There are some hidden things in life that are hidden for good reason. And then there are others that are often neglected, discounted, or fiercely opposed in order to hide truths that interfere with personal agendas.
Embracing spirituality
All over the world, it is evident through cultures and societies that women are not given the respect that are due to them. As such, they are often demoralized and debased. In fact, this propaganda is spread and encouraged in religious texts to ensure that the message is properly delivered, practiced and passed down.
But, today, I will share with you one particular occult secret that has been hidden in the most clever of places: right in front of you.
Let us begin with the body of a woman

The Breasts
A woman’s breasts is symbolic of nurturing, feeding, and sustenance. But this is not merely a physical meaning, it is also spiritual and symbolic. Although a child sucks milk from the mother’s breasts, the symbolism is that the child will be nurtured in every aspect of its life by the feminine energy of whose milk the child will always partake. In other words, symbolically within the realms of Spirit, knowledge, through the physical act of breastfeeding and the manifestation of the milk, sets the child on its journey through Earth.
“Milk”, here, is knowledge; awareness.
In the earlier years of Embracing Spirituality, I used to have a particular image on the right side of the blog of a woman breastfeeding a child. It symbolized feeding knowledge to the unawakened, the stirring, and the seekers.

The Womb
This part of the body of the woman is where life is created. This whole system physically carries the life form into Being. The womb is where the woman carries many Great Secrets of life, the Universe and its existence that even she, herself, is unaware of.
There is a particular light within the womb that has so much power. This is when the woman is still a virgin, this particular “secret” returns to her again after menopause.
When the woman is a virgin, she is seen as pure spiritually. Beings like this attracts many pure Light beings and energies that is conducive to our world and our spiritual journey.
Women who have passed through menopause are valuable to certain medicines, again to bring forth certain energies that only the womb that has passed through the stage of menstruation can garner (more on this later).
The womb that the woman carries has many secrets hidden there and all of them are powerful, but you must know that already, since she is the one to set life in motion.
The 3 Female Stages of “Divine” Power
Women have many stages of power, including pregnancy and even childlessness, but the female has 3 main stages of power during her lifetime. All stages are to do with her major power: her womb.
Virginity
At this first stage of power, the womb is dormant. Here, the feminine energy that is attached to the womb is unblemished, and can spiritually bring forth certain types of energies that are not within our world. This is why with some rituals or certain traditional customs, when there are certain symbolic artifacts or features to be held or carried, the deity will order that only a virgin can touch or carry it.
Now, why is female virginity so sacred? Purity, yes. But that is only part of it. A virgin womb is so magnificently powerful, it is “pure” spiritually, a power so pure it is divinity. In this state, a woman is akin to Spirit.
The state of virginity is more intuitive, far more spiritually connected, and more susceptible to receiving spiritual messages, as there are no boundaries between the virgin and otherworldly Beings.
The female virgin, in some ancient practices during initiations, is used as the medium/oracle to convey messages from the deity/Angelic Being that the person is being initiated to. This female virgin (often a child), now becomes that link between the guardian Angel, who is of pure Light, and the human.
Much like in the Christian Myths when the Virgin Mary was appointed to carry the “Savior of the World”, because it is only a pure womb, one as pure as Spirit, that can carry a Light as great as the Sun.
The second reason virginity is sacred is that there is a thin veil that covers the entrance of the female passage: the hymen. This hymen itself is a spirit. It is a protection of the Light that the virgin carries within the womb. When it is broken, it is the female’s first awakening.
Menstruation
Menstruation is the second phase of feminine divine power. A woman is her most powerful when she is menstruating. During this period (pun intended :D) she feels her worst physically, but spiritually, she is like a fierce lioness. For some women, this fierce lioness manifests physically as hormones. What she sees as blood from her body, and knows that it is a cleansing, is actually the regeneration of power throughout her whole reproductive system.
Blood is life. Blood is birth. Blood is sacrifice.
