Since I wrote the post the Symptoms of Tying, I have received tons of emails of people who are affected by it, (read here for one of my own personal stories, this one is of my father). For people who can read patois, (it is in patois straight through) read this one, it is also very personal to me, as a matter of fact this was the second post I ever wrote on my blog. Through out my postings here on Embracing Spirituality, I have sprinkled this act of Obeah into many of my posts. It is prevalent in ALL cultures and within all societies, and it does not even have to be lovers that do it to each other.
A parent can bind a child unto him or her for control, friends in platonic relations can do this for their own reasons, making the person a slave to them and forcing loyalty. It is that serious because it does exist. People do it quite often and in a certain culture (do not ask me which one, I will not reveal it) mothers train their daughters to find good suitors and instruct them on what to do or what to take from them so that this person can be bound to them forever. Trick Worse than Obeah is a post which I can actually say now, that I was tricked and tied up by the man’s parents.
I was innocent to the fact, but because I am no ordinary human being, my non-physicals set me free. There was once a church I attended that the mother, you can find her here, (I have really written a lot of posts, imagine that? and I can not type, oonuh clap mi!) tied up all her attendees. I think I wrote that story here, but I cannot remember the title of the post. They cleaned her house, washed her clothes, did all her bidding. I exposed her unintentionally by me, but intentionally through spirit, and there began one of the greatest spiritual fights of my life, read it a part of it here.
I have never experienced slavery. What I mean by this is I have always been in control of my life, except the trick post, which only lasted months. I am an Aries and very spontaneous, I do not know how to dance to the beat of others. This is just how I am made up naturally, but there are some people who are easily led. Some who are not confident, some lacking love, and some who are too curious. Emotions, especially low level emotions, like being sensitive, low self esteem, extreme shyness, feeling insecure, all of this stems from fear, even rage which finds its root within fear somewhere deep in the sub-conscious and so when it becomes too much, rage erupts. All these things make a person vulnerable or susceptible to people leading them astray physically and spiritually.
Physically, all a person has to do is find the right words to say to anyone afflicted with these low-level emotions and be able to manipulate them. But Spiritually, it is the opening of the way for spirits to enter and dwell, so the tying situation is able to work because already pre-existing in the victim was some low-level emotion, either the ones mentioned above, or others, including ego, and then some.
Tying and binding through the act of Obeah/Voodoo/Juju/Witchcraft (please note that not all Obeah works are bad, and Vodoun is a wonderful religion) can be done in many ways, and of course in the linked posts, I have explained the symptoms to how it affects others. It can be cleared, but often times it depends on how long the person has been under the spell and how the binding was done. In the post with my father’s story, linked above, because he was never spiritually cleared of what was done to him, (he just left the woman) he suffered with his stomach for years. This resulted in him having three operations due to an ulcer he developed through the obeah. This is how it manifested physically. Obeah can manifest as sickness.
If it (the tying) was done through food (thou shalt not be nyammy nyammy, watch who you eat from) then as a spiritualist, I will sigh with relief because this is the easiest to pull. If done with sex fluids, the work becomes a little harder, but can still be handled. However, there are some binding jobs that give the spiritualist a headache to remove, yes, a competent spiritualist can do it, but it would be like a science project. I have been there so I know.
What is important for you to know, however, is the effect it has on the victim (not to mention the ones who love and care for him or her) while under bondage, especially the longer they stay under the influence. The wicked baby father (I have written about him many times search the blog if interested) is still affected by what his evil woman had done to him, and they have been separated for years now. When I first went “out” to see a spiritualist at my mother’s suggestion that he was under a spell. The “madda woman” (spiritualist) told me not to argue with him. She told me this was important. I must not quarrel at all with him. It was hard for me not to do so, and she was not like me who likes to explain metaphysics to people (teach) so I had no idea why I should keep the peace.
However, as I came into myself, I learned the reason. Your voice to the ears of a person tied will have the opposite effect. Because the work that was done is supposed to cover the offender in such a way that anyone who tries to wake the tied person up, or argues with him for his own good, or tries to show him his behavior, will make him begin to hate that person, and only draw closer to the offender, believing the offender is his only friend.
If you have someone who you may suspect is in a situation like this, tied up or under bondage, deal gently with him or her. Do not accuse them. Use wisdom because whatever has affected him will make him see you as the enemy instead. He is now under that person’s control and influence. He will cherish his controller and hate you, even if you are his mother. Often times, the obeah worker will put the family under a spell also so that if you beg them for help in telling their son or daughter that something is wrong, they will turn against you and turn your own words toward you, believing that you must be the offender.
You can seek help on their behalf, but just keep it to yourself, and try not to be offended too much by his actions, although it is very hard, believe me, it hurts like holy hell.
