November 9, 2015 Obara Meji 61Comment

Good day to all. I have been doing some technical work to the blog and this is why I have not been posting everyday. Writing takes time to do and I can not post when everything is in action according to my assistant. However, today I will do a short post on the symptoms of binding or “tying” as we call it in Jamaica, in other words how to know when someone has tied a person onto them. This topic is important because it happens so often and affects so many lives. It is a horrible thing to do to anyone, and it interferes with the destiny of both the one who did the tying job and the one who gets tied. Why would someone want to bind someone to them? I just could never understand it, but I will tell you how to know when it has happened.

I have written about this topic before. I shared the very personal story of my father and what he went through with a woman’s attempt to tie him ( read here), however what I did not share was how to recognize when it has happened to you. First let me tell you all that the person who is under the spell most often will not know that he/she is under a spell. He/she becomes like a zombie moving through life, yet at the will of the person who has him/her all tied up. In his (and this is for the woman as well) everyday life, he can make his own decisions, he can conduct his life as he or she sees fit, yet when he is around the person who has him under bondage, he becomes a little child. So much that his friends and family sees someone different from who they know and may wonder about the change. Most people who are under the influence of Obeah, as in being tied up, are afraid of the ones who has done the job to them. For the stronger person who is a victim of this, regardless of not knowing what has been done to him, he will not be willing to fall into total submission. His inner spirit will fight, resulting in the couple having a very rocky relationship filled with arguments and problems, but none ever leaving the relationship. I have seen this often. Not all tumultuous relationships are a result of tying, so please do not go pointing fingers at anyone.

If the “victim” of this Juju is normally a very gentle person, his spirit may submit to the binding, but he will have the feeling of despair in the relationship, yet he will not say anything but rather accept his fate with his other half. I have heard of people who felt they had no hope, after being berated and dominated by their spouse that they commit suicide.

There are times, and this depends on the job done, when the person will have stomach problems (a bad ulcer or other stomach ailments). This is when the Obeah has been ingested, which is the most popular binding job. One of the tying jobs which is the hardest to pull (but certainly not impossible for a competent practitioner) is when the binding is done through sex and fluids released. My ex wicked baby father’s wicked woman had tied him like this. It was horrible! It seemed she tied him every which way possible. To this day he has stomach problems and this began when he met and got with the she-devil.

This brings me to warn you all of something that got him into this situation. He had only hoped, according to him, to have a one time fling with this old hobbit (de wicked gal), but she thought otherwise or so she told me once when our tongues met up in quarrel on the telephone. Yes, while she and I was putting down some market woman cussing (tracing to all Jamaicans who know what market tracing is), she calmed down and very calmly begged me to please calm down. It took a hell of a lot to get me off the highest limb of the tracing tree, as I had hoisted my skirts and had flown up there, my mouth spitting fire, (we were on the phone, in person it would have been a fight, not fist with this yam strong gal, but baseball bat and two by fours kind, lol, backle and stone as we Jamaicans do). I was shocked to hear her pleading with me to stop cussing, so I drew a deep breath and stopped, just to hear what she had to say. Then she said, “Obara, it do not mek sense we quarrel anymore, I have tied him (in patois she spoke, but for the benefit of all, mi English it up) up very well and he cannot ever be freed. You cannot get him back. He thought he would make me a one night stand, and I knew that, but I had another plan for him. I did what I had to do, so why should we fight Obara? He can never leave me, so please calm down and just accept it.” I have never forgotten those words, nor have I ever met any other person with bigger balls, lol.

Yes, a sign of tying is when a relationship which was not supposed to go anywhere, suddenly gets serious, to the point of putting the person on a pedestal.

How to know when someone has been tied or binded through Obeah? There are many tell tale signs, some of which I just explained. Others are as follows:

No contact or limited contact with the family.

No matter what the spouse (the one who did the tying) does, he or she is not faulted for it, even if they hit the Pope with a brick in the back of his head in plain view for all and sundry to see, the one tied to them would swear in court that the spouse is innocent.

No matter what the person who did the tying does, the victim will never have any negative reaction to them, but will most certainly defend them in whatever negative they do, even if he/she knows it is wrong.

The victim becomes zombie-like and no longer acts of their own free will in terms of the relationship. If the person who has done the tying calls the victim, where ever he/she is, he will feel compelled to leave whatever he is doing and go to them.

If he had children outside the relationship or during the relationship (he cheated) and although he may love them, he will most often neglect them, or not be as attentive, or in the case of the wicked baby father, figet sey him have children at all, but he will take care of the one who has tied him children even if they are not his.

Please note that if it is a woman who is tied up she will act the same. Also, note that if they are told that they have been tied by anybody at all (even if they are told by family member or even diviner), they will never believe and/or will hate the person who told them so, never dealing with them again. It is a pitiful sight.

