Obeah/Witchcraft

SYMPTOMS OF TYING/BINDING A PERSON THROUGH THE ACT OF OBEAH

Good day to all. I have been doing some technical work to the blog and this is why I have not been posting everyday. Writing takes time to do and I can not post when everything is in action according to my assistant.

However, today I will do a short post on the symptoms of binding or “tying” as we call it in Jamaica, in other words how to know when someone has tied a person onto them. This topic is important because it happens so often and affects so many lives. It is a horrible thing to do to anyone, and it interferes with the destiny of both the one who did the tying job and the one who gets tied. Why would someone want to bind someone to them? I just could never understand it, but I will tell you how to know when it has happened.

I have written about this topic before. I shared the very personal story of my father and what he went through with a woman’s attempt to tie him ( read here), however what I did not share was how to recognize when it has happened to you.

First let me tell you all that the person who is under the spell most often will not know that he/she is under a spell. He/she becomes like a zombie moving through life, yet at the will of the person who has him/her all tied up. In his (and this is for the woman as well) everyday life, he can make his own decisions, he can conduct his life as he or she sees fit, yet when he is around the person who has him under bondage, he becomes a little child. So much that his friends and family sees someone different from who they know and may wonder about the change.

Most people who are under the influence of Obeah, as in being tied up, are afraid of the ones who has done the job to them. For the stronger person who is a victim of this, regardless of not knowing what has been done to him, he will not be willing to fall into total submission. His inner spirit will fight, resulting in the couple having a very rocky relationship filled with arguments and problems, but none ever leaving the relationship. I have seen this often. Not all tumultuous relationships are a result of tying, so please do not go pointing fingers at anyone.

If the “victim” of this obeah is normally a very gentle person, his spirit may submit to the binding, but he will have the feeling of despair in the relationship, but he will not admit this but rather accept his fate with his other half. I have heard of people who felt they had no hope after being berated and dominated by their spouse that they even commit suicide.

One symptom of tying (and this depends on the type of tying done, will explain in a moment) when the victim will begin to experience stomach problems (a bad ulcer or other stomach ailments). This is when the Obeah has been ingested, which is the most popular kind of binding job.

One of the tying jobs which is the hardest to pull (but certainly not impossible for a competent practitioner) is when the binding is done through sex and fluids released. My ex wicked baby father’s wicked mistress had tied him like this. It was horrible! It seemed she tied him every which way possible. To this day he has stomach problems and this began when he met and got with the she-devil.

This brings me to warn you all of something that got him into this situation.

He had only hoped, according to him, to have a one time fling with this woman, but she thought otherwise or so she told me once when we met in a quarrel on the telephone.

Yes, while she and I were cussing back and forth (tracing to all Jamaicans who know what market tracing is), she then calmed down and very calmly begged me to please calm down. It took a hell of a lot to get me off the highest limb of the quarrel tree.

I was shocked to hear her pleading with me, so I drew a deep breath and stopped, just to hear what she had to say.

Then she said:

“Obara, it do not mek any sense that we quarrel anymore. I have tied him up very well (in patois she spoke, but for the benefit of all, mi English it up) and he cannot ever be freed. You cannot get him back. He thought he would make me a one night stand, and I knew that, but I had another plan for him. I did what I had to do, so why should we fight Obara? He can never leave me, so please calm down and just accept it.” 

I have never forgotten those words, nor have I ever met a person so bold.

Another symptom of tying is when a relationship which was not meant to go anywhere, suddenly gets serious to the point of the victim putting the person on a pedestal.

If a person has been tied they will:

  1. Have little or no contact with their family.
  2. Never fault the offender (the one who did the tying job) for absolutely anything, even if they hit the Pope with a brick in the back of his head in plain view for all to see, the victim will swear in court that the offender is innocent.
  3. Become zombie-like and no longer acts of their own free will in terms of the relationship. If the offender summons the victim, where ever the victim is, he will feel compelled to leave whatever he is doing and go to them.
  4. Will begin to neglect their own children with the original relationship and focus on the children of the tied-relationship.
  5. Hold the offender in high esteem even if the relationship is abusive, clearly unhealthy etc.

Please note that if it is a woman who is tied up she will act the same. Also note that if they are told that they have been tied by anybody at all (even if they are told by family member or even diviner), they will never believe and/or will hate the person who told them so, never dealing with them again. It is a pitiful sight. I’ve been there.

