June 6, 2014 Obara Meji 168Comment

spiritual-bondage

I didn’t know that I had a sister from my father, I had no idea while growing up. The first time I heard her name mentioned I was surprised. I had no idea that daddy had a life before with anyone beside my mom. He mentioned that I had a sister named Donnette, and he said he missed her but he had nothing to do with the mother so it was so sad that he could not visit or see her. He was talking to his friend at the time under the mango tree next door, smoking a spliff while I sucked my thumb and laid on his lap. I looked up and asked him if it was true that I had a sister, and he nodded and answered yes Nunu (which was what he affectionately called me as a child), one day you will meet her, he said, I smiled as I laid back on his chest, thrust my finger back into my mouth and smiled at the thought of a sister, possibly this one would be a nice sister. Later that day, Miss Ruth was visiting as usual and she and my mom were on the veranda talking, mama had just finished cooking and as usual Miss Ruth was having her belly full. It was Wednesday, Stew Peas day, and Miss Ruth was hungrily sucking on a piece of Pig’s tail when I blurted out, “Mama, why yuh neva tell mi dat daddy have anedda daughter”, Miss Ruth with her ever sharp ears began coughing on the pig’s tail bone as she looked up at mama as if to say what? Mama was visibly embarrassed and gave me THAT look, which said, “watch me and you later.”

Of course Miss Ruth looked toward my mom for confirmation of what I had blurted and my embarrassed mom decided that she would explain. Eager to hear, with no thought of the boofing (licks) I would receive later when Ruth left, I sat down on the veranda with my trusty comforting thumb and looked straight into my moms face not wanting to miss anything she was about to say, ignoring her cut eyes. Mama told Miss Ruth a story I have never forgotten to this day. Mama spoke in hushed tones, because her arch enemy Miss Will  was under the mango tree in the front of the yard, far away from us, but mama was very secretive and took no chances of Hilda Willis hearing her business, knowing that if she did, the whole Kingston 13 would know it in less than an hour. Mama said that daddy, before he met my mom was living with his baby mother in Clarendon, Jamaica. They had a little girl who they named Donnette. One day my father dressed for a domino tournament, which he was very good at, while the woman prepared Sunday dinner in the kitchen. By the time he was dressed and ready, he had no time to eat because he would be late and he could not afford to do so. He kissed the baby who was just a little past a year old, and told the woman bye and he left. Mama said my father realized after he had left that he did not bring something which was important for him to bring to the tournament, so he returned home. He entered the house and saw the baby sleeping on the bed, he looked around and the woman was not in the house, so he decided to go out side to the kitchen, this was rural Jamaica and the kitchen was outside the house as was the bathroom. He had retrieved what he went back for but out of courtesy he wanted her to know he had returned. Daddy went to the kitchen and as he approached, his mind told him to peep through the window first before he went in.

They were the only couple who lived there. No neighbor was close for miles,  daddy peeped through the window and saw the woman in squat position over the pot of Rice and peas. She wore a very long gown and she was repeating something from a piece of paper written in red. Shocked at what he was seeing, his Sunday dinner being violated in such a disgusting manner, because according mama, daddy said he saw a discarded underwear close by, Daddy said he was frozen for a minute. Daddy forced himself to move and he shakily and angrily stormed the kitchen to a now frightened Juju worker. Daddy then took up his machete which was in the kitchen and according to what he told mama he went to the side of the house and began to dig, he did not know what compelled to do this but he could not stop himself from digging and then, bingo! He found a glass jar, wrapped up in news paper, he removed the paper, all this while the woman was bawling and begging him to stop which he ignored. He unwrapped the newspaper and the once clear jar was black from within. My father opened the jar which emitted a foul odor, he emptied out the contents and he saw hair, plenty of it, his picture and hers also, what seemed like toe nails among other unrecognizable things. By this time the realization had hit my father that this was Obeah in front of him and he was the victim. He made a decision which would change the life of not only him but also an innocent child. He left. Never to return, No visit to the daughter or the the mother. Although it pained him, after all Donnette was his first child, physical evidence of him being able to produce and contribute to the worlds society, he made a decision never to go near that woman or have any interaction with her again, the sacrifice for his decision was Donnette. Mama said he comforted him self, by saying, one day they would find each other and he would explain.

