February 8, 2017 Obara Meji 58Comment

Since I wrote the post the Symptoms of Tying, I have received tons of emails of people who are affected by it, (read here for one of my own personal stories, this one is of my father). For people who can read patois, (it is in patois straight through) read this one, it is also very personal to me, as a matter of fact this was the second post I ever wrote on my blog. Through out my postings here on Embracing Spirituality, I have sprinkled this act of Obeah into many of my posts. It is prevalent in ALL cultures and within all societies, and it does not even have to be lovers that do it to each other. A parent can bind a child unto him or her for control, friends in platonic relations can do this for their own reasons, making the person a slave to them and forcing loyalty. It is that serious because it does exist. People do it quite often and in a certain culture (do not ask me which one, I will not reveal it) mothers train their daughters to find good suitors and instruct them on what to do or what to take from them so that this person can be bound to them forever. Trick worse than obeah is a post which I can actually say now, that I was tricked and tied up by the man’s parents. I was innocent to the fact, but because I am no ordinary human being, my non-physicals set me free. There was once a church I attended that the mother, you can find her here, (I have really written a lot of posts, imagine that? and I can not type, oonuh clap mi!) tied up all her attendees. I think I wrote that story here, but I cannot remember the title of the post. They cleaned her house, washed her clothes, did all her bidding. I exposed her unintentionally by me, but intentionally through spirit, and there began one of the greatest spiritual fights of my life, read it a part of it here.

I have never experienced slavery. What I mean by this is I have always been in control of my life, except the trick post, which only lasted months. I am an Aries and very spontaneous, I do not know how to dance to the beat of others. This is just how I am made up naturally, but there are some people who are easily led. Some who are not confident, some lacking love, and some who are too curious. Emotions, especially low level emotions, like being sensitive, low self esteem, extreme shyness, feeling insecure, all of this stems from fear, even rage which finds its root within fear somewhere deep in the sub-conscious and so when it becomes too much, rage erupts. All these things make a person vulnerable or susceptible to people leading them astray physically and spiritually.

Physically, all a person has to do is find the right words to say to anyone afflicted with these low-level emotions and be able to manipulate them. But Spiritually, it is the opening of the way for spirits to enter and dwell, so the tying situation is able to work because already pre-existing in the victim was some low-level emotion, either the ones mentioned above, or others, including ego, and then some.

Tying and binding through the act of Obeah/Voodoo/Juju/Witchcraft (please note that not all Obeah works are bad, and Vodoun is a wonderful religion) can be done in many ways, and of course in the linked posts, I have explained the symptoms to how it affects others. It can be cleared, but often times it depends on how long the person has been under the spell and how the binding was done. In the post with my father’s story,  linked above, because he was never spiritually cleared of what was done to him, (he just left the woman) he suffered with his stomach for years. This resulted in him having three operations due to an ulcer he developed through the obeah. This is how it manifested physically. Obeah can manifest as sickness.

If it (the tying) was done through food (thou shalt not be nyammy nyammy, watch who you eat from) then as a spiritualist, I will sigh with relief because this is the easiest to pull. If done with sex fluids, the work becomes a little harder, but can still be handled. However, there are some binding jobs that give the spiritualist a headache to remove, yes, a competent spiritualist can do it, but it would be like a science project. I have been there so I know.

What is important for you to know, however, is the effect it has on the victim (not to mention the ones who love and care for him or her) while under bondage, especially the longer they stay under the influence. The wicked baby father (I have written about him many times search the blog if interested) is still affected by what his evil woman had done to him, and they have been separated for years now. When I first went “out” to see a spiritualist at my mother’s suggestion that he was under a spell. The “madda woman” (spiritualist) told me not to argue with him. She told me this was important. I must not quarrel at all with him. It was hard for me not to do so, and she was not like me who likes to explain metaphysics to people (teach) so I had no idea why I should keep the peace.

However, as I came into myself, I learned the reason. Your voice to the ears of a person tied will have the opposite effect. Because the work that was done is supposed to cover the offender in such a way that anyone who tries to wake the tied person up, or argues with him for his own good, or tries to show him his behavior, will make him begin to hate that person, and only draw closer to the offender, believing the offender is his only friend.