There are times when the victim will come to his senses and may beg you for help, keep in mind that he does have his own spirit which will be fighting for him. So at times he may recover for a bit and become aware that he is sitting outside in front of a wash pan filled with the Obeah worker’s dirty drawers (panties), scrubbing them like ah him name Dorothy, oonuh nuh laugh ah true ting.
I once had a client who married a woman who he shared fantasies with, thus making them compatible. But he told me that when they would go to parties, she with her friends and he with his, he would look up, and their eyes would meet, and instantly he knew he had to go and stand where she was and not move for the night. He was her puppet. He said he realized that he looked like a fool, he felt like one even, but he could not help himself. He and her has since died, she went first, but she had tied him up so badly, he followed her thereafter. When he found out what she did, he hated her, but loved her same way. He wanted revenge, but worried about her as he swore against her name. He cried often and was ashamed of who he had become under her control. She had never relented, she kept on renewing the work often so his leash was tight. I pulled it and she found out about me and sent out a threat. She searched for me high and low. I wonder what she would have tried if she knew where I was. I waited for her (mi ah bad gal from birth).
He was supposed to come back to me for the final removal of what was in him, but he got deported. She followed him, but he still managed to stay away. Shortly after she died, he followed three years after. He never did finish his work with me. I will continue his story in another post.
The victims can even become suicidal, knowing inwardly what is happening but can not do anything about it. One common thing with them is stomach problems, regardless of the method used for the tying. The belly swelling is also a sign, not with everyone, but with some. Men can experience impotency also, and women can become very submissive likewise the men.
Always remember this is never the way to go. It has great repercussions that the perpetrators can never escape. It places a very strong generational curse onto whomever practiced such evil.
I could go on and on, but I notice deep posts is boring for you guys here, so let me stop.
Question: When my client followed the woman in death, can you guess why?
And as strong as he was to know he was tied and seek help, why did the tying job go through so strongly in his case?
Obara Meji
So, I am experiencing something the same. My husband had this friend they grew up together and last year I noticed they started talking a lot, whether on what’s-app video chat or text. I didn’t think much at first because that’s his friend and I didn’t want to come off as the jealous wife. But I notice the conversations were every day and more and more hours, then suddenly in January my husband came to me and told me he’s not feeling the marriage. I was shock, because as any marriage we argue and have disagreements, but we were always able to work it out. Not this time, the conversation got more and more and even though I told him it’s hurting me and how disrespectful it was, it’s like I’m talking to no one. Month and months pass, it got worst, I cried every day because I couldn’t believe it. This woman lives in Jamaica he told me, he was going to Jamaica in April, I said no, and I want to come, he says no. Before he went to Jamaica we were going to therapy, he went to Jamaica for 9 days, I was not able to talk to him once. We have two daughters, you think at least he would have called. Not once, he came back a different man, I did not recognize him, the things he was saying to me hurt and makes no sense. He continued to talk to this woman, it’s like he can’t help himself, he must call her. When he gets home from work, before he comes inside, he sits in the car and talk to her. He comes in eat dinner, shower and got on the phone with her. My daughters at I at this point was not a priority no more, we got no time with him. it felt like a permanent separation was put in between us, I started seeing the hurt it was causing my daughters. I could feel the spirits in the house, there were moment I could not get up out of bed. I felt like I was losing my mind, I even had thoughts of killing myself. And I felt so guilty because I am very close to my family and my daughters would be motherless. He went back to Jamaica again in July and came back worst that he did when he left. I found out she tied my husband to her. The man I fell in love with no longer exist, I tried getting help, but this lady in the U.S want to charge me $3400, I could not pay that, so we had to stop the whole thing. I spoke to a Man in Jamaica, it been almost two months, and nothing is changing, even though he kept saying he should be fine now. My husband now wants to divorce, so he asked me to leave his house. It’s now 9 months this has been going on and it’s getting worse by the minute, my husband and I still sleep in the same bed and I feel no love from him at all. I don’t know what else to do. Of the two people I spoke with they confirm the girl did something to him, I already know that I want to know how I can help me. Apparently, they are friend she wanted more, he wants to remain friend, so she ties him to her. I love my husband, not this person that I’m currently living with, my kids lost their father. I am now starting to understand that my husband has been talking to this woman for 2 years, not 9 months as I thought. I must leave the marriage I can’t live under this condition, but I want to help him to get back to himself first. So, I am started to work with someone else, besides that I pray all day every day for him., myself and our daughters. My husband doesn’t talk to his friends anymore, he cut his family off, the only person he talks to this woman and other women. He looks like a zombie, he looks empty and lost and eventually I’m afraid he’s going to lose his mind. Can someone help me or recommend something or someone that can help my husband. I told him this girl tie him to her he says she didn’t and I’m the one that is trying to tie him. We have been together 11 years with two kids, I don’t have to tie him. We were fine before this woman came into or back into his life. Please help.
Hello Obara Meji,
You stated that you had not removed all of what was in him because he didn’t return. Would it be possible to elaborate on that statement? Does the magic work by putting things inside people. What kind of thing was in him? That made him behave this way and that you had to remove from within him?
