
Just read inthe Jamaica Observer, that the gully queens have opened a shop in the gully. They are selling bun and cheese and such delight.
Now God forbid and one of those ‘queens’ get the Ebola virus nuh done wi wudda dun fa. They have no bathroom facilities, they do everything in the gully. Lawd help wi.
LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! Mr. High grade-knee-live-loving-like have a toops bit more dan a teeley!!!! … mi seh a cry mi a cry!!! Why God??? WHY!
I know this is a compassion post so let me get it together… mi read an mi bruk dung fi see di ppl dem a mourn fi dem dead… can’t even bury dem in peace and that shit rips out hany badi wid heart, heart!
Mek mi guh finish read and come … good afternoon mi sweeties!
Teach what a lovely poem? A am notalarm per se. I am just mad at out govt and how they are treating us. They are behaving like we do not have the right toknow. I am ot asking to be in the meetings, just come back and tell us something sensible…
Dem a diss wi when dem nuh waan tell us di chute…Oh Nunu, tell Cgoh, sey mi sey howdy and mi feel fi pray fi him.
Large up ES fambo!!! Obara sass crisse shi wicked looool.MTH dat mi did run guh do!!! Yw seh hyena breath looooooooooool! Nunu yailings! Courtney if yu tink yu did weak yu shuda zimi! Gawd kno shi ketch mi off guard, mi neva ready smdh!!!
is a lady weh always put togedda enuh hair check, nails check, outfit check, hygiene noooo check
Kia do NOT kill me… bout hygiene nooooo check!
Dear Jeeezas! Have compassion pan mi tripe when mi read dem comments ya daily.. and it stawts to twist up and mi mout wide hopen but nutin nah come! Help mi Jeeezas suh fly nuh guh dung deh and stuck.. den mi breath guh smell like mi swalla a cesspool truck
Nunu mi gal, wey dey gwan? Just now, I read an article that states that America can treat mussi up to 9 Ebola patient at a time. If others are affected then health care providers will go to them. Now, when journalist a ax the Chief Medical Officer (or warra har ty-kle, is like shi waa get bringle). Dem ax di big forehead woman wey ugly lacka wah, one simple question, where was the American mad quarantined? No ansa and had the nerve like shi waa have attitude. Information Min. Sandrea Falconer and the Chief Medical Officer, rubbed be the… Read more »
Mth mi know yuh ah fret,
chick V ah ravage Jamaica
Ebola ah caws su much death
Mth, Mth cool yuh head mi fren
we haffi find a solution
wuss like how Jesus nah come back agen
Mth Mth seckle yuh nerves
God nah mek we suffa
pon we him nah put no curse
Ebola soon gone
Chick v soon gone
soon sinting soon come
fi ring aneeda alarm
But In God we truss
and dat is a muss
calm yuh self me fren
all de suffering soon hen!
Unuh fi behave beta sometime! Grung!
“MTH, kool yuh head mi fren
we haffi find a solution
wuss like how Jesus nah come back agen”
Yw yw welcome back home
yuh see how long yuh did leff we by we self all alone
Yw yw doan go whey agen
caws nowhere in de world you will find such friends
Yw Yw tan wid man
have ah heart, feel fi we, have compasshan!
Big up Nuns, Mth, Obara, Courtney and Kia B.
Big up Yw! I’ll be back later people
Kia, run guh wash yu face, yu caan tek nuh check? Nunu, Courtney,Kia big up sed speed.
Grung@ MTH yuh cyaan tek nuh check lmaoooo
Dats why mi live yuh Yazzy, ah suh mi know sey ah you and Ty alone read wha mi write
Lolol tell har deh M!
me tuh Mth
Teach mi put on mi parson collar fi match di hat wey YW bring back fi mi. Courtney, didnt Gustavo hit your country recently? I prayed for you child. Glad to see you. I get annoyed and I am asking for prayers that I beat this. My boss was sent some circulars from the govt re Ebola. Now I am terribly angry. Not angry at my boss, I really like that dude. Just angry that it had to take the ‘exposure’ yesterday for these SOBs to act. Where was this info while last month, 2 months ago, last week when… Read more »
They can’t handle chick-v suh how dem guh deal with Ebola if it ever should hit the island
Lawd mi feel it fi yuh Kia, oh Godddddddddd!!!