This kind of Obeah is common practice everywhere and in every ethnic group. Whites, Blacks, Asians and others have their own brand of medicine which they use to ‘capture’ the hearts of their intended. When this happens, the union is usually not an agreeable one, because it is a forced relationship, binded under the  magic of Juju, the altering of someones destiny. This can never be a good thing. How can a human want to interfere with God’s plan? The knowledge is there and it is very simple to do. We have free will so it is our decision to make, but why would you do something which will not only tie this person to you, but may also alter your own destiny. From my experience this never work in most cases. I have seen it done in Africa where medicine is made and and the woman’s clitoris is cut, just a  tiny incision and the medicine rubbed in the cut. Any man she had sex with would never be able to leave her, forever! Another which includes Kola nut, this is prepared with other things and given to the woman or man and powdered on the face when they know they would see the object of their desire. A glass placed strategically at the front door, and prepared with certain incantations can capture the love of who ever you want. A glass of red wine, spiritually prepared does the same. There are so many things which can be done to trick another and capture their spirit, making them spiritually beholden to you but I cannot tell enough you how much this is wrong. When Pepe came to me this was what she begged for and was very upset with me for rejecting her, read Experience Teaches Wisdom  . Imagine if Pepe had gotten her wish, she would have missed the goodness which was on its way for her. This same thing touched my life and my children when it was done to the Wicked baby father, this very same thing was done to him by the wicked woman. I have part two to this story, because I eventually met Donnette, and it was not pretty , she grew to be just as wicked as her mom, perhaps even more so! Stay tuned for PART TWO.

Ẹni bá jalè lẹ́ẹ̀kan, tó bá daṣọ àrán bo orí, aṣọ olè ló dà bora. /

Whoever steals once, even if clothed in velvet, a thief he remains……Yoruba Proverb!

[Decrying dishonest living]

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Hi Obara and ESP family, it is so good to come here and always feel uplifted by you Obara, this story is Epic in terms of how desperately selfish some people can . You always open our eyes to know and understand more about life and living in this realm, people we must all ponder in our hearts everything that is in our lives and pray for the guidance to follow the road that will bring us the comfort we are searching for. Very Interesting. Keep well every one

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Hey yazzy , good morning

cas
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oh my god cannot believe people can be so wicked and cold…that is very sad.That show me you never know people thing that they do wow!! she was some psycho Pat her head isn’t right.

Yazzy
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Yazzy

Hey Cas!! Mawnin. Don’t it???

MTH
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Yazzy baby, wad up? Busy lacka bee. Getting ready fi run guh dung a March’s fi guh get some candles. Mi a carry mi fren wid mi. Mi tell har sey shi some candles.

Yazzy
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Hottie Hottie MTH, mi de ya eenuh. I’m gonna kick back today. Spend time wid unuh right ‘ere. So hurry up and come back. Mi need some candles to. Affi guh order some. Be safe baby love. Both u and your friend.

Ty
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Me seh a miss you all so much…thanks for the love…sending my love to you all…

Me always feel better wid unno…Lawd mi love unno…

Yazzy
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Hola Mis Amores!!!!!! Perdidas ustedes
Love and light to you guys as well. Tyyyyyyy, missed u mami and I’m sad about what u wrote this morning. You and ur hubby defied the odds to make a great team and amazing kids.

Ty
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Same so class…but it did hurt mi heart when I read di letter mi 8 year old son write him…thank God for my dad who loves my children…so at least dem have a grandfather…it is hard for a little boy to understand why one grandfather love him so and the other has never even met him…and worse do not want to meet him either…

When mi cry dis morning in prAyer, mi pray seh God tek time would him…me pray fi mi son and for his understanding…my 4 year old tek easy and just laugh at him…funny how u can have 2 kids and dem completely different…as Jcans seh seven different brother, seven different minds…

Mi thank God mi husband choose his family…

Yazzy
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Ty, mi doops, mi seeehh? I’m so over the race card issue. It get so sickening now man. All yuh do, just stay doing what you have already done and continuing to do, which is obviously pumping nuff nuff love and respect inna yuh kids dem, your lil man especially and if Obama’s mom could overcome with phenomenal results backa dat….then you too, shall overcome. Like yuh se… LOVE AND LIGHT drowns out alllllllllll dat B.S baby girl. ‘Tan up pan yuh two foot dem…and some days it might rough. Pan dem days de… kotch up pan a one leg…and even if da one de give weh, and u drop buff, git up back muma.. caz yuh is a child of God.