The client was too far gone and unfortunately couldn’t be saved because of the spiritual confusion that took place he was in a tangled situation where the female tied him to her destiny which ended in death.!!!
Unfortunately I know someone that I know is being tied because this female is selfish!!!she tied herself to him because he is popular and pure so she and mother tied him to her however this female is unable to have children and wish for him the same …she is quite aware of the true love of his life! she is slowly trying to turn him against her (the love of his life) but when the love is real and the universe connects these beings it is impossible to separate but whoever it delays ones design destiny……at times he tries to get away keep in mind he has his own apartment which she does not stay because that’s his escape route whenever he can (so sad) when I stated above that he is pure I mean pure in heart!!! So the universe assist him and guide him at times but this force needs to be broken by some of higher knowledge for these wicked trini Indians are set out to destroy my friends true destiny he is 41 years old and love children and loves his true love from a very young age keep in mind these wicked Indians also put obeah on his true love but she is (hot) and very aware of her spirituality!!!!so she was blocked from having kids but is now open and ready for her beautiful (four children)
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Due to years of being bond and his spirit being weak. Thinking he was out of danger he happened to let his guard down, so due to her obsession she came back to finish the deed.
Suppose someone always having problem keeping a good partner. every time a good person comes around, the person keeps running and cussing the prospect out of their life? The person is always by themself and always having trouble settling down… One day that person remember their teenage days, when an adult told them “your always going tohave trouble with a partner. Your never going to find happiness in that part of yyour life.”
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I wonder if people don’t ever feel ashamed when they do something like that! It kinda get me upset… It really says a lot about you when you have to bind someone to you. Smh
Bad from mi bawn!
I hate dat movie ei si man, which non Jamaican cudda beat up de dread dem like suh!! All if singting cudda guh suh, Memba him uudah haffi run whey like ten ah dem gully guys, and hide him fambily dem. Some gun whey nuh exist yet uudah beat offa him ei si ah , straight duppy dem uudah tun him eena
Obara how yuh sound like a bad gal suh, like yuh pop off and sound up di big ting when yuh ready lol
Yesssssssss…..thx prosperity!!!. As much time as mi watch it it wouldn’t come to me.
Mama unu tun up di scheme over yah dis mawning. Di mystery have mi a way to my loves. Sea queen the movie was marked for death
Mums and kb, I know it was a stretch but we have to figure out dah one yah!!! Dwl
SeaQueen! 🙂 Yu si you! bout turkey baster looool nuttin nuh go suh! Helen come tell wi…forty legz naave nutin name telly doah or it did a waste a yu time suh you deny di work hmmm maybe not a waste of time if you guh back 3 times doah Obara come tell wi how sumn go suh..dutty dread use sleep dust or something make Helen sleep don’t it? IDK rostah dis sticky looooool
Ah tie him tie up de ooman dats why she sen har story bout de rapist dread, ah serial rapist and obeah man! 17 Pinckney???? Germs bukit!
Obaraaaa loool yes I know he tie Helen. hush mumz 🙁 ole dead dawg him be! 17 pickney! and him nuh ina dem life a help dem grow..he probably wouldn’t have much to contribute but still smdh But how she never remember di werk or non werkings lool Lawd if you not busy…ok I gwan cause from morning mi a gi trouble all about.
Good morning family! Here go KB ah start myms back up dwl…That shit puzzled the hell out of me too. My theory is a turkey baster. You know, like when they artificially inseminate someone. Helen said she got pregnant 3 times but I think she had an abortion on the last one so she only brought forth 2 of 3. That had to be the comment of the year. Because 2 years ago I would’ve said, “nuttin nuh go suh!” But now with all I’ve learned from O I have to really say people are truly wicked. Di man all walk through di door without opening it??? Remind me of that movie with Steven Segal and the Jamaicans (the name nah come to me). But they had a dread druggist in the movie weh did ah practice Obeah…father go wid wi!
De dread ah one dead! All ah jump choo de ooman winda, ah straight Jackit mi sey an beaten from some gun man an bad duppy. Sea queen yuh nuh easy ei nuh bout turkey Baster, ah whey your himagination come from?? Cho man, mnl.
Yes Helen we a some real sample ova yah suh nuh feel nuh way mumz but jezam peas is how you breed and nuh know?!?! several times at that…a must di germz bucket full a C*M him a breed so much woman all a 17 times no sah all like him you affi cross road when you si him coming. Him sneeze and yu breed! loooool
Good morning great post oh boy Helen that is a story and a half…Why the dutty stinking wicked baby father nuh drop asleep and drown eeh I can’t stand people like that! Don’t want you until somebody else does. Stupid dread cause a never Rasta. But Helen is how you get pregnant not twice but I think three times?!?! plus he don’t know how either loooooool unno a di best!