If you happen to have a partner or know someone who may be in this position, please follow this advice:

  1. Do not argue or get angry with the victim. Under no circumstances! Arguing with a person who has been tied actually works with the spell by pushing the victim towards the person rather than away from him or her.
  2. Do not try to tell them your suspicions, same reason as number one.
  3. Be calm and patient! The victim must see you as a safe place rather than a problem they want to get away from.
  4. Get a divinationEven after you have read this post and the person fits all of the symptoms I have listed, always get a divination. Not only will it tell you what is really going on but there may be more to the story that you need to know. Also this is a great avenue to finding the correct solution to the problem because unbeknownst to many people, spiritual solutions are not always one size fits all.  

Tying jobs are most often locked away where no one can find it unless a competent spiritualist sends spirits to find it and pull it. Most of the time people do not rise from tying spells and nothing becomes of their life. They basically remain “zombies”. In other words, if the person were supposed to become great or wealthy in life, this can change if they are tied to a person.

What you must know about tying work is that the work acts almost like a cobweb tangling and trapping a person. This can either completely stop a person’s progression in life or severely hinder it. This is another reason it is a terrible work to do because one of the effects it can have is changing a persons destiny completely.

I could go on but this is it for now. I pray that none of you who reads this ever experiment with this kind of evil practice, or even encourage anyone to do so. I also pray if any of you here are victims, that God finds your relief.

Always remember that there is a solution to everything.

Good luck,

Obara Meji

 

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Obara Meji

Obara Meji is a spiritualist, Ifa-Orisa practitioner, and teacher of metaphysics. Since 2011 she has used her online platform to share her personal experiences to those seeking answers about spirituality. Her teachings will expand into short stories, novels, and public speaking to continue her mission of bringing enlightenment to the world.

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Moniq
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Moniq

My daughter’s father has all the symptoms outlined here. I need help to help him.

Asha
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Asha

People actually believe in this stuff?

Mary Magdalene mohammed
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Mary Magdalene mohammed

Hi am a victim of this .am going true this right now i need your help please

ginx_hancock
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ginx_hancock

Quick question – what would happen if you bathed your bedsheets and not your body in a “tie-man” ritual bath soap?

Fatcat2018
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Fatcat2018

Can 2 people bind one person?

Fatcat2018
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Fatcat2018

I think im under a love spell with my wife. I dont want to be. What do i do?

Member
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Member

A woman has put a binding spell on my husband (through menstual blood i’m told). They have had an affair for 2 years and then he left me and stopped all contact with me and our child. She did this purely for money and not love. Recently he talked to me for a while and without talking about a spell when I talked about her bad character all he would say is they love each other. But he didn’t sound as angry with me as he did some months ago. Then again he stopped contact with me and has done nasty things towards my child and I. Many people have told me of how she totally controls him. He doesn’t want anything to do with us or his family and has resigned from his highly paid job and set up a company where she runs everything. He treats her children as his own.

Corinne
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Corinne

I believe my husband is under a spell. He has this young girl and several other women. And in his eyes they can do no wrong. The young girl has other men and when people tell him that he defends her. I was nine months pregnant on February 5th and my baby died. A healthy baby boy. I believe one of his women who is Jamaican is working obeah on me. I treat him good but he always takes the women side over mine.

Finegirl
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Finegirl

Hello how can I get this obeah?

Nicky
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Nicky

I would not even wish this for my worst enemy.

Moty
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Moty

Hi, who do you know? Can he help me ?

Loia
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Loia

Guys I need clarity. I don’t clearly see anything the way it is. I’m confused but I blame no one for this. But is this a curse or a person with personality disorder? I dont like him anymore. I hate him. But Im very obsessed thinking of him all day long. I get stresssed once he gets into my mind. Its like total manipulation. But I doubt it.

Sweet1
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Sweet1

Hello I’m 21 years old and the other night I had a dream my moms ex husband and two of his sons were driving and they saw me at the side of the road so they stopped to talk to me and notice something glowing on my foot. We then tried to take the band off my foot and it wouldn’t come off , they tried to burn it and it just wouldn’t come off . I then spoke to someone who told me someone has tie me . But my mom also said dreams don’t come straight.