If you have someone who you may suspect is in a situation like this, tied up or under bondage, deal gently with him or her. Do not accuse them. Use wisdom because whatever has affected him will make him see you as the enemy instead. He is now under that person’s control and influence. He will cherish his controller and hate you, even if you are his mother. Often times, the obeah worker will put the family under a spell also so that if you beg them for help in telling their son or daughter that something is wrong, they will turn against you and turn your own words toward you, believing that you must be the offender.

You can seek help on their behalf, but just keep it to yourself, and try not to be offended too much by his actions, although it is very hard, believe me, it hurts like holy hell.

There are times when the victim will come to his senses and may beg you for help, keep in mind that he does have his own spirit which will be fighting for him. So at times he may recover for a bit and become aware that he is sitting outside in front of a wash pan filled with the Obeah worker’s dirty drawers (panties), scrubbing them like ah him name Dorothy, oonuh nuh laugh ah true ting.

I once had a client who married a woman who he shared fantasies with, thus making them compatible. But he told me that when they would go to parties, she with her friends and he with his, he would look up, and their eyes would meet, and instantly he knew he had to go and stand where she was and not move for the night. He was her puppet. He said he realized that he looked like a fool, he felt like one even, but he could not help himself. He and her has since died, she went first, but she had tied him up so badly, he followed her thereafter. When he found out what she did, he hated her, but loved her same way. He wanted revenge, but worried about her as he swore against her name. He cried often and was ashamed of who he had become under her control. She had never relented, she kept on renewing the work often so his leash was tight. I pulled it and she found out about me and sent out a threat. She searched for me high and low. I wonder what she would have tried if she knew where I was. I waited for her (mi ah bad gal from birth).

He was supposed to come back to me for the final removal of what was in him, but he got deported. She followed him, but he still managed to stay away. Shortly after she died, he followed three years after. He never did finish his work with me. I will continue his story in another post.

The victims can even become suicidal, knowing inwardly what is happening but can not do anything about it. One common thing with them is stomach problems, regardless of the method used for the tying. The belly swelling is also a sign, not with everyone, but with some. Men can experience impotency also, and women can become very submissive likewise the men.

Always remember this is never the way to go. It has great repercussions that the perpetrators can never escape. It places a very strong generational curse onto whomever practiced such evil.

I could go on and on, but I notice deep posts is boring for you guys here, so let me stop.

Question: When my client followed the woman in death, can you guess why?

And as strong as he was to know he was tied and seek help, why did the tying job go through so strongly in his case?

Obara Meji

 

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Due to years of being bond and his spirit being weak. Thinking he was out of danger he happened to let his guard down, so due to her obsession she came back to finish the deed.

Suppose someone always having problem keeping a good partner. every time a good person comes around, the person keeps running and cussing the prospect out of their life? The person is always by themself and always having trouble settling down… One day that person remember their teenage days, when an adult told them “your always going tohave trouble with a partner. Your never going to find happiness in that part of yyour life.”

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I wonder if people don’t ever feel ashamed when they do something like that! It kinda get me upset… It really says a lot about you when you have to bind someone to you. Smh

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Yesssssssss…..thx prosperity!!!. As much time as mi watch it it wouldn’t come to me.

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Mama unu tun up di scheme over yah dis mawning. Di mystery have mi a way to my loves. Sea queen the movie was marked for death

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Mums and kb, I know it was a stretch but we have to figure out dah one yah!!! Dwl

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SeaQueen! 🙂 Yu si you! bout turkey baster looool nuttin nuh go suh! Helen come tell wi…forty legz naave nutin name telly doah or it did a waste a yu time suh you deny di work hmmm maybe not a waste of time if you guh back 3 times doah Obara come tell wi how sumn go suh..dutty dread use sleep dust or something make Helen sleep don’t it? IDK rostah dis sticky looooool

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Good morning family! Here go KB ah start myms back up dwl…That shit puzzled the hell out of me too. My theory is a turkey baster. You know, like when they artificially inseminate someone. Helen said she got pregnant 3 times but I think she had an abortion on the last one so she only brought forth 2 of 3. That had to be the comment of the year. Because 2 years ago I would’ve said, “nuttin nuh go suh!” But now with all I’ve learned from O I have to really say people are truly wicked. Di man all walk through di door without opening it??? Remind me of that movie with Steven Segal and the Jamaicans (the name nah come to me). But they had a dread druggist in the movie weh did ah practice Obeah…father go wid wi!

