August 27, 2011 Obara Meji 13Comment

 
 
Someone wanted to share this with us…..Interesting!!
 
‘Should people get married for reasons other than for love’?
 
 
Dear Pastor,
Greetings. I am writing to you for your help. I am 27 and having a problem. I am married but I am still in love with my child’s father. After my child’s father got me pregnant, I promised my parentsI would join the church and live a decent life. Eventually, I did. I got married to a young man who is my age and are a member of the church. But, pastor, I am not happy.

I fantasise a lot about my child’s father. He was a good lover and he knew how to excite me. My husband doesn’t understand what to do to satisfy me. Although he is young, he behaves as if he is an old man.

I am sorry I got married to him and I would like to get out of this marriage. I know it doesn’t sound right, but if I don’t get out I am going to go crazy.

I remember
My child’s father said he wants me back and I want him too. We have not had sex since I have the child for him. Whenever I remember what we used to do and how I am longing to be with him, tears come to my eyes.

My husband is complaining that I do not love him and I don’t. I have to touch my own private part to stimulate myself. He doesn’t even know how to do that. I asked him to suck my breasts and where to touch me.

What I am asking you, pastor, is for you to tell me how to approach my motherand tell her that I am leaving my husband. What will the people in the district think of me when I leave my husband?

R.S., Manchester

 
Dear R.S.,
Your marriage is not based on love. You wanted to please your parents because you got pregnant and, were not married and they were disappointed in you. You married another man to please your parents but you were never in love with him. You were in love with your child’s father and you have continued to love him.

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Your husband knows that you do not love him. He can feel it. What your husband is not doing is rather unusual. Most men would be happy to fondle their women and to engage in foreplay. So, if he is not engaging in such activity, it is either he is totally ignorant or you have turned him off.

It does not appear that you have tried to make this marriage work because your mind has been on your child’s father. Why haven’t you encouraged your husband to go with you for counselling sessions? Is it that you believe it would be a waste of time because you do not love him? You should go and see your mother and tell her that your husband has disappointed you, you are very unhappy do not love him and want to move on. Tell her how you feel about your child’s father and what both of you have been discussing. Ask her for her advice.

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sharlenerose
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the white men went in for a short while and left the town…the lady came out of her house after she looked at her beat, broken body and cried rape…all the white townfolk asked her who did it…she said a niggger…a nigger did it…this began the largest manhunt for a criminal that never was that left may be twenty or so blacks who had to run out of rosewood…they sent out the dogs…of course the dogs went to the black man house cause the white man had stopped there and was let in…his scent led there…so of course it was believed that the boy in the home was the criminal…gotta see that movie…oh God

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rosewood was a little town in florida where they had a small population of free blacks…there was a lady who was cheating on her husband…her lover came in, they had a quarrel and said lover beat the crap out of her…after he left her home on his way out of town he stopped at a black home…the reason he was even allowed inside as a stranger was because he was a FREEMASON…the young man inside the home a little retarded was also a mason…so he let the white man in on the premise it was his masonic brother

sharlenerose
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my bad i mean rosewood…it actually based out of florida

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose

obara u seen amistad

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose

oh u need to see rosewood…oh my god if u think movie like amistad get u emotional…rosewood tek it to dem…helloooo

Maniac
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No Sharlene,
Yes Obara, start di cooking blog…..mi will try some new tings

sharlenerose
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lawd jesus me a watch amistad…bwoy im bout to go hunt some mfckers…this shit no incite me to wrath like rosewood….anybody seen rosewood?

sharlenerose
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that would be nice…u know who would be your first reader…mi granny whe deh ya wid me…mek it a video blog cause a dat she love watch…cooking show

sharlenerose
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sharlenerose

obara…we see dat…de menu yessideh have me mouth a water especially like how hungry a beat me bad…no sah…helloooooo

sharlenerose
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cho…kmt…dee damn pastor a ediat…but me know how she feel cause a madness dis….sound like some arranged marriage…de man married she for love or what?

Maniac
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Dis blasted puta nyam mi comment 🙁
Obara beg yuh likkle ah di restaurant food mek mi geet deh, cawse it look like it waan ketch up it tummack….Cho!!!!

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