I could go on, but this is it for now. I pray that none of you who reads this, will never experiment with this kind of evil practice, or even encourage anyone to do so. I also pray if any of you here are victims, that God finds your relief.

Obara Meji

PS: My advice to anyone who suspects they may know someone going through this is DO NOT argue with them. Ever. Under no circumstance. DO NOT tell the person of your suspicions. Remember this person is under a spell and the control of someone else. If you argue with the person, you will be doing nothing more than assisting the obeah to work stronger. You will be pushing that person to wherever they have been programmed to believe is their “safe place”, which is the person who tied them. Quickly seek a competent spiritualist for help.

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Sweet1
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Hello I’m 21 years old and the other night I had a dream my moms ex husband and two of his sons were driving and they saw me at the side of the road so they stopped to talk to me and notice something glowing on my foot. We then tried to take the band off my foot and it wouldn’t come off , they tried to burn it and it just wouldn’t come off . I then spoke to someone who told me someone has tie me . But my mom also said dreams don’t come straight.

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Babsy

Hey Obara,

Thank Heavens he’s off ur hands lol. A girl broke up me and the good man me have in my life years now and she has tied herself to him.. He has started treating me bad so I moved out with his child and she’s now at the house enjoying my glory and now my life is a complete mess. Nothing seems to be going right and I dnt think he’s aware that he’s been tied, I’ve tried to drop hints abt the drastic change in him even towards his kids. I would really like for this to go away so I can have my family back please .. I sent u an email

Fawn
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Fawn

God what a good post. So informative. Whoa…

Lucinda
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Lucinda

But I am grateful for Obara for helping me and my daughter cause what I went through was very nasty and ugly…thanks alot for helping me and my daughter Obara..

Ann
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Hey can u share with me Wat u went through maybe it will help me out

Lucinda
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Lucinda

I feel for whomever goes through that cause I went through it and it’s very nasty..my daughter father doesn’t see her for who she is…he always blaming her for the most ridiculous things and beat for it. These woman out there can do obeah but my mother always say…every thing is for a time and have to pay what they have and there is a God..we all have to pray that one day these men wake up and see what was done to them..life

Charissa1986
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Lucinda I’m going through this now and have been for years 🙁

C . BURNEY
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C . BURNEY

So are you saying that there is no cure for this kind of fuckery? ?

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[…] had two questions: Who did this terrible thing to her mother? And what caused it? She had read the Symptoms of Tying and Binding post and saw the signs in her mother and the result after the fact, but amid all this there were […]

Gaia
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Hey I am an 18 y o living in Jamaica and I think my father has been tied. Is there any way possible that my family members and I could free him?

Tiana shella
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Tiana shella

I seriously don’t want that this to happened to me a swear, I believe in the lord so I leave everything in his hand.

Tye
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I know someone who is binded by his babymother. Reading this article gives me confirmation about what I believe is wrong with him. What do to do to unbind him?

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[…] who came after me (she was suppose to be a one night stand, but she introduced obeah inna de ting, read here), and began to obeah the hell out of me, for my owna man, can you imagine? I was in hell, crisis […]

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This is so crazy! I was dating a guy and everything was going nice. Then one day my so-called friend text him about her mother send some jerk pork for him. According to him it was weird and he wasn’t going to get it but I guess his craven belly make hm go pick it up. Anyway, he picked it up the Tuedsay morning and no later than Wednesday/ Thursday I start seeing changes in his behavior unbeknownst to me at the time that he ate the pork. Anyhow, he was on a trip and normally when he get back he hit me up and tell me to meet him at his house. Not this Sunday. The man reach home and don’t even call. He became more and more distant. He stop inviting me over and I had to invite myself. He was there somewhat mentally and talking to me but the affection and closeness was gone. We had one last weekend getaway that was planned months ago and my so- called friend called him and asked what he was up to. He told her he was out of town and I’m guessing she drove by his house and saw my car. Anyhow, after we got back the Sunday Mr. Man stop call and text. The only way I hear from him is if I call or text. We even got into an argument because I told him since he went and eat that pork he’s been acting indifferent towards me. I just decided to leave well enough alone because he cuss me and said it don’t make any sense and it only make sense to weak minded people full of drama. He claims if it made sense he would be talking to this lady who used oil on her hands. I just felt like screaming you idiot!!!!! You ingested the damn crap! The oil was just to attract you I think. Urgh. Anyway, who I though would eventually would be my husband is now tied to the damn woman who introduced us. Smdh…. I can’t stand for the life of me why people do this when the man don’t want them not to mention she was suppose to be a friend. That’s why Mr. Trust dead according to Vybz! I want to know if he will ever realize? If it will wear off? Will it hurt him? Will he remember I warn him? Is he just gone for good?

