Spiritual Work

SPIRITUAL HEALING BEFORE 2018

Hello all!

I would like to apologize to everyone who has been patiently waiting for a post from me and have been emailing me with complaints. The truth is, for the past couple of weeks I have been working on me. It has been a long time since I have been fully focused on myself. The nature of my work has always been to improve the lives of other people. My joy was the happiness of others. My dreams were other peoples achievements and it took one meeting recently to let me know that I had forgotten about me.

The realization was shocking and it caught me off guard. But I have watchers, non-physical watchers, who care and love me and saw that I had given up on myself and lived my life vicariously through others. Every time I am geared to take a step into a new phase of my life, there comes a harder challenge than before. The last major challenge was a great thief disguised. My spiritual eyes saw him but my human emotions qualified what I saw. I berated myself for being victimized, but the end justified the means… I can accept that now.

So today, I want to teach you how to deal with you.

Step One – Realize

The first step to healing is realizing that there is a part (or whole) of you that needs it. All my life I had this childlike love for people, no matter what was done to me. Moments after hurt and pain, on impulse I would open my door if the one who caused me pain was in need. I had an intense feeling for human connection, no matter what I went through. The Aries astrology calls this naivety, but it was something I couldn’t help.

Until recently.

Every new person that attempted to come into my life was blocked. I felt angry, used, and taken advantage of when ever a new person wanted to come into my space. I found solace in loneliness.

My daughter berated this “new me” and I hated it. There was nothing wrong with me. Why couldn’t anyone see things from my perspective?

But in truth, it was me who couldn’t see. I did not realize that the childlike love I had for humanity had dissipated. All those years of hurt had finally caught up and this was my response.

Because I did not realize that something about me needed to be healed, this emotional “ailment” now took on a physical presence. My hands were now plagued with severe eczema. Painful, maddeningly itchy, red, angry and swollen.

That was me. In pain, angry, puffed with emotions of hurt.

Remember this: All physical illnesses are caused by the human because there is a spiritual problem. How have you changed? How have you swayed away from your destiny? What have you been doing too much or too little of? Have you been avoiding something? What are you afraid of?

Sickness and diseases are illusions. They are not real. It is only a message and the moment you realize it and find the source of the problem, it will cease to exist. Everything starts from within and many things are conjured. Even obeah can not manifest unless there is a “crack” or “space” that allows it to enter. That “crack” is created by things such as fear, worry, over indulgence, low self esteem, power-drunk, doubt, insecurities, jealousy (this is a big one – it is like a sponge with a lot of holes. It is able to absorb absolutely any negative ailment, whether spiritual or physical) etc.

I had a client who constantly complained of back pain. He could hardly stand or sit without wincing. The spirit told me that the pain manifested because too many people “leaned on him,” it said. He was well off and this made family, friends, and others immediately depend on him for financial help. He was very kind and found it difficult to say no. This manifested into back pain.

Step Two – Write

After realization, write everything you have realized has gone “wrong” about yourself or needs to be healed. Introspect and be honest with yourself. Here are some examples:

  1. I am jealous of my sister
  2. I am insecure
  3. I only date who can give me money
  4. I am angry all the time
  5. I feel unworthy
  6. I gossip about others
  7. I don’t believe in myself
  8. I am afraid of trying

(Note: It doesn’t have to be a list, it can be an essay or whatever you want it to be).

Anything you realize that is not conducive to your happiness and your spirit, write it, even if that thing gives you comfort. It’s time to release it. Whatever has changed about you or whatever that darkness is within you, introspect and write it.

This step is best done alone at night or early in the morning when all is quiet. For me, introspection is done through music, and for others it’s done through total silence. This step is important because it will help you find the source of the problem.

Step Three – Heal (Ritual)

In life everything is ritual. The word “ritual” creates fear within the unawake, but know that ritual is important to our rites of life.

After writing everything down, step three is to heal.  Get a canister or pot. Pour about a handful of sea salt into the pot and then tear that paper up into pieces as fine as you can tear it, and drop it into the pot. Put a black piece of cloth into the pot and light everything on fire.

Watch everything burn, the cloth, the pieces of paper, the salt. When it all burns, empty the ashes into another piece of black cloth and tie it. Dig a hole anywhere you choose-

Caution! If your birth date (month, date, and year) adds up to the number 10 (1), do not dig the hole yourself. Let someone else dig the hole for you.

Spit into the hole 3 times (this represents your essence) and say:

“All that is behind me is behind me. I bury all negatives that does not need to be with me. May they never surface again.”

Drop the cloth with the ashes into the hole. Cover it with the dirt. Mash it to be sure it is buried properly. Sprinkle the ground with Jamaican White Rum or White Gin.