Obara people wicked bad eeh shout out to the readers and peepers too…TGIF Remember the episode with the man and the gal weh tie him to her nearly mash mi dung….Thankfully my obeah woman stronger than dem and dem legions. tehehehehe
Lmaooooo, ask har deh agen fi mi deh KB, ah suh she sleep sound or de dread nah work wid nutten? Helen nuh mine we ova yah, we love laugh an hi joke. Joke dan quarrel! KB ah original ova yah, days gone by ah use to juss she an me. Class him KB class him, ole forty leg inna him head Dread! Helen we ah dun him ova yah!!!
Forty leg Inna him head???? Dwl
These are the posts that keep me checking the site daily.
And yuh stay silent, yuh galang. Peeper, lol
Obara lol yu naave nuh behavior loooooool
Good day mums and family,
O, You know you make me cross when you say, ” I will save this for another time….” You know mi love a good story and yuh mash me up every time smh. On to the question, I believed he followed her in death because it possibly was a soul tie. If it was a regular tie job I believe it can be broken in death, but a soul tie would be stronger because your soul goes on even after death. Make sense mums?? This is very disturbing, the way people so wicked. My heart goes out to the young lady below. O, if the man didn’t want her then what was the point of the tying and messing with her family. Did he get long life for his sacrifices or what?? Btw I cannot tek prosperity and her tracing di duttie dread dwl…
Ah she alone help mi class de germz bukit,, not even Helen come back come help we dun him. Big up yuhself Prosperity, Queenie yuh gwan laugh, lol
Obara, I like how you asking questions, yuh a real school teacher. But mi nuh like how yuh a dilute di ting sake a di faas wan dem. A nuff ppl out deh need help – ppl all a come to mi fi help an a doah have a clue weh fi do – is as if “Obeah” stamp pon mi farrid.
Answers:
When tyments mek pon several level di tieyee get lock dung physically, spiritually, mentally an emotionally – so dem cya help but dead wid di smady to
Ah she mek dem deport him cause she know seh if him did deh mongst yuh di werk hudda pull. Dem know seh dem tie but dem weak – an maybe she did a use a good obeah ooman weh know how fi tie tight – but di dead weh lick har cudda all be sumtin to – dem tie ya mek wid condition:
Di tying ting way more popular dan ppl tink. Is wikidniss doa but nuff time di “tieyee” did get a likkle warning before an feel seh a ppl bad mine dem – an some time dem too licky licky. Yuh have businiz owna weh deh tye custamas, boss weh deh tie worka, pastor weh deh tie church memba – it rampant.
A man confess to mi wah deh seh wen him wife decide seh dem aguh lef him mek di call fi smady carry him guh st. thomas fi stop it in di tracks but di obeah man neva ansa di phone. Him seh it was a sign an him neva bodda wid it.
Mi memba one a mi ex bwayfren tell mi bout wen him an waa indian girl did deh an har modda set it up fi dem guh waa obeah man rouna central village or some weh inna spanish town. Di modda did waa mek sure seh dem nuh lef.
Mi know bout dis odda one – di man couldnt undastan how him jus luv dis ooman all of a sudden married an start have pitni. But di tying was set fi last fi eida 7 or 10 year an wifey si di time pass an nuh tink it important fi guh back a guh tighten it – bere ahgument an cuss cuss start fi happen an dem mash up – but di man nuh do a betta ting dan guh start deh wid a Yoruba girl an a deh suh everiiting buss out cause divination call out everyting. Dem seh a death did aguh happen an when di wife guh weh fi di funeral she did aguh tighten di tie. So said so done di smady dead an she mek di trip – di ooman God modda had was fi fly dung guh do some wukkings fi di new girl an dem buss di tyments offa di man.
It is important to note though that “tyments” can be done with the consent of both parties – or rather a love spell to solidify/intensify the union.
This was VERY informative. St. Thomas seems to be the parish for tyments.
My dear Obara Meji,
first of all…I must say it’s a pleasure to meet ur acquaintance.
Secondly, I must say thank u for this blog as I am presently going through this similar situation that u write of.
Here is my story…..
In 2012 January, my hobby n I started building a restaurant In my neighborhood. We had haters around us n we both acknowledged it. U see my main enemy was a man who had a mechanic shop nearby, who wanted me but I wouldn’t stop to look at the best part of him. He would boast about how he got all the women in the area, except me.
Now dis yah pap dung coolie man wey shape like sponge bob, mi nuh kno who for the life of me coulda lie dung wid dat…nuh care how him may have money a draw a grung!
Anywho…lata fe him.
So our business was constructing n later in mid may of that same yr my hobby decided he had to run up to England to free up his account there….(he is british subject by neutralization). While there we communicated constantly. He sends money, i oversee n give instructions how n what i wanted to build.
We lived at his home which is in a gated community. My hobby home is a three levelled house’ the last two levels he used for rental purposes, while we lived on the upper level.
