August 6, 2011 Obara Meji 20Comment

A mother is very distraught about the behaviour of her 13-year-old son who she says is abusing her. According to the woman, people are always talking about child abuse but she said she is a parent who is being abused by her son.

“My son is 13 years old and he does not listen to anything I tell him,” she said.

“It seems to me, at times, that my son is possessed by the devil because he uses filthy language to me and sometimes throw stones at me when I scold him about the terrible things he does. There are days he does not attend school. When I question him about it, he curses bad words and tells me to leave him alone,” the woman disclosed.

The woman said her neighbours are always complaining about the behaviour of her son. She said one day she went into his room to tell him what the neighbours had said. Instead of going and apologising to the neighbours, she said her son went out into the street and began cursing the neighbours.

“I telephoned his father to come and take control of him, but he said he does not want that child in his life,” the mother said. “I could not believe it when his father told me he did not want to have anything to do with his own son. He has blamed me for spoiling the boy, but that is not true. I have tried my best to lead him in the right direction, but the boy has refused to listen to me. “If his father does not want to take him in hand, what does he expect me to do? I cannot turn him out in the street. I have even taken him to a psychologist but the boy continues to be very rude and ill-mannered.

I just cannot cope any longer with his behaviour. “Last month I was at home and a woman reported to me that he had sexually assaulted her 12-year-old daughter. The woman reported the matter to the police and he was charged. I had to bail him. He is to go to court later this month. He still has not changed his rude behaviour towards me and I have warned him that I am gong to ask the judge to send him to a place of safety because I cannot cope with him any longer.”

“Do you think the judge will send him to a place of safety?”

There is provision in law for children in need of care and protection to be sent to a juvenile correctional centre where they will remain until they are 18
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sharlenerose
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MAWNING MANIAC…

Maniac
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Mawninggggggg

Gog3tt3r
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Mainy Obara wicked i naily roll

Maniac
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No man!! yuh noe sey dem wii ak up enuh, caw memba sey wi did teenagers to….so wi memba how wi did stay….but dont come gwaan like yuh waan beat mi, an disrespek mi an tell mi badwud an alla dem tings dere…..

On anneda note doe GG….yuh tek a good look pon di picha uppa top dehsoh? …..ah whaapen to Obara man!!! ded up!

Gog3tt3r
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dat mi say too enuh mainy.. dem nowadays pickney yah nuh hab nutten bout dem

Maniac
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Yup, there comes a time when enough is enough…….mi always tawk sey enny day mi hab won bwoy pikni an him feel him bad an waan come chow lick pon mi, mi juss mek a fone call or two an mek dem bwoy deal wid him proppa….wid sum pickaxe stick an ting…..mi wii goh hospital an bade him etc., (caw mi ah mek sure di same han whey him raise awwfa mi bruk)…..but him haffi noe ah woo run tings!!!!

Gog3tt3r
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Mainy dem di fulla money n when d father dead him did just feel a him fi in control a everything…. him did treat her bad man n a person can only take so much

Maniac
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Aye sah!!…..cyaan too blame di modda enuh, ah guess shi juss cudden tek nuh more…..but it ruff still, caw ah yuh own

Gog3tt3r
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Mainy mi granny did kno seh destruction wudda tek Willie dats y mama di beg her fi get up n nuh bawl but when she tek out d bress mi mama really see seh she really cudden tek it nuh more

Maniac
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Mi undastan sey dem ting deh werk doe enuh GG….neva mek yuh modda shed har tears an mi hear sey da leff bress ting deh ah da bomb

Gog3tt3r
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yes Mainy mi see it fi mi self… so mek dat lil 13 year old deh gwan.. him day nuh deh far..

Fi mi granny always seh never u mek yuh modda shed a tear fi u cawz u caused her distress…

Maniac
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rawtid GG, no man dis nuh nawmal……mi in shock

Gog3tt3r
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no Obara dat affi stop….. mek i share a story wid uno

mi granny use to live in work fi dis lady.(domestic helper).. she did have a son that was very disrespectful to her…

i never figet it cawz mi did follow mi granny guh work dat sunday..

dat same day d sun was very hotttt nuh wonder dem call it sun-day..lol

any way d boy start cuss him mother..

mi see d ooman come outta her house and guh kneel dung pon her knees inna d hoott boiling sun and start bawl mi granny beg her fi stop and get up cawz she kno d destruction dat wud follow willie but him mother never stop or get up

she siddung and bawl and tek out her left breast dung pon her knees and do dat fi bout more than and hour..

a week later this man weh never have nuh illness strang strang haughty man was diagnosed wid full blown cancer.. dont kno is wah kind a cancer cawz mi wus a pickney but him never live past 3 months

i never forget that day

Gog3tt3r
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Obara if him nah lick yuh which is d worse and cuss u out like dawg then pray fi him

but when a child is going to sexually assult some one dats d last straw

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in some cases i wud say its even worse to send a child to a juvenile home but when that child starts to SEXUALLY ASSAULT ppl what do u do.. it behaviour wud have have to stop if its not by will then by force cawz him mite turn out to be a serial rapist… God forbid that happens tho

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yes. my little sister did unruly…same father different mother…and the mother take her to court tell the judge she cant control her…GROUP HOME…WARD OF THE STATE….PITNY WORSE…de gal hate her mother.

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personally i think the judge need to send him to a place of safety or a juvenile home whichever..

sometimes u have to show ur kids TUFF LOVE..

yes he might hate u for it but for God sake he is 13 he knows right from wrong…

sometimes u have to let them swim in the big ocean on there on and not until something bad happens that will be an eye opener for him then u have a hard shell to crack..

when i was 13 i use to rebel hell yes even at 21 i was still rebelling but to disrepect my MOTHER and neighbours hell no i better not try that shit

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