Ooooooo unno please have compassion pon me!!! Why di tinkin mout ooman jus come talk ina mi face RRRRRRR all mi nose n eye stawt water kmrt brb
lol i weak
Have mercy pon Kia lawd!!!!!lololol
Kia B, large up!! I wish that she would have a passion for oral hygiene rather than to try to match that of a hyena’s…
—————— if a laff a pap up! Kia seh rrrrrrrrrr————
Kia she single??? Maybe yuh can do her a favor and set her up pan a blind date wid Pastor Halitosis… give her a taste of her own medicine …
Morning everyone I think compassion is a double edged sword. Its like walking the thin line between love and hate. It shows that you have a kind heart and love for people but it also leaves you open to be taken advantage of and people will try you. I have this associate that i have been wearing loosely for the a while now. When they reached out to me very recently I felt as if the communication was only to offload their issues and maybe guilt trip me into feeling sorry for them, to pick back up our communication. I… Read more »
What is up, Ms. Courtney? Have to agree. I believe in compassion but there are always lines in the sand. I do not pray for my enemies; is that lack of compassion? If a snake is known to be aggressive and I decide to help, I must be prepared to be bitten because I know that is quite probable. It would be naïve of me to think that that same snake (wid the history it have) would not bite me…
Yw, mi wish I was getting these teachingz from long time. .. bout mi de a kneeville a pray fi enemies! Kmft….
Hey Court! “Sometimes you must love people from afar”… Court, I’m in total agreement! It’s not a lack of compassion to do so…
Africans are not dumb, but they are very welcoming people, they have been for so many years, but the time will come when people will be rushing to go there and live, mark my words!!!
Esp bloggers, my regulars, oonuh welcome at my house!
Move ova Obara… if is even under di dining room table a my space dat! Mi humble like calf … thank you for the offer.
I too believe that one day Africa must rise… matter of fact that’s possibly the shift that we are speaking of!
Good Points MTH, but mark my words, very soon to come, Africa will be the safest place in the world to be. I thank God I have a house there!
MTH, yuh did have yuh parson frock an colla dis mawnin man, Aseeee…what a sweet prayer! Yuh puddung ova suh!
Howdy everyone. I want to give an account of this Ebola scare from my Jamaican perspective. Teach earlier we were planning to come to Nigeria in December, Nile even went and got vacinations for himself and children. Then we started hearing about Ebola. Maybe, because I had planned to travel to Africa, I ears went up and my heart opened up. I watched the numbers growing and sent up prayers. We (the world) wre just catching our breaths from the Malaysian plane that went missing and the bring back our girls campaign. I would engage people in discussion about Ebola,… Read more »
M, your points are always solid and facts filled. Love it… keep it coming
ok Yw, np
I agree Yw, Compassion is a feeling which one cannot help, it comes naturally to those who have it, and I refuse to believe that everyone does not have even a hint of it.
It can however be a painful emotion, as a matter of fact it is,for me at least!
Have to step out for a bit. Ketch up soon…
To me, to me, to me….compassion IS always good thing. I do not think that it makes you naïve. I think that many times we (or at least me) have an inclination as to what a person may be about but it is when we do not listen to that voice inside that we say we are naïve. To my mind, you can be very compassionate but walk right past someone in need…How is that? Well, because the cost to help is too great to yourself or those you may love…Self-preservation is a natural part of our psyche. If helping… Read more »
Is it truly always a good thing Yw? Btw, it’s awesome seeing ya back! Yuh cyah tan weh suh long… wi dunce like bat widout yuh.. a Obara seh suh! 😀