A whiteman who is a judge occupied the second floor. He was a married man but was seeing a young jamaican girl whom he was living with there. She has a famous brother who is an entertainer who used to take up permanent resistance there as soon as the judge left for england. The sister n I were close, until I started building the restaurant n didnt have the extra time to spare talking crap anymore. School was also back off holidays n I had at the time a six n seven yrs old children to take care of.
She was a stay at home mom.
As soon as I drove home in the evenings she would come running up the stairs. This would happen every evening until one day I told her I couldn’t do it. I had 2 children to help with homework. I had to prepare dinner n make sure they bath n get ready for the nxt day.
After a while she stopped talking to me. The entertainer brother n all who used to holler at me stopped.
I used to visit this herbal life club everyday during the wk. One day some members decided they were going to go to a early morning church vigil around 5am. I told them I would go with them but the day came n I forgot n they went without me. That same morning I went to the club n heard them talking how good the sermon was. One so called friend asked me to read liviticus 37 for her, as I had the bible dowloaded on my phone. She read it herself from her bible.
That same night I went home, did all my evening duties n tried reading the same liviticus 37 from my phone but it froze on exodus 40. I closed the phone down. I reopened the phone it was still stuck on Exodus 40 n verse 9 was highlighted. I read it n it freed up instantly. I totally didn’t do what it said but it was always in my head.
Bloggers before I go any further I just want to take the time to go back a little in time here.
My two children was fathered by another man.
In 2002 I was deported from england. I went to prison for something I didn’t do n this had left me kinda like in a zombie state. I didn’t have a place to live when I came back…even tho I had just renovated my family home 3 yrs prior to my trip to england. The same house i left all my belongings at. My keys which i used to lock my room doors with i had with me in the UK. Now when i came back…all i had was gone. I had alot…n it was all gone. I now didnt own not even a week supply of clothing.
I used to be mother n father to my siblings n took care of them as if they were my own resposiblity. Our dying father had made me promised him that i would look after my siblings. Some were older than me n i was older than the last one by 4yrs.
I had to run away from this home because one of my brother’s decided to throw a broken bottle In my face. (Up to this day I don’t understand what caused the sudden urge in them to hate me so much). It was like a demon had unleashed in him that day.
So back to my children’s dad.
It was because of not having anywhere to live that when my children father offered me a job n a place to stay I accepted. This man was nothing like my type n he gave me the shivers…I also scorned him. I took up his offer as i didnt live anywhere n I stayed because i also saw he had given a lady I knew previously n her children a place to live. I really admired him for his kind hospitality.
I let my guard down around the man because I saw him as a father figure n also a rastaman.
One wednesday night I went upstairs to my children father bachelor pad just like all the occupants would do to listen to Muta baruka program that aired in jamaica every wednesday night. This night in particular I fell asleep up there. This wasnt me as im not the sleepy sleepy type. It bothered me too at the time but i left it alone.
By now all who i went there n saw had moved out. He gave the girl notice to leave.
I experienced some things that were out of this world!
Once a frog ran me down all the way up 13 steps! In broad daylight!!!
A frog n a mongoose played like two dogs would one night on his drive way. I have seen ghosts way taller than his rooftop. I have seen ghosts with only head. I have seen my baby father in the same clothes he wore the day before, come through a closed window n existed through a closed door miniutes past 3 am once. i have witnessed so much n have ppl who witness all these n more.
Weeks n months passed…i found out i was pregnant! It was as if i was in a trance. Long story short…i fell pregnant again! This time I almost lost my mind…in that time jamaica had hurricane Dean I was pregnant again!! Naah sah…dis yah one lick mi fe six!!! How smaddy fe breed without having sex??!!! All this time the only man who was around me would be this man. When I asked him the first two times how mi breed…he told me he didnt know. Ohhh…suh a me a fool?
The third time I went to see a cousin of mine who is a medical doctor. I told him what I could explain n told him I needed to rid myself of the pregnancy. The abortion took place in the toilet. I was rush to the emergency room with a fetus attached to my vagina! When the nurses cleaned me up here is the baby father, asking me what happened. Suh mi tek him on! Mi seh…a wha yuh a ask mi seh, bout how mi lose it…den mi ask him how it got there?? Up until now him neva mentioned it to me again.
Bloggers I can’t begin to tell u what my babies n I had to endure in that house. He wouldn’t give my children food to eat. My entire pregnancy with the second child was like I was in hell!!! The man never give me money. He dont buy food for the babies. I tin a formula, the small one… had to serve both babies in the beginning. Then all that stopped til there was nothing to look for. He took away the gas cylinder. He turned the lights off…we had to live in darkness! He would leave the main entry doors open wide at nights to where we slept! All kinds of wicked, evil n dreadful things is just what he preed for me. He punched me up a couple times during my first eight months pregnancy. This was all so weird as i didnt know the man at all. I only ever saw him about maybe 3 times before in my life. We never spoke n we were never friends.
