A Deeper Understanding of Spiritual Bondage in Relationships

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Since I wrote the post the Symptoms of Tying, I have received tons of emails of people who are affected by it, (read here for one of my own personal stories, this one is of my father). For people who can read patois, (it is in patois straight through) read this one, it is also very personal to me, as a matter of fact this was the second post I ever wrote on my blog. Through out my postings here on Embracing Spirituality, I have sprinkled this act of Obeah into many of my posts. It is prevalent in ALL cultures and within all societies, and it does not even have to be lovers that do it to each other.

A parent can bind a child unto him or her for control, friends in platonic relations can do this for their own reasons, making the person a slave to them and forcing loyalty. It is that serious because it does exist. People do it quite often and in a certain culture (do not ask me which one, I will not reveal it) mothers train their daughters to find good suitors and instruct them on what to do or what to take from them so that this person can be bound to them forever. Trick Worse than Obeah is a post which I can actually say now, that I was tricked and tied up by the man’s parents.

I was innocent to the fact, but because I am no ordinary human being, my non-physicals set me free. There was once a church I attended that the mother, you can find her here, (I have really written a lot of posts, imagine that? and I can not type, oonuh clap mi!) tied up all her attendees. I think I wrote that story here, but I cannot remember the title of the post. They cleaned her house, washed her clothes, did all her bidding. I exposed her unintentionally by me, but intentionally through spirit, and there began one of the greatest spiritual fights of my life, read it a part of it here.

I have never experienced slavery. What I mean by this is I have always been in control of my life, except the trick post, which only lasted months. I am an Aries and very spontaneous, I do not know how to dance to the beat of others. This is just how I am made up naturally, but there are some people who are easily led. Some who are not confident, some lacking love, and some who are too curious. Emotions, especially low level emotions, like being sensitive, low self esteem, extreme shyness, feeling insecure, all of this stems from fear, even rage which finds its root within fear somewhere deep in the sub-conscious and so when it becomes too much, rage erupts. All these things make a person vulnerable or susceptible to people leading them astray physically and spiritually.

Physically, all a person has to do is find the right words to say to anyone afflicted with these low-level emotions and be able to manipulate them. But Spiritually, it is the opening of the way for spirits to enter and dwell, so the tying situation is able to work because already pre-existing in the victim was some low-level emotion, either the ones mentioned above, or others, including ego, and then some.

Tying and binding through the act of Obeah/Voodoo/Juju/Witchcraft (please note that not all Obeah works are bad, and Vodoun is a wonderful religion) can be done in many ways, and of course in the linked posts, I have explained the symptoms to how it affects others. It can be cleared, but often times it depends on how long the person has been under the spell and how the binding was done. In the post with my father’s story,  linked above, because he was never spiritually cleared of what was done to him, (he just left the woman) he suffered with his stomach for years. This resulted in him having three operations due to an ulcer he developed through the obeah. This is how it manifested physically. Obeah can manifest as sickness.

If the tying was done through food (thou shalt not be nyammy nyammy, watch who you eat from) then as a spiritualist, I will sigh with relief because this is the easiest to pull.

If the tying is done with sexual fluids, the work becomes a little harder, but can still be handled. However, there are some binding jobs that give the spiritualist a headache to remove, yes, a competent spiritualist can do it, but it would be like a science project. I have been there so I know.

What is important for you to know, however, is the effect it has on the victim (not to mention the ones who love and care for him or her) while under bondage, especially the longer they stay under the influence.

The “wicked baby father” (I have written about him many times search the blog if interested) is still affected by what his evil woman had done to him, and they have been separated for years now.

When I first went “out” to see a spiritualist at my mother’s suggestion that he was under a spell. The “madda woman” (spiritualist) told me not to argue with him. She told me this was important. I must not quarrel at all with him. It was hard for me not to do so, and she was not like me who likes to explain metaphysics to people so I had no idea why I should keep the peace. I assumed it was just good natured advice.

But no.

As I came into myself, I learned the reason.

Your voice to the ears of a person tied will have the opposite effect when you argue with them. This is because the work that was done to keep the person bounded is supposed to cover the offender in such a way that anyone who tries to wake the tied person up, (or argues with him for his own good), or tries to show him his behavior, will make him begin to hate the helper, and pull closer to the offender, believing the offender is “safe” for him.

If you have someone who you may suspect is in a situation like this, tied up or under bondage, deal gently with him or her. Do not accuse them. Use wisdom because whatever has affected him will make him see you as the enemy instead. Remember, he is “under a spell” and the real him is not fully fused with the person you think you know.