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Yes Helen we a some real sample ova yah suh nuh feel nuh way mumz but jezam peas is how you breed and nuh know?!?! several times at that…a must di germz bucket full a C*M him a breed so much woman all a 17 times no sah all like him you affi cross road when you si him coming. Him sneeze and yu breed! loooool

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Good morning great post oh boy Helen that is a story and a half…Why the dutty stinking wicked baby father nuh drop asleep and drown eeh I can’t stand people like that! Don’t want you until somebody else does. Stupid dread cause a never Rasta. But Helen is how you get pregnant not twice but I think three times?!?! plus he don’t know how either loooooool unno a di best!

Obara people wicked bad eeh shout out to the readers and peepers too…TGIF Remember the episode with the man and the gal weh tie him to her nearly mash mi dung….Thankfully my obeah woman stronger than dem and dem legions. tehehehehe

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These are the posts that keep me checking the site daily.

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Good day mums and family,

O, You know you make me cross when you say, ” I will save this for another time….” You know mi love a good story and yuh mash me up every time smh. On to the question, I believed he followed her in death because it possibly was a soul tie. If it was a regular tie job I believe it can be broken in death, but a soul tie would be stronger because your soul goes on even after death. Make sense mums?? This is very disturbing, the way people so wicked. My heart goes out to the young lady below. O, if the man didn’t want her then what was the point of the tying and messing with her family. Did he get long life for his sacrifices or what?? Btw I cannot tek prosperity and her tracing di duttie dread dwl…

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Obara, I like how you asking questions, yuh a real school teacher. But mi nuh like how yuh a dilute di ting sake a di faas wan dem. A nuff ppl out deh need help – ppl all a come to mi fi help an a doah have a clue weh fi do – is as if “Obeah” stamp pon mi farrid.

Answers:
When tyments mek pon several level di tieyee get lock dung physically, spiritually, mentally an emotionally – so dem cya help but dead wid di smady to

Ah she mek dem deport him cause she know seh if him did deh mongst yuh di werk hudda pull. Dem know seh dem tie but dem weak – an maybe she did a use a good obeah ooman weh know how fi tie tight – but di dead weh lick har cudda all be sumtin to – dem tie ya mek wid condition:

Di tying ting way more popular dan ppl tink. Is wikidniss doa but nuff time di “tieyee” did get a likkle warning before an feel seh a ppl bad mine dem – an some time dem too licky licky. Yuh have businiz owna weh deh tye custamas, boss weh deh tie worka, pastor weh deh tie church memba – it rampant.

A man confess to mi wah deh seh wen him wife decide seh dem aguh lef him mek di call fi smady carry him guh st. thomas fi stop it in di tracks but di obeah man neva ansa di phone. Him seh it was a sign an him neva bodda wid it.

Mi memba one a mi ex bwayfren tell mi bout wen him an waa indian girl did deh an har modda set it up fi dem guh waa obeah man rouna central village or some weh inna spanish town. Di modda did waa mek sure seh dem nuh lef.

Mi know bout dis odda one – di man couldnt undastan how him jus luv dis ooman all of a sudden married an start have pitni. But di tying was set fi last fi eida 7 or 10 year an wifey si di time pass an nuh tink it important fi guh back a guh tighten it – bere ahgument an cuss cuss start fi happen an dem mash up – but di man nuh do a betta ting dan guh start deh wid a Yoruba girl an a deh suh everiiting buss out cause divination call out everyting. Dem seh a death did aguh happen an when di wife guh weh fi di funeral she did aguh tighten di tie. So said so done di smady dead an she mek di trip – di ooman God modda had was fi fly dung guh do some wukkings fi di new girl an dem buss di tyments offa di man.