The last straw was when the children reached the age for school. He said his money was not going to send them. He didnt mince words n meant every word.
God helped me n made a way out for me n we left his home. 3-4yrs went by without him helping me with the babies. He never came to see them, not even to give them a little food!
So back to my hobby now….
So now the yr is 2012 n I along with my children now lives with my hobby. My hobby is in england. Ppl…no lie!!! Would u believe my baby father started coming to my hobbys home? He said he wanted his family back!!! The raasclaat man have bout 17 pickney wid bout 9 baby madda n is a real fucking deadbeat piece of shit n him come a mi good good man house telling mi him want family back!
He told me how much him miss mi cooking n how him want to be in his children life. Him weh neva give de baby dem nutt’n but now him bring mi son 5 suits a clothes n 2 pairs a shoes!
One of the time that he came to my man house, I went to use my bathroom n caught him running from one of the rooms. That was the last time i knew he came back there. His visits there werent more than about 4 or 5 times at the most.
The baby father had brought a box tape wrapped on one of his visits to my man’s home, saying he had shipped a bicycle for my childen to ride. When we unwrapped the box…bloggers u would not believe the condition the bike was in. It’s like he went to a junk yard…mi naah lie!!! The biike was so old n full of rusts u could hardly tell what the colour was. The chain couldn’t stay on the bike because it was stiff n had the colour of dirt! The danger in all this is…the brake was in the hob. We lived on a steep hill. I told my daughter not to go on the bike n explained the dangers it could pose. She didn’t listen. She crashed one night while riding off the hill n got a head injury! Her entire head was swollen n she was bleeding through her nostrils. She had to be rushed into the emergency room. While there in the hospital I called him n told him what happened. He didn’t come…even though he lives less than 10 miles away.. n owns a ride.
I was asked by my man one day If the baby father used to come by his home n I told him no. No… because he didnt come back there in months.
So the restaurant was finished building. My man came back from england n the place was opened in september of 2013.
My man started behaving strangely. He just got picky picky over the least of things like he wanted to start an argument on a regular. This wasn’t him as he was a person who never argues. Our relationship was getting strained by now. In October 2013…just after the opening of the first restaurant he came to me one day telling me how he bought beach front property for us both in st thomas n that he was going to build apartments. This was in our plans but not yet.
In november he started cancelling all our joint bank accounts. In december he crashed n by January 2014 he told me with tears in his eyes he loved me very much n cared about me but couldnt be with me. That day my world ended.
We were still together n even started building another restaurant. I designed a part of it. When it was time for the opening he had a woman in it alongside him. He told me in january 2015 of this other woman. We still keep in touch to this day. When i asked him what happened to us, he tells me how i didnt love him.
Bloggers..this man is the only man i have ever considered marrying. He proposed to me many times while in the relationship but i wanted to be sure i was in love with him. I was never about his money!!! I was ready to accept.
When i look back … i remember one morning i saw what looked to be like candle wax covered all over one side on the back of the jeep. I blamed it on the entertainer ‘s sister who was living downstairs n who i had reasons to believe she was the enemy.
My man’s neighbour told my man that my babyfather, on more than one occasion was seen in our yard at nights!
All now mi doe overs how n why mi move out of my hobbys home.
High Priestess Obara Meji plz forgive me for this lengthy blog..Bloggers plz have my excuse.
This is my first post.
No forgiveness needed my love, share your story contribute a post, this is a place to teach and learn. De baby fadda is a germs bukit. Him ah Obeah man, yuh have three main enemies, two man and a woman. More are about but dem three yah ah de evil. Tek back yuh man, because him on the verge of sickness, operation ah run him dung, him Nuffi tek it. De spirit telling me dat the baby father ah wizard, him study deep occult and experiment wid wickedness. Ah wi talk de tings dem enuh, cho man, this story hurt mi, people too rass wicked! We will talk off air Helen, welcome to de page. People oonuh help me and Helen class dis DUTTIE bongo dread!
A suh mi yai dis opin wide….mi too visual fi dem story ya. Mi tyaad! Obara will take of you dear 🙂
Mi well want dip up under somebody from the year start. A wi class di rotten teeth, dutti head dread weh want tie on the nice clean ooman pan him cheesy dead hood.
Dutti teeth, well waan bathe dread a wi talk weh nuh guh suh…
Hi Obara/everyone,
So sorry for staying away for so long/ trying to take care of family/work/ sometimes not easy as a single mom with a teenager.
What I do understand however, is this/ the enemy will do its best to keep us from spending time on this blog/ best in the world! Obara asks for nothing in return and she consistently uses her God given talents/ gifts to instruct/ guide and save lives and keep us from falling/ she is the real deal! ( you know how many times mi pot burn on the fire? Her writings are just amazing).