He is now under the other person’s control and influence. Therefore, when the offender calls, he will feel that he must answer, even if the offender is extremely problematic (which they usually are). He will cherish his controller and perhaps feel aggressively towards you, even if you are his mother. Often times, the obeah worker will put the family under a spell also so that if you beg them for help in telling their son or daughter that something is wrong, they will turn against you and turn your own words toward you, believing that you must be the offender.

You can seek help on their behalf, but just keep it to yourself, and try not to be offended too much by his actions, although it is very hard, believe me, it hurts like holy hell.

There are times when the victim will come to his senses and may beg you for help, keep in mind that he does have his own spirit which will be fighting for him. So at times he may recover for a bit and become aware that he is sitting outside in front of a wash pan filled with the Obeah worker’s dirty drawers (dirty underwear), scrubbing them like ah him name Dorothy, oonuh nuh laugh ah true ting.

I once had a client who married a woman who he shared fantasies with, thus making them compatible. But he told me that when they would go to parties, she with her friends and he with his, he would look up, and their eyes would meet, and instantly he knew he had to go and stand where she was and not move for the night. He was her puppet. He said he realized that he looked like a fool, he felt like one even, but he could not help himself. He and her has since died, she went first, but she had tied him up so badly, he followed her thereafter. When he found out what she did, he hated her, but loved her same way. He wanted revenge, but worried about her as he swore against her name. He cried often and was ashamed of who he had become under her control. She had never relented, she kept on renewing the work often so his leash was tight. I pulled it and she found out about me and sent out a threat. She searched for me high and low. I wonder what she would have tried if she knew where I was. I waited for her (mi ah bad gal from birth).

He was supposed to come back to me for the final removal of what was in him, but he got deported. She followed him, but he still managed to stay away. Shortly after she died, he followed three years after. He never did finish his work with me. I will continue his story in another post.

The victims can even become suicidal, knowing inwardly what is happening but can not do anything about it. One common thing with them is stomach problems, regardless of the method used for the tying. The belly swelling is also a sign, not with everyone, but with some. Men can experience impotency also, and women can become very submissive likewise the men.

Always remember this is never the way to go. It has great repercussions that the perpetrators can never escape. It places a very strong generational curse onto whomever practiced such evil.

I could go on and on, but I notice deep posts is boring for you guys here, so let me stop.

Question: When my client followed the woman in death, can you guess why?

And as strong as he was to know he was tied and seek help, why did the tying job go through so strongly in his case?

Obara Meji

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Taylor40
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Taylor40
1 year ago

So, I am experiencing something the same. My husband had this friend they grew up together and last year I noticed they started talking a lot, whether on what’s-app video chat or text. I didn’t think much at first because that’s his friend and I didn’t want to come off as the jealous wife. But I notice the conversations were every day and more and more hours, then suddenly in January my husband came to me and told me he’s not feeling the marriage. I was shock, because as any marriage we argue and have disagreements, but we were always… Read more »

Leslie
1 year ago

Hello Obara Meji,
You stated that you had not removed all of what was in him because he didn’t return. Would it be possible to elaborate on that statement? Does the magic work by putting things inside people. What kind of thing was in him? That made him behave this way and that you had to remove from within him?

Spiritually aware
1 year ago

The client was too far gone and unfortunately couldn’t be saved because of the spiritual confusion that took place he was in a tangled situation where the female tied him to her destiny which ended in death.!!! Unfortunately I know someone that I know is being tied because this female is selfish!!!she tied herself to him because he is popular and pure so she and mother tied him to her however this female is unable to have children and wish for him the same …she is quite aware of the true love of his life! she is slowly trying to… Read more »

sue
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sue
3 years ago

Due to years of being bond and his spirit being weak. Thinking he was out of danger he happened to let his guard down, so due to her obsession she came back to finish the deed. Suppose someone always having problem keeping a good partner. every time a good person comes around, the person keeps running and cussing the prospect out of their life? The person is always by themself and always having trouble settling down… One day that person remember their teenage days, when an adult told them “your always going tohave trouble with a partner. Your never going… Read more »

sue
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sue
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Alright teach

le.tigre
3 years ago

I wonder if people don’t ever feel ashamed when they do something like that! It kinda get me upset… It really says a lot about you when you have to bind someone to you. Smh

Prosperity
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Prosperity
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Obara how yuh sound like a bad gal suh, like yuh pop off and sound up di big ting when yuh ready lol

SeaQueen
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SeaQueen
3 years ago

Yesssssssss…..thx prosperity!!!. As much time as mi watch it it wouldn’t come to me.