In a woman’s menstrual period, she is deity. If this woman walks into a room filled with the most powerful spiritual medicines, she has the power to destroy every one of them during menstruation.
During this time, the woman must stay clear of spiritual powers or else she can render each and every one of them naught.
In fact, in many cultures and societies, the men would drink the menstrual blood of High Priestesses in order to gain the powers of a woman, making the Man almost as powerful as the woman. The reason the power the male ingests can only reach so far, is because he does not have the womb to sustain it.
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Menopause
The final stage of a woman’s power is menopause. For all the women who believe that at this stage you are old and not much useful – lies. You have now entered stage in which you are even more powerful.
The womb in menopause is in its evening stage and is geared to assist those who have the knowledge of its spiritual use. In this stage, the womb regresses into rest (for all the older women who are still doing the “do”, I do not mean that type of rest, so please continue), a stage that mimics the virgin period. The Menopause stage is one where the woman has honed all of her power. She has successfully passed through all 3 main stages of the Feminine Divinity. These are “Keys”, spiritual keys that are innate to the Female. The keys she attains makes the power she has naturally, even greater.
It is in this stage that the woman must be very responsible with her words. She must be careful how she strikes out against persons she becomes angry with, for her words, in the stage of menopause, are like a cutlass. The reason I warn this, is because a person should not know this, and do it. Because whether she knows it or not, there are serious repercussions for knowing one’s innate power and using it to harm.
Did You Know?
In the Western world, there are some societies, cults, or spiritual groups, that often exclude women from their gatherings. But any spiritual gathering, initiation, ritual, ceremony, etc. that is to be effective, can not be complete without the presence of the feminine energy, of which the human woman is a physical manifestation of. The feminine energy represents many things, including life, creation, and bringing something into Being. Therefore, if any spiritual gathering is formed with a desire or end goal in mind, that goal can not be achieved without the energy of creation: the feminine energy.
If you have ever heard the words “Mystery” or “Occult” or “Secrets” attached to anything of a spiritual nature, most people often think of dark things and dark forces. But as the student of the mystery climbs in rank of knowledge, the student will find that the “mystery” they spoke of, is feminine.
The reason the mystery is revealed to be feminine is because the feminine energy represents knowledge. The feminine energy is the embodiment of life and enlightenment. Think about it: who was your first teacher?
And by “teacher” I do not mean the one who teaches you how to walk, though that, too, is knowledge. Your first “teacher” is the one from whom you suckle as an infant. The milk you consume is your first taste of knowledge.
Children, no matter how old you are, be respectful. Your mother, through that same breast that you suckled from, if she is moved to hurt, anger or shame, can use that (though I pray not), to curse your enemy (you). It is done in a particular way, I will not share here. This would be hard and terrible for a mother to do, but at times people can be moved to do things when emotions becomes too much.
Please Note: In this post, I do not speak of the physical woman. I speak of the feminine energy that is embodied by the physical woman.
Never underestimate the power of a woman. Always know that as the feminine energy holds the power of creation, so, too, does she hold the power of destruction. All duality is One and walk together as One Energy. This is why the woman’s power is immense, because within her are the Secrets of what humans call God, the Multiverse and beyond.
At the core of all Spiritual Enlightenment, is the feminine energy.
“God (or knowledge) sits in the Heights (or womb) of Darkness…” Obara Meji
Obara, thank you for the enlightenment, more blessings. Please Ma help us; how do we “women” make use of our feminine energy positively in the betterment of our lives. Thank you
Thanks for the post ma. Years ago, i was drunk and slept with my girlfriend who was on her menstrual flow in an open field at night. Though i was still very more alart with all the knowledge of what i was doing. But later on after the sex, i realize i did something wrong. And ever since, my mind sometimes reflect back to that incident and i always feel sad whenever i remember it. I knew from the beginning that it was wrong to have sex with a woman on blood. Please what should i do??? Thanks so much… Read more »
Thank you ma for the wonderful post. Plz can you clearify this part of the statemen?? ” because, within her are the secrets of what humans call God”. Does this mean women are women are the God we serve? Or what do you actually mean?