Babsy
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Babsy

Hey Obara,

Thank Heavens he’s off ur hands lol. A girl broke up me and the good man me have in my life years now and she has tied herself to him.. He has started treating me bad so I moved out with his child and she’s now at the house enjoying my glory and now my life is a complete mess. Nothing seems to be going right and I dnt think he’s aware that he’s been tied, I’ve tried to drop hints abt the drastic change in him even towards his kids. I would really like for this to go away so I can have my family back please .. I sent u an email

Fawn
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Fawn

God what a good post. So informative. Whoa…

Lucinda
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Lucinda

But I am grateful for Obara for helping me and my daughter cause what I went through was very nasty and ugly…thanks alot for helping me and my daughter Obara..

Ann
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Ann

Hey can u share with me Wat u went through maybe it will help me out

Mike
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Mike

I found false teeth wrapped in papers towels in one my bedroom drawer.my wife said her sister left it there although she has her own house 100 miles away. Also my wife has measuring tape on all the doors in the house.

Coomb23
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Coomb23

Can you email me and tell me how she was able to help you

Lucinda
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Lucinda

I feel for whomever goes through that cause I went through it and it’s very nasty..my daughter father doesn’t see her for who she is…he always blaming her for the most ridiculous things and beat for it. These woman out there can do obeah but my mother always say…every thing is for a time and have to pay what they have and there is a God..we all have to pray that one day these men wake up and see what was done to them..life

Charissa1986
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Charissa1986

Lucinda I’m going through this now and have been for years 🙁

C . BURNEY
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C . BURNEY

So are you saying that there is no cure for this kind of fuckery? ?

le.tigre
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le.tigre

lmaooo l can’t believe him sey “fuckery”

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[…] had two questions: Who did this terrible thing to her mother? And what caused it? She had read the Symptoms of Tying and Binding post and saw the signs in her mother and the result after the fact, but amid all this there were […]

Gaia
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Gaia

Hey I am an 18 y o living in Jamaica and I think my father has been tied. Is there any way possible that my family members and I could free him?

Tiana shella
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Tiana shella

I seriously don’t want that this to happened to me a swear, I believe in the lord so I leave everything in his hand.

Steve
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Steve

Help. This happening to me. How to break free? I have the stomach troubles too. Nyah wen
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Tye
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Tye

I know someone who is binded by his babymother. Reading this article gives me confirmation about what I believe is wrong with him. What do to do to unbind him?

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Ms.Stoosh
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Ms.Stoosh

This is so crazy! I was dating a guy and everything was going nice. Then one day my so-called friend text him about her mother send some jerk pork for him. According to him it was weird and he wasn’t going to get it but I guess his craven belly make hm go pick it up. Anyway, he picked it up the Tuedsay morning and no later than Wednesday/ Thursday I start seeing changes in his behavior unbeknownst to me at the time that he ate the pork. Anyhow, he was on a trip and normally when he get back he hit me up and tell me to meet him at his house. Not this Sunday. The man reach home and don’t even call. He became more and more distant. He stop inviting me over and I had to invite myself. He was there somewhat mentally and talking to me but the affection and closeness was gone. We had one last weekend getaway that was planned months ago and my so- called friend called him and asked what he was up to. He told her he was out of town and I’m guessing she drove by his house and saw my car. Anyhow, after we got back the Sunday Mr. Man stop call and text. The only way I hear from him is if I call or text. We even got into an argument because I told him since he went and eat that pork he’s been acting indifferent towards me. I just decided to leave well enough alone because he cuss me and said it don’t make any sense and it only make sense to weak minded people full of drama. He claims if it made sense he would be talking to this lady who used oil on her hands. I just felt like screaming you idiot!!!!! You ingested the damn crap! The oil was just to attract you I think. Urgh. Anyway, who I though would eventually would be my husband is now tied to the damn woman who introduced us. Smdh…. I can’t stand for the life of me why people do this when the man don’t want them not to mention she was suppose to be a friend. That’s why Mr. Trust dead according to Vybz! I want to know if he will ever realize? If it will wear off? Will it hurt him? Will he remember I warn him? Is he just gone for good?