Ty
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Thank you mi Lub…muah

MTH
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Teach we as a people have been lied to, abused, misused, robbed. Somewhere along the way, we have lost our identity…

MTH
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Teach, Ty respect…Ty if a neva u write that comment mi wudden believe it. U too black fi di son and yu browner than him? Teach I think we need a post about skin colour and how our own abuse us. SMH!

MTH
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Hola mi amigos. Buenos dais, La professor. Hope all is well. What an exciting class yesterday. We moving from strength to strength. Unno hurry up an duh unno business dats wi can meet back right here and learn and laugh togedda.

NuNu
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Well good night all, in the morrows fam!

NuNu
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Well we ova here glad that you made it! Bwoy unoo ova here have some stories fi tell

Ty
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Peace and love

Ty
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You know how many miscarriages she go mi mother…a God work mek me come fi born…

NuNu
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You were suppose to be here. Wi glad fi dat!

Ty
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God is good…

Ty
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Never had to tie a man and never will…nopes, won’ t do it…

NuNu
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Evening Ty mi deh look fi yuh from mawning, wha yuh deh Ty not even inna desperation no tying

Ty
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Mi miss unno today…I felt like I needed to have myself multiplied by 3 for all the things I needed to do…I have young kids and dem have me ragged today wid all the things I needed to do…

Di tieing thing bad…

Also there is the un- tieing…lol

My grandmother did not think my mother was good enough if her son and Lawd she do one heap a things to her…

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Hi Yazzy NuNu and Obara. Obara, shouldn’t you be asleep? Good you’re up cause I suspect you’re writing part 2…can’t wait to read it.

Yazzy
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Sound like seh part two a gu piss mi off already! ***rolls eyes*** mi jus feel cross. A wa mek dem stay suh?? Mi memba in a different post, Mommy O, you had mentioned how some ole jezebel spirit did come affa yuh pa, again… and cause of u (they loved u enough) that his life was spared. Let’s hear how everything play out tomorrow.

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Ok Obara will look out for it. good night all. Aguh drink sum rum n relax 🙂

NuNu
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Evening cami! Nuh true Obara mek mi feel sad yuh si when I think about her relationship with her siblings. Mi couldn’t even imagine not having a relationship wid di one dege dege bredda mi got… sigh

Obara meji
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Night night bubblez, Ty, Yazzy an NuNu buss whey like a big beigey kite

Yazzy
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Nunu, that’s so beautiful. Love unuh relationship. Obara’s relationships with her family and how she was treated does break hearts. Mi caah believe seh wa happened to her dad… would eventually find its way into her life pan tap a dat.

NuNu
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Nuh true yazzy! Shi strong nuh baxide cause mi couldn’t manage dem life deh atall mi heart nuh sturdy enough

Cami
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Hi Obara Spiritual babies. I feel sad for her because I can imagine how she wished this unknown sister would have been good to her.

Yazzy
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Hey Cami.

NuNu
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Evening cami! Nuh true Obara mek mi feel sad yuh si when I think about her relationship with her siblings. Mi couldn’t even imagine not having a relationship wid di one dege dege bredda mi got… sigh

NuNu
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Nuh safo deh chat up top bout she a brand new second hand virgin!

Obara meji
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Lol

Obara meji
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It use to badda mi buy mi nuh miss dem nopes, dem bad an vicious, all de big one, evil incarnate!

Yazzy
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Mommy O, is our darling Ty ok?? Just a tad bit concerned. She’s always here. Missed you both today. Ty, wherever you are… lots of love.