Good day ma. God bless you for the good jobs you are doing. I want to discuss some matters with you. I sent a message to your email till now I haven’t gotten a response.
It is possible that I did not see the email, but couldn’t you email me again in case I didn’t se it? Why not send a second a email to ensure I see the first. However I did go searching for your email because I do take pride in answering everyone and I read it and at the end you say you need guidance, please tell me how can I help you? I am a spiritualist/traditionalist the way I assist people is by teaching, giving information, doing divination and spiritual work among other things, so please inform me on what… Read more »
Good day ma. Thank you for your reply ma. I am trying to book a reading but my subtotal charge is displaying 220USD instead of 110USD. I couldn’t figure a way around it….
Hi obara huggs another great read…
This is a highly insightful and educative post, thanks for sharing
Hi Obara!
is there any correlation here as it relates to the alleged “attachment” that people say a woman has to the man she chooses to lose her virginity to?
Thanks for this post Obara. You’ve explained this really well. There is a part that caught my attention though and that is the part about women who have gone through menopause. Some women whongo through menopause can exhibit extreme mood swings or just become extremely miserable and if they have this power during this stage I’d hate to be around and get a cussing from them for no reason. That begs another question as what if you happen to be in their presence when they suddenly go off? Will what they say still affect you if it wasn’t warranted and… Read more »
Good morning Obara I cant explain how valuable this post is I may not on the blog that often but every post you put out I enjoy reading them you are inspiration a teacher’s you are a god bless I just want to say thank you far educateding us with your knowledge I pray that the lord will continue to bless and keep you all the day of your life have a bless day
This is a fantastic post Ma’am. Women really needed to know this i must admit. Because this generation like you pointed out have bastardized their femininity to the point that i see stuff and cringe. I’m not a woman but I’m loving this post like crazy. Big up to all the women and mother’s, i respect you. Scientifically it’s been proven that intelligence is transferred to the child via the mother through the X chromosome of which women have 2. So when i read about the breast and breast milk and how the child still recognizes it’s mother even while… Read more »
Kay as one of my brightest stars here, I am astonished by your statement, “This is a fantastic post Ma’am. Women really needed to know this i must admit. Because this generation like you pointed out have bastardized their femininity to the point that i see stuff and cringe. I’m not a woman but I’m loving this post like crazy. Big up to all the women and mother’s, i respect you.” Attention Kmart Shoppers!!, This post is not just for women it is a general post for all to know about the feminine power/energy.The woman, who she is, what she… Read more »
Thanks for the response Ma’am. You scolded me. Don’t get me wrong, i started my comment like that because I’m not the typical man in how i treat women and I’m not like the typical Nigerian man i must tell you. I have always been intrigued by women and felt they hold a lot and have more than a lot to give. I usually feel women should be liberated in some way and that it’ll make the world a better place. I’m glad you’re familiar with Nigerian men so you’ll understand when i say a lot of friends have tagged… Read more »
The whopping was gentle, so no worries. Women can never be suppressed, it looks like it, but remember she is the Source. Orisha Osun is the ultimate feminine energy, she is the source, she is water, and water is needed by all. There goes power that belongs to the woman and in every way she feeds the world.
Wow A great one there my Queen. This is my first post to you and I have to be honest with you, I have been following you religiously so. I am amazed at the knowledge you possess. On this one I would want to know what happens to one’s feminine powers when she has done a hysterectomy? When I was 40 years I had a very frustrating situation, where my whole womb was lined by vericose veins…the pain was unbearable so the Dr advised me to do the hysterectomy. Both my ovaries are still there but the uterus was removed.… Read more »
Sorry to hear this my dear, but as I answered a comment below, the feminine energy, stays with you always. You are the embodiment of that power for life, as you were born so.
Thank you so much my Queen. That is such a relief. May the Almighty bless you abundantly for allowing yourself to be a vessel through which we can be spiritually enlightened and blessed.
Ase!