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Hi all. I am so glad I came here. I’m going through it with my children father. We were together for 18 uears and have 3 kids together ages17,16 & 4. He cheated on me with dis young girl and got her pregnant 3 times while he still with me and I never knew. Whrn I did find out I forgave him and went back with him but now he treats me like a dog and he living with her. He never treat me so like what he doing now and I am positive he is tied to her. A baptist lady saw me in the market and told me the young girl tied him rel good. He is a good man beside his cheating. Can dey be untied. She knowsnhe loves me daiz y she did dat. Now he treats me terribly. He takes care of his kids but he dont ever come and look for them. He always lettig them come where he working for their money. Is there anyway he can be free from this person. I guess she finally got the victory she wanted by letting him hate me smh

KB
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Hail Lisa yea mi nuh sorry for him at all. But alot a things happen and him never believe but after awhile him mus see something not right. Him all did sleep pon di floor one time and other unimaginables, foolish tie people do

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Yes KB a dem yah mix up yah sweet. But on a serious note, He went out there on his own free will for a “One Night Stand” and get “FIX”, I know you are to forgive and forget, but no sah, and I would think for Obara to “UNTIE” him he had to first believe he was tied and he was programmed to turn away from her and his children so, mi doubt she could help him even if she wanted to.. Mi sorry but mi no sorry fi him at all, that him get Cheaters never prosper.

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I know this is so real.. sad but true, now Miss bad pickney Obara, mi can imagine you a trace off the draws off the Germsy gal, who hype enough fi tell you say she tie the eeediot baby fada, well a that him get fi go cheat pan a sweet piece a woman like you, but is alright you dodge that bullet, everything for a reason, but still mi would love fi hear you a cuss the dutty gal..lmao

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I guess in his own way he was fighting her actions. Even though, DANG!!! just don’t tie people. You never know what you are getting yourself into

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good afternoon good people. Interesting post, as usual Obara Meji. I have to admit this “tie” thing is big. Growing up we were told stories about how women (its always how wicked women are, so sad) tie men using different things like their cycle blood etc It was so prominent in my mind. I think often times we hear the negative aspects of our traditions. We grow to fear our traditions because they are associated with evil.

I think what you said about not being able to “know” or think for yourself that you have been tied is a major part of it. Cause that would be the point, that the person cannot think for themselves, like their will has been removed. I have thought that some of my friends have been “tired” (even I thought it for myself lol). The part I am getting today is that sometimes we make silly decisions or just “fall” for the fantasy person or the persona the person showed, the key sometimes is our ego doesn’t want to admit that we have “fallen” for this person and we try to justify it to ourselves.

That being said, I can see how people can be tied for real. I just don’t think I have ever meet anyone, thank goodness. It sounds horrible

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How do I get untied?

Lincoln
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Hey OM-
I hope people don’t think its always binding- My mother thought my dad left her because of this but I think they really just grew apart as alot of people who marry too young do-

Blessed Love OM—

Lincoln
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binding friends wow never heard of that one but I bet it happens- I have known of some instances back a yard where folks were so called binded by they significant others- well so people would say-

KB
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the ties that bind! guess thats where that term came from
Night all

Prosperity
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I wonder how they feel knowing that the love isn’t genuine. Talk about short changing yourself.

I have heard of people not only binding intimate partners but also their friends as well. Dem just want manipulate people for their own personal gains. Wicked

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Good afternoon Obara & fellow bloggers…

My mother’s husband (because I refused to call him anything involving the word “father” even w/ step on it) tied her.
She met him over 25 years ago and since then everything with her changes, he treats her like garbage in public and private an shi nah lef!!! She has abandoned her kids and family and the only thing that matters to her is the kids she have with him, the kids he got while cheating on her and his family so we decided to leave her alone….
She cannot give us (her kids), siblings or her mother (she’s now dead ever since she visited the family home) w/o his permission and since he said “no” then we never got anything; I could go on but it’s too lengthy.

courtney
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i personally dont want anybody who doesnt want me.im not going to waste my life and miss out on who is really intended for me. im to curious about the best God have for me

Spiritual Seeker
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Greetings Obara, Prosperity, Super Natural, and Courtney!

Obara, have you ever heard of somebody tying someone and then regretting it and now they can’t get rid of them? Is it just as easy to untie them if they change their mind?

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Right, Courtney!

Kae
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That’s just awful Michelle. What did you tell your friend? I hope you said something to her at least. She’s literally forcing him to like her and stopping him from his destiny. Smh.

michelle
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I would have thought the one with the food would be stronger. A friend of mine tied her man recently. He don’t know she used his seen which you confirmed it can’t pull. i have witness how quickly it’s taken hold. He’s like a puppet. She ain’t a looker and before he was tied he use to cuss her he don’t anymore.

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This was done to a female in my family. I am crying as I read what you wrote. How do I break this? We are Christians. We have been harmed so bad. Please please please help!

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