Obara meji
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Yes she good I emailed her and she was busy with family she will be with us tomorrow, you know how much we love our Ty

Obara meji
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Cami yuh fenehcwhen you read de peat two tomorrow

Yazzy
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Ok great. I had a feeling and mi know yuh would have certainly checked up on her already. Yuh nuh tyad mami?

Yazzy
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Nunu, di itis seem to knock yuh unconscious ya now man. Weh yuh de???

NuNu
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No sah! A smaddy mi si whe mi love off mi peep chu mi window suh mi bruk mi neck jus so mi can pass and wave howdy! Lol

Yazzy
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Yazzy

Lmaooo. Yuh have a eye candy a check fa???? Raaaaaeeeee

kiabubblez
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Night all jus wake n pop in fi read di post again.ppl really wicked sah smh i believe u cyaa mek nobody love u but guess dem seet differently aye sah

NuNu
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Well we’ll see yuh when you pop in every now and again, yuh need couple assistants, “Paiging Ms. Meji’s secretary!” Wait till school open then wi can start interview fi the assistant position dem, cause a nuh any and anybady qualify fi da wuk deh

Yazzy
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Nunu, a mi fi tell yuh bout hunga. Lata hun.

NuNu
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Itis tek mi, when yuh eat cawnmeal dumplin yuh haffi careful how yuh drink wata caws it mek it swell up inna yuh belly, was trying to take a nap but it not working out atall, cho

Yazzy
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Im holding my breath for part 2 of this tale. Was Donnette’s fate sealed because of the works of her mom’s evil? What is remarkable in all this is Mommy O was later conceived. Which forces us to accept that at times our lives are in serious turmoil but the aftermath can make for an amazing testimony.

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I think if more women could stand the pain of cutting the clitoris they would most definitely have that procedure done here..as “cosmetology” surgery in hopes of landing a mate. Cauzen se… (and I have nothing against ppl getting there bodies done….IF they’re doing it for themselves and have no mental issues) dem quick fi do mesh surgery, amongst other surgeries, fi tighten and rejuvenate the kitty, in hopes of landing a mate so MI POSITIVE a nuff nuff a dat de outrageous ritual/surgery de would be performed. Insurance companies would even cover these “surgeries” as a necessity…

MI NAH LOOK!!

NuNu
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I heard about those procedures a rejuvination dem call it, lol. The lengths women will go through bwoy dat still 1000 times better than tie up smaddy tho

NuNu
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Well later folks mi pot a cawnmeal dumplin and boil banana deh call mi, hungry a buss mi shut!

NuNu
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A whe Ty deh?

Yazzy
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IKR. ((((((((calling TY))))))))))))) we miss u.

MTH
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Just gtting back bubbly. I met upon some life changing events…That had me waking up and knowing that evil exist. Sometime you cannot see what someone would want to grudge you for.

Yazzy
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Sometimes it’s not about what you have… but that same bubbly personality, which, in my opinion, is worth more than gold. Evil will linger where a sweet soul like yours exist sweetie. Thank them. You were led to Embrace your Spirituality… and ultimately being an even better version of who u were before. **huge hugzz**

NuNu
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I co-sign Yazzy

NuNu
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True word! still it’s difficult mi know that fi sure but yuh can’t mek wickedness dim your light wi need all the light wi can get in this world. Yuh seem like yuh woulda nice fi par wid still!

MTH
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Dem time dey at work mi did really push di envelop..Mi have up mohawk wear sum breed a high heels. I did make-up so I would do some mean make up, sometimes I would go goth, sometimes I would go too bright for work and they complained that my manager needed to rope me in. I was a bubbly character.

Yazzy
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MTH, jus like how yuh is a bad pickney here in school… a su yuh did bad breed pan di ppl dem wuk. Lawd gash. Love it. You’re different.

NuNu
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Suh yuh nuh bubbly no more? Yuh vibezy bad!!!

MTH
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I know that no one tied me. I have always have had the good fortune of leaving guys and guys leaving me (yeah yu tink mi did a guh sey no man neva leff mi yet?) Nopes, me leff man and man leff me.