It is important to note though that “tyments” can be done with the consent of both parties – or rather a love spell to solidify/intensify the union.

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My dear Obara Meji,
first of all…I must say it’s a pleasure to meet ur acquaintance.
Secondly, I must say thank u for this blog as I am presently going through this similar situation that u write of.

Here is my story…..

In 2012 January, my hobby n I started building a restaurant In my neighborhood. We had haters around us n we both acknowledged it. U see my main enemy was a man who had a mechanic shop nearby, who wanted me but I wouldn’t stop to look at the best part of him. He would boast about how he got all the women in the area, except me.

Now dis yah pap dung coolie man wey shape like sponge bob, mi nuh kno who for the life of me coulda lie dung wid dat…nuh care how him may have money a draw a grung!
Anywho…lata fe him.

So our business was constructing n later in mid may of that same yr my hobby decided he had to run up to England to free up his account there….(he is british subject by neutralization). While there we communicated constantly. He sends money, i oversee n give instructions how n what i wanted to build.
We lived at his home which is in a gated community. My hobby home is a three levelled house’ the last two levels he used for rental purposes, while we lived on the upper level.
A whiteman who is a judge occupied the second floor. He was a married man but was seeing a young jamaican girl whom he was living with there. She has a famous brother who is an entertainer who used to take up permanent resistance there as soon as the judge left for england. The sister n I were close, until I started building the restaurant n didnt have the extra time to spare talking crap anymore. School was also back off holidays n I had at the time a six n seven yrs old children to take care of.
She was a stay at home mom.
As soon as I drove home in the evenings she would come running up the stairs. This would happen every evening until one day I told her I couldn’t do it. I had 2 children to help with homework. I had to prepare dinner n make sure they bath n get ready for the nxt day.
After a while she stopped talking to me. The entertainer brother n all who used to holler at me stopped.
I used to visit this herbal life club everyday during the wk. One day some members decided they were going to go to a early morning church vigil around 5am. I told them I would go with them but the day came n I forgot n they went without me. That same morning I went to the club n heard them talking how good the sermon was. One so called friend asked me to read liviticus 37 for her, as I had the bible dowloaded on my phone. She read it herself from her bible.
That same night I went home, did all my evening duties n tried reading the same liviticus 37 from my phone but it froze on exodus 40. I closed the phone down. I reopened the phone it was still stuck on Exodus 40 n verse 9 was highlighted. I read it n it freed up instantly. I totally didn’t do what it said but it was always in my head.

Bloggers before I go any further I just want to take the time to go back a little in time here.

My two children was fathered by another man.
In 2002 I was deported from england. I went to prison for something I didn’t do n this had left me kinda like in a zombie state. I didn’t have a place to live when I came back…even tho I had just renovated my family home 3 yrs prior to my trip to england. The same house i left all my belongings at. My keys which i used to lock my room doors with i had with me in the UK. Now when i came back…all i had was gone. I had alot…n it was all gone. I now didnt own not even a week supply of clothing.
I used to be mother n father to my siblings n took care of them as if they were my own resposiblity. Our dying father had made me promised him that i would look after my siblings. Some were older than me n i was older than the last one by 4yrs.
I had to run away from this home because one of my brother’s decided to throw a broken bottle In my face. (Up to this day I don’t understand what caused the sudden urge in them to hate me so much). It was like a demon had unleashed in him that day.

So back to my children’s dad.
It was because of not having anywhere to live that when my children father offered me a job n a place to stay I accepted. This man was nothing like my type n he gave me the shivers…I also scorned him. I took up his offer as i didnt live anywhere n I stayed because i also saw he had given a lady I knew previously n her children a place to live. I really admired him for his kind hospitality.
I let my guard down around the man because I saw him as a father figure n also a rastaman.
One wednesday night I went upstairs to my children father bachelor pad just like all the occupants would do to listen to Muta baruka program that aired in jamaica every wednesday night. This night in particular I fell asleep up there. This wasnt me as im not the sleepy sleepy type. It bothered me too at the time but i left it alone.
By now all who i went there n saw had moved out. He gave the girl notice to leave.
I experienced some things that were out of this world!