Great post.tks
Thank you Olu
Thank you mama,this is another great post,knowing who I am.this is an eye opener as a woman.
You are welcome Omo
Hello Obara greetings, 1 question is the feminine energy disrupted in anyway if the female was raped?
Great question, Jojo Rape will have a strong psychological impact on anyone who has been through this terror. However, whenever anyone goes through trauma such as rape or anything akin to it, consciousness is moved aside (I will write I this one day), while the act is happening. So in many cases when this is happening, the person even while in pain or terror will feel numb or like they are outside of their body watching this terrible happening. Afterward, it is the psychological impact, different from mending the broken body, the person has to deal with and build back.… Read more »
thank you obara
Indeed this is the year of repercussion all secret are revealed, thanks Obara meji. Please I have some questions: *Why in some spiritual churches women who are menstruating are not allowed to enter the church? *what are women’s defence with this 3 three feminine powers? *An occult man said if a man really wants to succeed in life he should be extra generous to his wife and also show her respect what is the mistery in what he said? *What powers do the right and left hands of a woman holds? *I hear someone call my name when I sleep… Read more »
Great One,
Another bombshell revelation…I honour and worship you.
This post has given me the full understanding of the late Dr Ben Yosef Jochannan (My utmost honour to him) was alluding in one of his lectures when he said Woman is our God because creation comes from her.
Thank you always Great One!
I love Dr. Ben
On point as usual. I really enjoy all your posts. Truly. I appreciate you….
Thank you Empress
so true, I love this Queen
Thank you
I’m so enjoying these great post.
I like this one too Gabby
This is probably my favorite post from you Obara ! I appreciate this so much. I felt my most powerful while pregnant and even more powerful after I became a mother !! and breastfeeding oh my ! I cannot find the words ! becoming a mother was definitely an awakening for me. I felt more beautiful, confident and empowered. I feel like a powerhouse ! especially when I’m breastfeeding, it is so liberating. I feel like I’m one with the world. so all these secret brotherhoods, they have women in those meetings cus I’ve always heard women aren’t allowed. as… Read more »
Hahaha. Your post makes me laugh out loud. Well for ur information No one can change what God already made. Men were made to rule over women till enternity. We shall always rule over you. Wemen are great anyway.
WHOA!!! Thanks for all this golden info! Questions: Is there a meaning behind an infant who doesn’t want the breast? I was that child. After a month or so of trying, they stopped trying to force me. In the days of slavery and wet nurses when another woman breastfed a child, does that mean the child bonds more with that woman than their biological mother? When a woman has a hysterectomy before menopause, does that remove her power and stop the natural progression of the stages? Men drank the woman’s blood to get power…is any of our power given to… Read more »
I love these questions and I cannot wait to see the answers.
also, for effeminate men would you say they carry a female energy and for men who were born and say they always felt female … is it different for them in terms of the female energy. Is the womb that makes a woman or is it the female energy or a combination of both ?
Ah, the tough question. For the effeminate men, perhaps they are in tune with a feminine energy, or Spirit beyond our world. But that feminine energy does not manifest into the masculine body. But for the woman, the feminine energy manifests into her PHYSICAL features: i.e. breasts, womb. Their function, their divine purpose is what is called “feminine energy” and what takes human form as Woman. This energy is the energy of creation, and the process of creation is a feminine one. Because Woman is nurse, “mother”, teacher, nurturer, bringer of life and more, these “characteristics” are energies of the… Read more »
Thank you for bringing me some clarity on this as I’ve always wondered about it.
Good even RBH questions answered in the order asked. 1-Whether the child suckles or not, the breast and the milk at that moment belongs to the child. It is he or she who is came to the mothers breast for. 2-No matter who suckles the child, the child knows the mother through her smell. If another woman is nursing the child and the mother enters the room, the child will raise its head and thereafter stretch its arm out to the mother. 3-Even if the womb is removed the power of the woman is the for there in that same… Read more »
Thank you O!
OMG Astonishing
Hi Marj. Love and light