Yazzy
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We keep it real here. So mi know u ago dash out di real talk dem. We gotta count our blessings dat when wi mad head tek wi… wi can walk out pan a man and STAY OUT! As well as, a man can walk out and we watch him lef knowing there is a blessing in his goodbye.

But a wonda if some ppl a mix up tie fi obsession??? Beat yuh chest if yuh sure yuh nu tie nu man a jus yuh good good him did discova …mek him wa lef and cant!! All yuh release di bwouy him nu wa let gu! Kmt. Sometime is simple case of being ***** whipped!!! I aint looking at ’em.

MTH
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I would be in the dancehall and the picture men went around and take my pictures and upload them on the sites. Ppl at work started looking on the sites and would seemy pics. They would be watching me like a hawk to see if I would sleep during the during the day.

I knew I had to stop so one Lent, I said I would give up drinking and partying and I did. The feelings arent so intense. I still drink. I can mix drink like a flipping bar tender. Occasionally, I still drink.

Yazzy
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Yuh know dem have it in if yuh dem days DE eenuh. Cause one ting I’m positive about dutty ppl neva like see ppl have fun… laugh…party/socialize and enjoy their lives.

So what happen… dash a good mixx pan mi nuh. Mi not even feelin’ cocktails (I prefer wine or champagne) but u soun like u whip up a MEAN mixx mi freeeennnnnn 😀

Yazzy
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Why am I soooooo naive to think that binding/tie someone was/is a West Indian issue… until Mommy O stated that it happens in other races. I’m aware other races marry for wealth and arranged marriages bit never thought of them using rituals to tie smaddy. Well in all honesty, I never even knew that yuh can tie smaddy inna real life. It seem so far fetched. That’s why I come here for the knowledge. I’m sure after reading the post we are subconsciously wondering if such an evil act was ever performed on us or if we dodge nu bullet…. bwouy…

NuNu
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Mi wonder if Obara could do a post specifically on the incubus\ sucubis spirit dem. Cause she said they are demons but not like the definition of demons we were taught I guess. Mi think mi dream si one. When shi come back mi go ask

Yazzy
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Yes Nunu.. I would love more info on that. I remember her mention it.

MTH
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I wouldnt say it was a deflection per se, it was just what I liked. I would go to my 9-5. When I got home I took care of my daughter. I would put her to bed around 8pm. Sleep till around 10:30pm. Get ready and leave out 11:00-11:30. Left dance after 4-5 etc. Get home mins to 6 or 7. My daugher would still be sleeping so she wouldnt know. Then I would spend the whole day at home on the weekends. I used to like dancing, (mussi only one drop mi caan duh now and a cause mi nuh guh out like dat again).

Yazzy
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MTH, a u dat mi did see inna di corna a get weh pan aid on a brace whine?? Yea u!!!!

Yazzy
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*Aidonia

Yazzy
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MTH, lmao. Yuh wasn’t doing “anything” yuh try nu kill me! I’m gonna be mindful of that moving forward sis. **Note taken**

So was the partying a distraction? Like it helped to deflect?? Mi proud a u to. Mi hear yuh ask why dem neva tie yuh yet… as mi did a tell one of our other ladies… yuh tan de, di next lucky fellah… hubby or whoever u eventually “unleash” e pan…guda mad ova yuh cucum cucum… and gu try a ting!!!!

MTH
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Si Safo confirm it deh…When mi read dat shit, mi did waan piss up miself…Cause yu know as a brand new second hand virgin mi use to bring it up often. Dem Teach seh do not say it.

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Safo, good looking out sweetie. Tru is sinting fi proud of… mi nu tell everybody but now and den mi share it… but mi ago learn fi kibba ya now. Cah afford fi a keep it inna and sinting weh mi caah see come tek it like a fi dem. . And mi nu have nuh say. Hell no! Might as well mi gu ketch di dutty man dem weh a tie ppl fi dem goodies den. Cauzen se dem would all be toeing and wicked but atleast mi can see what mi up against. Nu tru?