I had to respond to Helen’s blog/ what a wicked dutty mama wutless man! Rarely you see man do these things/ if I could catch him fi take his measurements/ I would make a nice skirt suit fi him. That man let his own flesh and blood and the mother of his child suffer so/ dear God/ hell too good for him!
My child’s father, according to me, is the wickedest man in the world/ now let me think/ I can either take back the title from him/ or you know what? Him and Helen’s baby father can share it/ it is a tie/ Ooh let us not forget about Obara’s wicked baby father/ it is a three way tie/ lol.
30 years ago I got pregnant for this man/ he chased me so much/ I did not like him/ not my type/ but one day I came home/ my sister told me, him left red snapper fish at the house/ that was it/ I still did not like him/ had the baby and told him it was over/ he turned violent/ but I had a bad uncle and he could not touch me/ I even took a transfer to head office/ Kingston to get away from him/ took my child with me/ wicked man never gave me one red cent for this child/ I worked my govt job and do my sewing on the side to survive.
Came to US in 1994/ with my child/ my mom was here/ child grow up/ went to med school/ still this man trying to find me/ through some wicked family members/ my child and he connected/ now my child is barely speaking to me. I now hear all he did/ once in JA this little reader woman told me, he trying to find you, but do not let him find you. When I came here/ I had an accident every year/ and as soon as I drive out mi house/ police stop me/ this wicked man did this/ because I had to send cops to his house to warn him/ he was stalking me/ someone saw him in my back yard on more than one occasion. I had an accident years ago/ went to do an X/Ray, I personally saw the rope around my waist in the X-ray/ for real!
So now I hear that he tied everything I do/ my job/ no man see me/ and tree no grow in a mi face/ my money/ Jesus! Yes Sah/ him wicked. For years/ there was a certain period I would work and a certain period I was unemployed.
Helen you are in the right place/ Sister Obara/ by the guidance of the Most High/ will see you through. This year is my year for connecting with her as well/ get all the cobwebs out a mi life.
Bloggers/ let us take time for this precious forum/ we will face resistance because the enemy know that what we are being taught will lift us up out of the pit they set for us ( am preaching to myself too/ lol).
Oh/ by the way, after having accidents every week/ the little man from JA told me to put 1 nutmeg behind my driver seat in the car/ was never stopped again/ and no more accidents/ maybe one day Sis Obara will enlighten us on the uses of the nutmeg.
Helen be encouraged/ Ike died years ago/ and Tina is looking fabulous and she in her 70s/ like Obara always say, keep your hands/ heart clean/ the Almighty will take care of the rest. I missed this first class/ will not miss the next.
God bless you all/ be safe!
Vikki, people sey ooman wicked, but some man, jeezas! Now de Lilly buoy whey soon tun Docta de ole wretch capture!! Yuh si how yuh si de obeah choo de xtray doe? Lol! Which class yuh ah talk bout Vikki? De Dream class ah bean now, it is to be held tomorrow ah dat?
True wud
Perhaps the gentleman became complicit in his own binding by the woman. He knew what was going on, his spirit urged him to seek a release, but his flesh was weak to her and procrastinated with regards to completing the unbinding. I guess he was like an addict, he knew that she was no good for him, but couldn’t break the habit.
Perhaps the woman had good qualities otherwise and when he weighed up the pros and cons he felt that being with her meant more to him than the removal of the spell. Perhaps he’s co-dependent and when the woman died he felt he had nothing to live for. Kinda like that post you did when you said we can choose to die. So instead of following her to beat out her nastiness, he simple followed her to resume his docile position under her thumb.
You said he shared his fantasies with this woman. They were compatible and accepted each other for who they were. Perhaps he had a close attachment to her without the binding and the binding just solidified it.
I wanted to keep it PG 13 so dats why me sey compatible fantasies, yuh hondastan? Lmaooo mi cyan sey it, de Christians ( dem peep everyday, all tek de bath dem lol) dem in yah will faint ooooo, lolol. Ah doe waan dem faint whey if I talk up oooo!!
Mi know weh yuh mean, dem compatability deh triple X mi love. So di man di haffi follow back a she. Him get tie wid di panty lastic to and him loins never want pull till him all run lef him wife. Bout love, him carnal thirst get quench.
LAWKS mi lub, de half has Neva been told, dat woman was sample
Him follow her to beat our har nastiness.
Good night ES family and a pleasant good night Obara.
Grungggggggg!!!! Medic!, lmaooo, Prosperity behave ooooo!! Lolololol
Boy oh boy…The stories I could tell lol. Tying is not a good thing. I have seen what has happened to the individual first hand. Also, you may tie the person to you but you may never have their heart. Guess that’s all some people want. Depending on how the tie was done…Some knot can pull…Even those that ingested. Me like the nyammy nyammy thing deh you mentioned. Mek me laff. Anyway, when you soul tie someone that is very dangerous and involves serious ground work. Sometimes people do that when the spirit is very strong.