Once a frog ran me down all the way up 13 steps! In broad daylight!!!
A frog n a mongoose played like two dogs would one night on his drive way. I have seen ghosts way taller than his rooftop. I have seen ghosts with only head. I have seen my baby father in the same clothes he wore the day before, come through a closed window n existed through a closed door miniutes past 3 am once. i have witnessed so much n have ppl who witness all these n more.

Weeks n months passed…i found out i was pregnant! It was as if i was in a trance. Long story short…i fell pregnant again! This time I almost lost my mind…in that time jamaica had hurricane Dean I was pregnant again!! Naah sah…dis yah one lick mi fe six!!! How smaddy fe breed without having sex??!!! All this time the only man who was around me would be this man. When I asked him the first two times how mi breed…he told me he didnt know. Ohhh…suh a me a fool?

The third time I went to see a cousin of mine who is a medical doctor. I told him what I could explain n told him I needed to rid myself of the pregnancy. The abortion took place in the toilet. I was rush to the emergency room with a fetus attached to my vagina! When the nurses cleaned me up here is the baby father, asking me what happened. Suh mi tek him on! Mi seh…a wha yuh a ask mi seh, bout how mi lose it…den mi ask him how it got there?? Up until now him neva mentioned it to me again.

Bloggers I can’t begin to tell u what my babies n I had to endure in that house. He wouldn’t give my children food to eat. My entire pregnancy with the second child was like I was in hell!!! The man never give me money. He dont buy food for the babies. I tin a formula, the small one… had to serve both babies in the beginning. Then all that stopped til there was nothing to look for. He took away the gas cylinder. He turned the lights off…we had to live in darkness! He would leave the main entry doors open wide at nights to where we slept! All kinds of wicked, evil n dreadful things is just what he preed for me. He punched me up a couple times during my first eight months pregnancy. This was all so weird as i didnt know the man at all. I only ever saw him about maybe 3 times before in my life. We never spoke n we were never friends.
The last straw was when the children reached the age for school. He said his money was not going to send them. He didnt mince words n meant every word.

God helped me n made a way out for me n we left his home. 3-4yrs went by without him helping me with the babies. He never came to see them, not even to give them a little food!

So back to my hobby now….

So now the yr is 2012 n I along with my children now lives with my hobby. My hobby is in england. Ppl…no lie!!! Would u believe my baby father started coming to my hobbys home? He said he wanted his family back!!! The raasclaat man have bout 17 pickney wid bout 9 baby madda n is a real fucking deadbeat piece of shit n him come a mi good good man house telling mi him want family back!
He told me how much him miss mi cooking n how him want to be in his children life. Him weh neva give de baby dem nutt’n but now him bring mi son 5 suits a clothes n 2 pairs a shoes!
One of the time that he came to my man house, I went to use my bathroom n caught him running from one of the rooms. That was the last time i knew he came back there. His visits there werent more than about 4 or 5 times at the most.

The baby father had brought a box tape wrapped on one of his visits to my man’s home, saying he had shipped a bicycle for my childen to ride. When we unwrapped the box…bloggers u would not believe the condition the bike was in. It’s like he went to a junk yard…mi naah lie!!! The biike was so old n full of rusts u could hardly tell what the colour was. The chain couldn’t stay on the bike because it was stiff n had the colour of dirt! The danger in all this is…the brake was in the hob. We lived on a steep hill. I told my daughter not to go on the bike n explained the dangers it could pose. She didn’t listen. She crashed one night while riding off the hill n got a head injury! Her entire head was swollen n she was bleeding through her nostrils. She had to be rushed into the emergency room. While there in the hospital I called him n told him what happened. He didn’t come…even though he lives less than 10 miles away.. n owns a ride.

I was asked by my man one day If the baby father used to come by his home n I told him no. No… because he didnt come back there in months.

So the restaurant was finished building. My man came back from england n the place was opened in september of 2013.