Prosperity
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Prosperity
3 years ago

Mama unu tun up di scheme over yah dis mawning. Di mystery have mi a way to my loves. Sea queen the movie was marked for death

SeaQueen
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SeaQueen
3 years ago

Mums and kb, I know it was a stretch but we have to figure out dah one yah!!! Dwl

KTB
KTB
3 years ago

SeaQueen! 🙂 Yu si you! bout turkey baster looool nuttin nuh go suh! Helen come tell wi…forty legz naave nutin name telly doah or it did a waste a yu time suh you deny di work hmmm maybe not a waste of time if you guh back 3 times doah Obara come tell wi how sumn go suh..dutty dread use sleep dust or something make Helen sleep don’t it? IDK rostah dis sticky looooool

KTB
KTB
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Obaraaaa loool yes I know he tie Helen. hush mumz 🙁 ole dead dawg him be! 17 pickney! and him nuh ina dem life a help dem grow..he probably wouldn’t have much to contribute but still smdh But how she never remember di werk or non werkings lool Lawd if you not busy…ok I gwan cause from morning mi a gi trouble all about.

SeaQueen
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SeaQueen
3 years ago

Good morning family! Here go KB ah start myms back up dwl…That shit puzzled the hell out of me too. My theory is a turkey baster. You know, like when they artificially inseminate someone. Helen said she got pregnant 3 times but I think she had an abortion on the last one so she only brought forth 2 of 3. That had to be the comment of the year. Because 2 years ago I would’ve said, “nuttin nuh go suh!” But now with all I’ve learned from O I have to really say people are truly wicked. Di man all… Read more »

KTB
KTB
3 years ago

Yes Helen we a some real sample ova yah suh nuh feel nuh way mumz but jezam peas is how you breed and nuh know?!?! several times at that…a must di germz bucket full a C*M him a breed so much woman all a 17 times no sah all like him you affi cross road when you si him coming. Him sneeze and yu breed! loooool

KTB
KTB
3 years ago

Good morning great post oh boy Helen that is a story and a half…Why the dutty stinking wicked baby father nuh drop asleep and drown eeh I can’t stand people like that! Don’t want you until somebody else does. Stupid dread cause a never Rasta. But Helen is how you get pregnant not twice but I think three times?!?! plus he don’t know how either loooooool unno a di best! Obara people wicked bad eeh shout out to the readers and peepers too…TGIF Remember the episode with the man and the gal weh tie him to her nearly mash mi… Read more »

SeaQueen
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SeaQueen
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Forty leg Inna him head???? Dwl

Kevin
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Kevin
3 years ago

These are the posts that keep me checking the site daily.

KTB
KTB
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Obara lol yu naave nuh behavior loooooool

SeaQueen
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SeaQueen
3 years ago

Good day mums and family, O, You know you make me cross when you say, ” I will save this for another time….” You know mi love a good story and yuh mash me up every time smh. On to the question, I believed he followed her in death because it possibly was a soul tie. If it was a regular tie job I believe it can be broken in death, but a soul tie would be stronger because your soul goes on even after death. Make sense mums?? This is very disturbing, the way people so wicked. My heart… Read more »

Intellectual Bhutu
3 years ago

Obara, I like how you asking questions, yuh a real school teacher. But mi nuh like how yuh a dilute di ting sake a di faas wan dem. A nuff ppl out deh need help – ppl all a come to mi fi help an a doah have a clue weh fi do – is as if “Obeah” stamp pon mi farrid. Answers: When tyments mek pon several level di tieyee get lock dung physically, spiritually, mentally an emotionally – so dem cya help but dead wid di smady to Ah she mek dem deport him cause she know seh… Read more »

Determined
1 year ago

This was VERY informative. St. Thomas seems to be the parish for tyments.