By digging the hole, you have disturbed something (a spirit, being, or some energy) so to compensate that “thing” you will give gin or white rum (with all things, respect is always due). If you do not have rum or gin, you are welcome to throw silver coins into the hole, but preferably the liquor.

What It All Means

The Pot/Canister: The pot is something that “holds” which is important to the burning process. It represents cohesiveness and something put together. It will do the job of containing all that you rid yourself of.

Sea salt: The sea is known as a cleanser. Anything the sea does not want, it spits it out. Anything that salt is apart of, that thing becomes alive. Salt also absorbs. It is a cleansing agent and aids in removing negative energy.

Fire: Fire purifies, destroys, and turns things into ashes and ash is synonymous with the ground. Burning that paper becomes like a “burial” or “funeral” for that negativity.

Your saliva: Your saliva is your essence. It represents you. Anything that is distasteful, most people spit it out. It is also indicative of a purge in this case.

All things in life are symbolic.

After this your healing has begun. Be watchful and be thankful.

Share this work with those you care about. Heal others with this recipe! If I can share it with you, you can share it with others.  Begin this coming year with a new you.

NOTE: It is BEST to do this work before 2018, but it is okay to do it in January. The essence of this work is to shed yourself of all darkness and step into the new year with light.

Obara Meji

“The truth sayer is everyone’s enemy” – Yoruba Proverb

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Obara Meji

Obara Meji is a spiritualist, Ifa-Orisa practitioner, and teacher of metaphysics. Since 2011 she has used her online platform to share her personal experiences to those seeking answers about spirituality. Her teachings will expand into short stories, novels, and public speaking to continue her mission of bringing enlightenment to the world.

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Yeye
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Yeye

Please guide me in a spiritual cleansing for the Harvest Season. I am a new member and have been reading and was unaware of the 2018 Spiritual cleansing.

Yeye
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Yeye

What suggestions do you have for spiritual cleansing for the Harvest season?

jojo
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jojo

i hope to become like you one day and discover who I am, just want to say thank you great teacher keep teaching as ppl like me need it! happy New year light!

Yeye
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Yeye

I read your instructions to heal. could I perform the ritual now? September 25, 2018?

Rose54
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Rose54

I’m disable, I live in an apartment building. Is there any other way to do this, where I will not get hurt. I have no one to help me. Thank you. Also can I still clean my apartment for 2018? I want to remove all negative things. I want go Luck and Happiness.!

adunni
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adunni

Dear Obara, I have come to say Thank You. Thanks for this one and for all your help and guidance. Thank You!

Cami
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Cami

Good morning, Good morning (singing voice or a hum). I’ll be performing this task by late evening. I’m finishing my New Year cleaning ritual, tomorrow morning should catch me with out a care for chores LOOL…lol

So, O as usual has given us a formula to improve on ourself…LOVE as usual. Yazzy! the Princess is on her 2nd year! yeahhhhhhh.

Hailing to ALLL E.S. family members, readers, peepers and new comers in the new year.

Love,

Cami 🙂 12:05 I’ll be back *MUAH*

Kay
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Kay

Starting mine now! Excitedddd 😀 Thought December 31st was the perfect time to shed old skin!

Aisha
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Aisha

I did this ritual yesterday. I thought I would have maybe 10 items on my list, but I ended up with 25. I look forward to my healing. Thank you again for this ritual, it was right on time.

I have a question: What about hereditary diseases? Why do they manifest in certain families as in, what is the spiritual cause? How do you avoid the same fate?

Kay
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Kay

I actually thought I would have like 100. I have 32 on my list lol but I’m just very determined to leave every ounce of negativity back in 2017. I already feel new and I haven’t even done step 3.

Good luck to you! ❤️ Hope your 2018 is wonderful and full of achievements!

Aisha
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Aisha

Thank you Kay, same to you!

adunni
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adunni

Thank you so much yeye Obara! You are heaven-sent to me. May Olodumare bless your beautiful soul. grant all your wishes, make your enemies your footstool, soothe your good heart and may you burst forth with joy this new year and may things that will make you forget your hurts happen that will sweeten your entire being continuously and forever that all generations after you will experience everything that makes joy, happiness and peace, love, light and tranquility. This is my favorite and happy place and Olodumare has used to be my guide. I am not where I want to be yet but I am no longer where I used to be and also I feel free from some bondage that had held my enemy down. I am an October 10 born. please can you advise me accordingly about this exercise. Thank you again yeye Obara. blessings, peace, love and light. I’m an october 10 born of 1982. Can I dig the hole myself?

KTB
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KTB

Lawd man the ground too cold! The hole digging a go be sticky. Obara thank you for this assignment. When I started thinking I was like hmm what can I heal. I read the post twice and was like okay let me see the list Obara added. I borrowed a couple from it and next thing I had a full page. O-o. Now I’m thinking how to dig the hole. The northeast is freezing!