My man started behaving strangely. He just got picky picky over the least of things like he wanted to start an argument on a regular. This wasn’t him as he was a person who never argues. Our relationship was getting strained by now. In October 2013…just after the opening of the first restaurant he came to me one day telling me how he bought beach front property for us both in st thomas n that he was going to build apartments. This was in our plans but not yet.
In november he started cancelling all our joint bank accounts. In december he crashed n by January 2014 he told me with tears in his eyes he loved me very much n cared about me but couldnt be with me. That day my world ended.

We were still together n even started building another restaurant. I designed a part of it. When it was time for the opening he had a woman in it alongside him. He told me in january 2015 of this other woman. We still keep in touch to this day. When i asked him what happened to us, he tells me how i didnt love him.
Bloggers..this man is the only man i have ever considered marrying. He proposed to me many times while in the relationship but i wanted to be sure i was in love with him. I was never about his money!!! I was ready to accept.

When i look back … i remember one morning i saw what looked to be like candle wax covered all over one side on the back of the jeep. I blamed it on the entertainer ‘s sister who was living downstairs n who i had reasons to believe she was the enemy.
My man’s neighbour told my man that my babyfather, on more than one occasion was seen in our yard at nights!

All now mi doe overs how n why mi move out of my hobbys home.

High Priestess Obara Meji plz forgive me for this lengthy blog..Bloggers plz have my excuse.

This is my first post.

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Perhaps the gentleman became complicit in his own binding by the woman. He knew what was going on, his spirit urged him to seek a release, but his flesh was weak to her and procrastinated with regards to completing the unbinding. I guess he was like an addict, he knew that she was no good for him, but couldn’t break the habit.

Perhaps the woman had good qualities otherwise and when he weighed up the pros and cons he felt that being with her meant more to him than the removal of the spell. Perhaps he’s co-dependent and when the woman died he felt he had nothing to live for. Kinda like that post you did when you said we can choose to die. So instead of following her to beat out her nastiness, he simple followed her to resume his docile position under her thumb.

You said he shared his fantasies with this woman. They were compatible and accepted each other for who they were. Perhaps he had a close attachment to her without the binding and the binding just solidified it.

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Him follow her to beat our har nastiness.
Good night ES family and a pleasant good night Obara.

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Boy oh boy…The stories I could tell lol. Tying is not a good thing. I have seen what has happened to the individual first hand. Also, you may tie the person to you but you may never have their heart. Guess that’s all some people want. Depending on how the tie was done…Some knot can pull…Even those that ingested. Me like the nyammy nyammy thing deh you mentioned. Mek me laff. Anyway, when you soul tie someone that is very dangerous and involves serious ground work. Sometimes people do that when the spirit is very strong.

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I think he followed due to stolkholm syndrome and he probably genuinely grew to love her, he was comfortable in his bondage. Possibly the contract between them wasn’t fulfilled and she might have been the one sent to wake him up in this reincarnation but he choose to remain asleep even after her death. He probably thought in death the work was broken and refused to embrace his spirituality and in the end it killed him.

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That’s true, you did ask for answers lol..

Here I go ……

I believe he died because he was still tied to her spiritually (possibly because of the many methods she used to tie him) and it was easy for the work to take hold of him as he was spiritually low in mood/emotions…

and if not that then I think he committed suicide (Knowing something could be done but not being spiritually or physically strong enough to get help).

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The tying process is so extensive and lasted for so long and the fact it was never pulled even in life it followed him onto her death. Kind of like weighs on his soul that pulled him down with her in a sense?

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Hi all

Is the reason why he followed her in death, because spiritually he was still tied to her (even though she died) considering he never got the last past pulled.
Or
As you didn’t disclose how he died, he could of committed suicide (against his logical & spiritual will because of the tying).

And is the reason why the tying job went though (even though he knew), because she kept renewing it (possibly in different ways through sexual acts & food ) or because he just gave in believing this was his destiny and/or was low in mood?

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Maybe because his love for her outweighed the evil she had done to him???

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You think he loved her? He seemed tied from the beginning. Or maybe the tying forced his love

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Would the binding above also be the same as binding someone who is doing duty work/obeah from be able to harm others.

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