Yazzy
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Brand new…secondhand virgin?????? Heeelllllllllllpppppppppplp!!!!!! Yuh nuh nice ennuh! **mash up plate**

MTH
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Yu know sey unno a some bad pickney…Ladies, mi nuh know ef unno read di post wey Teacher sey doan talk bout unno celibate cause unno wi get wey unno a look fah inna unno sleep.

Right now mi a trod that road (note mi nuh call di name from 2012). I didnt feel for nothing cause I was stressed coupled with the fact that I also got baptised (Sunday going to make 1 year). For me, I could do without that for maybe 18-24 months at a time. IWhilst I wasnt doing ‘anything’, I was a party addict. Just like how people are addicted to drugs, I was addicted to party. I would go to parties and head home just in time to have a bath to go to work. I think I went thru a phase where I wasnt going out and I went throughthat phase (about 2 years) where I party hard.

Yazzy
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MTH, seriously??? I had no idea. Sounds scary as hell man. Inna wi sleep???

Safo
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Lolol Obara please tag Yazzy in that post ehehehe

Maniac
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Anyway fambily, Mi ah goh do road yah now, so I will be back on later
Bless up

Yazzy
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Ok Maniac, bless up and be safe. Mi a wait fi yuh and Mommy O

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@Yazzy just like that! Boom bang!

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I have been celibate for a year. It was the hardest thing in the beginning, but fasting and finding inner peace it has become easier. I couldn’t tie nobody man a beat day in and day out. What kind of life. Dem people sick.

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Toy, you and I both!! Fasting does amazing things! The power of fasting is incredible man. Mine wasn’t that hard cause mi mind just shut down which ultimately cut off the feelings part. Toy, yuh beta be especially careful ya now with who yuh guh choose first sekkle wid ya now…cauzen se… now dat yuh have up yuh good good… a now dem guda wah tie yuh fi it!!!! LMAO! **COVERS FACE**

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I think you are right Yazzy. Not to love dem, but to be/stay with them.
I don’t think Love can be forced

Yazzy
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Ppl too full a sh*t fi waah come force up dem self like dat pan smaddy under sikes. It’s not easy being with someone and having to let go but outrageously extreme fi guh tie/bind ppl to dem. Sick!!!!

All when di love a come dung…. a cuda bedroom bully… world class swipa…. President (well maybe mi a show off pan da note ya lmao) I would never do that ish to smaddy.

So dem content FORCING the person to stay but dem still miserable like shit caah dem caah FORCE dem fi act like a puppet pan a string. So you’re left with allllllll types a treatment which essentially yuh FORCE pan yuhself. LOVE IS SO POWERFUL IN ITSELF…that mi nuh tink nobadi can FORCE another human being to love them.

NuNu
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Yazzy yuh know seh some a dem obeah rituals do seem fi mek people act like puppet pon string but them nuh aware caws dem get blinded by whatever force tie dem. Poor ting dem confuse, but everybaddy involve still miserable as shit!

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Hey Nunu. I didn’t know that that was possible but thinking about it now, it makes sense. Bwouy ppl wicked bad.

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Like real puppet pon string! And even though Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles and the rest of the world can see sey sumn very very wrong, yuh cyaan tell dem nutten. Yuh affi watch yuh words and ched carefully, caw dem will cuss out yuh backside an malice yuh fi dem ‘loved’ one.

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Howdy doo Yazzy T
Just the thought of me doing something against my will makes me sick. Is like being raped or blackmailed, cause I am having sex with someone who I really have no desire to, but because I cant help myself…. sick to mi stomach

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Maniac, yuh so on point. It wus dan rape. Mek mi sick to my stomach man. Think about real deep. They watching you be with them knowing it aint natural… and yet dat mek dem happy. Pathetic. Dem might as well gu lay next to a corspe.

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Right now mi de pan mi likkle celibacy journey and I’m loving it. None a unuh eva travel da road ya yet?

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Mi celibate tuh, but a nuh by choice neva have nobaddy yet but mi woulda neva get soooo desperate dat mi go tie smaddy, a tiefing dat caws yuh deh tief smaddy else man!

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Wait de Nunu… you too???? AMAZING!! Feels great knowing that I’m not alone and who beta to be on this journey with than my fam here. Love unuh.