SeaQueen
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SeaQueen

Good morning mums and ES family. Obara, the hat you wear must be a heavy one, not sure if it feels heavy to you because of your awareness of who you are and the reason you came here. A lot of times you remind me of myself, your forgiving nature, your willingness to help, and your “naivety” in regards to human connection. I sensed something had changed about you in the past couple weeks but I did not speak up or ask and for that I apologize, knowing you I wrote it off and equated it to you being a very busy lady. Glad to see my god mother is back to her jovial self as per our conversation the other day lol. Your work speaks for itself Obara, keep up the good work.

As for the 2018 healing task..my birthdate adds up to 10. Can you explain the significance of the 10? Or is it something for class or private conversation

Temitope
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Temitope

Thanks Obara for the spiritual cleansing. May olodumare continue to be with you and strengthen you.

My birth month is 10, can l dig the hole myself? I also want to ask if the burning can be done inside the house in the midnight and kept till morning before burying the pot. By carnister you mean small clay pot?

Kevin
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Kevin

Thanks Obara

sue
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sue

Kisses teach!!!! I’m happy to hear your renewing yourself. Remember those who are loyal and for you will never forsake you.

Thanks you for guidance, patience, unconditional love, teachings and many more…. Always remember your never alone. Love you teach, es family, extended family… Muah

Toy
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Toy

Thank you Obara, you have helped so many people and I’m glad that you took some time for yourself… you have been so giving of yourself and your time.. you deserve you time. I’m thankful for you…. I thank you for everything….Thank you to Obara’s babies for sharing their mommy with us… Muah

Cami
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Cami

MUAH and more MUAH! Hey Toy!

Aisha
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Aisha

Happy Holidays everyone. Thank you Obara for this releasing ritual. Thanks you also for showing us that a spiritual worker/healer must also take care of themselves. How do you find the spirituall cause of a problem? Is it only through divination?

KTB
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KTB

Helloooooo Obara here you are! You were on my mind this week eno Glad and grateful you are caring for YOU! You can’t help others if you can’t help yourself my sister. Thank you could never be enough for how you have helped me and mine but I thank you immensely from my heart. I love you dearheart! The last week of 2017 and we have survived! I think my birthday adds to 6 so am able to dig the hole. Thanks for sharing!

Lincoln
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Lincoln

AH !!!!!! Nice final post for the year—!!!
BLESSINGS ME SISTER….
Link me up after your Santa Claus holiday—-lololololol– belly laugh

Cami
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Cami

Happy New Year 2018! Lincoln.

OWASINDA
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OWASINDA

Thank you for this post I will try me best to do it before the year ends and when I get some time alone cus me nuh waah dem people ya rebuke me. I appreciate you and dayo so much and please continue with the blog. I wish you all the best in the upcoming year. Every time u write u remind me so much of myself maybe it’s because we’re both Aries I dunno. I’ve been through so much hurt too and so now I find that I get solace from loneliness but deep down I know it’s wrong but I can’t seem to get out of it. Maybe I should add it to the list for the ritual. Btw how do I add the dates cus I suck at math :(. For the upcoming heat I will try my best to participate in the comments more cus I was always afraid, shy and felt not smart enough to not comment. I don’t want to be the shy kid in the back of the class that says nothing anymore. And I want to do a divination too so I need some info on the process please

Lila
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Lila

Love what you say here. You’re ready to step out of that ‘old you’ and express more (although I, too, am guilty of absorbing knowledge and not participating in discussions). I really hope you stick to that promise to yourself, you have no idea the wonders it will do to other areas of your life that you may be shy/afraid in as well….
the little things.

Intellectual Bhutu
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Intellectual Bhutu

Greetings Master Teacher Obara Meji,

A couple days ago, I reflected on the bath you had given us last year. I am so grateful that you are able to provide a ritual just in time for 2018. I actually have everything I need on hand 🙂 Time now fi start di long list.

As the year ends, I thank you for using your time to provide us with information, not just soso information, but a whole heap a insight into the world as we know it and beyond. You are doing a great work which is impacting our lives in tremendous ways.

Obara Meji, be ye rooted in the strength of your ancestors as you prepare for exponential growth in 2018 and beyond!
Your spiritual guides will show you a path of spiritual greatness and you will embrace it freely.
Your wisdom and wealth shall increase continuously.
Your storeroom will always overflow.
Love, peace and joy shall be your constant companions.
You will find all that you seek and all that you seek shall find you.

I look forward to another year of Embracing Spirituality and the class schedule for 2018.

Blessed Love.

Lover of light
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Lover of light

Namaste Obara
Thanks so much for taking some well needed time for yourself, I need you in whole so I appreciate that you did that.
This lesson is well needed I am so grateful for you.
My birthday date is 11 and I have no one to dig the hole for me, you know my situation.
Love and light

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