Helen
3 years ago

My dear Obara Meji, first of all…I must say it’s a pleasure to meet ur acquaintance. Secondly, I must say thank u for this blog as I am presently going through this similar situation that u write of. Here is my story….. In 2012 January, my hobby n I started building a restaurant In my neighborhood. We had haters around us n we both acknowledged it. U see my main enemy was a man who had a mechanic shop nearby, who wanted me but I wouldn’t stop to look at the best part of him. He would boast about how… Read more »

Intellectual Bhutu
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

A suh mi yai dis opin wide….mi too visual fi dem story ya. Mi tyaad! Obara will take of you dear 🙂

Prosperity
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Prosperity
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Mi well want dip up under somebody from the year start. A wi class di rotten teeth, dutti head dread weh want tie on the nice clean ooman pan him cheesy dead hood.
Dutti teeth, well waan bathe dread a wi talk weh nuh guh suh…

Vikki
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Vikki
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Hi Obara/everyone, So sorry for staying away for so long/ trying to take care of family/work/ sometimes not easy as a single mom with a teenager. What I do understand however, is this/ the enemy will do its best to keep us from spending time on this blog/ best in the world! Obara asks for nothing in return and she consistently uses her God given talents/ gifts to instruct/ guide and save lives and keep us from falling/ she is the real deal! ( you know how many times mi pot burn on the fire? Her writings are just amazing).… Read more »

Prosperity
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Prosperity
3 years ago

Perhaps the gentleman became complicit in his own binding by the woman. He knew what was going on, his spirit urged him to seek a release, but his flesh was weak to her and procrastinated with regards to completing the unbinding. I guess he was like an addict, he knew that she was no good for him, but couldn’t break the habit. Perhaps the woman had good qualities otherwise and when he weighed up the pros and cons he felt that being with her meant more to him than the removal of the spell. Perhaps he’s co-dependent and when the… Read more »

Prosperity
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Prosperity
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

Mi know weh yuh mean, dem compatability deh triple X mi love. So di man di haffi follow back a she. Him get tie wid di panty lastic to and him loins never want pull till him all run lef him wife. Bout love, him carnal thirst get quench.

Prosperity
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Prosperity
3 years ago

Him follow her to beat our har nastiness.
Good night ES family and a pleasant good night Obara.

Colette
3 years ago

Boy oh boy…The stories I could tell lol. Tying is not a good thing. I have seen what has happened to the individual first hand. Also, you may tie the person to you but you may never have their heart. Guess that’s all some people want. Depending on how the tie was done…Some knot can pull…Even those that ingested. Me like the nyammy nyammy thing deh you mentioned. Mek me laff. Anyway, when you soul tie someone that is very dangerous and involves serious ground work. Sometimes people do that when the spirit is very strong.

Colette
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

True, true…

Colette
3 years ago
Reply to  Obara Meji

I will share this. A young man came to America and fell in love with a girl. The young man had a wondering eye. Although he truly loved the girl, as typical of some men, he cheated. The young man was full of ambition and had previously begun air conditioning school. The young man and girl were happy. Things were moving slowly but they were moving on the two salaries. Enough so that he was able to file. At that time, in addition to school he drove taxi and waited tables. However, things began to change. The young man dropped… Read more »

Zatthu
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Zatthu
3 years ago

I think he followed due to stolkholm syndrome and he probably genuinely grew to love her, he was comfortable in his bondage. Possibly the contract between them wasn’t fulfilled and she might have been the one sent to wake him up in this reincarnation but he choose to remain asleep even after her death. He probably thought in death the work was broken and refused to embrace his spirituality and in the end it killed him.

Chaz
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Chaz
3 years ago

That’s true, you did ask for answers lol..

Here I go ……

I believe he died because he was still tied to her spiritually (possibly because of the many methods she used to tie him) and it was easy for the work to take hold of him as he was spiritually low in mood/emotions…

and if not that then I think he committed suicide (Knowing something could be done but not being spiritually or physically strong enough to get help).

Zoe
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Zoe
3 years ago

The tying process is so extensive and lasted for so long and the fact it was never pulled even in life it followed him onto her death. Kind of like weighs on his soul that pulled him down with her in a sense?

Chaz
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Chaz
3 years ago

Hi all

Is the reason why he followed her in death, because spiritually he was still tied to her (even though she died) considering he never got the last past pulled.
Or
As you didn’t disclose how he died, he could of committed suicide (against his logical & spiritual will because of the tying).

And is the reason why the tying job went though (even though he knew), because she kept renewing it (possibly in different ways through sexual acts & food ) or because he just gave in believing this was his destiny and/or was low in mood?

Ton
Ton
3 years ago

Maybe because his love for her outweighed the evil she had done to him???

Kay
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Kay
3 years ago
Reply to  Ton

You think he loved her? He seemed tied from the beginning. Or maybe the tying forced his love

scholastic
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scholastic
3 years ago

Would the binding above also be the same as binding someone who is doing duty work/obeah from be able to harm others.

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