On another note, Nunu, a tief dem yes… tief and wicked. Mi nah look pan dem ppl de.

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yazzy mi too!!! celibate fi bout a year n odd

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Me too. 2 yrs! I’m very careful, I believe strongly in soul ties. No one is worthy at this time. I can’t imagine laying down with someone knowing I’m exposing myself to their 20 partners X 20 X 20. Yikes.

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Kia sweetie, a lie?? I LOVE IT!! SO PRO OF YA. it takes courage fi know yuh worth. It takes courage fi hold on pan yuh cookie in a world weh everybody a dip up dip up Inna cookie jar as a part of their leisure time but refuse to settle
I’m hitting my years mark as well and we just gotta be earnest. It’s an amazing journey. .. and I strongly believe it’s part of a spiritual journey/ growth as well.

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Hey my fam. Blessings and good afternoon. I can’t imagine living thru that nightmare of realizing that forced you to be with them against your will. Such sick, twisted love. How pathetic.

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but check di levels…sum ppl tye an miserable an nuff nice single ppl a luk an cyaa find. aye sah

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i rather alone than miserable jah kno miserable nuh good sumn

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I tell them, I can be miserable all by myself… Don’t need nuhbaddie fi help mi in dat department

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You are so right @nunu! Yes @manic. Well I don’t need no man Inna my crotches that bad.

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Lol yuh nuh easy star

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Yuh rite Nunu. Selfish!!
Some ah dem know dem nuh really want di smaddy to enuh, yet dem tie dem an subject dem to a miserable life

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What really makes people go through all of those lengths to keep someone and still be miserable?

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Toy, Cause they’d rather be miserable than be alone. I heard one lady seh that aready. Thats so sad

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Same thing I would love to know too @Toy
I think a lot of it is greed

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And selfish, maniac

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For a woman now, mi tink yu know sey yu gettie when all a man naah gi yu nutten, di bed wuk nuh good, yu nuh waan bi seen wid him, yet yu caan leff him. Wuss him all ugly a fava gully monkey.

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Omg, MTH, yuh know how fi kill me

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Lawd. Yuh do dem bad doah MTH lol… Gully Monkey?

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Maniac, I figure how yu can know sey yu get tie is sey for example a big time gal-liss guh fi have fun and him know di girl a nuh fi him type really. Gal caan wine nor nutten wey him love and for some reason him caan leff har. HIm nuh love har an all di beathim beat out har claat dem caan leff.

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Maniac I have to be mindful cause mi nuh waan mash nuh baddy cawn. However, I think ppl who tie people, have low self-esteem, dem tink dem caan fine nuh baddy betta or smaddy influence dem. Nuh badda tink sey a poor ppl or only 3rd world ppl a tie.

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On a more serious note though. Teacha doesn’t this harm the person who is being tied? Also, how can this be reversed? How does one know for sure that they have been tied?

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Diss is a warning to all ooman out dere
Oonu naw guh tie up mi one baby!!! Nopes!!! NOT gonna rerk
Ppl him nuh ketch 10 yet lol, but mi ah sound di trumpet fram nung

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Mi sey MTH!!!
Tie up yuhself wid one ole fawt and deh two twos missa rite cum rite along…
kmt

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Mek I tell yu diss…When mi was bout 18/19 mi move guh inna one community. Dem did have diss young girl she was very uptownish but ppl use to whispa an sey shi bad..As luck wud have it she related to smaddy inna di yaad wey mi lilfe. Mi get fi know har and wi turn friends she was 8 years older than me. The lady ‘teach’ mi fi duh road…Shi sey neva dey wid nuh man inna yu area, neva dey wid nuh wey unno work a di same place cause if a nex man like yu a sen yu flowers him a guh know…Shi sey even if is di manager a look yu, yu can hole out and maybe the CEO. Shi sey even if a did CEO nex ting as unno dey him haffi lef an yu name get tarnish and the right man come an yu nuh get him. She always tell mi sey yu have a good man, betta man out. Now can yu inagine yu tie upyu rawtid self and den afta 2 months yu fine a betta man…

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The bigger question mi have is how nuhbaddy neva try tie mi yet? Hehehhehe. Yu si if mi a talk to smaddy an dem get needy and clingy-clingy a cut mi cut. Who mi, no baa-ba. Mi nuh sign up fi dat shit.