Nikita
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Nikita

Hi all. I am so glad I came here. I’m going through it with my children father. We were together for 18 uears and have 3 kids together ages17,16 & 4. He cheated on me with dis young girl and got her pregnant 3 times while he still with me and I never knew. Whrn I did find out I forgave him and went back with him but now he treats me like a dog and he living with her. He never treat me so like what he doing now and I am positive he is tied to her. A baptist lady saw me in the market and told me the young girl tied him rel good. He is a good man beside his cheating. Can dey be untied. She knowsnhe loves me daiz y she did dat. Now he treats me terribly. He takes care of his kids but he dont ever come and look for them. He always lettig them come where he working for their money. Is there anyway he can be free from this person. I guess she finally got the victory she wanted by letting him hate me smh

KB
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KB

Hail Lisa yea mi nuh sorry for him at all. But alot a things happen and him never believe but after awhile him mus see something not right. Him all did sleep pon di floor one time and other unimaginables, foolish tie people do

Lisa
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Lisa

Yes KB a dem yah mix up yah sweet. But on a serious note, He went out there on his own free will for a “One Night Stand” and get “FIX”, I know you are to forgive and forget, but no sah, and I would think for Obara to “UNTIE” him he had to first believe he was tied and he was programmed to turn away from her and his children so, mi doubt she could help him even if she wanted to.. Mi sorry but mi no sorry fi him at all, that him get Cheaters never prosper.

Lisa
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Lisa

I know this is so real.. sad but true, now Miss bad pickney Obara, mi can imagine you a trace off the draws off the Germsy gal, who hype enough fi tell you say she tie the eeediot baby fada, well a that him get fi go cheat pan a sweet piece a woman like you, but is alright you dodge that bullet, everything for a reason, but still mi would love fi hear you a cuss the dutty gal..lmao

Nyaha
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Nyaha

I guess in his own way he was fighting her actions. Even though, DANG!!! just don’t tie people. You never know what you are getting yourself into

nyaha1
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good afternoon good people. Interesting post, as usual Obara Meji. I have to admit this “tie” thing is big. Growing up we were told stories about how women (its always how wicked women are, so sad) tie men using different things like their cycle blood etc It was so prominent in my mind. I think often times we hear the negative aspects of our traditions. We grow to fear our traditions because they are associated with evil.

I think what you said about not being able to “know” or think for yourself that you have been tied is a major part of it. Cause that would be the point, that the person cannot think for themselves, like their will has been removed. I have thought that some of my friends have been “tired” (even I thought it for myself lol). The part I am getting today is that sometimes we make silly decisions or just “fall” for the fantasy person or the persona the person showed, the key sometimes is our ego doesn’t want to admit that we have “fallen” for this person and we try to justify it to ourselves.

That being said, I can see how people can be tied for real. I just don’t think I have ever meet anyone, thank goodness. It sounds horrible

shelley
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shelley

How do I get untied?

Lincoln
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Lincoln

Hey OM-
I hope people don’t think its always binding- My mother thought my dad left her because of this but I think they really just grew apart as alot of people who marry too young do-

Blessed Love OM—

Lincoln
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Lincoln

binding friends wow never heard of that one but I bet it happens- I have known of some instances back a yard where folks were so called binded by they significant others- well so people would say-

KB
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KB

the ties that bind! guess thats where that term came from
Night all

Prosperity
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Prosperity

I wonder how they feel knowing that the love isn’t genuine. Talk about short changing yourself.

I have heard of people not only binding intimate partners but also their friends as well. Dem just want manipulate people for their own personal gains. Wicked

Super Natural
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Super Natural

Good afternoon Obara & fellow bloggers…

My mother’s husband (because I refused to call him anything involving the word “father” even w/ step on it) tied her.
She met him over 25 years ago and since then everything with her changes, he treats her like garbage in public and private an shi nah lef!!! She has abandoned her kids and family and the only thing that matters to her is the kids she have with him, the kids he got while cheating on her and his family so we decided to leave her alone….
She cannot give us (her kids), siblings or her mother (she’s now dead ever since she visited the family home) w/o his permission and since he said “no” then we never got anything; I could go on but it’s too lengthy.

courtney
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courtney

i personally dont want anybody who doesnt want me.im not going to waste my life and miss out on who is really intended for me. im to curious about the best God have for me

Spiritual Seeker
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Spiritual Seeker

Right, Courtney!

Spiritual Seeker
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Spiritual Seeker

Greetings Obara, Prosperity, Super Natural, and Courtney!

Obara, have you ever heard of somebody tying someone and then regretting it and now they can’t get rid of them? Is it just as easy to untie them if they change their mind?

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