You are very correct but not a lot of people have the rites and rituals on soul tying. Collette be careful oooo, de people on de blog not ready for this one lol
True, true…
Oh and Colette please share don’t just tease we, we need to hear the stories
I will share this. A young man came to America and fell in love with a girl. The young man had a wondering eye. Although he truly loved the girl, as typical of some men, he cheated. The young man was full of ambition and had previously begun air conditioning school. The young man and girl were happy. Things were moving slowly but they were moving on the two salaries. Enough so that he was able to file. At that time, in addition to school he drove taxi and waited tables. However, things began to change. The young man dropped out of school and started to do street pharmacy and armor. The young girl began seeing less and less of him. Soon, he got dip. He found a way back to the states. He got in contact with the girl he had left. By this time he was with another woman. Alright, he made a lot of money, had two and three beautiful big houses and several businesses. Yet, he kept coming in and out of the former girlfriend life. This caused an upset in the relationship of him and his now wife. He was noted to tell her that everything she had should be the old girlfriend, cause she help him to start. The wife did not take kindly to this at all. She hated the ex girlfriend and she didn’t even know her. Soon, the man get arrested again. While he was in jail this time, she get a next man. The husband come home (his friend post bail) to find the man in his bed with him robe on. The man go get him gun and shoot after the man. He wound him and run. The man find out now that the woman having a baby for the new man. She tell him she don’t want him. He tell her him never want her but she not getting him money. They find him and him get dip again. He found his way back to the states. The man contact him old girlfriend who now because of the bad luck that was befalling her knew of seeing eye people. So she took him too see her good friend. The person told him that for years his wife was working on him and tied him to her with blood and whole heap of sacrifice. She also had gotten something of the old girlfriend and used it against her. She had tried to kill the old girlfriend but she couldnt. But that is why he left the old girlfriend, lost his ambition and turned to a life not desirable. Because she liked the money he was providing and the luxury she had. She kept feeding him the things for domination and secured that he could have no other children except by her. The exgirl for a fact had three miscarriages. Something the man wanted very bad was a child with the old girlfriend and the wife made that impossible. The man say his situation was too cross now and he was buried too deep. She had no more use for him. But what she could not break was the love he had for the exgirl. That had bothered her. So she cause havoc in the girl life that no matter what, they could never be together. No matter how many times he go back. He must leave by any means necessary and come back to her. The seeing eye man said that she tie him with the 4 corners. Yet, she did not safe guard against herself. The anger he had when hearing this grew. The man warned that that if he went back to her this time, he would be a dead man. The pull was too strong because of the anger and vengeance her wanted. So, he returned to the wife who now had control over all the business’ and houses. He called her and said to her he meant her no harm, he just wanted to reason with her and her new man. So, he went and said to her, you know when I first come I had so much ambition, so much drive, you took it all away. Then he said but me have my free will…Then he shot her. In turn her man hunt him down and shot him. Like I said, tying someone to you is not a good thing. Her one selfish action affected the lives of so many people.
Wow, thanks Colette. The aroriws I have on this are endless and pitiful. I will write a part two to this because information must get out there on this. Look to reality TV it is there in front of us with some people oonuh guess them oooo lol
I think he followed due to stolkholm syndrome and he probably genuinely grew to love her, he was comfortable in his bondage. Possibly the contract between them wasn’t fulfilled and she might have been the one sent to wake him up in this reincarnation but he choose to remain asleep even after her death. He probably thought in death the work was broken and refused to embrace his spirituality and in the end it killed him.
Good argument zatthu
That’s true, you did ask for answers lol..
Here I go ……
I believe he died because he was still tied to her spiritually (possibly because of the many methods she used to tie him) and it was easy for the work to take hold of him as he was spiritually low in mood/emotions…
and if not that then I think he committed suicide (Knowing something could be done but not being spiritually or physically strong enough to get help).
The tying process is so extensive and lasted for so long and the fact it was never pulled even in life it followed him onto her death. Kind of like weighs on his soul that pulled him down with her in a sense?
Good try Zoe
No Scholastic) (where you been?) that is a different work, yuh know bout doe!
Hi all
Is the reason why he followed her in death, because spiritually he was still tied to her (even though she died) considering he never got the last past pulled.
Or
As you didn’t disclose how he died, he could of committed suicide (against his logical & spiritual will because of the tying).
And is the reason why the tying job went though (even though he knew), because she kept renewing it (possibly in different ways through sexual acts & food ) or because he just gave in believing this was his destiny and/or was low in mood?
Chaz no cheating, you asking questions, I asked for answers, lol
Maybe because his love for her outweighed the evil she had done to him???
Good answer Ton
You think he loved her? He seemed tied from the beginning. Or maybe the tying forced his love
The tie made him think he did, he left his wife for her. Good reasoning Kay
Would the binding above also be the same as binding someone who is doing duty work/obeah from be able to harm others.