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Howdy doo, Howdy doo, and Howdy doo
Yuh know sey dis tieing ting is a wicked act. Nuff people yuh si eena relationship whey naw go nuh whey, but is like dem cyaan leff an dem unhappy soh till. I think it is a SIN fi tie smaddy to you.

How can anyone be happy like that? Dats y mi nuh sarry fi nuh ooman who tie man an den di man beat out dem claat. Poor man waan leff an cannot leff

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Yuh seet 13bubblez, dat mean seh the man was eating food with human waste all dis time and neva know, oh gosh. Is suh I hear about this lady that use to mix har “monthly” in har man food fi tie him. What kinda warped sense of love dat. People too wicked!

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I know I could never personally tie any one. Personally there are times when even 2 years I am not involved with any one..Then the moment I decide to get involved, there seem to be a million guys. I like the feel of falling in love and the chase and all that crap, so I give myself the freedom to fall in and out of love…The same reason I dont have a tattoo, I dont want to be trapped with nothing for my entire life…

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That’s why MTH mi seh a cyaan love dat, anybody wha duh dat sick inna dem head!

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I grew up in the country and heard alot of talk about tying. Back in the day I remembered as as child they tied up a child to a tree and beat the child. In my child’s mind, I thought is was literally tie someone to a tree.

I dont know if it is true or wah…But I always heard (a lot of variation) about a woman tying a man and the man didnt come/or throw away the food and a pig ate it and the pig was tied to the woman…

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dats why i try lissen my guardian/first mind yu seet Nunu mek him tun right back a him yaad catch her ina di displicable (sp) act. Is a good ting him find out den rather dan later, cyaa tell how him life may have been..maybe no Obara 🙁

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Forgot my manners, afternoon all!

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Things like this scare me about interacting with people. Look how easy it is to mess up a person’s life. A mussi him guardian mek him turn back fi si

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good day peepz oooooh boy til this day mi tell my frens bout my ex fren weh tie di bwoy to shi. memba very clearly wi di bout 18 or 19, an my fren read 1 book pon di occults n tingz. her man did a rass an she used to twist n oil him hair. yu kno di gal cut him lock an bury ina dem back yard. is my fren baby brother suh mi tell dem suh dem can pull di tie. rass idiots nuh lissen to me! til dis day dem break up, back together, break up, back together. Have pitni together an everything. mi pray n repent cah mi did kno fo a while but neva too penny it til mi notice dem tutmelous(sp) relationshit cah a neva relationship Tying is not a good sumn eno cah di ppl neva live loving bare fight n argue

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All the stories I post are true, I don’t know if he send her anything

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Sad indeed. But sorry to hear about the last part.

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Lord Jesus cover mi!! This is so scary. Laws Obara. What if one day you tie someone and can lef’? People so silly and desperate?????
I may be a tad younger than most who post here but I hardly heard these tying stories. Just the women in my family warning the young boys not to eat stew peas from women. And I heard things like sweat rice etc but this was not until i hit my late teens. I used to think this was a myth because no one cared to explain this to the 90s babies/kids. Is this still going on or is it a thing thing of the past? Come! I know people have stories *props hand under chin*

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Safo mi tell my boy child di same ting! No nyamy nyamy mek nuh gal tye yu!!!! smh it goes both ways doh man tye ooman, ooman tye man!

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An entertaining but sad story, even sadder because its a true story. Obara did your dad send money for his daughter? I recently was told by my friend to be ye careful of how I give/lend/accept money. I am wondering if he sentmoney, the woman could obeah him through money/

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MTH yuh almos’ mek mi lungs callapse ova the other article, fram di white frack to the car light dem, lol. That’s why mi pray inna the morning cause a night mi get fraid. I’m trying to fight it though cause mi really want fi si mi guardian ot will take time, try it agen man

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